1 00:03:26,790 --> 00:03:30,043 You know, I just had a thought. 2 00:03:30,251 --> 00:03:35,673 I'll go check in a hotel and get some rest, and you go find your folks. 3 00:03:35,965 --> 00:03:39,969 Let's go meet them. The sooner it's over with, the better. 4 00:03:40,178 --> 00:03:43,306 Mom will be out to lunch. Dad's at his office. 5 00:03:43,515 --> 00:03:47,227 -You may not meet them till dinner. -You may be wrong about them. 6 00:03:47,435 --> 00:03:49,938 You should've told them we were coming. 7 00:03:50,146 --> 00:03:53,400 It may be the biggest shock of your young life. 8 00:03:53,608 --> 00:03:58,321 After 23 years of living with them, don't you think I know them? 9 00:03:58,530 --> 00:04:00,448 I hope so. 10 00:04:00,657 --> 00:04:02,742 There's no problem. 11 00:04:15,255 --> 00:04:18,383 We'll be a minute, then we'd like to go to Claremont Drive. 12 00:04:18,550 --> 00:04:20,176 All right. 13 00:04:26,724 --> 00:04:29,310 I'll see if Mom's in the office. 14 00:04:36,401 --> 00:04:39,320 -Joey? -Hilary, hi. How are you? 15 00:04:39,529 --> 00:04:41,823 What a surprise! 16 00:04:42,031 --> 00:04:44,993 -I'll be with you in a moment. -Okay. 17 00:04:52,667 --> 00:04:55,587 -Strange. -One of Hilary's favourites. 18 00:04:55,795 --> 00:04:59,674 -It's called a kinetic sculpture. -A what? 19 00:04:59,883 --> 00:05:03,261 Look. 20 00:05:03,470 --> 00:05:06,097 Why, isn't that someth...? 21 00:05:09,017 --> 00:05:13,104 -What are you doing here? -I thought Mother might be here. 22 00:05:13,313 --> 00:05:17,859 -I'd like you to meet Dr. Prentice. -I'm so pleased to meet you. 23 00:05:18,109 --> 00:05:20,320 Pleasure to see you. 24 00:05:21,821 --> 00:05:25,366 Christina's lunching with Mr. Cazelet. I can ring up. 25 00:05:25,575 --> 00:05:27,785 Just tell her I'm back and that I'll be home. 26 00:05:27,994 --> 00:05:32,040 Has something happened? Is anything wrong? 27 00:05:32,248 --> 00:05:35,543 Something's happened, but everything's right. 28 00:05:35,710 --> 00:05:41,132 -How was Hawaii? Was it fun? -Hawaii was simply unbelievable. 29 00:05:42,800 --> 00:05:46,387 Do you live in San Francisco, doctor, or are you visiting? 30 00:05:46,596 --> 00:05:50,308 Just passing through. It was a pleasure to have met you. 31 00:05:50,475 --> 00:05:52,185 -Thank you. -Bye-bye. 32 00:06:15,792 --> 00:06:19,671 Hilary runs the gallery, but it's Mom who has all the ideas. 33 00:06:19,879 --> 00:06:22,840 Her idea to put originals in hotel rooms is brilliant. 34 00:06:23,049 --> 00:06:26,469 Gives people time to decide if they like them. 35 00:06:26,678 --> 00:06:31,599 The hotel gets free decor, the guests can look at good paintings... 36 00:06:31,808 --> 00:06:35,353 ...the painter can make a sale, and Mom gets a commission. 37 00:06:35,562 --> 00:06:37,355 Take the next right. 38 00:06:37,564 --> 00:06:41,359 -Isn't that clever? -That is clever. 39 00:07:24,193 --> 00:07:28,072 -What do I owe you? -Ten-fifty, Mac. 40 00:07:28,281 --> 00:07:30,992 Twelve bucks, right? 41 00:07:31,951 --> 00:07:34,245 Right. 42 00:07:34,996 --> 00:07:37,373 Right. 43 00:07:37,582 --> 00:07:39,375 John, come meet Tillie. 44 00:07:42,962 --> 00:07:47,175 Tillie, this is Dr. Prentice. John, Miss Matilda Binks. 45 00:07:47,383 --> 00:07:52,680 Pleased to meet you, Miss Binks. I've heard a great deal about you. 46 00:07:52,889 --> 00:07:57,644 What are you doing home unexpected? You told them you're back? 47 00:07:57,852 --> 00:08:02,231 I left a message for Mom. It's lovely to see you! I missed you. 48 00:08:02,440 --> 00:08:05,902 Why are you home? You want those bags upstairs? 49 00:08:06,110 --> 00:08:10,740 -Not my two. I've not come to stay. -I'll tell you all about it. 50 00:08:10,948 --> 00:08:13,451 You eat any lunch yet, or are you expecting it now? 51 00:08:13,660 --> 00:08:18,331 Could you make us sandwiches? We'll have it on the terrace. 52 00:08:41,896 --> 00:08:44,148 Do you like it? 53 00:08:45,274 --> 00:08:49,779 -It's beautiful. -Come out and look from the terrace. 54 00:08:54,784 --> 00:08:58,037 -What? -Hey, who's that? 55 00:09:01,874 --> 00:09:05,712 That's Dorothy. Isn't she a knockout? She helps Tillie during the week. 56 00:09:05,920 --> 00:09:09,132 -Which days? -Never mind. 57 00:09:13,469 --> 00:09:18,349 -I ought to call my folks. -Use the phone in the study. 58 00:09:18,558 --> 00:09:21,519 -Will you introduce me? -Not on the phone. 59 00:09:21,728 --> 00:09:24,105 -Won't you tell them? -I'd rather write. 60 00:09:24,313 --> 00:09:27,775 I have to meet them before I come to Geneva. 61 00:09:27,984 --> 00:09:31,654 Or will we keep our marriage a secret from them? 62 00:09:31,863 --> 00:09:35,324 Why didn't I think of that? See, that's a thought. 63 00:09:35,533 --> 00:09:39,078 I'll shut this in case Dorothy goes by. 64 00:10:15,948 --> 00:10:18,743 Los Angeles, please. Area code 213. 65 00:10:18,951 --> 00:10:21,704 Axminister 246-99. Time and charges. 66 00:10:21,954 --> 00:10:26,501 I've got a right to my own opinions, and you want my opinion? 67 00:10:26,709 --> 00:10:30,046 I don't like one of my race getting above himself. 68 00:10:30,254 --> 00:10:33,508 If I ever want your opinion, I'll ask for... 69 00:10:33,716 --> 00:10:37,762 Oh, Tillie, I'm sorry. I didn't mean that. 70 00:10:37,970 --> 00:10:41,808 But you can't mean what you're saying, and you're so wrong. 71 00:10:42,016 --> 00:10:45,019 You're the last person I'd expect... 72 00:10:45,228 --> 00:10:47,647 ...to take such a silly attitude. 73 00:10:47,855 --> 00:10:52,026 I've always loved you, and you're just as black as he is. 74 00:10:52,235 --> 00:10:55,822 It's right for me to love you and wrong to love him? 75 00:10:56,030 --> 00:10:59,116 Just stop and think about that. 76 00:10:59,575 --> 00:11:04,539 -What's for dinner tonight? -Celery soup and rump steak. 77 00:11:04,747 --> 00:11:07,583 Come on! Turtle soup and tournedos. 78 00:11:07,792 --> 00:11:10,253 And one of your best pies? 79 00:11:10,545 --> 00:11:12,630 It's Mom! 80 00:11:13,840 --> 00:11:16,425 Joey? Darling? 81 00:11:16,634 --> 00:11:19,053 -What the hell? Joey? -Mom! 82 00:11:19,262 --> 00:11:22,014 Darling, are you all right? 83 00:11:22,181 --> 00:11:23,933 Nothing's wrong. Everything's fine! 84 00:11:24,141 --> 00:11:27,645 I rang the gallery to tell Hilary that Cazelet had agreed to... 85 00:11:27,854 --> 00:11:30,815 He has? That's marvellous! 86 00:11:31,023 --> 00:11:35,444 She thought you might have a surprise. What did she mean? 87 00:11:35,653 --> 00:11:38,531 Do I hear someone? Is there someone here? 88 00:11:38,739 --> 00:11:43,160 Mom! I've never been so happy in all my life! I'm just... 89 00:11:43,369 --> 00:11:45,872 Bursting. I can see that. 90 00:11:46,080 --> 00:11:48,833 I'm feeling happy for you. Do I know him? 91 00:11:49,041 --> 00:11:52,128 I only met him myself 10 days ago. 92 00:11:52,336 --> 00:11:55,131 You won't believe what's happened in 10 days! 93 00:11:55,339 --> 00:11:59,927 I might, if you'd pipe down long enough to tell me. 94 00:12:00,136 --> 00:12:04,724 -Wonderful things have happened in... -Mom, he's so wonderful. 95 00:12:04,974 --> 00:12:08,394 I've never known anyone like him. Never known anything like this. 96 00:12:08,603 --> 00:12:12,315 I fell in love with him in 20 minutes! 97 00:12:12,523 --> 00:12:15,234 Well! That was quick. 98 00:12:16,652 --> 00:12:21,449 Dad, I wanted to stop on the way back, but time got so short... 99 00:12:21,657 --> 00:12:23,701 ...and I've got to get to work. 100 00:12:23,910 --> 00:12:28,831 I don't understand why you couldn't spend one day with us. 101 00:12:29,040 --> 00:12:33,419 Well, fact is, Dad, I met this girl. 102 00:12:33,628 --> 00:12:38,007 You met a girl? Why didn't you say so? Mary, he's met a girl. 103 00:12:38,215 --> 00:12:41,344 That's good news. Does she live in San Francisco? 104 00:12:41,552 --> 00:12:43,679 Yes. I'm at her house now. 105 00:12:43,888 --> 00:12:48,726 He's at the girl's house now. Where did you meet her, Hawaii? 106 00:12:48,935 --> 00:12:52,188 Yes. And I wanted to meet her folks. 107 00:12:52,396 --> 00:12:57,401 -That sounds good, I mean, serious. -Yes. It's serious. 108 00:12:57,610 --> 00:13:02,365 -This is quite a surprise. -She's surprising in a lot of ways. 109 00:13:02,573 --> 00:13:07,286 -Your mother says, "Is she pretty?" -Yes, she's pretty. 110 00:13:07,495 --> 00:13:11,666 Your mother says, "How old is she?" What's the difference? 111 00:13:11,874 --> 00:13:15,461 -She's only 23, Dad. -Twenty-three, that's good. 112 00:13:15,670 --> 00:13:20,925 You're 37, that's just right. Women age faster than men. 113 00:13:21,133 --> 00:13:26,555 -You reckon to marry the girl? -We've been talking about it, but... 114 00:13:27,723 --> 00:13:31,811 Dad, there's one or two problems, you see... 115 00:13:33,688 --> 00:13:38,401 ...that I'll write to you about on the plane to New York tonight. 116 00:13:38,609 --> 00:13:40,653 All right? 117 00:13:40,903 --> 00:13:45,324 He's so calm and sure of everything. 118 00:13:46,325 --> 00:13:49,120 He doesn't have any tensions in him. 119 00:13:49,328 --> 00:13:52,331 He knows what he believes and what he thinks is right... 120 00:13:52,540 --> 00:13:55,710 ...and why, and where he's going. 121 00:13:56,961 --> 00:13:59,964 Mom, there's one thing I must tell you. 122 00:14:00,172 --> 00:14:04,093 He was married before, and he had a son. 123 00:14:04,301 --> 00:14:06,971 It was so tragic. 124 00:14:07,179 --> 00:14:12,226 His wife and son were killed in a train accident eight years ago. 125 00:14:13,144 --> 00:14:15,896 And John... 126 00:14:16,105 --> 00:14:18,357 I haven't even told you his name. 127 00:14:20,484 --> 00:14:25,906 It's John Wade Prentice. Isn't that a lovely name? 128 00:14:26,282 --> 00:14:28,367 John Wade... 129 00:14:29,577 --> 00:14:32,204 Joanna Prentice, I'll be. 130 00:14:33,789 --> 00:14:36,542 But, Mom. Mom? 131 00:14:36,834 --> 00:14:39,045 There's something else... 132 00:14:39,253 --> 00:14:42,882 ...that John's been very deeply concerned about. 133 00:14:43,090 --> 00:14:46,761 He's been worrying if you and Dad would be upset if... 134 00:14:48,596 --> 00:14:52,475 Well, it's about time. I was wondering where you'd been. 135 00:14:53,225 --> 00:14:56,687 Mom, this is John. 136 00:14:59,148 --> 00:15:02,443 Doc... Doc... Dr. Prentice? 137 00:15:03,235 --> 00:15:06,238 I'm so pleased to meet you. 138 00:15:06,947 --> 00:15:09,784 I'm pleased to meet you, Mrs. Drayton. 139 00:15:09,992 --> 00:15:12,953 Joanna's already busted out with the news. 140 00:15:13,162 --> 00:15:17,875 She has told me a good deal, and all very quickly too. 141 00:15:19,668 --> 00:15:24,381 She's only known me for 10 days, so she can't tell when I'm blushing. 142 00:15:24,590 --> 00:15:27,551 That could be another problem for us. 143 00:15:31,222 --> 00:15:35,059 I'm medically qualified, so I hope you won't think it presumptuous... 144 00:15:35,267 --> 00:15:38,270 ...if I say you should sit before you fall down. 145 00:15:38,479 --> 00:15:42,149 He thinks you're gonna faint because he's a Negro. 146 00:15:42,566 --> 00:15:43,734 Well... 147 00:15:44,068 --> 00:15:46,946 I don't think I'm going to faint. 148 00:15:48,614 --> 00:15:51,700 But I'll sit down anyway. 149 00:15:57,915 --> 00:16:00,167 Can't we all sit down? 150 00:16:14,431 --> 00:16:17,059 Well, I... 151 00:16:17,268 --> 00:16:22,565 I suppose it would be all right if I said, "My goodness," wouldn't it? 152 00:16:24,108 --> 00:16:25,359 Well, my goodness. 153 00:16:26,443 --> 00:16:29,655 -Do we mind her saying "My goodness"? -I don't mind. 154 00:16:29,864 --> 00:16:32,908 -Did you tell them about me? -Yes. 155 00:16:33,117 --> 00:16:38,122 They said I sounded serious and asked if you were pretty. I said yes. 156 00:16:38,330 --> 00:16:42,543 They said this was a big surprise. I said it was. 157 00:16:42,751 --> 00:16:46,005 Did you tell them I'm not a coloured girl? 158 00:16:46,255 --> 00:16:51,552 I didn't. It was shocking for the phone. People will think we're shocking. 159 00:16:51,760 --> 00:16:55,639 -Isn't that right, Mrs. Drayton? -I know what you mean. 160 00:16:58,350 --> 00:17:01,937 -Tillie's made food. Let's go outside. -Yes, let's. 161 00:17:02,479 --> 00:17:05,983 -Come on, Dr. Prentice. -I'll explain it in two minutes. 162 00:17:06,400 --> 00:17:09,445 John was lecturing at Hawaii University. 163 00:17:09,653 --> 00:17:14,408 We met at the dean's party, and afterward we went for a drive. 164 00:17:14,617 --> 00:17:18,662 Since then, we've been somewhere together every night. 165 00:17:18,871 --> 00:17:23,584 John was flying back to Los Angeles on Saturday to see his parents. 166 00:17:23,834 --> 00:17:25,211 That's where they live. 167 00:17:27,129 --> 00:17:29,006 Thank you, Tillie. 168 00:17:32,468 --> 00:17:35,429 Try one of these. They're great. 169 00:17:35,679 --> 00:17:37,848 -Coffee? -No, thanks. 170 00:17:38,057 --> 00:17:41,018 -Does your father know you're back? -Not yet. 171 00:17:41,227 --> 00:17:45,981 -Do you think he'd come back early...? -Yes, he's playing golf. 172 00:17:46,190 --> 00:17:50,444 Marvellous! He'll meet John and we can all talk over dinner. 173 00:17:50,653 --> 00:17:55,032 John's flying to New York tonight to see a friend at Columbia. 174 00:17:55,241 --> 00:17:59,703 Tomorrow he's flying to Geneva for the World Health Organization. 175 00:17:59,912 --> 00:18:04,041 I'll fly to Geneva next week so we can be married. 176 00:18:04,250 --> 00:18:08,254 -That's the whole situation. -In a nutshell. 177 00:18:08,462 --> 00:18:13,842 Except he thinks the fact he's a Negro and I'm not creates a serious problem. 178 00:18:14,051 --> 00:18:15,302 Does he? 179 00:18:15,552 --> 00:18:19,640 I've told him that it wouldn't matter to you or Dad. 180 00:18:19,848 --> 00:18:23,018 He won't believe me. That's why we're here. 181 00:18:23,894 --> 00:18:29,316 That's why he watches you so closely while pretending not to at all. 182 00:18:31,568 --> 00:18:36,240 She's right. I'm sorry. I told her not to spring this on you so suddenly. 183 00:18:37,533 --> 00:18:41,036 You can tell your father you met someone in Hawaii... 184 00:18:41,245 --> 00:18:43,998 -Now, really! -Give him time to adjust... 185 00:18:44,206 --> 00:18:48,460 But what for? He still has to be told, doesn't he? 186 00:18:49,211 --> 00:18:54,091 You should make up your minds because that's his car. 187 00:18:58,512 --> 00:19:00,431 -Mr. Matt? -Hi, Tillie. 188 00:19:00,639 --> 00:19:04,059 -All hell's done broke loose! -The waste disposal? 189 00:19:04,268 --> 00:19:06,270 It ain't that. 190 00:19:06,478 --> 00:19:10,691 -What happened? Where's Christina? -On the terrace with Joey... 191 00:19:10,899 --> 00:19:13,193 ...and someone called Dr. Prentice. 192 00:19:13,402 --> 00:19:16,780 Doctor? What's wrong? What's happened? 193 00:19:16,989 --> 00:19:18,324 Joey? 194 00:19:20,617 --> 00:19:22,036 Here he comes. 195 00:19:22,244 --> 00:19:25,581 -Daddy! -What's happened? 196 00:19:25,789 --> 00:19:30,294 -Tillie said there was a doctor... -Dr. John Prentice. This is my dad. 197 00:19:30,502 --> 00:19:32,796 -Pleased to meet you. -How are you? 198 00:19:33,005 --> 00:19:36,425 -Is something wrong? -I decided to come home early. 199 00:19:37,801 --> 00:19:41,013 We met in Hawaii and flew back today. 200 00:19:41,221 --> 00:19:46,477 Sit down. I thought something was really wrong. Tillie said... 201 00:19:46,685 --> 00:19:49,813 Tillie's behaving very strangely. Coffee? 202 00:19:50,022 --> 00:19:53,776 No, thanks. I'm playing golf with Monsignor Ryan. 203 00:19:53,984 --> 00:19:57,154 How are you? What's the matter? Are you having a chill? 204 00:19:57,363 --> 00:20:00,532 No, darling. I'm fine, I... 205 00:20:00,741 --> 00:20:04,161 Doctor? Are you practising in San Francisco? 206 00:20:04,411 --> 00:20:09,124 -Sit down. -No, sir. I am just here for one day. 207 00:20:09,333 --> 00:20:12,127 Where is your practice? Hawaii? 208 00:20:12,336 --> 00:20:17,257 No, I'm not established in any one place. 209 00:20:17,466 --> 00:20:20,928 I'm in tropical medicines, mostly in Africa. 210 00:20:21,136 --> 00:20:25,557 -That sounds interesting. -Everything about him is interesting. 211 00:20:25,766 --> 00:20:28,977 I'm sure. I wish I had more time. 212 00:20:29,186 --> 00:20:31,939 -Excuse me... -Couldn't you stay and talk? 213 00:20:32,147 --> 00:20:37,027 I'd love to, but I'll be late. I'll see you later, doctor? 214 00:20:37,236 --> 00:20:40,572 -You certainly will. -Good. 215 00:20:40,781 --> 00:20:45,369 -Dr. Prentice will be here for dinner. -Fine. Then you can tell me... 216 00:20:45,577 --> 00:20:48,831 And there's a great deal to tell, isn't there? 217 00:20:51,708 --> 00:20:54,878 Fine. See you all later. 218 00:21:21,238 --> 00:21:23,866 What the hell is going on here? 219 00:21:24,783 --> 00:21:27,077 -This doesn't make sense. -I told you. 220 00:21:27,286 --> 00:21:32,291 What? If you don't explain what you three are playing at... 221 00:21:32,499 --> 00:21:35,878 -I can explain it. -You can? Let's have it. 222 00:21:36,086 --> 00:21:41,508 Well, it's my fault. You see, we have a sort of a situation here. 223 00:21:42,885 --> 00:21:48,223 We didn't just meet in Hawaii. We spent a lot of time together. 224 00:21:48,432 --> 00:21:51,768 I mean, all the time after we met. 225 00:21:52,019 --> 00:21:56,273 And, well, we have this problem. 226 00:21:56,482 --> 00:21:58,609 I fell in love with her. 227 00:22:03,363 --> 00:22:07,910 And as incredible as it may seem, she fell in love with me. 228 00:22:08,577 --> 00:22:11,163 And we flew back to San Francisco... 229 00:22:11,371 --> 00:22:16,210 ...to see if either of you had any objections if we got married. 230 00:22:20,923 --> 00:22:23,467 Joanna told her mother as soon as she walked in. 231 00:22:23,675 --> 00:22:28,347 I had the stupid idea that maybe there was some way to... 232 00:22:29,389 --> 00:22:32,643 ...break this gently. 233 00:22:50,327 --> 00:22:53,705 -Daddy, you're making us nervous. -Am I? 234 00:22:53,914 --> 00:22:59,002 I wouldn't want to make anybody nervous. Chris, are you nervous? 235 00:22:59,211 --> 00:23:02,089 Sit down, doctor, before you make me nervous. 236 00:23:05,425 --> 00:23:07,928 Would anybody like coffee? 237 00:23:08,136 --> 00:23:13,141 What did she say when Joanna told her? 238 00:23:13,350 --> 00:23:17,312 -Did she raise any objections? -None so far. 239 00:23:18,105 --> 00:23:19,231 What objections? 240 00:23:19,481 --> 00:23:23,527 I know this is a shock, because it's all so unexpected. 241 00:23:23,735 --> 00:23:26,613 I never thought I'd fall in love with a Negro... 242 00:23:26,822 --> 00:23:30,492 ...but I did, and nothing in the world will change that. 243 00:23:30,701 --> 00:23:36,123 Even if you were the governor of Alabama, I wouldn't let him go. 244 00:23:36,373 --> 00:23:40,335 I mean, if Mom were. So tell him, will you? 245 00:23:40,544 --> 00:23:44,798 Tell John if you have objections, then you can play golf. 246 00:23:45,048 --> 00:23:47,676 What is it you expect me to say? 247 00:23:47,884 --> 00:23:50,762 You have to give me time to think about this. 248 00:23:50,971 --> 00:23:53,599 You certainly have got a problem. 249 00:23:53,807 --> 00:23:58,312 If you're expecting a sensible statement, I need time to think. 250 00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:03,191 -Does that sound reasonable? -Yes, but not quite practical. 251 00:24:04,109 --> 00:24:09,239 You see, Matt, there's sort of a special problem. 252 00:24:09,448 --> 00:24:14,119 I'm flying to New York tonight, and on to Switzerland tomorrow. 253 00:24:14,328 --> 00:24:19,082 Yes, and what Joey proposes is to go to Geneva herself... 254 00:24:19,291 --> 00:24:22,586 ...so they can marry in the next few weeks. 255 00:24:22,794 --> 00:24:26,798 -What the hell's the rush? -We know we want to get married. 256 00:24:27,007 --> 00:24:30,636 Unless there are objections, why should we waste time? 257 00:24:30,844 --> 00:24:33,680 John and I aren't gonna change our minds. 258 00:24:33,889 --> 00:24:36,224 Are you telling me... 259 00:24:36,433 --> 00:24:41,104 ...that you want an answer today about how your mother and I feel? 260 00:24:41,313 --> 00:24:44,358 Yes. We want you and Mom to state... 261 00:24:44,566 --> 00:24:47,194 ...that you have no objections whatever. 262 00:24:47,611 --> 00:24:50,822 And when we do marry, we'll have your blessing. 263 00:25:00,540 --> 00:25:04,628 -Are you gonna play golf, or no? -No. 264 00:25:04,836 --> 00:25:07,422 I'll call it off. Excuse me, doctor. 265 00:25:13,387 --> 00:25:18,600 -And that's my dad. Do you like him? -I don't know. Does he like me? 266 00:25:18,809 --> 00:25:24,022 With his American-eagle face, no one can tell what he's thinking. 267 00:25:24,231 --> 00:25:28,318 I don't think he liked any of us after the way we began. 268 00:25:28,527 --> 00:25:30,529 Give John more coffee. 269 00:25:30,737 --> 00:25:35,450 She's beautiful, Joanna. She's even better-looking than you. 270 00:25:35,659 --> 00:25:40,622 Hello, Edie? Two things, Edie, both of them urgent. 271 00:25:40,831 --> 00:25:44,501 Call up Monsignor Ryan, tell him I can't play today. 272 00:25:44,710 --> 00:25:49,005 Tell him something's come up, something personal at home. 273 00:25:49,214 --> 00:25:53,719 Then call the library and see what they have on a John Wade Prentice. 274 00:25:53,927 --> 00:25:58,557 Prentice. A doctor of medicine, fellow of about 35, 36. 275 00:25:58,765 --> 00:26:02,102 -Oh, Matt! -He's a coloured fellow. 276 00:26:02,310 --> 00:26:07,149 If they haven't got anything, call up the Medical Association. 277 00:26:07,357 --> 00:26:10,986 Get anything you can. Hurry it up and call me back. 278 00:26:11,194 --> 00:26:14,948 -There's no necessity for that. -It can't do any harm. 279 00:26:15,157 --> 00:26:19,745 But, Matt! Joey said he was lecturing at the university in Hawaii. 280 00:26:19,953 --> 00:26:23,039 Did it ever occur to you that this might happen? 281 00:26:25,250 --> 00:26:26,626 No. 282 00:26:26,835 --> 00:26:30,046 Never occurred to me either. Not once. 283 00:26:31,590 --> 00:26:34,176 Tell me your reaction. How do you feel? 284 00:26:34,384 --> 00:26:38,513 I don't know. I was shaken at first. I still am, I suppose. 285 00:26:38,722 --> 00:26:43,268 But they mean what they're saying. They know what they're doing. 286 00:26:43,477 --> 00:26:48,899 They may mean what they say, but they don't know what they're doing. 287 00:26:52,569 --> 00:26:56,823 -If I'm not intruding? -Of course not. Please come in. 288 00:26:57,032 --> 00:26:59,951 I'd like a couple of minutes with the two of you, if I may. 289 00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:02,871 Sure, doctor. Come on in. 290 00:27:05,081 --> 00:27:09,711 There's something you both ought to know. I made a decision. 291 00:27:10,796 --> 00:27:13,548 Joanna doesn't know about it, and she shouldn't. 292 00:27:14,424 --> 00:27:15,926 What is it, doctor? 293 00:27:16,635 --> 00:27:19,971 Joanna thinks that our future is settled... 294 00:27:20,180 --> 00:27:22,891 ...but there is no real commitment. 295 00:27:23,099 --> 00:27:26,645 Up to now, nothing is settled at all. 296 00:27:26,853 --> 00:27:31,274 I don't understand. She said you'd marry no matter what we think. 297 00:27:31,483 --> 00:27:34,110 That's not the case. 298 00:27:34,319 --> 00:27:38,782 Unless you two approve, there won't be any marriage. 299 00:27:40,617 --> 00:27:44,955 Why, John? Why have you decided that? 300 00:27:46,456 --> 00:27:49,459 Mrs. Drayton, this happened so quickly... 301 00:27:49,668 --> 00:27:52,712 ...I'm just as startled as you must be. 302 00:27:53,004 --> 00:27:55,799 Two weeks ago it'd be inconceivable. 303 00:27:57,050 --> 00:28:01,304 But two weeks ago I had not met Joanna. 304 00:28:02,472 --> 00:28:06,935 She's not at all like anyone I've ever known. 305 00:28:07,143 --> 00:28:11,106 It's not just that our colour difference doesn't matter to her. 306 00:28:11,314 --> 00:28:15,694 It's that she doesn't seem to think there is any difference. 307 00:28:18,446 --> 00:28:23,869 This has come up at a time when I have all the problems I need. 308 00:28:24,077 --> 00:28:29,332 I can't afford to get married if it meant taking on special problems... 309 00:28:29,541 --> 00:28:32,085 ...in addition to those we'll have. 310 00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:38,174 When you say "special problems," doctor, what do you mean? 311 00:28:38,383 --> 00:28:40,051 Well... 312 00:28:44,222 --> 00:28:47,809 Your attitude, Mr. Drayton... 313 00:28:48,018 --> 00:28:50,687 ...and yours, Mrs. Drayton. 314 00:28:51,313 --> 00:28:54,107 Joanna is very close to both of you. 315 00:28:55,191 --> 00:28:58,778 If marrying me damaged her relationship with either of you... 316 00:28:58,987 --> 00:29:01,907 ...the pain of it would be too much for her. 317 00:29:03,199 --> 00:29:06,453 I wouldn't know how to deal with that kind of situation. 318 00:29:06,620 --> 00:29:09,414 I wouldn't want to try. 319 00:29:12,167 --> 00:29:14,336 I'm glad you told us this. 320 00:29:17,255 --> 00:29:20,675 Don't misunderstand me. I love your daughter. 321 00:29:20,884 --> 00:29:25,013 I'd do anything to keep her as happy as the day we met. 322 00:29:25,221 --> 00:29:30,268 But it seems that without your approval we will make no sense at all. 323 00:29:30,477 --> 00:29:34,105 That is why I am asking for a clear statement... 324 00:29:34,314 --> 00:29:36,441 ...of what your attitude will be. 325 00:29:39,069 --> 00:29:41,613 I appreciate that, doctor. 326 00:29:41,821 --> 00:29:45,200 It's almost in the form of an ultimatum. 327 00:29:45,992 --> 00:29:48,870 Not quite, Mr. Drayton. 328 00:29:49,079 --> 00:29:51,706 All you have to say is "goodbye." 329 00:29:56,544 --> 00:29:58,964 Well, that's where it's at. 330 00:29:59,172 --> 00:30:03,510 Thank you for the opportunity to speak my piece. 331 00:30:10,058 --> 00:30:14,145 Well? Still think you ought to have someone check on him? 332 00:30:14,354 --> 00:30:18,191 -No. -He's right about Joey too. 333 00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:20,318 -You know that, don't you? -Yes. 334 00:30:20,527 --> 00:30:24,406 Thank God. That's how I feel, thank God he's right. 335 00:30:24,614 --> 00:30:26,074 She's 23 years old... 336 00:30:26,282 --> 00:30:30,286 ...and she is exactly how we brought her up to be. 337 00:30:30,495 --> 00:30:34,374 We answered her questions. We told her it was wrong... 338 00:30:34,582 --> 00:30:39,337 ...to believe that white people were superior to black people... 339 00:30:39,546 --> 00:30:42,507 ...or brown, or red, or yellow ones. 340 00:30:42,716 --> 00:30:45,343 People thinking that way were wrong... 341 00:30:45,552 --> 00:30:50,598 ...sometimes hateful, usually stupid, but always, always wrong. 342 00:30:50,807 --> 00:30:53,351 That's what we said. 343 00:30:53,560 --> 00:30:57,313 And when we said it, we did not add: 344 00:30:57,522 --> 00:31:01,401 "But don't ever fall in love with a coloured man." 345 00:31:04,863 --> 00:31:08,992 -Edie, Mr. Drayton. -What is it, Edie? 346 00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:13,455 He's an important guy. Born Los Angeles, 1930. 347 00:31:13,663 --> 00:31:16,666 Graduated maximum cum laude Johns Hopkins, '54. 348 00:31:16,875 --> 00:31:19,502 Assistant professor, Yale Medical School, '55. 349 00:31:19,711 --> 00:31:22,630 Professor at London School of Tropical Medicine. 350 00:31:22,839 --> 00:31:25,925 Assistant director, World Health Organization. 351 00:31:26,134 --> 00:31:30,847 Two textbooks and a long list of Medical Society honours. 352 00:31:31,056 --> 00:31:35,310 Married Elizabeth Bowers 1955, one son: John Wade. 353 00:31:35,518 --> 00:31:39,397 Both killed in an accident in 1959. 354 00:31:39,606 --> 00:31:44,235 -There's a lot more here. -No, that's all right. Thanks. 355 00:31:58,541 --> 00:32:03,379 -What's the $2.20? -He called his parents in Los Angeles. 356 00:32:03,588 --> 00:32:07,634 I guess he doesn't bum free telephone calls either. 357 00:32:07,842 --> 00:32:11,137 I understand why he didn't talk about himself. 358 00:32:11,346 --> 00:32:13,807 Who the hell would believe him? 359 00:32:20,271 --> 00:32:24,567 -I beg your pardon, lady. -Loves me, loves me not. 360 00:32:26,027 --> 00:32:27,946 Well, what do you think? 361 00:32:28,154 --> 00:32:31,908 -Aren't they the way I said they were? -They're special... 362 00:32:32,117 --> 00:32:36,996 Shall I tell you something? For a whole week, I've been nervous. 363 00:32:37,205 --> 00:32:39,415 No. I don't believe... 364 00:32:39,624 --> 00:32:42,877 Just about their first reaction. 365 00:32:43,086 --> 00:32:47,465 I thought they might let me down for the first half-hour. 366 00:32:47,674 --> 00:32:51,886 You're a phoney, you know that? You're a big phoney! 367 00:32:52,345 --> 00:32:54,848 I'm not a phoney. 368 00:33:15,785 --> 00:33:17,871 Well? 369 00:33:19,038 --> 00:33:22,667 She's always been a happy human being. 370 00:33:22,876 --> 00:33:27,338 She laughed out loud before she was 6 months old. 371 00:33:27,547 --> 00:33:31,009 She was happy as a baby, happy as a little girl... 372 00:33:31,217 --> 00:33:34,345 ...happy all through school and college. 373 00:33:37,682 --> 00:33:43,104 But I don't think I've ever seen her quite so happy as she is right now. 374 00:33:44,439 --> 00:33:49,194 And I have to be happy for her, Matt... 375 00:33:49,402 --> 00:33:51,279 ...and I am. 376 00:33:52,280 --> 00:33:56,993 I feel happy for her. 377 00:33:58,244 --> 00:34:02,081 And proud of the fact that we helped to make her. 378 00:34:02,290 --> 00:34:07,712 And whatever happens now, I feel glad that Joey is Joey. 379 00:34:34,906 --> 00:34:37,742 How are you today? Having a steak fry? 380 00:34:37,951 --> 00:34:41,412 Well, now, there she is. How are you today? 381 00:34:41,621 --> 00:34:45,833 -Give me a lift to Market Street? -You know it, doll! 382 00:34:46,042 --> 00:34:48,962 I hope it's better than the last we had. 383 00:34:49,170 --> 00:34:52,131 I just deliver it, I don't rustle the cattle. 384 00:34:52,340 --> 00:34:55,301 You said to remind you to open the wine. 385 00:35:26,291 --> 00:35:30,461 Civil rights is one thing. This here is something else. 386 00:35:30,670 --> 00:35:35,591 I went out onto the terrace. Oh, it was so beautiful. 387 00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:38,553 It was dark and the moon was rising. 388 00:35:38,761 --> 00:35:43,099 I didn't see him because of the view, but he was standing there. 389 00:35:43,308 --> 00:35:46,602 Then, all of a sudden, he moved, and I jumped. 390 00:35:48,438 --> 00:35:52,442 And he just stood there, looking at me, and sort of... 391 00:35:52,650 --> 00:35:57,155 -You're burning your shirt. -Oh, yes. Sort of smiling. 392 00:35:57,363 --> 00:36:00,616 "Hello," I said. "Who are you?" 393 00:36:00,825 --> 00:36:05,163 And I think he thought I was, you know, attractive. 394 00:36:06,372 --> 00:36:11,794 Finally he said, "Well, do you think it could possibly matter?" 395 00:36:12,128 --> 00:36:16,382 -And it's just crazy, and I admit it... -You'd better let me do this. 396 00:36:16,591 --> 00:36:20,803 But 20 minutes later I felt I was in love with him. 397 00:36:21,012 --> 00:36:24,766 Mom, how long did it take you to fall in love with Dad? 398 00:36:24,974 --> 00:36:28,978 Well, nothing so long as 20 minutes! 399 00:36:29,187 --> 00:36:33,524 Is that really true? Oh, Mom! 400 00:36:33,733 --> 00:36:38,363 I wanna ask you something. How deeply are you and John invol...? 401 00:36:38,571 --> 00:36:40,281 No, I have no right... 402 00:36:40,490 --> 00:36:43,785 Do you mean have we been to bed together? 403 00:36:43,993 --> 00:36:47,622 I don't mind you asking me that. We haven't. 404 00:36:48,414 --> 00:36:50,458 He wouldn't. 405 00:36:50,666 --> 00:36:54,629 He couldn't have doubted my feelings, but he wouldn't. 406 00:36:54,837 --> 00:36:56,631 You're burning my shirt. 407 00:36:56,839 --> 00:37:01,844 He's been concerned the whole time about my getting hurt somehow. 408 00:37:03,304 --> 00:37:07,934 They're still talking. You'd think everything was said by now. 409 00:37:08,184 --> 00:37:11,938 You say they don't have any special sense of rhythm? 410 00:37:12,146 --> 00:37:13,564 That's right. 411 00:37:13,773 --> 00:37:19,112 But you can see it. You can't turn on the TV without seeing kids dancing. 412 00:37:19,320 --> 00:37:23,866 -The coloured kids are better. -But there's an explanation. 413 00:37:24,075 --> 00:37:28,287 It's our dancing and our music. We brought it here. 414 00:37:28,496 --> 00:37:32,375 You can do the watusi, but we are the Watusi... 415 00:37:32,583 --> 00:37:34,377 ...if you know what I mean. 416 00:37:34,585 --> 00:37:37,547 When I was your age, my sports editor told me... 417 00:37:37,755 --> 00:37:41,467 ...that Negroes would never be able to play baseball. 418 00:37:41,676 --> 00:37:46,180 Willie Mays could be elected mayor of San Francisco. 419 00:37:46,389 --> 00:37:50,435 I own a newspaper, but I couldn't be elected dogcatcher. 420 00:37:50,643 --> 00:37:55,106 You don't want that any more than he wants to be mayor. 421 00:37:55,314 --> 00:37:57,984 No, I suppose that's right. 422 00:38:00,319 --> 00:38:03,865 Doctor, we've talked about a good many things... 423 00:38:04,073 --> 00:38:06,576 ...but there's one we haven't. 424 00:38:06,784 --> 00:38:10,288 Have you considered the problems of your children? 425 00:38:10,538 --> 00:38:13,875 Yes, and they'll have some. 426 00:38:14,083 --> 00:38:18,629 We'll have children, or you couldn't call it a marriage. 427 00:38:19,505 --> 00:38:21,007 Is that the way Joey feels? 428 00:38:22,175 --> 00:38:25,470 She feels that our every child will be president... 429 00:38:25,678 --> 00:38:28,848 ...and they'll all have colourful administrations. 430 00:38:32,435 --> 00:38:36,731 Well, you made her, Mr. Drayton. I just met her in Hawaii. 431 00:38:36,939 --> 00:38:40,860 But how do you feel about that problem? 432 00:38:41,068 --> 00:38:44,238 Frankly, I think your daughter is a bit optimistic. 433 00:38:44,447 --> 00:38:47,783 I'd settle for secretary of state. 434 00:38:52,121 --> 00:38:55,708 Would you think it cowardice if I told you that... 435 00:38:55,917 --> 00:38:59,629 ...no matter how confident you are, I'm scared? 436 00:39:00,296 --> 00:39:02,840 No, it wouldn't. 437 00:39:03,049 --> 00:39:06,427 But you never know. Things are changing. 438 00:39:06,636 --> 00:39:11,015 They're not changing anywhere as fast as in my own backyard. 439 00:39:11,224 --> 00:39:15,561 Tell me this. Don't you think this quick decision... 440 00:39:15,770 --> 00:39:19,607 ...about how we feel is just a little unfair? 441 00:39:19,815 --> 00:39:21,192 In a way, I do. 442 00:39:25,363 --> 00:39:29,492 But it wasn't my idea that everything be settled so quickly. 443 00:39:29,700 --> 00:39:32,286 Your daughter said there's no problem. 444 00:39:32,495 --> 00:39:37,124 "My dad's a lifelong fighting liberal who loathes race prejudice... 445 00:39:37,333 --> 00:39:39,460 ...and fights discrimination." 446 00:39:39,669 --> 00:39:43,881 She said, "My parents will welcome you with open arms." 447 00:39:44,090 --> 00:39:48,427 And I said, "Oh, I sure wanna meet them." 448 00:39:50,388 --> 00:39:53,266 John! Telephone, it's Los Angeles. 449 00:39:54,684 --> 00:39:57,562 -Take it in my study. -Thank you. 450 00:40:12,118 --> 00:40:14,996 -Hello. Yes, this is he. -Dr. Prentice? 451 00:40:15,204 --> 00:40:17,415 -Hello. -Hi, Dad. 452 00:40:17,623 --> 00:40:21,127 -Dr. Graves call again? -No, it's not that, son. 453 00:40:21,335 --> 00:40:27,091 I had an idea. What would you say to us flying there for the evening? 454 00:40:27,300 --> 00:40:30,052 -This evening? -Could be there at 6:30. 455 00:40:30,261 --> 00:40:33,764 I thought we could take you both out... 456 00:40:33,973 --> 00:40:36,350 -Invite them to dinner. -Just a minute. 457 00:40:36,559 --> 00:40:39,228 Dad, I'm having dinner with her folks. 458 00:40:39,437 --> 00:40:41,897 -They're invited! -That the young lady? 459 00:40:42,106 --> 00:40:46,569 That's her. Just a minute. You haven't asked your mother... 460 00:40:46,777 --> 00:40:52,033 Mr. Prentice, will you come to dinner? John and I will meet your plane. 461 00:40:52,241 --> 00:40:55,286 -Who am I talking to? John? -Hi. 462 00:40:55,494 --> 00:40:59,874 Looks like she wants us, even if you don't. We certainly wanna meet her. 463 00:41:00,082 --> 00:41:03,419 -So we'll see you at 6:30. -Oh, no, no. 464 00:41:03,628 --> 00:41:08,507 Your mother says she's pleased. Hell, he knows that! 465 00:41:08,716 --> 00:41:12,887 -All right, son. We'll see you later. -Dad? Dad! 466 00:41:15,014 --> 00:41:17,516 What's the matter with you? 467 00:41:17,725 --> 00:41:20,478 -Mom! -Yeah? 468 00:41:20,686 --> 00:41:23,564 John's parents are coming to dinner. 469 00:41:24,940 --> 00:41:26,317 Good. Marvellous. 470 00:41:26,525 --> 00:41:30,071 -We'll meet their plane at 6:30. -Fine. Tell Tillie. 471 00:41:30,279 --> 00:41:31,947 Okay. 472 00:41:32,156 --> 00:41:35,993 Joanna, I told you. My folks, they don't... 473 00:41:36,202 --> 00:41:39,372 -They think you're coloured. -Why didn't you tell them? 474 00:41:39,580 --> 00:41:42,875 -I was gonna write. -What difference is it? 475 00:41:43,084 --> 00:41:46,003 You think they won't come? Call and tell them. 476 00:41:46,212 --> 00:41:51,634 -They'll know when I go meet them. -I'll meet them. 477 00:41:51,884 --> 00:41:57,306 -It gives me a chance to explain... -Why do you dramatise everything? 478 00:41:57,515 --> 00:42:01,102 We're meeting Peter and Judith for a drink at 5:30. 479 00:42:01,310 --> 00:42:03,854 There's time to get to the airport. 480 00:42:04,063 --> 00:42:08,234 She's my best friend. You've just got to let them meet you. 481 00:42:11,696 --> 00:42:15,574 -Did he tell you about his plan? -No. What? 482 00:42:15,783 --> 00:42:18,494 It's the damnedest thing. 483 00:42:18,703 --> 00:42:24,125 They put a medical school on trucks, run into some African country... 484 00:42:24,667 --> 00:42:27,712 ...pick up the brightest native kids... 485 00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:31,757 ...and give them courses. Like the U.S. Army Corps. 486 00:42:31,966 --> 00:42:37,221 His idea is that they're all specialists trained to do one thing. 487 00:42:37,430 --> 00:42:42,685 Like sewing up a wound, or delivering a baby, what have you. 488 00:42:43,144 --> 00:42:46,814 They go where people never heard of an aspirin... 489 00:42:47,022 --> 00:42:49,066 ...let alone a doctor. 490 00:42:49,275 --> 00:42:51,777 Imagine what that means. 491 00:42:51,986 --> 00:42:57,408 For every 1000 kids they train, they can save a million lives a year. 492 00:42:58,159 --> 00:43:01,871 He seems to have made quite an impression on you. 493 00:43:02,747 --> 00:43:07,042 I asked him how he got so far. He's only 37. 494 00:43:07,251 --> 00:43:10,838 He said he thought he got the best breaks... 495 00:43:11,088 --> 00:43:15,551 ...because no one wanted him to think they were prejudiced. 496 00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:19,305 Yeah, he made an impression. I couldn't fault him. 497 00:43:19,513 --> 00:43:22,516 -Are you trying to fault him? -Of course not. 498 00:43:22,767 --> 00:43:27,229 You know his father's a mailman? Retired in Los Angeles. 499 00:43:27,438 --> 00:43:30,900 How do you suppose a coloured mailman... 500 00:43:31,108 --> 00:43:34,779 ...produced a son with all the qualities he has? 501 00:43:34,987 --> 00:43:37,740 -You'll find out this evening. -What? 502 00:43:39,742 --> 00:43:43,162 -Guess who's coming to dinner. -Who? 503 00:43:43,370 --> 00:43:45,247 You mean... His parents? 504 00:43:47,374 --> 00:43:49,084 Now, wait a minute. 505 00:43:49,627 --> 00:43:53,380 -Whose idea was that? -Joey invited them. 506 00:43:53,589 --> 00:43:57,301 We're being pressurised. You know that, don't you? 507 00:43:57,510 --> 00:44:01,055 First there was no marriage unless we approved. 508 00:44:01,263 --> 00:44:03,808 Then we had one day to decide. 509 00:44:04,016 --> 00:44:09,271 Now we're entertaining somebody we've never heard of! What the hell...? 510 00:44:13,818 --> 00:44:19,240 Don't look at my baby pictures. That's at Klosters the year... 511 00:44:19,448 --> 00:44:22,034 I'll get it, Tillie. Just a second. 512 00:44:26,413 --> 00:44:31,168 -Monsignor Ryan, how wonderful! -Good afternoon. 513 00:44:31,377 --> 00:44:33,921 But why are you here, not in Hawaii? 514 00:44:34,129 --> 00:44:38,175 What problem caused your father to chicken out of golf? 515 00:44:38,384 --> 00:44:42,721 -And who is this gentleman? -This is Dr. John Wade Prentice. 516 00:44:42,930 --> 00:44:46,058 We met in Hawaii and we're gonna be married. 517 00:44:46,267 --> 00:44:50,271 Are you indeed? I take it you mean to each other? 518 00:44:50,479 --> 00:44:52,231 -Dr. Prentice. -Monsignor. 519 00:44:52,398 --> 00:44:54,817 -Of course, you're the problem. -Yes. 520 00:44:55,025 --> 00:44:57,403 I'm afraid I am. 521 00:44:57,611 --> 00:45:00,489 Why haven't your parents informed me? 522 00:45:00,698 --> 00:45:02,908 They didn't know either. 523 00:45:03,117 --> 00:45:07,955 Excuse me a second, I forgot to tell Tillie something. 524 00:45:10,749 --> 00:45:13,669 -I suppose this was all very sudden? -Yes. 525 00:45:13,878 --> 00:45:18,841 -Have you two had time to consider it? -No, we've not. 526 00:45:19,758 --> 00:45:21,594 We'll be two more for dinner. 527 00:45:21,802 --> 00:45:25,306 -How many steaks? -I got four. I was told four. 528 00:45:25,514 --> 00:45:29,268 Order two more because the doctor's parents are coming. 529 00:45:29,476 --> 00:45:33,272 -His father and mother, here? -That's right. 530 00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:36,692 If the butcher can't send them, send a taxi. 531 00:45:36,901 --> 00:45:40,571 It's more like a Holy Rollers' meeting every minute. 532 00:45:40,779 --> 00:45:46,285 Of course! I know about you. I read an article about you in Commonweal. 533 00:45:46,493 --> 00:45:49,288 I shall want to talk to you about that. 534 00:45:49,496 --> 00:45:53,417 Are you aware this fellow's a very important man? 535 00:45:53,626 --> 00:45:57,713 Wholly aware of it. When we're married, I'll be important. 536 00:45:57,922 --> 00:46:01,008 I daresay you will, as a matter of fact. 537 00:46:01,216 --> 00:46:04,136 -Where's Arnold Palmer? -In the garden. 538 00:46:04,345 --> 00:46:07,681 Just go on with what you're doing. Fore! 539 00:46:08,933 --> 00:46:11,685 Of all our friends, he's the closest. 540 00:46:11,894 --> 00:46:13,437 We're not Catholics... 541 00:46:13,646 --> 00:46:18,067 ...but he and Dad and Mom sat on committees and things. 542 00:46:18,692 --> 00:46:21,820 He's a wonderful man, and we love him. 543 00:46:23,864 --> 00:46:28,202 You're a remarkable fellow, Mike. You get younger every minute. 544 00:46:28,410 --> 00:46:31,664 -Did you...? -Yes! I've just seen him. 545 00:46:31,872 --> 00:46:35,751 Handsome fellow. Little Joey's nothing less than radiant. 546 00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:39,004 It warms me chilly old heart looking at her. 547 00:46:39,213 --> 00:46:44,593 -Aren't you a little shocked? -Shocked? Why should I be shocked? 548 00:46:44,802 --> 00:46:48,722 I've known many cases of marriages between races. 549 00:46:48,931 --> 00:46:53,602 Strangely enough, they usually work out well. I don't know why. 550 00:46:53,811 --> 00:46:57,398 Maybe because it takes a special quality of effort. 551 00:46:57,606 --> 00:46:59,650 More consideration, compassion... 552 00:46:59,858 --> 00:47:03,696 ...than most marriages generate these days. 553 00:47:03,904 --> 00:47:07,700 -Could that be it? -Yes, it could. 554 00:47:07,908 --> 00:47:09,410 I'm glad you said that. 555 00:47:09,827 --> 00:47:14,248 That's a beautiful thought. You do have beautiful thoughts. 556 00:47:14,456 --> 00:47:17,251 It's my trade, you know. 557 00:47:18,293 --> 00:47:23,298 What about laddie over here? You making heavy weather of it? 558 00:47:23,507 --> 00:47:27,011 You know, this man is quite a famous fellow. 559 00:47:27,219 --> 00:47:31,640 He's done incredible work in Asia and some awful place in Africa. 560 00:47:31,849 --> 00:47:34,893 Mom! Hilary's here. She wants to see you. 561 00:47:36,729 --> 00:47:41,483 Excuse me. Express some more beautiful thoughts to the lad. 562 00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:48,115 Thank you. 563 00:47:48,323 --> 00:47:53,746 I hope you won't think I'm prying, but, naturally, one is curious. 564 00:47:53,954 --> 00:47:54,997 Naturally. 565 00:47:55,205 --> 00:47:59,043 Dr. Prentice and I are gonna be married, Hilary. 566 00:47:59,251 --> 00:48:01,295 Are you? 567 00:48:01,503 --> 00:48:05,257 I didn't even know. Christina hadn't even mentioned it. 568 00:48:05,466 --> 00:48:09,428 -She didn't know. It was a surprise. -A surprise? 569 00:48:09,636 --> 00:48:12,014 Well, I should think it was! 570 00:48:12,222 --> 00:48:17,478 Joey tells me congratulations are in order. You didn't even know. 571 00:48:25,569 --> 00:48:29,656 What's the problem, Hilary? What brings you up here? 572 00:48:29,865 --> 00:48:32,785 Mr. Cazelet phoned about the... 573 00:48:32,993 --> 00:48:37,623 Oh, that. Excuse us, will you? I'll walk out to your car with you. 574 00:48:37,873 --> 00:48:40,084 I hope I'll see you shortly. 575 00:48:40,292 --> 00:48:45,339 Dr. Prentice is leaving tonight, and Joey within the next two weeks. 576 00:48:45,547 --> 00:48:49,218 Then you must permit me to wish you every happiness. 577 00:48:49,426 --> 00:48:51,512 Come along, Hilary. 578 00:48:55,557 --> 00:48:59,436 Christina! My poor dear, what a shock for you. 579 00:48:59,645 --> 00:49:04,358 I knew something was up, but this? What are you going to do? 580 00:49:04,566 --> 00:49:07,486 -The child is of age... -Yes, the child is 23. 581 00:49:07,694 --> 00:49:11,990 Why didn't you simply ring up with the Cazelet information? 582 00:49:12,199 --> 00:49:14,868 I must admit, I was intensely curious. 583 00:49:15,077 --> 00:49:20,082 I couldn't believe it. It's unlike Joey to do anything so stupid. 584 00:49:20,290 --> 00:49:23,418 -Come along. -What you must be going through! 585 00:49:23,627 --> 00:49:25,963 You must try not to worry about it. 586 00:49:26,922 --> 00:49:32,052 I have some instructions. Go back to the gallery. Start your motor. 587 00:49:32,261 --> 00:49:36,014 Tell Jennifer she'll look after things temporarily. 588 00:49:36,223 --> 00:49:39,268 She's to call if there's anything she needs. 589 00:49:39,476 --> 00:49:46,108 Then go into the office and make out a cheque for the sum of $5000. 590 00:49:46,316 --> 00:49:50,988 Then carefully, Hilary, remove absolutely everything... 591 00:49:51,196 --> 00:49:54,449 ...that might remind me you were ever there... 592 00:49:54,658 --> 00:49:58,954 ...including the yellow thing with blue bulbs you like. 593 00:49:59,163 --> 00:50:03,500 Then take the cheque for $5000, which I feel you deserve... 594 00:50:03,709 --> 00:50:07,546 ...and get permanently lost. 595 00:50:07,754 --> 00:50:10,424 It's not that I don't want to know you... 596 00:50:10,632 --> 00:50:14,136 ...it's just that we're not the sort of people... 597 00:50:14,344 --> 00:50:17,014 ...that you can afford to associate with. 598 00:50:17,222 --> 00:50:20,601 Don't speak, Hilary, just go. 599 00:50:25,939 --> 00:50:31,069 You see that boy? If he'd played his cards right, you'd never met me. 600 00:50:31,278 --> 00:50:35,449 -He fell for some girl from Pomona. -That'll teach him. 601 00:50:35,657 --> 00:50:40,287 You know what Hilary was doing? She was being an absolute bitch! 602 00:50:40,495 --> 00:50:43,081 I wish you'd fire her, I really do. 603 00:50:43,290 --> 00:50:46,668 Joey! How can you be so hard? 604 00:50:46,877 --> 00:50:50,464 She has a ruthless streak, John. Be warned about it. 605 00:50:50,672 --> 00:50:53,675 She gets it from her father. 606 00:50:53,884 --> 00:50:56,470 They need all the help you can give them. 607 00:50:56,720 --> 00:51:00,015 They're gonna have special difficulties... 608 00:51:00,224 --> 00:51:02,976 -Christina. -Don't budge, please. Sit. 609 00:51:03,185 --> 00:51:08,482 Of course, they know all that. They're serious, intelligent people. 610 00:51:08,690 --> 00:51:10,734 If they know what lies in store... 611 00:51:10,943 --> 00:51:14,112 ...and want each other enough to accept it... 612 00:51:14,321 --> 00:51:17,199 ...then they love each other very much. 613 00:51:17,407 --> 00:51:20,410 Any two people who love each other that much... 614 00:51:20,619 --> 00:51:24,081 ...deserve all the best luck in the world. 615 00:51:24,289 --> 00:51:28,460 I don't know. I have the feeling that they'll never make it. 616 00:51:28,669 --> 00:51:31,505 That the whole thing's impossible. 617 00:51:32,923 --> 00:51:36,176 You feel that way, do you? 618 00:51:36,385 --> 00:51:39,429 You're really thrashing about, then. 619 00:51:39,638 --> 00:51:43,725 That's very interesting, indeed. And rather amusing too... 620 00:51:43,934 --> 00:51:48,939 ...to see a broken-down phoney liberal facing his principles. 621 00:51:50,023 --> 00:51:54,278 I always believed that under the fighting liberal façade... 622 00:51:54,486 --> 00:51:58,407 ...there must be a reactionary bigot trying to get out. 623 00:51:58,615 --> 00:52:03,745 Oh, go to hell. You and your crowd are still preaching hell. 624 00:52:03,954 --> 00:52:06,123 Well, I'm off. 625 00:52:06,748 --> 00:52:12,170 As much as I enjoy your discomfort, I can save a few souls before supper. 626 00:52:12,379 --> 00:52:17,134 But I am, as it happens, free for dinner... 627 00:52:17,342 --> 00:52:22,764 Please come, 7.30. The doctor's family are flying up from Los Angeles. 628 00:52:23,015 --> 00:52:27,519 Well, in that case, you'll actually need me. 629 00:52:27,728 --> 00:52:31,648 Otherwise, you won't even outnumber the blacks. 630 00:52:31,857 --> 00:52:35,110 Thank you, my dear. 631 00:52:35,319 --> 00:52:37,654 Half past 7. 632 00:52:37,863 --> 00:52:40,157 What was that the Beatles sang? 633 00:52:51,168 --> 00:52:55,714 -Mom did it. Does it look like him? -He looks a little grim... 634 00:52:55,922 --> 00:52:59,718 -Hey! -No, no. Don't let me disturb you. 635 00:52:59,926 --> 00:53:03,680 I hope you don't mind, but I'm coming to dinner. 636 00:53:03,889 --> 00:53:06,683 -I'm delighted you're coming. -Thank you. 637 00:53:06,892 --> 00:53:11,897 I'm very delighted to have met you. See you this evening. 638 00:53:12,105 --> 00:53:14,858 You know, you two make me feel... 639 00:53:15,067 --> 00:53:18,695 ...quite extraordinarily happy. 640 00:53:23,116 --> 00:53:28,455 I'd better tell Tillie. Listen, you'll hear her going through the roof. 641 00:53:32,918 --> 00:53:37,839 I've brought you the latest bulletin. Guess who's coming to dinner now. 642 00:53:38,048 --> 00:53:42,052 -The Reverend Martin Luther King? -Oh, Tillie. 643 00:53:42,260 --> 00:53:44,429 You're so close. Monsignor Ryan. 644 00:53:44,638 --> 00:53:47,933 Bake a second pie. He loves your cooking. 645 00:53:48,141 --> 00:53:53,063 Is the big guest room in order? Dr. Prentice wants to have a shower. 646 00:53:53,855 --> 00:53:57,692 -He does? -He does. 647 00:54:00,654 --> 00:54:04,157 She's 23. She has the right to do as she pleases. 648 00:54:04,366 --> 00:54:08,495 -That's not the point. He said... -I know what he said. 649 00:54:08,745 --> 00:54:13,041 Could we go for a few minutes? What are the others doing? 650 00:54:13,250 --> 00:54:17,170 Meeting Peter and Judith, then going to the airport. 651 00:54:17,379 --> 00:54:18,839 Come on! 652 00:54:19,047 --> 00:54:22,259 Well, come on, will you?! 653 00:54:35,188 --> 00:54:40,485 What happened to Homer, that lawyer? I thought she liked him a lot. 654 00:54:40,694 --> 00:54:44,197 Nothing happened. Dr. Prentice happened to Joey. 655 00:54:44,406 --> 00:54:48,368 Only last Christmas she said Homer had the inside track. 656 00:54:50,495 --> 00:54:54,207 That's where we got the ice cream. Let's get some. 657 00:54:54,416 --> 00:54:58,587 -Oh, Matt, it's after 5! -A little ice cream can't hurt! 658 00:55:17,439 --> 00:55:18,648 Yes? 659 00:55:18,857 --> 00:55:24,237 When I had ice cream before, I had a special flavour I liked very much. 660 00:55:24,446 --> 00:55:27,157 -I can't remember. -I'll bring the list. 661 00:55:27,365 --> 00:55:29,409 You must know what it is. 662 00:55:29,618 --> 00:55:32,829 Daiquiri ice, honeycomb candy, cocoa-coconut... 663 00:55:33,038 --> 00:55:36,333 ...mocha jamoca, peanut butter, banana mint? 664 00:55:36,541 --> 00:55:40,462 -Must've been another place. -Fresh Oregon boysenberry. 665 00:55:40,670 --> 00:55:42,422 That's it. That's it. 666 00:55:42,631 --> 00:55:48,053 That's it. Fresh Oregon boysenberry. Bring me a big one, huh? 667 00:55:48,261 --> 00:55:50,889 -Will you have some? -No, black coffee. 668 00:55:51,097 --> 00:55:55,977 One double fresh Oregon boysenberry and one black coffee. Thank you. 669 00:56:01,608 --> 00:56:04,319 You know, Matt... 670 00:56:04,528 --> 00:56:08,198 ...I think Mike was right, that Joey is lucky. 671 00:56:08,406 --> 00:56:12,077 The work he does is so important. She'll be able... 672 00:56:12,285 --> 00:56:16,289 ...to share it all with him. It's the best break. 673 00:56:17,666 --> 00:56:19,709 For us it's all been great. 674 00:56:19,918 --> 00:56:23,672 But do you know what was the best time of all? 675 00:56:23,880 --> 00:56:25,924 The beginning, when we struggled. 676 00:56:26,132 --> 00:56:30,679 You were working too hard and worried, sometimes frightened. 677 00:56:30,887 --> 00:56:35,809 And there were times when I felt, when I really knew... 678 00:56:36,017 --> 00:56:37,978 ...that I was a help to you. 679 00:56:38,228 --> 00:56:40,981 That was the very best time of all for me. 680 00:56:43,733 --> 00:56:47,904 -Okay. One black coffee. -Thank you. 681 00:56:48,113 --> 00:56:52,450 -And one Oregon boysenberry sherbet. -Thank you. 682 00:57:04,504 --> 00:57:08,592 This is not the stuff. I never had this before. 683 00:57:17,309 --> 00:57:21,229 You know, it's not bad at all. I kind of like it. 684 00:57:21,438 --> 00:57:24,608 Fresh Oregon boysenberry. 685 00:57:24,816 --> 00:57:26,151 Yes, sir? 686 00:57:26,359 --> 00:57:30,280 When I had ice cream before, this isn't the stuff I had. 687 00:57:30,488 --> 00:57:33,283 But I like it, it's very good. I like it very much. 688 00:57:33,450 --> 00:57:35,160 Okay. 689 00:57:45,211 --> 00:57:48,673 -How do you do, Miss Binks? -I got something to say! 690 00:57:48,882 --> 00:57:52,427 Just exactly what are you trying to pull here? 691 00:57:52,636 --> 00:57:56,222 I'm not trying to pull anything. I was finding me a wife. 692 00:57:56,431 --> 00:57:58,433 Ain't that just likely? 693 00:57:58,642 --> 00:58:02,729 What kind of doctor are you supposed to be? 694 00:58:02,937 --> 00:58:05,023 Would you believe horse? 695 00:58:06,441 --> 00:58:09,402 You make with witticisms and all, huh? 696 00:58:09,611 --> 00:58:14,574 You may think you're fooling these folks, but you ain't fooling me. 697 00:58:14,783 --> 00:58:20,497 You're a smooth-talking, smart-ass niggers out for all you can get... 698 00:58:20,747 --> 00:58:24,250 ...with all that other trouble-making nonsense. 699 00:58:24,459 --> 00:58:29,172 I brought up that child, and ain't nobody gonna harm her. 700 00:58:29,381 --> 00:58:33,760 As long as you're here, I'm watching. You read me, boy? 701 00:58:33,968 --> 00:58:38,223 You bring trouble, you'll know what "black power" means! 702 00:58:38,431 --> 00:58:42,769 And furthermore, you ain't even all that good-looking! 703 00:58:50,568 --> 00:58:55,990 That was good. If I come again, remind me about the boysenberry. 704 00:58:56,783 --> 00:58:59,703 Yeah, I sure will. Thank you, sir. 705 00:59:02,622 --> 00:59:07,544 -Shall we take some home for dessert? -No. Tillie's baked pies. 706 00:59:17,846 --> 00:59:20,265 You stupid idiot! 707 00:59:22,142 --> 00:59:27,105 -Can't you look where you're going? -Your car's so low, I couldn't see it. 708 00:59:27,313 --> 00:59:31,359 Of course you didn't see me! You weren't looking! 709 00:59:31,568 --> 00:59:35,613 -Look what you did! -Okay, it's my fault. My insurance... 710 00:59:35,822 --> 00:59:40,410 Who cares about your insurance? I worked three months on that! 711 00:59:40,618 --> 00:59:46,040 -How much to have it repaired? -Look at it! Thirty or 40 bucks. 712 00:59:46,374 --> 00:59:50,670 Stupid old man! You ought to be put away in a home. 713 00:59:50,879 --> 00:59:54,716 There's 50. Don't bother to have it fixed. Buy a new one! 714 00:59:56,092 --> 00:59:59,095 Some of these old guys, they're senile! 715 01:00:00,346 --> 01:00:01,639 Stupid old man! 716 01:00:02,432 --> 01:00:06,853 There ought to be a law! There ought to be a law! 717 01:00:14,402 --> 01:00:16,988 What the hell is it today? 718 01:00:17,197 --> 01:00:20,533 Less than 12 percent of this city are coloured. 719 01:00:20,742 --> 01:00:26,122 I can't even have a dish of Oregon boozenberry without running into one! 720 01:01:07,580 --> 01:01:10,333 I can't tell you how happy I am for you. 721 01:01:10,542 --> 01:01:13,086 It all happened so quickly. 722 01:01:13,294 --> 01:01:17,298 It took Peter and me three years to get married. 723 01:01:17,507 --> 01:01:19,300 We lived together for two. 724 01:01:23,471 --> 01:01:26,099 -To John and Joey. -John and Joanna. 725 01:01:26,307 --> 01:01:31,354 -He only calls me Joanna. I like it. -To John and Joanna. 726 01:01:33,147 --> 01:01:36,776 You know, where you're so lucky is in Joey's folks. 727 01:01:36,985 --> 01:01:42,073 Matt Drayton really stands for something in this town. 728 01:01:42,782 --> 01:01:47,495 -It's always been a good paper. -And he made it that way. 729 01:01:47,704 --> 01:01:52,000 Matt takes a stand on all public issues. 730 01:01:52,208 --> 01:01:56,921 -When are you flying over? -As soon as I can arrange everything. 731 01:01:57,130 --> 01:02:00,675 Why aren't you flying over with John? 732 01:02:00,925 --> 01:02:03,136 Why am I not flying over with you? 733 01:02:03,344 --> 01:02:07,807 -Why am I not flying with you? -Is your passport in order? 734 01:02:08,016 --> 01:02:10,685 -Need anything? -I could get it there. 735 01:02:10,894 --> 01:02:15,565 Then it seems crazy to go all that way when you could go together. 736 01:02:15,815 --> 01:02:19,444 -Why don't you both leave tonight? -Why not? 737 01:02:19,652 --> 01:02:20,778 Yes. 738 01:02:34,292 --> 01:02:39,297 It's 6:00. In an hour they'll be here. The doctor leaves at 10:45. 739 01:02:39,505 --> 01:02:44,344 No matter what it is, you have to tell them how you feel. 740 01:02:45,136 --> 01:02:48,264 I need more than one day to make a decision like that. 741 01:02:48,473 --> 01:02:51,976 It's the silliest thing. But I'll say this: 742 01:02:52,185 --> 01:02:56,856 I won't try to pretend that I'm happy about it. I'm not. 743 01:02:57,065 --> 01:03:01,235 If the doctor's decision depends on that, then it's too bad. 744 01:03:01,444 --> 01:03:03,863 I'm thinking only of Joey's welfare. 745 01:03:04,072 --> 01:03:07,450 I have nothing against him, but he's a grown man... 746 01:03:07,659 --> 01:03:11,537 ...and he behaved irresponsibly by letting it happen. 747 01:03:11,746 --> 01:03:14,499 Now he wants me to approve a situation... 748 01:03:14,707 --> 01:03:18,252 ...when I know they'll get their brains knocked out! 749 01:03:18,461 --> 01:03:23,299 Sorry, that's the way I feel. And I know how you're reacting. 750 01:03:23,508 --> 01:03:26,594 You're so wrapped up in Joey's excitement... 751 01:03:26,803 --> 01:03:30,556 ...that you are not behaving in her best interest. 752 01:05:01,856 --> 01:05:07,236 There's no reason not to go tonight. You can understand, can't you, Mom? 753 01:05:07,653 --> 01:05:13,076 My passport's in order, I don't need anything. I can pack in an hour. 754 01:05:13,284 --> 01:05:17,580 I'll be with him. We'll be together the whole time. 755 01:05:17,789 --> 01:05:21,459 Mom, they're here. I can see them. 756 01:05:21,667 --> 01:05:25,546 They look like awfully nice people. His mother looks lovely. 757 01:05:25,755 --> 01:05:28,091 Break it to Dad for me, will you? 758 01:05:29,133 --> 01:05:31,260 Well... 759 01:05:31,469 --> 01:05:36,891 I should've called you back again, because there is one thing I... 760 01:05:37,725 --> 01:05:43,147 I've been meaning to write to you. There's one thing I didn't explain. 761 01:05:43,606 --> 01:05:47,944 And I'm afraid it's gonna be kind of a shock. 762 01:05:55,451 --> 01:05:57,954 If you see what I mean. 763 01:05:58,162 --> 01:06:01,499 Mom, Dad, this is Joanna Drayton. 764 01:06:01,707 --> 01:06:03,751 Joanna, my mom, my dad. 765 01:06:03,960 --> 01:06:06,879 Mrs. Prentice, I'm so happy. 766 01:06:07,088 --> 01:06:09,966 -Miss Drayton? -Drayton, yes. 767 01:06:10,466 --> 01:06:13,636 Mr. Prentice, I'm very pleased to meet you. 768 01:06:18,182 --> 01:06:20,434 I can explain. 769 01:06:20,643 --> 01:06:24,605 I can imagine what's going on in your mind... 770 01:06:24,814 --> 01:06:28,234 ...but we can explain. 771 01:06:29,652 --> 01:06:33,030 -You can? -Of course we can. 772 01:06:33,239 --> 01:06:35,616 You have bags? 773 01:06:35,867 --> 01:06:39,537 Of course you have bags. Let's go get your bags. 774 01:06:39,745 --> 01:06:42,039 Mama. 775 01:06:45,042 --> 01:06:47,795 -What did your folks say? -All's well. 776 01:06:48,004 --> 01:06:51,799 -Did you talk with your father? -To Mom, but she'll tell him. 777 01:06:52,967 --> 01:06:56,345 -Tonight? -I thought I ought to tell you. 778 01:06:56,554 --> 01:06:59,807 This whole thing... That's out of the question. 779 01:07:00,016 --> 01:07:05,354 I couldn't do what you're doing, so I don't understand how you'll do it. 780 01:07:05,563 --> 01:07:09,942 You can't break their hearts and then sit down to dinner. 781 01:07:10,151 --> 01:07:12,653 Don't you think I know that? 782 01:07:12,862 --> 01:07:18,284 I'll talk to the doctor after dinner. Tell him exactly how I feel. 783 01:07:18,492 --> 01:07:21,245 Matt, I'm not trying to argue. 784 01:07:21,495 --> 01:07:24,498 There's nothing to say that you don't know. 785 01:07:24,707 --> 01:07:28,044 But it's important how wrong I think you... 786 01:07:28,252 --> 01:07:30,504 You're making the worst mistake... 787 01:07:30,713 --> 01:07:35,134 I think you'll regret it for as long as you live. 788 01:07:35,343 --> 01:07:38,137 You're as wrong as you can be. 789 01:07:38,346 --> 01:07:42,642 I'm thinking of her. Even the doctor's gonna know that. 790 01:07:42,850 --> 01:07:47,897 There's something else. I'm surprised it hasn't occurred to you. 791 01:07:48,105 --> 01:07:52,485 The doctor will accept it because he's sensitive... 792 01:07:52,693 --> 01:07:54,862 ...and because he said he would. 793 01:07:55,071 --> 01:07:59,909 But Joey won't. Your mistake is in underestimating your daughter. 794 01:08:00,117 --> 01:08:05,373 She'll fight you and every argument you ever try to give her. 795 01:08:06,082 --> 01:08:08,084 And one thing more. 796 01:08:08,292 --> 01:08:12,964 Until today I'd never have believed I could say such a thing. 797 01:08:13,172 --> 01:08:17,051 But when she fights you, and for what it's worth... 798 01:08:17,260 --> 01:08:20,221 ...I'm going to be on her side. 799 01:08:23,891 --> 01:08:28,813 I never would've believed I'd hear you say a thing like that. 800 01:08:29,105 --> 01:08:30,606 Damn it. 801 01:08:31,691 --> 01:08:35,361 -Can I get you another drink? -No, thanks. I'll get it. 802 01:08:41,909 --> 01:08:44,412 I wish we had more time... 803 01:08:45,871 --> 01:08:47,331 What were you gonna say? 804 01:08:47,581 --> 01:08:52,128 I was gonna ask Miss Drayton how her parents reacted to... 805 01:08:52,336 --> 01:08:55,881 -I wanted to ask that too. -Please call me Joanna. 806 01:08:56,090 --> 01:08:59,176 They were shaken. I don't think I've seen them so surprised. 807 01:08:59,385 --> 01:09:04,140 What really shook them was that I wanted to marry anybody. 808 01:09:04,348 --> 01:09:07,268 I can't blame them for being stunned. 809 01:09:07,476 --> 01:09:12,398 Then you couldn't blame us if we were a little stunned too. 810 01:09:12,606 --> 01:09:15,609 It's not unreasonable to suggest that... 811 01:09:15,818 --> 01:09:19,322 ...you two are behaving like escaped lunatics. 812 01:09:20,281 --> 01:09:21,574 Dad... 813 01:09:21,782 --> 01:09:27,204 ...this happened so quickly. It's like riding a rocket. 814 01:09:27,955 --> 01:09:30,833 We didn't plan it, it just happened that way. 815 01:09:31,083 --> 01:09:35,004 It's hard on Joanna's folks, and it'll be hard on you. 816 01:09:36,464 --> 01:09:41,302 If you have any objections, you'd better raise them soon... 817 01:09:41,510 --> 01:09:44,680 ...because in exactly four hours we'll be gone. 818 01:09:44,930 --> 01:09:50,353 I can't list all my objections in four hours. I'd need eight hours. 819 01:09:50,895 --> 01:09:56,317 You've only got four hours, so you'll just have to talk twice as fast. 820 01:10:11,457 --> 01:10:15,169 -Christina! -Hello, darling. How are you? 821 01:10:15,378 --> 01:10:20,341 -Forgive me. I'm a little bit early. -Come in. 822 01:10:20,549 --> 01:10:24,220 I don't like to be always repeating myself... 823 01:10:24,428 --> 01:10:26,889 ...but how long since I remarked... 824 01:10:27,098 --> 01:10:30,601 ...that you are the loveliest woman I've ever known? 825 01:10:30,810 --> 01:10:34,647 There is a kind of envy that is in no way sinful. 826 01:10:34,855 --> 01:10:37,316 That's what I've had for Matt. 827 01:10:37,483 --> 01:10:41,946 -What can I get you to drink? -I like Scotch. 828 01:10:42,196 --> 01:10:45,658 -But aren't we drinking wine? -Yes. 829 01:10:45,866 --> 01:10:51,247 I'll have a drop of Scotch anyhow. Equal amount of soda, please. 830 01:10:57,002 --> 01:10:58,838 Thank you. 831 01:11:01,715 --> 01:11:04,385 My dear, what's the matter? 832 01:11:09,056 --> 01:11:13,310 We're in trouble, Mike. 833 01:11:13,936 --> 01:11:17,064 We're in terrible trouble, terrible trouble. 834 01:11:17,273 --> 01:11:21,235 John told Matt and me that he wouldn't marry Joey... 835 01:11:21,444 --> 01:11:25,614 ...unless we'd approve with no reservations whatever. 836 01:11:25,865 --> 01:11:28,159 Joey doesn't know he said that. 837 01:11:28,367 --> 01:11:31,287 Now she's decided to go with him tonight. 838 01:11:31,537 --> 01:11:35,124 They're on their way with John's parents. 839 01:11:35,332 --> 01:11:39,837 Neither of them knows that Matt has decided... 840 01:11:40,045 --> 01:11:42,965 Matt has decided that he can't approve. 841 01:11:43,174 --> 01:11:47,428 That's not true. Please tell me it's not true. 842 01:11:48,220 --> 01:11:51,724 -Where is Matt? -He's upstairs, changing. He's... 843 01:11:52,808 --> 01:11:54,518 He's not himself, Mike. 844 01:11:57,146 --> 01:11:58,564 Excuse me. 845 01:11:59,648 --> 01:12:01,901 It's incredible! 846 01:12:12,036 --> 01:12:15,539 -Table all right? -It's fine, Tillie. Thank you. 847 01:12:15,748 --> 01:12:19,001 Miss Christina, what's gonna happen here? 848 01:12:19,210 --> 01:12:21,795 I don't know, Tillie. 849 01:12:22,004 --> 01:12:27,384 You and Mr. Matt gonna put a stop to this damn nonsense foolishness? 850 01:12:27,593 --> 01:12:30,804 Tillie, I don't want to put a stop to anything. 851 01:12:31,013 --> 01:12:34,099 He's a fine man. He's a wonderful man. 852 01:12:34,308 --> 01:12:37,019 And Joey is very much in love with him. 853 01:12:37,228 --> 01:12:40,523 And it isn't just "damn nonsense foolishness." 854 01:12:40,731 --> 01:12:43,817 I tell you, the way you're talking... 855 01:12:44,026 --> 01:12:46,987 ...I don't understand nothing no more. 856 01:12:49,698 --> 01:12:53,786 Nobody understands nothing no more. 857 01:12:54,245 --> 01:12:58,666 No, I don't think you're butting in about what doesn't concern... 858 01:12:58,874 --> 01:13:01,001 Damn, blast! 859 01:13:01,210 --> 01:13:05,965 I understand how you feel, Mike. I understand how everybody feels. 860 01:13:06,173 --> 01:13:11,053 But understand, they've boxed me into a hell of a corner here. 861 01:13:11,262 --> 01:13:16,016 And no matter what anyone says, I won't behave irresponsibly. 862 01:13:16,225 --> 01:13:19,937 I'm not gonna tell them they can't get married. 863 01:13:20,145 --> 01:13:24,650 But they have no right to expect me to be happy when... 864 01:13:24,858 --> 01:13:25,985 For God's sake! 865 01:13:26,193 --> 01:13:30,197 You're about to destroy all the happiness there is... 866 01:13:30,406 --> 01:13:33,325 ...in the happiest family I've ever known. 867 01:13:33,534 --> 01:13:37,454 -Have you any thought for Christina? -Christina? 868 01:13:37,663 --> 01:13:41,083 Have you any idea of how she has behaved today? 869 01:13:41,292 --> 01:13:45,379 She was all for it as though there were no problems. 870 01:13:45,588 --> 01:13:49,633 But there are no problems they don't know about. 871 01:13:49,842 --> 01:13:53,387 Christina respects Joey's judgement more than you. 872 01:13:53,596 --> 01:13:58,434 Come off it! If Joey came home with some fuzzy-wuzzy and said: 873 01:13:58,642 --> 01:14:03,480 "Mom, this is the man for me," Christina would say, "How wonderful! 874 01:14:03,689 --> 01:14:06,734 Where will we get enough roses to fill the Rose Bowl?" 875 01:14:06,942 --> 01:14:10,487 I'm trying to remember where I've seen you so angry. 876 01:14:10,696 --> 01:14:13,824 When you took nine shots on the 7th green. 877 01:14:15,576 --> 01:14:20,122 -Could you get the hell out of here? -I know why you're angry. 878 01:14:20,331 --> 01:14:25,753 Not with the doctor, not with Joey or Christina, not even with me. 879 01:14:26,170 --> 01:14:30,257 -You're angry with yourself. -You pontificating old poop! 880 01:14:30,466 --> 01:14:34,845 You're angry because suddenly you've been thrown. 881 01:14:35,054 --> 01:14:38,474 You're the last man I'd expect to behave this way. 882 01:14:38,682 --> 01:14:43,896 You're not yourself! You don't know who you are, or what you're doing. 883 01:14:44,104 --> 01:14:49,151 That's your trouble. You've gone back on yourself. In your heart, you know it. 884 01:14:49,360 --> 01:14:52,446 I'll only take so much, even from you! 885 01:14:52,655 --> 01:14:57,326 For 30 years, there's been no man I've admired or respected more. 886 01:14:57,534 --> 01:14:59,620 You know that, Matt. 887 01:14:59,828 --> 01:15:05,084 And for the first time in all those 30 years, I feel sorry for you. 888 01:15:05,292 --> 01:15:07,294 Damn it, that's enough! 889 01:15:07,461 --> 01:15:11,090 Are you really capable of putting yourself in my position? 890 01:15:11,298 --> 01:15:15,427 Unless you've got kids of your own somewhere... 891 01:15:15,636 --> 01:15:19,682 ...how could you know how a father feels in this situation? 892 01:15:19,890 --> 01:15:24,311 You don't know! I know they won't have a dog's chance... 893 01:15:24,520 --> 01:15:27,606 ...not here, not in the whole stinking world! 894 01:15:27,815 --> 01:15:32,319 They are this country. They'll change this stinking world. 895 01:15:32,528 --> 01:15:35,364 In 50 years, maybe, or 100 years... 896 01:15:35,572 --> 01:15:38,409 ...but not in your lifetime. Maybe not even in mine. 897 01:15:38,617 --> 01:15:44,039 My dear friend, I wish with all my heart you could be restrained. 898 01:15:44,248 --> 01:15:48,627 If I were younger, to prevent you from going downstairs... 899 01:15:48,836 --> 01:15:52,297 ...I'd make an effort to wrestle you to the floor. 900 01:15:52,506 --> 01:15:55,551 That'll be the day. 901 01:15:58,053 --> 01:16:01,974 Is that the car? Did you hear a car? 902 01:16:06,103 --> 01:16:09,815 -Mrs. Prentice. I'm Christina Drayton. -How do you do? 903 01:16:10,023 --> 01:16:13,652 How do you do? I'm so pleased to meet you. 904 01:16:13,861 --> 01:16:18,073 Let me take your coat and hat. And yours, Mrs. Prentice? 905 01:16:18,282 --> 01:16:21,994 How good of you to come all this long way. Do go in. 906 01:16:22,244 --> 01:16:26,039 -Did you tell him? Was he shaken? -It was a surprise. 907 01:16:26,248 --> 01:16:30,085 -Does he wanna talk to me? -I'm sure he does, later. 908 01:16:30,252 --> 01:16:31,837 Please come in. 909 01:16:32,004 --> 01:16:35,966 -May I get you a drink? -May I have some sherry, please? 910 01:16:36,175 --> 01:16:40,387 -What a lovely room. -John, would you be bartender? 911 01:16:40,596 --> 01:16:42,723 Shall we sit over here? 912 01:16:42,931 --> 01:16:45,934 -What will you have, Dad? Bourbon? -Thank you. 913 01:16:46,143 --> 01:16:50,981 -You have such a magnificent view. -Thank you. Please sit down. 914 01:16:51,190 --> 01:16:53,692 Sit down, Mr. Prentice. 915 01:16:58,489 --> 01:17:02,618 -Did you have a pleasant flight? -Very pleasant, thank you. 916 01:17:02,826 --> 01:17:06,205 The view of the sunset was breathtaking. 917 01:17:06,413 --> 01:17:09,208 Only took 40 minutes. Four hundred miles. 918 01:17:09,958 --> 01:17:11,960 It's incredible, isn't it? 919 01:17:15,297 --> 01:17:20,010 My husband will be down directly, I think. He's upstairs changing. 920 01:17:20,219 --> 01:17:24,681 And we have a friend coming to dinner, Monsignor Ryan. 921 01:17:24,890 --> 01:17:30,103 -They'll be down in a minute. -Mrs. Prentice. Mom. 922 01:17:30,312 --> 01:17:32,773 -Here you are, Dad. -Thanks, son. 923 01:17:34,316 --> 01:17:37,945 Are you Catholics, Mrs. Drayton? 924 01:17:38,904 --> 01:17:42,282 No, we're not, Mr. Prentice. 925 01:17:42,491 --> 01:17:47,412 We're nothing in particular. Monsignor Ryan is an old friend. 926 01:17:47,621 --> 01:17:51,083 Do you come often to San Francisco? 927 01:17:51,291 --> 01:17:55,295 -I've got to talk to your father. -There he is. 928 01:17:56,505 --> 01:18:00,050 Dad, I'd like you to meet Mr. and Mrs. Prentice. 929 01:18:00,259 --> 01:18:04,012 -This is my father. -Mrs. Prentice, nice to meet you. 930 01:18:04,221 --> 01:18:08,767 Mr. Prentice, happy to meet you. May I present Monsignor Ryan? 931 01:18:08,976 --> 01:18:12,771 -How do you do? -Glad to meet you, sir. 932 01:18:12,980 --> 01:18:14,857 -Are you tending bar? -Yes. 933 01:18:15,065 --> 01:18:18,443 -We're both drinking Scotch. -Coming up. 934 01:18:18,652 --> 01:18:22,781 Sit down, sit down. Sit down, there, Mike. 935 01:18:27,244 --> 01:18:31,331 -Did you have a nice flight? -Very nice flight. 936 01:18:31,540 --> 01:18:33,500 Only 40 minutes. 937 01:18:35,586 --> 01:18:38,171 -Only 40 minutes from L.A. -Terrifying. 938 01:18:38,380 --> 01:18:41,842 You could talk about flying to Geneva... 939 01:18:42,050 --> 01:18:46,013 ...because John and I hope you'll come for the wedding. 940 01:18:46,221 --> 01:18:49,725 Would anybody like to talk about that? 941 01:18:51,268 --> 01:18:55,772 I take it they've told you all about their plans. 942 01:18:55,981 --> 01:18:59,359 Of course. It's only when you're eloping that you keep it a secret. 943 01:18:59,985 --> 01:19:02,404 I don't know about you, Mr. Prentice... 944 01:19:02,613 --> 01:19:05,365 ...but I think they're rushing it a bit. 945 01:19:06,158 --> 01:19:08,744 It seemed that way to me too. 946 01:19:09,536 --> 01:19:13,665 -It seems like that to you too? -That's right. 947 01:19:14,833 --> 01:19:17,127 I'm certainly relieved to hear that. 948 01:19:17,377 --> 01:19:20,172 I was beginning to think I was the only one... 949 01:19:20,380 --> 01:19:23,550 I would like Mrs. Prentice to see the view. 950 01:19:23,759 --> 01:19:26,053 What are you talking about? What view? 951 01:19:26,219 --> 01:19:28,263 From the terrace. 952 01:19:28,472 --> 01:19:31,683 -Would you care to see the view? -Yes, thank you. 953 01:19:31,892 --> 01:19:35,479 Good. Excuse us. Bring your drink, that's fine. 954 01:19:41,652 --> 01:19:47,074 Mrs. Prentice, have you had any chance to speak privately with John? 955 01:19:47,658 --> 01:19:49,409 Well, no. 956 01:19:49,660 --> 01:19:52,579 It's important you know what's happened... 957 01:19:52,788 --> 01:19:55,958 ...and what I'm terribly afraid will happen. 958 01:19:56,541 --> 01:20:00,712 May I explain the situation to you, or try to? 959 01:20:00,921 --> 01:20:04,841 -Yes, please. I wish you would. -First I have to ask you... 960 01:20:05,050 --> 01:20:08,261 Forgive my being so abrupt and so direct. 961 01:20:08,470 --> 01:20:11,223 Are you shocked by the fact... 962 01:20:11,431 --> 01:20:15,268 ...that John's involved with a white girl? 963 01:20:15,477 --> 01:20:17,312 Yes, surprised. 964 01:20:18,021 --> 01:20:20,607 It never happened before. 965 01:20:20,816 --> 01:20:25,195 I guess it never occurred to me that such a thing might happen. 966 01:20:25,404 --> 01:20:28,657 But it wouldn't be true to say that I'm shocked. 967 01:20:28,865 --> 01:20:31,827 Are you, Mrs. Drayton? 968 01:20:32,035 --> 01:20:37,290 Well, I think I was at first, this afternoon... 969 01:20:37,499 --> 01:20:40,460 ...because it came as a surprise to us too. 970 01:20:40,669 --> 01:20:43,672 But now I know how they feel about each other. 971 01:20:43,880 --> 01:20:48,260 Joey's very young, Mrs. Prentice, but she's not a child. 972 01:20:49,970 --> 01:20:54,266 And they're deeply in love with each other. 973 01:20:58,311 --> 01:21:02,816 Are you telling me that you'd approve the marriage... 974 01:21:03,025 --> 01:21:07,112 ...but that your husband won't? Is that it? 975 01:21:08,321 --> 01:21:10,449 Yes, that's it. 976 01:21:10,657 --> 01:21:12,993 My husband won't, either. 977 01:21:14,703 --> 01:21:20,125 I wish there were more time, just to adjust to the situation... 978 01:21:20,417 --> 01:21:24,546 ...but there just isn't any time. 979 01:21:25,338 --> 01:21:28,341 If we're going to accept it... 980 01:21:28,592 --> 01:21:31,678 ...we'll have to trust the two of them... 981 01:21:31,887 --> 01:21:35,057 ...and accept that they know what they're doing. 982 01:21:35,265 --> 01:21:40,312 Mrs. Drayton, my husband just won't do that. 983 01:21:46,151 --> 01:21:49,946 They seem to be having quite a conversation out there. 984 01:21:50,155 --> 01:21:54,076 It might do no harm if we had a few words, Mr. Drayton. 985 01:21:54,284 --> 01:21:55,327 Yes, sure. 986 01:21:55,577 --> 01:22:00,248 We can go into my study. Will you excuse us, please? 987 01:22:03,960 --> 01:22:07,839 Doc, you'll excuse us, please? 988 01:22:12,135 --> 01:22:14,930 I'll have another drink, if you will. 989 01:22:15,138 --> 01:22:17,974 -Another? -No. 990 01:22:19,851 --> 01:22:23,230 If you'll excuse me, I'll go up and throw a few things together... 991 01:22:23,438 --> 01:22:25,982 ...like for the next 10 years. 992 01:22:34,950 --> 01:22:36,034 Mr. Drayton... 993 01:22:38,161 --> 01:22:41,665 ...I don't know you, and wouldn't wanna offend you... 994 01:22:41,873 --> 01:22:47,087 ...but are you nuts? Are you telling me that you approve of this? 995 01:22:47,295 --> 01:22:49,840 I wasn't going to tell you that. 996 01:22:50,048 --> 01:22:54,052 Because you may be a big newspaper publisher... 997 01:22:54,261 --> 01:22:58,723 ...and I'm a pensioned-off mailman, but you are out of your mind! 998 01:23:07,023 --> 01:23:11,903 I have a good idea of what my father is saying to him. 999 01:23:12,112 --> 01:23:13,530 I wish I knew. 1000 01:23:14,823 --> 01:23:17,701 You were talking with him upstairs. 1001 01:23:17,909 --> 01:23:21,955 Have you any idea what Mr. Drayton is saying to my father? 1002 01:23:22,164 --> 01:23:24,249 I can tell you one thing. 1003 01:23:24,457 --> 01:23:28,253 I was sorry to hear that you intend to withdraw... 1004 01:23:28,461 --> 01:23:32,090 ...if you encounter any opposition. 1005 01:23:46,438 --> 01:23:49,191 She's up there packing. 1006 01:23:50,400 --> 01:23:54,196 John, your mother would like to speak to you. 1007 01:24:00,076 --> 01:24:03,079 -This is a mess. Where's Joey? -Upstairs. 1008 01:24:03,288 --> 01:24:05,290 I'm going up. 1009 01:24:05,498 --> 01:24:10,128 -Everything is ready when you are. -We're not ready, Tillie. 1010 01:24:11,713 --> 01:24:16,843 Well, what you're saying is you feel practically the same as I do. 1011 01:24:17,052 --> 01:24:22,474 That's right. But even so, this is a hell of an unhappy situation... 1012 01:24:22,766 --> 01:24:26,269 ...for both your son and my daughter. 1013 01:24:26,478 --> 01:24:30,482 I think it'd be best if you talked to John yourself. 1014 01:24:40,075 --> 01:24:45,497 I said that if they didn't approve, there'd be no marriage. 1015 01:24:48,291 --> 01:24:52,003 -I set the terms, Mama. -They don't disapprove. 1016 01:24:53,255 --> 01:24:57,050 -Only Mr. Drayton. -Are you sure? 1017 01:24:57,259 --> 01:25:01,429 She said she'd even drive you to the airport. 1018 01:25:03,932 --> 01:25:09,145 John, I've lived with your father for almost 40 years. 1019 01:25:09,980 --> 01:25:11,773 God willing, there'd be more. 1020 01:25:14,067 --> 01:25:19,447 And even though I've only known about this situation for one hour... 1021 01:25:20,323 --> 01:25:23,618 ...I feel the same way Mrs. Drayton does. 1022 01:25:24,703 --> 01:25:27,706 She says Joanna will never give you up. 1023 01:25:28,623 --> 01:25:34,045 I guess it depends upon how much you want her. 1024 01:25:34,879 --> 01:25:36,589 Want her? 1025 01:25:39,134 --> 01:25:41,386 I want her, Mama. 1026 01:25:42,554 --> 01:25:47,017 You know what it's been like for me these past eight years? 1027 01:25:47,225 --> 01:25:49,894 I felt like I never wanted anybody again. 1028 01:25:50,520 --> 01:25:53,940 But, Mama... 1029 01:25:54,149 --> 01:25:57,068 ...these last few days with her... 1030 01:25:57,319 --> 01:26:01,614 ...it's like I'm alive again. It's love. 1031 01:26:02,032 --> 01:26:04,617 Excuse me, doctor. 1032 01:26:07,871 --> 01:26:11,499 -Your father wants to talk to you. -Does he? 1033 01:26:11,708 --> 01:26:13,501 He's in my study. 1034 01:26:32,937 --> 01:26:38,068 I've been talking to your husband. He seems upset by all this. 1035 01:26:38,276 --> 01:26:42,655 I know. Your wife says you are too, Mr. Drayton. 1036 01:26:42,864 --> 01:26:46,534 Not upset, exactly. It's a very difficult problem. 1037 01:26:48,286 --> 01:26:52,165 For whom? For you and my husband? 1038 01:26:52,791 --> 01:26:55,502 I think you'll solve your problem. 1039 01:26:56,127 --> 01:27:00,048 All you have to do is tell them you're against them. That's all. 1040 01:27:00,256 --> 01:27:03,218 And you'll have no problem. 1041 01:27:04,677 --> 01:27:07,972 You're not telling me you're happy about this? 1042 01:27:09,099 --> 01:27:12,769 This is not a night for talking about happiness. 1043 01:27:12,977 --> 01:27:15,021 This is an unhappy night. 1044 01:27:16,648 --> 01:27:20,026 You talked to Christina. I know how she feels. 1045 01:27:20,276 --> 01:27:24,572 Can you imagine for one minute that I want to see them hurt? 1046 01:27:25,698 --> 01:27:29,661 No. No more than my husband does. 1047 01:27:30,912 --> 01:27:34,165 But hurt they're going to be... 1048 01:27:35,375 --> 01:27:38,586 ...worse than my husband knows. 1049 01:27:38,795 --> 01:27:41,840 I think worse than you know too. 1050 01:27:44,217 --> 01:27:48,012 He's as much against this as I am, maybe more. 1051 01:27:48,221 --> 01:27:53,101 Son, you've got to listen. I'm not telling you how to live your life... 1052 01:27:53,309 --> 01:27:56,271 ...but you never made a mistake like this. 1053 01:27:56,479 --> 01:28:00,525 You've been a source of pride for me and your mother. 1054 01:28:00,733 --> 01:28:02,819 But you don't know what you're doing! 1055 01:28:03,027 --> 01:28:07,157 This affair happened too fast, you said so yourself. 1056 01:28:07,365 --> 01:28:12,454 You've got to stop and think! Have you thought what people will say? 1057 01:28:12,662 --> 01:28:16,332 In 16 or 17 states you'd be breaking the law. 1058 01:28:16,541 --> 01:28:21,379 And say they changed the law, that don't change how people feel. 1059 01:28:21,588 --> 01:28:25,967 You never put a wrong foot anywhere. But you're out of line! 1060 01:28:26,176 --> 01:28:28,344 That's for me to decide, man. 1061 01:28:28,595 --> 01:28:31,723 -Shut up and let me... -Don't say that to me! 1062 01:28:32,474 --> 01:28:36,644 You have no right after what I've been through. 1063 01:28:36,853 --> 01:28:41,357 You know that and I know that. I know what you made of yourself... 1064 01:28:41,566 --> 01:28:45,153 ...but I worked my ass off to buy the chances you had! 1065 01:28:45,528 --> 01:28:49,491 You know how far I carried that bag in 30 years? 1066 01:28:49,699 --> 01:28:53,661 Seventy-five thousand miles. And mowing lawns in the dark... 1067 01:28:53,870 --> 01:28:58,291 ...so you wouldn't be stoking furnaces and could bear down on the books. 1068 01:28:59,000 --> 01:29:02,962 There were things your mother should have had that she insisted you have. 1069 01:29:03,171 --> 01:29:08,051 And I don't mean fancy things. I mean a decent coat. A lousy coat! 1070 01:29:08,259 --> 01:29:13,097 You'll say that means nothing? You'll break your mother's heart? 1071 01:29:16,434 --> 01:29:19,812 What happens to men when they grow old? 1072 01:29:21,481 --> 01:29:23,775 Why do they forget everything? 1073 01:29:24,567 --> 01:29:29,989 I believe those two young people need each other... 1074 01:29:30,365 --> 01:29:33,535 ...like they need the air to breathe in. 1075 01:29:34,118 --> 01:29:38,122 Anybody can see that by just looking at them. 1076 01:29:38,331 --> 01:29:40,792 But you and my husband... 1077 01:29:41,000 --> 01:29:44,170 ...you might as well be blind men. 1078 01:29:44,379 --> 01:29:48,967 You can only see that they have a problem. 1079 01:29:49,175 --> 01:29:52,595 But do you really know what's happened to them... 1080 01:29:52,804 --> 01:29:55,515 ...how they feel about each other? 1081 01:29:57,058 --> 01:30:00,520 I believe that men grow old... 1082 01:30:01,688 --> 01:30:06,276 ...and when sexual things no longer matter to them... 1083 01:30:06,484 --> 01:30:11,864 ...they forget it all, forget what true passion is. 1084 01:30:14,742 --> 01:30:18,246 If you ever felt what my son... 1085 01:30:19,956 --> 01:30:25,169 ...feels for your daughter, you and my husband forgot everything about it. 1086 01:30:25,378 --> 01:30:29,424 You knew once, but that was a long time ago. 1087 01:30:29,632 --> 01:30:32,010 Now the two of you don't know. 1088 01:30:32,176 --> 01:30:37,599 And the strange thing for your wife and me... 1089 01:30:37,974 --> 01:30:43,229 ...is that you don't even remember. 1090 01:30:43,438 --> 01:30:48,610 If you did, how could you do what you are doing? 1091 01:30:55,116 --> 01:30:59,245 I don't care what your mother says. This is between you and me. 1092 01:30:59,454 --> 01:31:03,541 That's the first thing you've said that makes any sense. 1093 01:31:03,750 --> 01:31:07,795 -And what I mean to say... -You've said what you had to say. 1094 01:31:08,004 --> 01:31:10,757 You listen to me. 1095 01:31:13,468 --> 01:31:16,721 You don't want to tell me how to live my life? 1096 01:31:16,929 --> 01:31:19,223 So, what have you been doing? 1097 01:31:19,432 --> 01:31:24,062 You tell me what rights I've got and what I owe you. 1098 01:31:25,521 --> 01:31:30,234 Let me tell you something. I owe you nothing. 1099 01:31:30,443 --> 01:31:35,657 If you carried that bag a million miles, you did what you had to do. 1100 01:31:36,199 --> 01:31:38,284 You brought me into the world. 1101 01:31:38,493 --> 01:31:42,330 From that day, you owed me everything you could... 1102 01:31:42,538 --> 01:31:47,001 ...like I will owe my son. But you don't own me! 1103 01:31:47,794 --> 01:31:51,172 You can't tell me when or where I'm out of line... 1104 01:31:51,381 --> 01:31:54,092 ...or make me live by your rules. 1105 01:31:54,926 --> 01:32:00,348 You don't know what or who I am, Dad. How I feel, what I think! 1106 01:32:01,099 --> 01:32:04,936 And if I tried to explain, you will never understand. 1107 01:32:06,020 --> 01:32:08,940 You are 30 years older than I am. 1108 01:32:09,148 --> 01:32:14,320 Your generation thinks the way it was is the way it's got to be! 1109 01:32:14,529 --> 01:32:17,073 Not until your generation dies... 1110 01:32:17,281 --> 01:32:20,576 ...will your dead weight be off our backs! 1111 01:32:20,785 --> 01:32:24,622 You understand? You've got to get off my back! 1112 01:32:42,140 --> 01:32:44,642 Dad. 1113 01:32:46,894 --> 01:32:49,188 Dad. 1114 01:32:50,898 --> 01:32:53,693 You're my father. 1115 01:32:53,901 --> 01:32:57,113 I'm your son. I love you. 1116 01:32:57,321 --> 01:33:02,285 I always have and I always will. 1117 01:33:02,493 --> 01:33:06,038 But you think of yourself as a coloured man. 1118 01:33:07,039 --> 01:33:10,835 I think of myself as a man. 1119 01:33:17,049 --> 01:33:21,012 Now, I've got a decision to make. 1120 01:33:21,220 --> 01:33:26,017 And I've got to make it alone, and I've got to make it in a hurry. 1121 01:33:26,225 --> 01:33:28,436 So... 1122 01:33:29,687 --> 01:33:33,900 ...would you go out there and see after my mother? 1123 01:34:21,948 --> 01:34:23,533 Mom! 1124 01:34:24,283 --> 01:34:27,036 Oh, darling! 1125 01:34:28,246 --> 01:34:31,666 Talk John's parents into flying over with you. 1126 01:34:31,874 --> 01:34:36,379 It would mean so much to John, and I know they can afford it. 1127 01:34:36,587 --> 01:34:39,674 John's father will make it rough for him. 1128 01:34:39,882 --> 01:34:44,053 Did you see his expression when he went to talk with Dad? 1129 01:34:44,262 --> 01:34:49,517 -But don't you like her already? -Yes, darling, I do. She's a good one. 1130 01:34:49,725 --> 01:34:54,188 When John's father saw that I was white, I thought he'd faint. 1131 01:34:54,981 --> 01:34:59,694 -What about your own father? -Yes. That was funny, wasn't it? 1132 01:34:59,902 --> 01:35:03,030 Mom, isn't this thrilling? Aren't you just...? 1133 01:35:03,239 --> 01:35:06,534 Yes, darling, I am just... 1134 01:35:54,415 --> 01:35:58,377 I should be able to say something to you, Mrs. Prentice. 1135 01:35:58,586 --> 01:36:03,090 In my trade there are a hundred clichéd phrases of comfort... 1136 01:36:03,299 --> 01:36:05,843 ...for every human condition. 1137 01:36:06,052 --> 01:36:09,472 But in the midst of this heartbreaking distress... 1138 01:36:09,680 --> 01:36:13,559 ...I must admit I'm completely stumped. 1139 01:36:14,894 --> 01:36:18,147 There's simply nothing I could say. 1140 01:36:20,650 --> 01:36:24,487 -Mary, you've got to understand... -Please, John. 1141 01:36:24,695 --> 01:36:28,574 The monsignor is right. Please, say no more. 1142 01:36:50,137 --> 01:36:53,391 I'll be a son of a bitch. 1143 01:37:12,284 --> 01:37:14,370 Close the door, Mr. Drayton. 1144 01:37:25,297 --> 01:37:28,426 You didn't have the guts to tell me face to face? 1145 01:37:28,634 --> 01:37:31,429 Before you start telling me about my guts... 1146 01:37:31,637 --> 01:37:34,890 ...I told you I'd have something to say. 1147 01:37:35,099 --> 01:37:37,685 Now I'm ready to say it. 1148 01:37:38,811 --> 01:37:41,814 Are you going to stay in here? 1149 01:37:50,906 --> 01:37:52,950 Joey. 1150 01:37:56,120 --> 01:38:00,166 You know that I'm completely sympathetic, don't you? 1151 01:38:00,374 --> 01:38:03,878 You know that I have no reservations about anything. 1152 01:38:04,086 --> 01:38:07,131 And whatever makes you happy, I'm happy too. 1153 01:38:07,298 --> 01:38:10,342 Of course I know that. 1154 01:38:10,551 --> 01:38:13,637 Then listen to me, darling. 1155 01:38:13,846 --> 01:38:18,517 There's something I have to tell you about this situation... 1156 01:38:18,726 --> 01:38:20,770 ...which you don't really... 1157 01:38:20,978 --> 01:38:26,192 Christina! What are you doing up there? Joey! Come down, both of you! 1158 01:38:28,694 --> 01:38:32,364 Can I get you a drink, Mr. and Mrs. Prentice? 1159 01:38:32,573 --> 01:38:37,119 -No, thank you. -John? Mike? No, you've had enough. 1160 01:38:37,328 --> 01:38:40,706 -Dad. What's going on? -There's something I want to say. 1161 01:38:40,915 --> 01:38:45,920 I'd like you to sit down and keep quiet. Please, sit down. 1162 01:38:46,128 --> 01:38:48,923 Sit down, Chris, please. 1163 01:38:49,882 --> 01:38:54,887 I have a few things to say, and you might just think they're important. 1164 01:38:55,096 --> 01:38:59,350 It's been a strange day. That's not putting it too strongly. 1165 01:38:59,558 --> 01:39:03,187 I might even say it's been an extraordinary day. 1166 01:39:03,395 --> 01:39:07,942 I've been thinking about the day and the way it has gone... 1167 01:39:08,150 --> 01:39:11,028 ...and it seems to me that now... 1168 01:39:11,237 --> 01:39:14,907 ...I need to make a few personal statements... 1169 01:39:15,116 --> 01:39:17,493 ...for a variety of reasons. 1170 01:39:21,664 --> 01:39:27,795 The day began for me when I came in and Tillie said to me... 1171 01:39:28,003 --> 01:39:30,548 Excuse me. Tillie! 1172 01:39:30,756 --> 01:39:32,550 This'll only take a second. 1173 01:39:32,758 --> 01:39:37,054 -Everything's been ready... -All right, Tillie. Sit down. 1174 01:39:37,263 --> 01:39:40,099 This is Miss Matilda Binks... 1175 01:39:40,307 --> 01:39:43,727 ...who's been a member of this family for 22 years. 1176 01:39:43,936 --> 01:39:48,023 And who today has made a great deal of trouble. Sit down. 1177 01:39:51,235 --> 01:39:55,823 Now, the minute I walked into this house this afternoon... 1178 01:39:56,031 --> 01:40:01,078 ...Miss Binks said to me, "All hell done broke loose now." 1179 01:40:01,287 --> 01:40:03,956 I asked to what she referred... 1180 01:40:04,165 --> 01:40:07,918 ...and she said, "You'll see." And I did. 1181 01:40:08,127 --> 01:40:13,549 After some preliminary guessing games, at which I was never very good... 1182 01:40:13,841 --> 01:40:19,221 ...it was explained by my daughter that she intended to get married... 1183 01:40:19,430 --> 01:40:23,976 ...and that her intended was a young man whom I'd never met... 1184 01:40:24,185 --> 01:40:26,896 ...who happened to be a Negro. 1185 01:40:27,104 --> 01:40:31,567 I think it's fair to say that I responded to this news... 1186 01:40:31,775 --> 01:40:34,778 ...the same way that any good father would... 1187 01:40:34,987 --> 01:40:39,074 ...unless his daughter happened to be a Negro too. 1188 01:40:39,909 --> 01:40:41,410 In a word, I was flabbergasted. 1189 01:40:41,619 --> 01:40:44,788 And while I was still being flabbergasted... 1190 01:40:44,997 --> 01:40:49,501 ...I was informed by my daughter, a very determined young woman... 1191 01:40:50,085 --> 01:40:55,090 ...much like her mother, that the marriage was on... 1192 01:40:55,299 --> 01:40:58,886 ...no matter what her mother and I might feel about it. 1193 01:40:59,887 --> 01:41:05,184 Then the next rather startling development occurred, when you said... 1194 01:41:05,392 --> 01:41:09,021 ...that unless we approved of the marriage... 1195 01:41:09,230 --> 01:41:11,273 ...there would be no marriage. 1196 01:41:11,482 --> 01:41:15,027 -You didn't. What a funny thing to do. -Joey. 1197 01:41:17,029 --> 01:41:21,992 This may be the last chance I'll ever have to tell you to do anything. 1198 01:41:22,201 --> 01:41:24,578 So I'm telling you, shut up. 1199 01:41:28,457 --> 01:41:33,254 Now, it became clear that we had one single day... 1200 01:41:33,462 --> 01:41:37,967 ...in which to make up our minds about this situation. 1201 01:41:38,175 --> 01:41:41,679 So, what happened? My wife, typically enough... 1202 01:41:41,887 --> 01:41:46,558 ...decided to ignore every practical aspect of the situation... 1203 01:41:46,767 --> 01:41:51,105 ...and went off in a romantic haze, which made her... 1204 01:41:51,355 --> 01:41:55,859 ...totally inaccessible to anything in the way of reason. 1205 01:41:58,737 --> 01:42:02,908 I have not as yet referred to His Reverence... 1206 01:42:03,117 --> 01:42:06,578 ...who forced his way into the situation... 1207 01:42:06,787 --> 01:42:11,917 ...insulted my intelligence by mouthing 300 platitudes... 1208 01:42:12,126 --> 01:42:15,504 ...and ended it by coming to my room... 1209 01:42:15,713 --> 01:42:19,133 ...and challenging me to a wrestling match. 1210 01:42:19,341 --> 01:42:22,803 -What time is your plane? -Ten forty-five. 1211 01:42:23,887 --> 01:42:25,306 Right. 1212 01:42:25,514 --> 01:42:30,060 Now, Mr. Prentice, clearly a most reasonable man... 1213 01:42:30,269 --> 01:42:35,274 ...says he has no wish to offend me but wants to know if I'm a nut. 1214 01:42:36,442 --> 01:42:39,445 Mrs. Prentice says that, like her husband... 1215 01:42:39,653 --> 01:42:44,658 ...I'm a burned-out shell of a man who cannot remember what it's like... 1216 01:42:44,867 --> 01:42:50,289 ...to love a woman the way her son loves my daughter. 1217 01:42:55,711 --> 01:42:58,881 And strange as it seems... 1218 01:42:59,089 --> 01:43:02,217 ...that's the first statement made to me all day... 1219 01:43:02,426 --> 01:43:05,596 ...with which I'm prepared to take issue. 1220 01:43:08,265 --> 01:43:13,020 Because I think you're wrong. You're as wrong as you could be. 1221 01:43:14,063 --> 01:43:18,025 I admit that I hadn't considered it... 1222 01:43:18,233 --> 01:43:21,779 ...but I know exactly how he feels about her. 1223 01:43:22,613 --> 01:43:27,785 And there is absolutely nothing that your son feels for my daughter... 1224 01:43:29,161 --> 01:43:32,373 ...that I didn't feel for Christina. 1225 01:43:34,083 --> 01:43:36,126 Old, yes. 1226 01:43:36,335 --> 01:43:39,171 Burned-out, certainly. 1227 01:43:39,380 --> 01:43:43,842 But I can tell you, the memories are still there. 1228 01:43:44,051 --> 01:43:48,680 Clear, intact, indestructible. 1229 01:43:48,889 --> 01:43:53,644 They'll be there if I live to be 110. Where John made his mistake... 1230 01:43:53,852 --> 01:43:58,399 ...was attaching so much importance to what we thought. 1231 01:43:59,066 --> 01:44:03,529 Because in the final analysis it doesn't matter a damn what we think. 1232 01:44:03,737 --> 01:44:06,949 The only thing that matters is what they feel... 1233 01:44:07,116 --> 01:44:12,162 ...and how much they feel for each other. 1234 01:44:15,416 --> 01:44:19,837 And if it's half of what we felt... 1235 01:44:23,382 --> 01:44:25,384 ...that's everything. 1236 01:44:39,481 --> 01:44:45,529 As for the problems you'll have, they seem almost unimaginable. 1237 01:44:45,737 --> 01:44:47,823 But you'll have no problem with me. 1238 01:44:49,283 --> 01:44:53,620 And I think that when Christina and I and your mother... 1239 01:44:53,829 --> 01:44:59,251 ...have time to work on him, you'll have no problem with your father. 1240 01:45:02,004 --> 01:45:07,426 But you do know, I'm sure you know, what you're up against. 1241 01:45:07,843 --> 01:45:11,263 There'll be 100 million people in this country... 1242 01:45:11,472 --> 01:45:16,894 ...who'll be shocked and offended and appalled at the two of you. 1243 01:45:18,520 --> 01:45:21,565 And you'll have to ride that out... 1244 01:45:21,773 --> 01:45:25,277 ...maybe every day for the rest of your lives. 1245 01:45:26,445 --> 01:45:29,615 You can try to ignore those people... 1246 01:45:29,823 --> 01:45:33,869 ...or even feel sorry for them and for their bigotry... 1247 01:45:34,077 --> 01:45:38,081 ...and their blind hatreds and stupid fears... 1248 01:45:38,290 --> 01:45:43,712 ...but where necessary, you'll just have to cling tight to each other... 1249 01:45:44,046 --> 01:45:47,007 ...and say, "Screw all those people." 1250 01:45:47,966 --> 01:45:52,638 Anybody could make a case against your getting married. 1251 01:45:53,305 --> 01:45:56,767 The arguments are so obvious, nobody has to make them. 1252 01:45:58,227 --> 01:46:01,271 But you're two wonderful people... 1253 01:46:02,147 --> 01:46:04,107 ...who fell in love... 1254 01:46:05,442 --> 01:46:08,737 ...and happened to have a pigmentation problem. 1255 01:46:09,655 --> 01:46:14,576 I think that no matter what kind of a case some bastard could make... 1256 01:46:14,785 --> 01:46:19,706 ...against your getting married, there'd be only one thing worse. 1257 01:46:19,915 --> 01:46:24,628 And that would be if, knowing what you two are... 1258 01:46:24,836 --> 01:46:27,005 ...knowing what you two have... 1259 01:46:27,214 --> 01:46:30,217 ...and knowing what you two feel... 1260 01:46:30,425 --> 01:46:32,553 ...you didn't get married. 1261 01:46:53,490 --> 01:46:58,078 Well, Tillie. When the hell are we gonna get some dinner?