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[Man]
She said,

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"Do you think it'd be fun
if we got married?"

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[Woman]
And what did you say?

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[Man]
I took her up on it.

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I never wanted to be
away from her.

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She had the spark of life.

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[no audible dialogue]

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Careful.

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When did we last
wash that sweater?

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Right after the war.

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[chuckling]

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Christmas.

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In the '50s sometime
or the '60s.

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[laughing]
Shut up.

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I'll go make the fire.

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"You climbed
the bank and said,

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"'This is how you touch
other women,

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"the grass cutter's wife,
the lime burner's daughter.

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"And you searched your arms

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for the missing perfume
and knew--"

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Don't worry, darling.

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I expect I'm just
losing my mind.

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Shh-shh.

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"What good is it to be
the lime burner's daughter,

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"left with no trace

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"as if not spoken to
in the act of love,

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"as if wounded without
the pleasure of a scar.

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"You touched your belly
to my hands in the dry air

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"and said, 'I am
the cinnamon peeler's wife.

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Smell me.'"

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When I look away,
I forget what yellow means.

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But I can look again.

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Sometimes there's something
delicious in oblivion.

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I think you're
supposed to be able

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to put your fingers
inside the curled petal

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and feel the heat.

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[Man]
Well?

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I can't be sure.

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I can't be sure
if what I can feel

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is the heat
or my imagination.

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The heat attracts the bugs.

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Nature never fools around
just being decorative.

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[car beeping]

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[knocking]

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Yes?

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I don't quite know
how to introduce myself.

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I used to see your husband
at Meadowlake.

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I'm a regular visitor
there myself.

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Those are lovely flowers.

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I've never seen
those purple ones before.

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Hmm.

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The earth there must
really appeal to them.

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[chuckling]

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What?

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You could just
open the drawers.

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Remind yourself.

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What?

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Maybe
all the labels and lists

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are defeating the purpose.

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If you stopped
thinking about things

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the moment
you write them down,

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maybe that's the end
of your need to recall.

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I heard a story
at a dinner party

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about the German soldiers
on border patrol

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in Czechoslovakia
during the war.

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I heard it from that
Czech student of yours.

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Veronica.

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We spoke once
at a dinner party.

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Don't be nervous.

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It's a good story.

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She told me that each
of the German patrol dogs

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wore a sign saying "hund."

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"Why?" said the Czechs.

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And the Germans replied,
"Because that is a hund."

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It was one
of those craft shows

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where you look around
and wonder that the laws
of supply and demand

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can allow for the production
of so many macramé ducks.

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[laughs]
Oh, God, those things
are everywhere.

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What do you do with them?
Oh, come on, Phoebe,
you've got one of those.

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You use it as a--
what do you call it--

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a light fixture holder
or som--

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I do not.
Phoebe, in the...

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Oh, yes.
Wait a second, I do.

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Fiona gave it to me.

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Yes, I did.
[chuckling]

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Would anybody
like some more?

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Mm.

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Ween...

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Wai-- Wain--

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No, but I'll have
a touch of wine.

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Yeah, Fiona,
that would be lovely.

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Some more wain.

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The thing is...

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half the time
I wander around

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looking for something
which I know

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is very pertinent.

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I can't remember what it is.

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Once the idea is gone,
everything is gone.

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I just wander around

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trying to figure out
what it was

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that was so important
earlier.

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I think I may be
beginning to disappear.

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[Woman]
And what year is it?

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2003.

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00:10:37,201 --> 00:10:40,300
Fiona, if you found
a letter on the street,

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addressed,
with a stamp on it,

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what would you do with it?

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I'd mail it.

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And where would
you put it to mail it?

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And if there was a fire
in a movie theater,

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and you were the first person
to spot that fire,

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what would you do?

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Well, we don't go
to the movies much anymore,

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do we, Grant?

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All those multiplexes showing
the same American garbage.

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Have you seen my coat?

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There it is, dear.

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It's on your chair.

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Oh, yes.

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Fiona, would you mind

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if I asked you
a few more questions?

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Would you mind
taking a seat?

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I was just feeling
a little cold, that's all.

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[baby burbling]

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00:12:02,567 --> 00:12:05,201
[sotto voce]
What an ugly baby.

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When did we move
into this cottage?

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Was it last year
or the year before?

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[sigh]

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00:12:37,567 --> 00:12:39,433
No.
It was longer than that.

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It was when I left
the university,

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20 years ago.

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Hmm.

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Well, that's shocking.

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00:12:56,533 --> 00:12:58,434
[chuckle]

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00:13:06,134 --> 00:13:09,633
Let's just see how it goes,
shall we, hmm?

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00:13:11,134 --> 00:13:12,166
Hmm?

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00:13:12,167 --> 00:13:15,200
[Grant]
How is your husband doing?

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Okay.

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He and my wife struck up
quite a close friendship.

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00:13:20,734 --> 00:13:22,267
I heard about that.

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00:13:24,167 --> 00:13:26,133
So, uh,

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I'd like to speak to you
about something.

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If you have a minute.

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00:13:32,734 --> 00:13:35,500
My husband did not
try to start anything
with your wife,

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if that's what
you're getting at.

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00:13:37,267 --> 00:13:39,100
He did not
try to molest her.

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He's incapable of it.

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And anyway, he wouldn't.

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00:13:42,067 --> 00:13:45,166
From what I hear,
it was the other way
around.

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00:13:45,167 --> 00:13:47,133
No, uh,
that isn't it at all.

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I didn't come here
with any complaints.

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Oh.

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00:13:52,600 --> 00:13:54,734
Oh, well, I'm sorry.
I thought you did.

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Maybe you should come in.

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00:14:00,267 --> 00:14:04,267
It's not as warm a day
as it looks.

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[Fiona]
"Never let a person
make you feel guilty

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for your anger with God."

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Hmm. Random.

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I can't even see
what the point is.

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00:14:23,368 --> 00:14:26,433
We can't be certain
this is what--

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You're far too young.

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"Should the patient
afflicted with the disease

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"remain at home...

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the caregiver
will very often
be the spouse."

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00:14:37,667 --> 00:14:40,200
"The caregiver must preside
over the degeneration

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"of someone he or she
loves very much,

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"must do this
for years and years

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00:14:44,667 --> 00:14:47,400
"with the news always
getting worse, not better,

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"must put up sometimes
with deranged

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"but at the same time
very personal insults,

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"and must somehow learn
to smile through it all.

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"Caregivers must
be able to diagnose

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"a wide variety
of ordinary ailments

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"under extraordinary
circumstances.

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"Imagine the person
you love the most

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"suddenly upset
about something,

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"but completely unable
to communicate the problem

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or even to understand it
himself."

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Sounds like a regular marriage.

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[chuckle]

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[sigh]

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00:17:53,667 --> 00:17:55,167
Hello, there!

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00:17:58,500 --> 00:18:00,266
[shivering]
Oh!

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00:18:00,267 --> 00:18:02,301
Hello, there.

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00:18:49,434 --> 00:18:52,234
We are at that stage,
Grant.

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00:18:55,234 --> 00:18:57,401
We are at that stage.

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00:19:03,267 --> 00:19:04,734
[sigh]

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00:19:07,434 --> 00:19:09,201
Well...

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00:19:12,368 --> 00:19:14,532
if we do think of it...

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00:19:14,533 --> 00:19:17,733
if we do...

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00:19:17,734 --> 00:19:22,667
then it must be as something
that isn't permanent.

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A kind of experimental
treatment or...

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a rest cure of sorts.

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00:19:45,533 --> 00:19:48,566
All right.

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00:19:48,567 --> 00:19:49,666
All right.

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00:19:49,667 --> 00:19:52,234
We can think
of it that way.

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00:19:55,567 --> 00:19:59,267
We have to sit in the kitchen,
where I can hear Aubrey.

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00:20:06,267 --> 00:20:09,300
Well, you might as well
have a cup of coffee.

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00:20:09,301 --> 00:20:11,333
Thank you.

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00:20:11,334 --> 00:20:17,133
My son put him on
the Sports Channel
a year ago Christmas.

201
00:20:17,134 --> 00:20:19,266
I don't know what
we'd do without it.

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00:20:19,267 --> 00:20:21,267
Must be a struggle.

203
00:20:22,567 --> 00:20:24,666
Well, you know.

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00:20:24,667 --> 00:20:27,401
You know what
struggle is by now.

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00:20:30,267 --> 00:20:32,468
You're sure?
I'm sure.

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00:20:34,401 --> 00:20:38,166
You don't want
to just get a sense
of the place?

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00:20:38,167 --> 00:20:40,567
I don't want to make
this decision alone.

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00:20:44,600 --> 00:20:45,700
What place?

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00:20:50,267 --> 00:20:51,401
Just kidding!

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00:20:53,167 --> 00:20:54,368
Fuck off.

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00:21:02,434 --> 00:21:06,467
You're not making
this decision alone, Grant.

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00:21:06,468 --> 00:21:09,167
I've already
made up my mind.

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00:21:14,401 --> 00:21:15,301
Okay.

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00:21:45,067 --> 00:21:47,066
[Woman]
It's time to go home now.

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00:21:47,067 --> 00:21:48,699
[Man]
No, no.
Mrs. Taylor--

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00:21:48,700 --> 00:21:50,532
Hi. Is this your son?
Yeah. I'm her son.

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00:21:50,533 --> 00:21:53,733
Hi. I'm Betty.
It's time for your bath.

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00:21:53,734 --> 00:21:55,766
Bath.
Yeah.

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00:21:55,767 --> 00:21:57,467
You have to have
a bath now.

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00:21:57,468 --> 00:21:59,233
Mama.

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00:21:59,234 --> 00:22:02,433
Mr. Andersson?
Madeleine Montpelier.

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00:22:02,434 --> 00:22:04,367
I'm the supervisor
here at Meadowlake.
Hi, there.

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00:22:04,368 --> 00:22:07,200
I'm just going to take
you on the quick tour
of the facility,

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00:22:07,201 --> 00:22:08,599
and then we can sit down

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00:22:08,600 --> 00:22:10,133
and discuss
Mrs. Andersson's condition

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and the appropriate time
for admitting her.

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00:22:16,101 --> 00:22:18,100
As you can see, we get
a lot of natural light.

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00:22:18,101 --> 00:22:20,733
Yes,
I can see that.

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00:22:20,734 --> 00:22:22,467
This
is my favorite room.

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00:22:22,468 --> 00:22:24,300
Look, over there,
as you can see,

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they have
a puzzle on the go.

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00:22:26,334 --> 00:22:27,500
They always have
a puzzle on the go.

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00:22:27,500 --> 00:22:30,133
This works.
You know, it's real
important to us here

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00:22:30,134 --> 00:22:32,367
that our residents
maintain social function,

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00:22:32,368 --> 00:22:35,133
so a lot of our activities
and our whole layout

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00:22:35,134 --> 00:22:36,101
is really geared toward--

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00:22:36,102 --> 00:22:37,733
Hello, there,
Miss Madeleine.

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00:22:37,734 --> 00:22:39,666
Hello, Michael.

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00:22:39,667 --> 00:22:41,632
Now, as you can see,
we're coming into
our common room,

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00:22:41,633 --> 00:22:44,632
and again, we're really
emphasizing everybody
being social.

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00:22:44,633 --> 00:22:46,166
So you can
bring the family.

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00:22:46,167 --> 00:22:47,367
Everybody
can come and visit.

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00:22:47,368 --> 00:22:50,100
We have
a state-of-the-art
entertainment system

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00:22:50,101 --> 00:22:52,367
so the residents
can gather
and watch together.

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00:22:52,368 --> 00:22:54,200
Hi, Madeleine.
Hello, ladies.

246
00:22:54,201 --> 00:22:56,233
Hello, Madeleine.
I got a Christmas sweater.

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00:22:56,234 --> 00:22:58,200
Aren't you festive!

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00:22:58,201 --> 00:22:59,733
And this
is our quiet corner

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00:22:59,734 --> 00:23:02,766
for crafts and reading
and reflection.

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00:23:02,767 --> 00:23:06,467
We have a lot of activities
for physical activity.

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00:23:06,468 --> 00:23:09,666
Balloon badminton
and sit and fit.

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00:23:09,667 --> 00:23:13,166
And here we have our
lovely new dining room.

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00:23:13,167 --> 00:23:16,666
We can accommodate
any dietary preferences
or restrictions.

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00:23:16,667 --> 00:23:20,666
We're just serving up
a little Christmas dinner
early for the families.

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00:23:20,667 --> 00:23:22,632
The old Meadowlake
is just next door,

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00:23:22,633 --> 00:23:25,999
and that's a day center
now, but, um...

257
00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:27,733
this for the permanent
residents.

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00:23:27,734 --> 00:23:29,233
This is
brand-spanking new.

259
00:23:29,234 --> 00:23:31,201
So let's go upstairs,
shall we?

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00:23:33,533 --> 00:23:36,301
Just taking my tea
for a ride.

261
00:23:37,167 --> 00:23:40,233
Oh, look at this one,
Flo.

262
00:23:40,234 --> 00:23:42,733
He's a real charmer,
isn't he?

263
00:23:42,734 --> 00:23:45,467
Would you say,
are you a charmer?

264
00:23:45,468 --> 00:23:47,733
I think you could say
I was kind of a charmer.

265
00:23:47,734 --> 00:23:50,300
[chuckles]
You're a rascal.

266
00:23:50,301 --> 00:23:52,433
Mr. Andersson is here
about his wife, Eliza.
Behave yourself.

267
00:23:52,434 --> 00:23:54,733
Ahh.
I should have known it.

268
00:23:54,734 --> 00:23:57,434
At this age, it's--

269
00:23:58,700 --> 00:24:01,367
What do the kids
call it, Flo? It's--

270
00:24:01,368 --> 00:24:03,433
It's a real clusterfuck.

271
00:24:03,434 --> 00:24:05,632
All the charmers are taken.

272
00:24:05,633 --> 00:24:08,433
Or dead. Mostly dead.
[elevator dings]

273
00:24:08,434 --> 00:24:10,434
You're kind of charming
yourself, sweetheart.

274
00:24:11,767 --> 00:24:12,767
Shall we?

275
00:24:21,600 --> 00:24:24,066
This is our second floor,
the extended care wing.

276
00:24:24,067 --> 00:24:25,433
The elevators, of course,

277
00:24:25,434 --> 00:24:26,566
have the lockdown system,

278
00:24:26,567 --> 00:24:28,999
and this is where
the patients can move to

279
00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:31,100
once they become
more progressed.

280
00:24:31,101 --> 00:24:33,766
Interesting choice
of words.

281
00:24:33,767 --> 00:24:37,066
Why don't I show you
some of the rooms here,
while we're at it?

282
00:24:37,067 --> 00:24:39,367
Then we can go back down
and see the regular rooms

283
00:24:39,368 --> 00:24:40,433
where Mrs. Andersson
will be living.

284
00:24:40,434 --> 00:24:43,066
No, that will not
be necessary.

285
00:24:43,067 --> 00:24:45,266
My wife will not be
progressing to this floor.

286
00:24:45,267 --> 00:24:47,500
All right.

287
00:24:47,500 --> 00:24:49,166
♪ [Muzak]

288
00:24:49,167 --> 00:24:50,467
Who chooses the music?

289
00:24:50,468 --> 00:24:52,233
I'm sorry?

290
00:24:52,234 --> 00:24:53,467
I'm assuming
it's not the residents.

291
00:24:53,468 --> 00:24:56,733
I don't see any of them
singing along.

292
00:24:56,734 --> 00:25:00,532
Yeah, well. You know the rooms
on the regular floors all have
their own stereo systems

293
00:25:00,533 --> 00:25:02,699
so the patients can listen
to whatever they like.

294
00:25:02,700 --> 00:25:03,667
How kind.

295
00:25:05,667 --> 00:25:09,233
Now, we don't admit anyone
during the month of December,

296
00:25:09,234 --> 00:25:11,166
so Mrs. Andersson will
have to wait till January

297
00:25:11,167 --> 00:25:13,200
to make the big move.

298
00:25:13,201 --> 00:25:17,766
Just December, Christmas,
you know, too many
emotional pitfalls.

299
00:25:17,767 --> 00:25:19,632
Right.
Sorry to interrupt,
Madeleine.

300
00:25:19,633 --> 00:25:21,333
I'm looking for
those documents
on Aubrey Burke.

301
00:25:21,334 --> 00:25:23,233
Sure. Go ahead.

302
00:25:23,234 --> 00:25:26,233
Mr. Andersson,
this is Kristy,
our new managing nurse.

303
00:25:26,234 --> 00:25:28,500
Against some people's
better judgment.

304
00:25:28,500 --> 00:25:30,500
Now, now.
[chuckles]

305
00:25:30,500 --> 00:25:32,766
Mr. Andersson is here
about his wife,
Mrs. Andersson,

306
00:25:32,767 --> 00:25:34,233
who will be
joining us in January.

307
00:25:34,234 --> 00:25:35,367
Hi, there.
Hi.

308
00:25:35,368 --> 00:25:36,500
We also have a policy,

309
00:25:36,500 --> 00:25:38,266
which I'm sure you saw
in the brochure,

310
00:25:38,267 --> 00:25:40,266
that our new residents
are not allowed visitors

311
00:25:40,267 --> 00:25:42,200
or receiving phone calls
during the first 30 days,

312
00:25:42,201 --> 00:25:44,166
just to give them
a chance to settle in.

313
00:25:44,167 --> 00:25:45,401
What sort of visitors?

314
00:25:49,434 --> 00:25:52,300
Everyone.
Even close relatives.

315
00:25:52,301 --> 00:25:53,999
I couldn't just
leave her here.

316
00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:56,400
We understand,
it is very difficult

317
00:25:56,401 --> 00:25:59,133
to leave a loved one
in a new environment
for so long,

318
00:25:59,134 --> 00:26:02,266
but most people need
that time to settle in.

319
00:26:02,267 --> 00:26:04,200
Before we had
this rule in place,

320
00:26:04,201 --> 00:26:06,166
residents would forget
again and again

321
00:26:06,167 --> 00:26:07,400
why they were being
left here.

322
00:26:07,401 --> 00:26:08,599
Whereas we find,

323
00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:11,300
you give them the month
to settle in,

324
00:26:11,301 --> 00:26:13,599
and they're happy as clams.

325
00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:17,400
And after that,
a little visit home
every now and then,

326
00:26:17,401 --> 00:26:19,367
perfectly fine.

327
00:26:19,368 --> 00:26:21,201
We'll take good care
of her, I promise.

328
00:26:26,034 --> 00:26:28,300
Knock-knock.
Oh, no! Not again.

329
00:26:28,301 --> 00:26:31,300
Knock-knock. Boo.

330
00:26:31,301 --> 00:26:34,468
[general chatter]

331
00:26:39,401 --> 00:26:41,367
She's bringing two babies.
Two babies?

332
00:26:41,368 --> 00:26:44,633
She's got a new baby,
four months old.

333
00:27:30,468 --> 00:27:34,101
♪ [guitar]

334
00:29:33,201 --> 00:29:34,567
Smells good.

335
00:29:37,167 --> 00:29:40,532
I was going to go
for a ski, but I thought
I shouldn't chance it,

336
00:29:40,533 --> 00:29:43,233
what with the Alzheimer's
and all.

337
00:29:43,234 --> 00:29:44,367
Why didn't you wake me?

338
00:29:44,368 --> 00:29:46,201
What are these, Grant?

339
00:29:55,500 --> 00:29:58,333
Those are the documents
you're supposed to sign

340
00:29:58,334 --> 00:30:01,200
if you decide
to go to Meadowlake.

341
00:30:01,201 --> 00:30:03,266
That is exactly
what I have decided.

342
00:30:03,267 --> 00:30:06,166
You were to go an sign these
and leave them there.

343
00:30:06,167 --> 00:30:09,767
I wouldn't be allowed
to visit you for 30 days.

344
00:30:17,201 --> 00:30:19,400
30 days isn't
such a long time

345
00:30:19,401 --> 00:30:22,599
after 44 years.

346
00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:24,533
I don't think
I like the place.

347
00:30:29,101 --> 00:30:34,632
I don't think we should
be looking for something
we like, Grant.

348
00:30:34,633 --> 00:30:37,767
I don't think
we'll ever find that.

349
00:30:39,201 --> 00:30:41,766
I think all we can aspire
to in this situation

350
00:30:41,767 --> 00:30:44,401
is a little bit of grace.

351
00:30:52,101 --> 00:30:54,633
Hmm?

352
00:30:56,401 --> 00:31:00,733
♪ Come a little bit closer ♪

353
00:31:00,734 --> 00:31:04,700
♪ Hear what I have to say ♪

354
00:31:13,368 --> 00:31:17,699
♪ Just like children
sleeping ♪

355
00:31:17,700 --> 00:31:22,067
♪ We can dream
this night away ♪

356
00:31:28,567 --> 00:31:31,600
I suppose I'll be
dressed up all the time.

357
00:31:33,267 --> 00:31:38,201
It will be sort of like...
in a hotel.

358
00:31:42,434 --> 00:31:44,033
How do I look?

359
00:31:44,034 --> 00:31:45,300
Just like always.

360
00:31:45,301 --> 00:31:46,999
Just as you've
always looked.

361
00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:49,067
And how does that look?

362
00:31:51,301 --> 00:31:53,201
Direct and vague...

363
00:31:54,667 --> 00:31:57,134
sweet and ironic.

364
00:32:03,067 --> 00:32:05,633
Is that how I look?

365
00:32:08,567 --> 00:32:13,599
[on radio]
♪ Because I'm still
in love with you ♪

366
00:32:13,600 --> 00:32:18,100
♪ I want to see you
dance again ♪

367
00:32:18,101 --> 00:32:20,334
Oh. Remember?

368
00:32:23,167 --> 00:32:25,033
Surprised, Grant?

369
00:32:25,034 --> 00:32:26,400
No, I'm not surprised.

370
00:32:26,401 --> 00:32:30,100
I'm just grateful
you can remember that.

371
00:32:30,101 --> 00:32:33,200
I'm not all gone, Grant.
Just...

372
00:32:33,201 --> 00:32:35,234
[sigh] going--

373
00:32:38,167 --> 00:32:41,067
There are things
I wish would go away.

374
00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:48,067
But won't. You know.
Things we don't talk about.

375
00:32:53,267 --> 00:32:56,166
You never left me.

376
00:32:56,167 --> 00:32:57,367
You still made love to me,

377
00:32:57,368 --> 00:33:00,067
despite disturbing
demands elsewhere.

378
00:33:04,301 --> 00:33:09,500
But all those sandals, Grant.
All those bare female toes.

379
00:33:12,067 --> 00:33:15,566
What could you do but
be a part of the time
you were a part of?

380
00:33:15,567 --> 00:33:18,233
All those pretty girls.

381
00:33:18,234 --> 00:33:21,067
Didn't seem like anyone
was willing to be left out.

382
00:33:23,201 --> 00:33:24,500
I think you did all right,

383
00:33:24,500 --> 00:33:29,266
compared to some
of your colleagues.

384
00:33:29,267 --> 00:33:31,533
Those who left their wives.

385
00:33:34,067 --> 00:33:36,500
And the women who
wouldn't put up with it.

386
00:33:39,734 --> 00:33:45,066
I think people
are too demanding.

387
00:33:45,067 --> 00:33:48,166
People want to be in love
every single day.

388
00:33:48,167 --> 00:33:53,100
What a liability.
And then that silly girl.

389
00:33:53,101 --> 00:33:55,000
That silly girl Veronica.

390
00:33:56,134 --> 00:33:58,766
Girls that age
are always going around

391
00:33:58,767 --> 00:34:02,233
saying they're going
to kill themselves.

392
00:34:02,234 --> 00:34:04,034
But that was that.

393
00:34:06,101 --> 00:34:07,532
Promised me a new life.

394
00:34:07,533 --> 00:34:09,999
We moved out here,

395
00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:13,267
that is exactly
what you gave me.

396
00:34:15,567 --> 00:34:17,532
How long ago was that?

397
00:34:17,533 --> 00:34:20,666
20 years.

398
00:34:20,667 --> 00:34:22,401
[shuddering]

399
00:34:24,734 --> 00:34:26,667
God, that's shocking.

400
00:34:28,633 --> 00:34:33,266
So you see, I'm going...

401
00:34:33,267 --> 00:34:36,134
but I'm not gone.

402
00:34:47,301 --> 00:34:50,766
♪ And we were lovers ♪

403
00:34:50,767 --> 00:34:56,034
♪ I loved you
with all my heart ♪

404
00:35:04,533 --> 00:35:07,201
Fiona.
Grant.

405
00:35:10,301 --> 00:35:11,167
Don't go.

406
00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:15,733
That's what is happening,
Grant.

407
00:35:15,734 --> 00:35:19,034
It's happening...right now.

408
00:35:49,201 --> 00:35:50,134
Fiona.

409
00:35:52,334 --> 00:35:54,266
Hello.
I'm checking in today.

410
00:35:54,267 --> 00:35:56,133
My name
is Fiona Andersson.

411
00:35:56,134 --> 00:35:57,133
Yes, Mrs. Andersson.

412
00:35:57,134 --> 00:35:59,333
We have your room
all ready for you.

413
00:35:59,334 --> 00:36:00,766
Perfect.
We'll have our supervisor,

414
00:36:00,767 --> 00:36:02,133
Mrs. Montpelier, show you.

415
00:36:02,134 --> 00:36:04,500
I'll go fetch her.
She's expecting you.

416
00:36:04,500 --> 00:36:05,667
Thank you.

417
00:36:07,034 --> 00:36:08,201
Fiona.

418
00:36:09,234 --> 00:36:10,532
Grant.

419
00:36:10,533 --> 00:36:12,133
I can't go away
from you like this.

420
00:36:12,134 --> 00:36:17,300
We had nothing
to tie us down, Grant.

421
00:36:17,301 --> 00:36:20,233
You could have
just driven away
and forsaken me.

422
00:36:20,234 --> 00:36:22,401
But you didn't.

423
00:36:24,267 --> 00:36:26,034
I thank you for that.

424
00:36:30,700 --> 00:36:33,066
Mrs. Andersson.
Oh, hello.

425
00:36:33,067 --> 00:36:35,066
How do you do?
I'm Madeleine.
Hello.

426
00:36:35,067 --> 00:36:36,666
Should I give
you two a moment?

427
00:36:36,667 --> 00:36:38,532
No, thank you.
Yes, please.

428
00:36:38,533 --> 00:36:40,400
All right, then, well,
we'll get you settled
in your room,

429
00:36:40,401 --> 00:36:42,500
and then I'd like to give you
a tour of the facility.

430
00:36:42,500 --> 00:36:45,234
That'd be lovely.
Thank you.
Right this way.

431
00:36:51,401 --> 00:36:55,267
So, as you can see,
we get a lot
of natural light.

432
00:36:56,500 --> 00:36:59,134
Here we go.

433
00:37:06,234 --> 00:37:09,699
Yes.
This'll do just fine.

434
00:37:09,700 --> 00:37:12,300
Good. I'm so glad
you like it. Now, is--

435
00:37:12,301 --> 00:37:13,999
is this all you brought
with you today?

436
00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:15,734
For now.
We'll see how it goes.

437
00:37:17,734 --> 00:37:21,666
Well, if you need any
help arranging things,
you just let me know.

438
00:37:21,667 --> 00:37:25,333
Thank you,
Mrs. Montpelier.

439
00:37:25,334 --> 00:37:28,532
Now, if you wouldn't mind,
I-I'd like to say good-bye
to my husband.

440
00:37:28,533 --> 00:37:33,166
We haven't been
apart for a month
for the last 44 years.

441
00:37:33,167 --> 00:37:34,434
It could be quite something.

442
00:37:43,167 --> 00:37:45,034
Please, Fiona.

443
00:37:48,567 --> 00:37:50,666
[sigh]
Grant.

444
00:37:50,667 --> 00:37:53,433
Fiona--

445
00:37:53,434 --> 00:37:55,500
You know what I'd like?

446
00:37:59,167 --> 00:38:01,200
I'd like to make love,

447
00:38:01,201 --> 00:38:04,233
and then
I'd like you to go.

448
00:38:04,234 --> 00:38:05,766
Because
I need to stay here,

449
00:38:05,767 --> 00:38:07,599
and if you
make it hard for me,

450
00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:10,234
I might cry so hard
I'll never stop.

451
00:38:43,368 --> 00:38:45,134
Go now.

452
00:38:47,633 --> 00:38:49,334
Go now.

453
00:39:35,067 --> 00:39:36,300
[Woman]
"All of the officers

454
00:39:36,301 --> 00:39:37,467
"were from outside
the local area,

455
00:39:37,468 --> 00:39:39,599
"and it probably had not
entered their minds

456
00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:42,433
"that almost all of us
were named McDonald.

457
00:39:42,434 --> 00:39:44,766
"Nobody moved except for
the shuffling of feet.

458
00:39:44,767 --> 00:39:47,433
The red roo"-- Hey.

459
00:39:47,434 --> 00:39:49,400
Hello, there.
Kristy.
We met on your tour.

460
00:39:49,401 --> 00:39:51,200
How's Mrs. Andersson?
Has she settled in?

461
00:39:51,201 --> 00:39:53,367
I'm wondering
if I could have

462
00:39:53,368 --> 00:39:55,500
a moment of your time
to ask your advice?

463
00:39:55,500 --> 00:39:57,999
Oh, sure. I was just
reading to Mr. Burke here.

464
00:39:58,000 --> 00:39:59,367
Maybe when we finish
this chapter,

465
00:39:59,368 --> 00:40:01,266
I can come find you
in the dining room?

466
00:40:01,267 --> 00:40:03,267
Sure. That's fine.

467
00:40:05,234 --> 00:40:08,367
Mm-- "The red roof lights
revolved in the afternoon sun,

468
00:40:08,368 --> 00:40:10,468
and even the dogs were
temporarily quiet."

469
00:40:25,301 --> 00:40:29,400
Hi, there, Mr. Andersson.
Now, how can I help you?

470
00:40:29,401 --> 00:40:31,300
Going down the center
of the dining room--

471
00:40:31,301 --> 00:40:34,433
That's Frank. He used
to be the play-by-play guy
for the Winnipeg Jets.

472
00:40:34,434 --> 00:40:36,532
Really?
Yeah.

473
00:40:36,533 --> 00:40:39,500
He loved his job
too much to retire.

474
00:40:39,500 --> 00:40:41,434
Frank's
on the second floor.

475
00:40:45,401 --> 00:40:50,166
I just--
My wife has always been

476
00:40:50,167 --> 00:40:53,300
sort of a different
sort of person.

477
00:40:53,301 --> 00:40:58,233
I've been told
that Alzheimer's can't be
confirmed until after--

478
00:40:58,234 --> 00:41:00,532
And on our way here today,

479
00:41:00,533 --> 00:41:02,266
we passed
this conservation area

480
00:41:02,267 --> 00:41:05,666
where we went
for a walk last spring.

481
00:41:05,667 --> 00:41:08,100
And there were these
gorgeous flowers.
The skunk lilies.

482
00:41:08,101 --> 00:41:10,033
Oh, those are
beautiful, aren't they?

483
00:41:10,034 --> 00:41:12,666
Yes, they really made
an impression, see?

484
00:41:12,667 --> 00:41:15,266
And even though the whole
place was covered in snow,

485
00:41:15,267 --> 00:41:17,767
she said, "Oh, remember?"

486
00:41:19,468 --> 00:41:22,632
Now, that was--
that was...quite recently.

487
00:41:22,633 --> 00:41:24,599
And isn't
the short-term memory

488
00:41:24,600 --> 00:41:26,333
the thing
that goes first?

489
00:41:26,334 --> 00:41:30,632
Well, yeah,
but not all at once.

490
00:41:30,633 --> 00:41:32,400
And what's comforting

491
00:41:32,401 --> 00:41:34,066
is the long-term memory
sometimes stays

492
00:41:34,067 --> 00:41:35,067
for quite a long time.

493
00:41:37,500 --> 00:41:40,599
Yeah, her long-term memory
seems quite intact.

494
00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:44,200
But when she mentioned that,
about the skunk lilies,

495
00:41:44,201 --> 00:41:47,300
it was all I could do not
to turn the truck around.

496
00:41:47,301 --> 00:41:53,699
What if this is just her
just being herself?

497
00:41:53,700 --> 00:41:56,234
She's far too young to--

498
00:41:57,567 --> 00:41:59,367
She is young.

499
00:41:59,368 --> 00:42:02,367
And it is hard.

500
00:42:02,368 --> 00:42:05,166
No doubt about that.

501
00:42:05,167 --> 00:42:07,301
A month is
a real long time.

502
00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:13,233
I mean, between
you and me, I don't know
about the policy myself.

503
00:42:13,234 --> 00:42:16,233
I think it makes it
easier for the staff
is what I think.

504
00:42:16,234 --> 00:42:20,368
Look. I'll give you
my pager number.

505
00:42:21,767 --> 00:42:23,433
You can call me
whenever you want.

506
00:42:23,434 --> 00:42:26,167
You can call me every day
if you feel like it.

507
00:42:29,468 --> 00:42:31,734
I don't know what to do.

508
00:42:33,500 --> 00:42:36,433
Mr. Andersson, your wife
wrote you this note,

509
00:42:36,434 --> 00:42:38,667
and she asked me
to pass it along.

510
00:42:48,734 --> 00:42:50,167
Okay.

511
00:42:56,267 --> 00:42:58,401
Thank you so much.

512
00:43:10,101 --> 00:43:12,600
[no audible dialogue]

513
00:43:23,234 --> 00:43:26,266
[Grant reading]
"Throughout much of
the thinking brain,

514
00:43:26,267 --> 00:43:31,567
gooey plaques now crowd
neurons from outside
the cell membranes."

515
00:43:33,401 --> 00:43:36,133
"And knotty tangles

516
00:43:36,134 --> 00:43:41,201
mangle microtubal transports
from inside the cells."

517
00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:54,234
"All told, tens of millions
of synapses dissolve away."

518
00:43:56,334 --> 00:43:59,367
"Because the structures
and substructures of the brain

519
00:43:59,368 --> 00:44:01,333
"are so highly specialized,

520
00:44:01,334 --> 00:44:05,433
"the precise location
of the neuronal loss

521
00:44:05,434 --> 00:44:11,334
determines
what specific abilities
will become impaired."

522
00:44:15,667 --> 00:44:20,467
"It is like a series
of circuit breakers

523
00:44:20,468 --> 00:44:25,334
in a large house,
flipping off one by one."

524
00:45:24,468 --> 00:45:26,333
That's a great-looking
coffee maker.

525
00:45:26,334 --> 00:45:28,401
I always meant
to get one of those.

526
00:45:30,234 --> 00:45:33,599
I saw they had them on sale
at Canadian Tire.

527
00:45:33,600 --> 00:45:37,166
They gave it to us,
my son and his wife.

528
00:45:37,167 --> 00:45:39,200
They live in Kamloops, B.C.

529
00:45:39,201 --> 00:45:42,699
They send us more stuff
than we can handle.

530
00:45:42,700 --> 00:45:46,700
Wouldn't hurt
if they spent the money
to come see us instead.

531
00:45:48,567 --> 00:45:51,100
I suppose they're busy
with their own lives.

532
00:45:51,101 --> 00:45:53,566
Not so busy they couldn't
go to Hawaii last year.

533
00:45:53,567 --> 00:45:55,033
I mean,
you could understand it

534
00:45:55,034 --> 00:45:58,166
if there was someone
in the family closer at hand,

535
00:45:58,167 --> 00:46:01,600
but, uh...
he's the only one.

536
00:46:05,468 --> 00:46:09,300
People do get lonely,

537
00:46:09,301 --> 00:46:12,633
especially when
they're deprived of seeing
someone they care about.

538
00:46:17,334 --> 00:46:19,234
Fiona, for instance.

539
00:46:22,201 --> 00:46:24,166
My wife.

540
00:46:24,167 --> 00:46:26,567
I thought you said
you went and visited her.

541
00:46:29,234 --> 00:46:31,300
I do.

542
00:46:31,301 --> 00:46:34,333
No, that's not it.

543
00:46:34,334 --> 00:46:36,266
[Kristy]
She's really settling in well.

544
00:46:36,267 --> 00:46:38,100
Good. Good.

545
00:46:38,101 --> 00:46:40,033
Looking forward to
seeing you tomorrow,
Mr. Andersson.

546
00:46:40,034 --> 00:46:42,300
Right. So I'll see you
tomorrow morning, then.

547
00:46:42,301 --> 00:46:45,334
Now, remember, she may
be a little surprised
to see you.

548
00:46:47,401 --> 00:46:49,133
Don't be shaken by that.

549
00:46:49,134 --> 00:46:51,333
Just-- She hasn't
seen you in a while.

550
00:46:51,334 --> 00:46:53,368
She's sort of
settled in here.

551
00:46:55,368 --> 00:46:56,767
[Grant]
I understand.

552
00:47:10,201 --> 00:47:14,200
There you are. I'll
walk you down to her.

553
00:47:14,201 --> 00:47:16,500
Wow. Narcissus
this early.

554
00:47:16,500 --> 00:47:18,699
You must have spent
a fortune.

555
00:47:18,700 --> 00:47:21,400
We brought it back here.
Hi, Mr. Andersson.

556
00:47:21,401 --> 00:47:23,367
It's great to see you.

557
00:47:23,368 --> 00:47:26,266
I'm gonna help you find
your sweater, Mrs. Albright.

558
00:47:26,267 --> 00:47:30,133
All right. Here we are.
There is her room,
right over there.

559
00:47:30,134 --> 00:47:32,200
You remember from last time
you were here, don't you?

560
00:47:32,201 --> 00:47:35,434
Her nameplate's
right on the door.
I'll leave you to it.

561
00:48:16,667 --> 00:48:20,066
There she is. Now you just
go over and say hello,

562
00:48:20,067 --> 00:48:24,133
and try not to startle her--
Remember, she may not--

563
00:48:24,134 --> 00:48:26,034
Well, just go ahead.

564
00:48:45,167 --> 00:48:48,500
Bridge.
Deadly serious.

565
00:48:48,500 --> 00:48:52,133
Quite rabid about it.

566
00:48:52,134 --> 00:48:55,266
I can remember being
like that at college
for a while.

567
00:48:55,267 --> 00:48:57,699
My friends and I
would cut class

568
00:48:57,700 --> 00:49:00,400
and sit
in the common room
and smoke

569
00:49:00,401 --> 00:49:02,666
and play like cutthroats.

570
00:49:02,667 --> 00:49:04,367
One's name was Phoebe.

571
00:49:04,368 --> 00:49:06,200
I don't remember
the others.

572
00:49:06,201 --> 00:49:07,532
Phoebe Hart.

573
00:49:07,533 --> 00:49:10,433
Oh, you knew her, too.

574
00:49:10,434 --> 00:49:13,300
Can I get you something?
A cup of tea?

575
00:49:13,301 --> 00:49:16,367
I'm afraid the coffee's
not up to much here.

576
00:49:16,368 --> 00:49:17,367
I don't drink tea.

577
00:49:17,368 --> 00:49:19,632
Oh.

578
00:49:19,633 --> 00:49:21,266
I brought you some flowers.

579
00:49:21,267 --> 00:49:24,333
I thought they might do
to brighten up your room.

580
00:49:24,334 --> 00:49:26,500
I went to your room,
but you weren't there.

581
00:49:26,500 --> 00:49:29,234
Well, no, I'm here.

582
00:49:32,067 --> 00:49:33,267
So you've made a new friend.

583
00:49:34,567 --> 00:49:37,233
Oh, that's just Aubrey.

584
00:49:37,234 --> 00:49:42,599
The funny thing is I knew
him years and years ago.

585
00:49:42,600 --> 00:49:44,133
He used to work in the store,

586
00:49:44,134 --> 00:49:48,166
the hardware store where
my grandpa used to shop.

587
00:49:48,167 --> 00:49:51,166
He and I were always
kidding around,

588
00:49:51,167 --> 00:49:54,400
but he never could get up
the nerve to ask me out.

589
00:49:54,401 --> 00:49:57,766
Until the very last weekend,
he took me to a ball game.

590
00:49:57,767 --> 00:50:02,666
But my grandpa showed up
to drive us home.

591
00:50:02,667 --> 00:50:06,200
I was up visiting
for the summer.

592
00:50:06,201 --> 00:50:09,333
Visiting my grandparents.

593
00:50:09,334 --> 00:50:11,434
They lived in a cottage
on a lake.

594
00:50:13,201 --> 00:50:16,166
Fiona, I know where
your grandparents lived.

595
00:50:16,167 --> 00:50:18,034
It's where we lived.
We live.

596
00:50:19,301 --> 00:50:20,700
Really?

597
00:50:22,600 --> 00:50:24,300
I'd better go back.

598
00:50:24,301 --> 00:50:26,733
He thinks he can't play
without me sitting there.

599
00:50:26,734 --> 00:50:29,999
It's silly. I hardly
know the game anymore.

600
00:50:30,000 --> 00:50:32,200
I'm afraid you'll have
to excuse me.

601
00:50:32,201 --> 00:50:33,167
Will you be through soon?

602
00:50:33,168 --> 00:50:35,166
We should be.
I mean, it depends.

603
00:50:35,167 --> 00:50:38,233
If you asked that grim-looking
lady over there nicely,

604
00:50:38,234 --> 00:50:40,401
she'll get you a cup of tea.

605
00:50:42,034 --> 00:50:43,632
No, I'm fine.
I can leave you, then?

606
00:50:43,633 --> 00:50:47,200
You can entertain yourself?
Must all seem strange to you.

607
00:50:47,201 --> 00:50:50,066
But you'll be surprised
how soon you get used to it.

608
00:50:50,067 --> 00:50:52,400
You'll get to know
who everybody is,

609
00:50:52,401 --> 00:50:56,999
except that some of them
are pretty well off
in the clouds, you know?

610
00:50:57,000 --> 00:51:02,134
Hmm. Can't expect them all
to get to know who you are.

611
00:52:21,067 --> 00:52:24,066
Hey, I've been thinking
of dying my hair.
What do you think?

612
00:52:24,067 --> 00:52:27,267
Do you think I'd look
good with red hair?

613
00:52:47,201 --> 00:52:50,100
You caught her at
sort of a bad moment,
involved in a game.

614
00:52:50,101 --> 00:52:52,266
She isn't even playing.

615
00:52:52,267 --> 00:52:54,532
Well, but her friend's
playing, Aubrey.

616
00:52:54,533 --> 00:52:56,033
Now, who is Aubrey?

617
00:52:56,034 --> 00:52:58,033
That's who he is,
Aubrey.

618
00:52:58,034 --> 00:52:59,500
You know, they get
these attachments.

619
00:52:59,500 --> 00:53:01,532
That kind of takes over
for a while.

620
00:53:01,533 --> 00:53:03,566
Best buddy kind of thing.

621
00:53:03,567 --> 00:53:05,101
Sort of a phase.

622
00:53:06,067 --> 00:53:08,034
Does she even know who I am?

623
00:53:09,500 --> 00:53:11,433
No, she might not.

624
00:53:11,434 --> 00:53:15,266
Not today, and then,
tomorrow you never know.

625
00:53:15,267 --> 00:53:18,233
Things change
back and forth
all the time.

626
00:53:18,234 --> 00:53:19,266
You'll see
the way it is

627
00:53:19,267 --> 00:53:21,133
once you get used
to coming here.

628
00:53:21,134 --> 00:53:22,766
You'll learn
not to take it
so personal.

629
00:53:22,767 --> 00:53:26,101
Learn to take it
day by day.

630
00:53:28,368 --> 00:53:31,134
[inaudible dialogue]

631
00:53:48,767 --> 00:53:50,666
Oh, I'm sorry.

632
00:53:50,667 --> 00:53:53,267
I'll have to go
and fix that now.

633
00:54:23,234 --> 00:54:25,500
[Man, TV]
Here's Yung Menenikenaha,

634
00:54:25,500 --> 00:54:29,300
desperately clinging
to his one-stroke lead.

635
00:54:29,301 --> 00:54:31,100
Here's the swing.

636
00:54:31,101 --> 00:54:33,033
It doesn't look good.

637
00:54:33,034 --> 00:54:35,433
Looks like he's pushed it
out to the right.

638
00:54:35,434 --> 00:54:37,433
It lands 25 feet
from the green.

639
00:54:37,434 --> 00:54:39,266
This must be disappointing.

640
00:54:39,267 --> 00:54:41,733
It doesn't look good
for Yung Menenikenaha.

641
00:54:41,734 --> 00:54:44,100
He was three strokes
on the happy side of par

642
00:54:44,101 --> 00:54:45,167
until these last three holes.

643
00:54:50,000 --> 00:54:53,766
Look at you,
Mr. Andersson.

644
00:54:53,767 --> 00:54:56,368
I think you might
be one of our most
frequent visitors.

645
00:55:05,468 --> 00:55:07,166
Hi, Fiona.

646
00:55:07,167 --> 00:55:09,166
Oh, you are persistent,
aren't you?

647
00:55:09,167 --> 00:55:11,200
I brought you some books.

648
00:55:11,201 --> 00:55:13,566
They don't seem to have
an awful lot around here.

649
00:55:13,567 --> 00:55:16,066
Letters from Iceland
by Auden.

650
00:55:16,067 --> 00:55:19,333
We always meant
to read that together,
didn't we?

651
00:55:19,334 --> 00:55:21,733
Do you think
it'd be possible
to talk alone?

652
00:55:21,734 --> 00:55:23,300
Well, I don't know.

653
00:55:23,301 --> 00:55:26,100
Um, Aubrey's card game
starts in a few minutes,

654
00:55:26,101 --> 00:55:27,766
and then we usually
go walking,

655
00:55:27,767 --> 00:55:29,367
and then he does
his drawing--

656
00:55:29,368 --> 00:55:32,666
Or perhaps you can find
a bit of time later on.

657
00:55:32,667 --> 00:55:34,200
Um, I'll stay here.

658
00:55:34,201 --> 00:55:36,100
Or I'll come back
in a few hours.

659
00:55:36,101 --> 00:55:38,500
Oh, you are persistent,
aren't you?

660
00:56:01,234 --> 00:56:03,133
[Man, TV]
Up comes Kapanen--
Boy, oh, boy!

661
00:56:03,134 --> 00:56:05,166
[Frank]
Here we are at the Spectrum
in Philadelphia.

662
00:56:05,167 --> 00:56:07,433
It's sudden-death overtime.
They're tied 2-2.

663
00:56:07,434 --> 00:56:09,133
Here are the Leafs again,
led by Andreychuk.

664
00:56:09,134 --> 00:56:10,367
He carries it
over the blue line,

665
00:56:10,368 --> 00:56:12,333
winds up a shot right on!

666
00:56:12,334 --> 00:56:14,233
The bounce, the rebound
comes back behind the net.

667
00:56:14,234 --> 00:56:15,532
McCabe couldn't get to it.

668
00:56:15,533 --> 00:56:17,100
It goes back
on the left wing

669
00:56:17,101 --> 00:56:19,532
and here come the Flyers
led by Roenick again.

670
00:56:19,533 --> 00:56:22,133
Roenick and Mitchell,
what a twosome
this two has been.

671
00:56:22,134 --> 00:56:23,500
A shot right on!
Oh, it just went wide.

672
00:56:23,500 --> 00:56:25,300
Go for it, Frank.
Over to the right side.

673
00:56:25,301 --> 00:56:26,599
Here we go again.
The Leafs again.

674
00:56:26,600 --> 00:56:29,133
Here's Sundin carrying it
up over the line.

675
00:56:29,134 --> 00:56:32,133
Can't get a shot away
and it's cleared away
by Philadelphia.

676
00:56:32,134 --> 00:56:34,333
A loose puck
grabbed by Philadelphia
over on the left wing--

677
00:56:34,334 --> 00:56:37,200
I just came down to say
Aubrey is having his nap

678
00:56:37,201 --> 00:56:39,400
if you'd like to, um, talk.

679
00:56:39,401 --> 00:56:41,333
Oh, sure.

680
00:56:41,334 --> 00:56:43,400
Can we go somewhere
a little more private?

681
00:56:43,401 --> 00:56:45,100
[Frank]
...the side with Mitchell.
He shoots, he scores!

682
00:56:45,101 --> 00:56:46,500
If-- If you'd like.

683
00:56:46,500 --> 00:56:48,133
[Frank]
And Philly wins this series

684
00:56:48,134 --> 00:56:49,333
by a score of 3-2.

685
00:56:49,334 --> 00:56:51,266
That's it this season
for the Leafs.

686
00:56:51,267 --> 00:56:53,500
Look at Phil Hitchcock.
Is he a happy coach.

687
00:56:53,500 --> 00:56:55,433
Philadelphia wins 3-2.

688
00:56:55,434 --> 00:56:57,301
The game is over
in sudden-death overtime.

689
00:57:18,334 --> 00:57:20,699
Y-You said you had
some books for me?

690
00:57:20,700 --> 00:57:22,301
This.

691
00:57:24,134 --> 00:57:26,033
Letters from Iceland.

692
00:57:26,034 --> 00:57:29,632
Yes, yes.
You said by Auden.

693
00:57:29,633 --> 00:57:32,100
Yes. That's right.

694
00:57:32,101 --> 00:57:35,368
Now...where is Iceland?

695
00:57:38,633 --> 00:57:43,166
Well, Iceland
is in the middle
of the Atlantic.

696
00:57:43,167 --> 00:57:45,500
It's an island.

697
00:57:47,201 --> 00:57:49,433
Youngest country
in the world.

698
00:57:49,434 --> 00:57:51,733
It's constantly erupting.

699
00:57:51,734 --> 00:57:55,333
Volcanoes, earthquakes.

700
00:57:55,334 --> 00:57:59,368
It's always
shaking itself off.

701
00:58:00,533 --> 00:58:03,999
Wouldn't it be nice to come
from a young country?

702
00:58:04,000 --> 00:58:06,266
You do.
That's where you're from.

703
00:58:06,267 --> 00:58:09,599
That's where
your people are from.

704
00:58:09,600 --> 00:58:14,233
They immigrated here
in the late 1800s.

705
00:58:14,234 --> 00:58:16,999
But that's where
you're from, Fiona.

706
00:58:17,000 --> 00:58:22,333
And I teach-- Well, I taught
the myths from there.

707
00:58:22,334 --> 00:58:23,500
Norse mythology.

708
00:58:23,500 --> 00:58:25,233
I-I must have
been there, then.

709
00:58:25,234 --> 00:58:27,033
Have I been there?

710
00:58:27,034 --> 00:58:28,100
[sniffs]

711
00:58:28,101 --> 00:58:29,167
No.

712
00:58:31,067 --> 00:58:32,467
Oh.

713
00:58:32,468 --> 00:58:35,100
Why not?
Wasn't I curious?

714
00:58:35,101 --> 00:58:38,200
You were very curious.

715
00:58:38,201 --> 00:58:40,699
Very curious.

716
00:58:40,700 --> 00:58:44,733
You always said
there ought to be one place

717
00:58:44,734 --> 00:58:47,367
that you knew about
and you thought about

718
00:58:47,368 --> 00:58:49,333
and maybe even longed for,

719
00:58:49,334 --> 00:58:51,401
but you did never did
get to see.

720
00:58:58,034 --> 00:59:00,699
Did I say that?

721
00:59:00,700 --> 00:59:02,633
Yes, you said that.

722
00:59:17,434 --> 00:59:19,666
Well, I'd better
go and see to Aubrey.

723
00:59:19,667 --> 00:59:22,300
He'll be wanting a little
walk around, I suppose.

724
00:59:22,301 --> 00:59:23,400
It was nice chatting.

725
00:59:23,401 --> 00:59:26,233
You'll be back again
tomorrow, I suppose?

726
00:59:26,234 --> 00:59:30,066
Fiona, what are you doing--

727
00:59:30,067 --> 00:59:31,401
What are you doing
with Aubrey?

728
00:59:34,700 --> 00:59:38,400
He doesn't confuse me.

729
00:59:38,401 --> 00:59:41,034
He doesn't confuse me
at all.

730
00:59:45,301 --> 00:59:48,500
Well,
it's been nice chatting.

731
00:59:48,500 --> 00:59:51,301
I'll see you again
tomorrow, I suppose.

732
00:59:54,101 --> 00:59:58,434
[door opens, closes]

733
01:00:11,167 --> 01:00:14,033
[Grant]
These affections
between residents,

734
01:00:14,034 --> 01:00:15,200
do they ever go too far?

735
01:00:15,201 --> 01:00:16,500
[Kristy chuckles]

736
01:00:16,500 --> 01:00:18,233
Well, that depends
on what you mean.

737
01:00:18,234 --> 01:00:21,033
The problem we have here,
it's funny.

738
01:00:21,034 --> 01:00:22,666
It's actually
often the ones

739
01:00:22,667 --> 01:00:25,166
who haven't been friendly
with each other at all.

740
01:00:25,167 --> 01:00:26,666
I mean, they maybe
don't even know each other

741
01:00:26,667 --> 01:00:29,367
beyond knowing, like,
is it a man or is it a woman?

742
01:00:29,368 --> 01:00:30,467
And you'd think
it'd be the old guys

743
01:00:30,468 --> 01:00:32,500
trying to crawl in bed
with the old ladies,

744
01:00:32,500 --> 01:00:34,333
but half the time
it's the other way around.

745
01:00:34,334 --> 01:00:37,233
It's the old ladies
going after the old men.

746
01:00:37,234 --> 01:00:39,166
It could be they aren't
so worn out.

747
01:00:39,167 --> 01:00:41,234
[chuckling]

748
01:00:46,401 --> 01:00:51,100
Now don't get me wrong.
I don't mean Fiona.

749
01:00:51,101 --> 01:00:53,233
Fiona is a lady.

750
01:00:53,234 --> 01:00:55,600
She's a real lady.

751
01:00:57,134 --> 01:01:00,566
I sometimes wonder--

752
01:01:00,567 --> 01:01:02,633
You wonder what?

753
01:01:05,201 --> 01:01:10,467
I wonder if she isn't
putting on some kind
of...charade.

754
01:01:10,468 --> 01:01:12,367
A what?

755
01:01:12,368 --> 01:01:15,400
Some kind of act.

756
01:01:15,401 --> 01:01:18,633
Maybe some kind of punishment.

757
01:01:22,267 --> 01:01:24,267
Why would she do that?

758
01:01:31,000 --> 01:01:32,500
Oh.

759
01:02:01,667 --> 01:02:03,632
[Fiona]
Are you getting tired?

760
01:02:03,633 --> 01:02:05,201
[Aubrey]
No.
[Fiona]
Are you certain--

761
01:02:12,201 --> 01:02:14,532
Excuse me.

762
01:02:14,533 --> 01:02:16,699
Yes, Mr. Andersson?

763
01:02:16,700 --> 01:02:19,333
How can I help you?

764
01:02:19,334 --> 01:02:21,133
Fiona's wearing
someone else's sweater.

765
01:02:21,134 --> 01:02:23,566
[Madeleine]
Well, it's pretty,
isn't it?

766
01:02:23,567 --> 01:02:25,133
No, it's not pretty.
It's tacky.

767
01:02:25,134 --> 01:02:28,166
She would never wear it.
Well, I'll tell you what.

768
01:02:28,167 --> 01:02:29,632
You can talk
to the duty attendant

769
01:02:29,633 --> 01:02:31,400
on Mrs. Andersson's
wing.

770
01:02:31,401 --> 01:02:33,632
Boy, it's a marvel, really,

771
01:02:33,633 --> 01:02:36,167
the way she's getting him up
and out of that chair.

772
01:02:43,034 --> 01:02:44,434
Can you manage?

773
01:02:47,167 --> 01:02:48,532
Will you be all right?

774
01:02:48,533 --> 01:02:50,500
I'll
be back in a second.

775
01:02:53,267 --> 01:02:55,666
Fiona,
I'm your husband.

776
01:02:55,667 --> 01:02:57,532
Fiona, it's Grant.

777
01:02:57,533 --> 01:03:00,033
We've been married
for 45 years.

778
01:03:00,034 --> 01:03:03,433
Look at me, Fiona.
That is not your sweater.

779
01:03:03,434 --> 01:03:05,333
We had a good life
together.

780
01:03:05,334 --> 01:03:08,266
Those are your words,
Fiona, not mine.

781
01:03:08,267 --> 01:03:10,300
That is not your sweater.

782
01:03:10,301 --> 01:03:13,434
[Aubrey groaning]

783
01:03:16,334 --> 01:03:18,599
It's all right.

784
01:03:18,600 --> 01:03:21,467
It's all right.
It's all right.

785
01:03:21,468 --> 01:03:23,400
I'm coming
straight back.

786
01:03:23,401 --> 01:03:24,566
I'm coming
straight back.

787
01:03:24,567 --> 01:03:26,767
It's going to be
all right.

788
01:03:45,368 --> 01:03:48,468
I'll see you again
tomorrow, I suppose.

789
01:03:52,368 --> 01:03:54,267
Please...

790
01:03:55,734 --> 01:03:56,667
don't.

791
01:03:59,533 --> 01:04:02,500
Please, please don't.

792
01:04:06,000 --> 01:04:08,567
You're very persistent,
aren't you?

793
01:04:15,000 --> 01:04:18,367
I wish I--

794
01:04:18,368 --> 01:04:20,101
Wish I knew what--

795
01:04:25,633 --> 01:04:29,200
[sniffles]

796
01:04:29,201 --> 01:04:32,000
We'll see you again
tomorrow, I suppose.

797
01:05:15,267 --> 01:05:18,300
You're not doing
too well, are you?

798
01:05:18,301 --> 01:05:19,999
Well, no big surprise.

799
01:05:20,000 --> 01:05:23,167
What we're handling
isn't so easy.

800
01:05:25,334 --> 01:05:26,699
I thought
when I married,

801
01:05:26,700 --> 01:05:30,333
I'd be with someone
to the final stretch.

802
01:05:30,334 --> 01:05:33,500
I'm betting
you thought the same.

803
01:05:33,500 --> 01:05:35,699
Well, didn't work out.

804
01:05:35,700 --> 01:05:39,566
[Aubrey groaning]

805
01:05:39,567 --> 01:05:44,233
So, I, uh, think
you're here for a reason.

806
01:05:44,234 --> 01:05:47,699
I'm the kind of person
you can say things
flat out to, so shoot.

807
01:05:47,700 --> 01:05:51,699
[sigh]

808
01:05:51,700 --> 01:05:55,033
I wonder if you would
consider taking Aubrey
back to Meadowlake,

809
01:05:55,034 --> 01:05:58,066
maybe just for a visit.

810
01:05:58,067 --> 01:06:01,467
Or I suppose
I could take Aubrey
out there myself.

811
01:06:01,468 --> 01:06:03,201
I wouldn't mind that at all.

812
01:06:05,500 --> 01:06:07,201
[sigh]

813
01:06:08,301 --> 01:06:10,000
Homemade.

814
01:06:17,234 --> 01:06:18,267
Really?

815
01:06:21,234 --> 01:06:25,100
No. No, I can't do that.

816
01:06:25,101 --> 01:06:27,233
And the reason is
I don't want to upset him.

817
01:06:27,234 --> 01:06:28,733
But wouldn't he understand
it was just a visit?

818
01:06:28,734 --> 01:06:31,599
He understands everything.

819
01:06:31,600 --> 01:06:34,200
Now, if I go
to all that trouble,

820
01:06:34,201 --> 01:06:36,766
I'd prefer to take him
someplace that'd be
more fun, hmm?

821
01:06:36,767 --> 01:06:39,367
It would make more sense
to take him to the mall

822
01:06:39,368 --> 01:06:40,733
where there are kids
and whatnot.

823
01:06:40,734 --> 01:06:43,233
And then I'd have to
get him all ready,

824
01:06:43,234 --> 01:06:44,733
maneuver him
into the car.

825
01:06:44,734 --> 01:06:47,200
He's a big man.
He's not that easy
to manage.

826
01:06:47,201 --> 01:06:49,300
Even if I agreed to do it?

827
01:06:49,301 --> 01:06:50,566
You couldn't do it.
You don't know him.

828
01:06:50,567 --> 01:06:52,200
You couldn't manage him.

829
01:06:52,201 --> 01:06:54,266
And he wouldn't stand
your doing for him.

830
01:06:54,267 --> 01:06:59,100
And after all that,
what would he get
out of it?

831
01:06:59,101 --> 01:07:00,234
Uh...

832
01:07:01,434 --> 01:07:03,034
Hmm.

833
01:07:22,368 --> 01:07:23,766
Smoke?

834
01:07:23,767 --> 01:07:26,133
No. No, thanks.

835
01:07:26,134 --> 01:07:28,266
What, did you never,
or did you quit?

836
01:07:28,267 --> 01:07:29,532
I quit.

837
01:07:29,533 --> 01:07:30,766
How long ago?

838
01:07:30,767 --> 01:07:35,532
Oh, 30 years,
maybe more.

839
01:07:35,533 --> 01:07:37,167
I quit quitting.

840
01:07:39,468 --> 01:07:42,434
Just made a resolution
to quit quitting,
that's all.

841
01:07:44,101 --> 01:07:47,267
So your wife's
depressed, huh?

842
01:07:48,234 --> 01:07:50,433
What's her name again?
I forget.

843
01:07:50,434 --> 01:07:52,166
Fiona.

844
01:07:52,167 --> 01:07:54,433
[Kristy]
And how old were you
when you met?

845
01:07:54,434 --> 01:07:56,532
She was 18.

846
01:07:56,533 --> 01:07:59,300
Holy, that's pretty young
to get married, eh?

847
01:07:59,301 --> 01:08:01,000
[chuckling]

848
01:08:03,401 --> 01:08:04,733
Wasn't my idea.

849
01:08:04,734 --> 01:08:07,266
You mean
she proposed to you?

850
01:08:07,267 --> 01:08:08,999
Well, that's lovely,
that's what I think.

851
01:08:09,000 --> 01:08:09,767
How'd she do it?

852
01:08:09,768 --> 01:08:12,433
She hadn't planned it
necessarily.

853
01:08:12,434 --> 01:08:16,266
We were in Tobermory
waiting for the ferry
to Manitoulin,

854
01:08:16,267 --> 01:08:19,166
and it was miserable
and rainy,

855
01:08:19,167 --> 01:08:23,033
and she was in a good mood.

856
01:08:23,034 --> 01:08:25,033
She didn't want any part
of my sour mood.

857
01:08:25,034 --> 01:08:27,433
[chuckles]
And what'd she do,
what'd she say?

858
01:08:27,434 --> 01:08:32,300
Well, she said,
"Do you think it'd be fun--

859
01:08:32,301 --> 01:08:36,133
Do you think it'd be fun
if we got married?"

860
01:08:36,134 --> 01:08:37,632
And what did you say?

861
01:08:37,633 --> 01:08:39,233
I took her up on it.

862
01:08:39,234 --> 01:08:41,101
I shouted yes.

863
01:08:45,767 --> 01:08:48,434
I never wanted
to be away from her.

864
01:08:50,600 --> 01:08:53,067
She had the spark of life.

865
01:08:55,134 --> 01:08:57,200
[Kristy]
You know, nothing
can take away

866
01:08:57,201 --> 01:09:01,599
what's happened to you
and what you've experienced.

867
01:09:01,600 --> 01:09:03,300
I don't think so, anyway.

868
01:09:03,301 --> 01:09:08,599
Even if it goes away somehow,
it's still there.

869
01:09:08,600 --> 01:09:10,734
It's still what you are.

870
01:09:12,700 --> 01:09:14,333
[Grant]
It's curious.

871
01:09:14,334 --> 01:09:15,467
What's curious?

872
01:09:15,468 --> 01:09:19,066
All of that
"madly in love" business.

873
01:09:19,067 --> 01:09:20,532
The beginning.

874
01:09:20,533 --> 01:09:26,234
I hear myself tell the story,
and it all sounds so crucial.

875
01:09:28,067 --> 01:09:29,766
I suppose it is.

876
01:09:29,767 --> 01:09:32,233
But compared to what
we ended up with,

877
01:09:32,234 --> 01:09:34,500
until recently...

878
01:09:36,468 --> 01:09:40,267
all of that seems
so superficial somehow.

879
01:09:42,500 --> 01:09:45,401
[chatter,
plates clinking]

880
01:10:18,434 --> 01:10:22,133
♪ [heavy metal]

881
01:10:22,134 --> 01:10:25,766
Not such a fun place
to visit, eh?

882
01:10:25,767 --> 01:10:27,100
Excuse me?

883
01:10:27,101 --> 01:10:30,566
Not such a fun place
to visit.

884
01:10:30,567 --> 01:10:32,201
Fucking depressing.

885
01:10:34,234 --> 01:10:35,300
No offense.

886
01:10:35,301 --> 01:10:36,401
None taken.

887
01:10:38,401 --> 01:10:41,699
No one came
to visit you, huh?

888
01:10:41,700 --> 01:10:43,666
That must suck huge.

889
01:10:43,667 --> 01:10:47,266
Well, it would suck huge,
but I don't live here.

890
01:10:47,267 --> 01:10:49,433
I'm just visiting someone.

891
01:10:49,434 --> 01:10:51,733
Who? Which one?

892
01:10:51,734 --> 01:10:55,166
Beautiful woman
with the shock of hair.

893
01:10:55,167 --> 01:10:56,433
The one sitting
with her husband?

894
01:10:56,434 --> 01:10:59,233
You might say that.
Why wouldn't you?

895
01:10:59,234 --> 01:11:01,301
I wouldn't say that
because I'm her husband.

896
01:11:03,301 --> 01:11:06,101
So why aren't you
sitting with her, then?

897
01:11:09,167 --> 01:11:12,500
Just learned to give her
some space.

898
01:11:12,500 --> 01:11:14,999
She's in love with that man
she's sitting with.

899
01:11:15,000 --> 01:11:17,300
I don't like to disturb her.

900
01:11:17,301 --> 01:11:19,766
I just like to see her,
I suppose.

901
01:11:19,767 --> 01:11:23,301
Make sure she's
doing well, you know?

902
01:11:26,368 --> 01:11:29,334
I suppose that must seem
rather pathetic.

903
01:11:31,134 --> 01:11:33,468
I should be so lucky.

904
01:11:39,600 --> 01:11:41,134
Come on.

905
01:11:42,767 --> 01:11:44,334
[chuckles]

906
01:12:06,067 --> 01:12:07,666
She's not here.

907
01:12:07,667 --> 01:12:09,433
She's sick.

908
01:12:09,434 --> 01:12:12,133
He's not here, either.

909
01:12:12,134 --> 01:12:14,201
[laughing]

910
01:12:30,234 --> 01:12:32,101
[knocking]

911
01:12:40,401 --> 01:12:44,166
I brought you a book.

912
01:12:44,167 --> 01:12:46,367
It's all about Iceland.

913
01:12:46,368 --> 01:12:48,766
Thought you might like
to take a look at it.

914
01:12:48,767 --> 01:12:51,066
Why, thank you.

915
01:12:51,067 --> 01:12:52,166
[crying]

916
01:12:52,167 --> 01:12:55,200
Oh, what is it,
dear heart?

917
01:12:55,201 --> 01:12:58,066
[Aubrey sniffling]
What is it?
Oh, I see.

918
01:12:58,067 --> 01:13:00,367
Here. Here.
Here.

919
01:13:00,368 --> 01:13:02,667
Here, here, yes.

920
01:13:05,434 --> 01:13:08,400
Do you by any chance have
any influence around here?

921
01:13:08,401 --> 01:13:12,267
I've seen you
talking to them.

922
01:13:14,267 --> 01:13:16,301
Oh.

923
01:13:19,167 --> 01:13:20,300
We'll get to see each other.

924
01:13:20,301 --> 01:13:24,166
[groans]
You'll see.
We have to.

925
01:13:24,167 --> 01:13:27,200
I'll come and see you,

926
01:13:27,201 --> 01:13:29,700
and you'll come
and see me.

927
01:13:36,633 --> 01:13:38,200
You know,
I just wish his wife

928
01:13:38,201 --> 01:13:39,733
would hurry up
and get here.

929
01:13:39,734 --> 01:13:41,666
I wish she'd
get him out of here

930
01:13:41,667 --> 01:13:43,166
and cut the agony
short.

931
01:13:43,167 --> 01:13:44,599
Should I stay?

932
01:13:44,600 --> 01:13:47,434
Don't worry.
She's not sick,
you know.

933
01:13:49,567 --> 01:13:51,300
To keep her company.

934
01:13:51,301 --> 01:13:54,033
Well, they have to learn
to get over these things
by themselves.

935
01:13:54,034 --> 01:13:57,468
They've got short memories,
and that's not always so bad.

936
01:14:00,167 --> 01:14:01,334
Okay?

937
01:14:27,267 --> 01:14:31,400
[Woman]
Fiona. Her name is Fiona.

938
01:14:31,401 --> 01:14:32,766
And what's yours?

939
01:14:32,767 --> 01:14:36,066
I don't think
I was ever told that.

940
01:14:36,067 --> 01:14:38,699
Oh, I'm sorry.
It's Grant.

941
01:14:38,700 --> 01:14:40,699
Hmm.

942
01:14:40,700 --> 01:14:43,133
Hello, Grant.

943
01:14:43,134 --> 01:14:45,201
I'm Marian.

944
01:14:48,734 --> 01:14:52,033
Well, now that we know
each other's name,

945
01:14:52,034 --> 01:14:56,233
I can
tell you straight out
what I'm thinking.

946
01:14:56,234 --> 01:15:01,300
I don't know if he's still
so stuck on seeing your--

947
01:15:01,301 --> 01:15:02,433
seeing Fiona.

948
01:15:02,434 --> 01:15:05,300
I don't ask him,
he doesn't tell me.

949
01:15:05,301 --> 01:15:08,632
But I don't feel like
putting him back in there

950
01:15:08,633 --> 01:15:11,233
in case it turns out
to be more than that.

951
01:15:11,234 --> 01:15:14,100
I don't want him
getting hard to handle.

952
01:15:14,101 --> 01:15:17,666
I don't have any help.
It's just me here.

953
01:15:17,667 --> 01:15:19,133
I'm it.

954
01:15:19,134 --> 01:15:20,433
It is very hard for you.

955
01:15:20,434 --> 01:15:23,333
Did-- Did you ever consider
his going in there for good?

956
01:15:23,334 --> 01:15:26,367
No. I'm keeping him
right here.

957
01:15:26,368 --> 01:15:29,066
Well, that's very good
and noble of you.

958
01:15:29,067 --> 01:15:30,367
Oh, you think so?

959
01:15:30,368 --> 01:15:34,433
Well, noble is not
what I'm thinking about.

960
01:15:34,434 --> 01:15:36,433
No, but it isn't easy.

961
01:15:36,434 --> 01:15:38,766
No, it isn't,
but I don't have a choice.

962
01:15:38,767 --> 01:15:42,599
If I pay to put him in there,
I won't hold on to the house,

963
01:15:42,600 --> 01:15:45,134
and the house
is the only thing
we own outright.

964
01:15:47,767 --> 01:15:52,066
And it means a lot to me,
this house does.

965
01:15:52,067 --> 01:15:53,567
It's very nice.

966
01:15:54,533 --> 01:15:57,632
Well, I guess it's all right.

967
01:15:57,633 --> 01:16:01,333
I've done a lot on it,
fixing it up, keeping it up.

968
01:16:01,334 --> 01:16:03,367
Yes, I can see
that you have-- you do.

969
01:16:03,368 --> 01:16:05,266
I don't want to lose it.
No.

970
01:16:05,267 --> 01:16:07,500
I'm not going to lose it.
I see your point.

971
01:16:07,500 --> 01:16:09,500
See, the company
left us high and dry.

972
01:16:09,500 --> 01:16:15,533
In the end, they said
he owed them money.

973
01:16:17,134 --> 01:16:21,999
What do I think?
Well, he was pretty stupid.

974
01:16:22,000 --> 01:16:23,133
[sigh]

975
01:16:23,134 --> 01:16:27,233
But I'm not supposed
to ask, so I shut up.

976
01:16:27,234 --> 01:16:28,699
You've been married, huh?

977
01:16:28,700 --> 01:16:31,600
I mean, you are married.
You know what it's like.

978
01:16:33,368 --> 01:16:35,566
And then, in the middle
of all this,

979
01:16:35,567 --> 01:16:40,567
he gets sick from this virus,
and he goes into a coma.

980
01:16:45,567 --> 01:16:50,368
So that pretty much
takes him off the hook, hmm?

981
01:16:52,633 --> 01:16:54,234
It's bad luck.

982
01:16:55,368 --> 01:16:58,234
It's, no, just life.

983
01:17:02,000 --> 01:17:03,567
Can't beat life.

984
01:17:05,267 --> 01:17:06,600
No.

985
01:17:10,734 --> 01:17:12,201
[knocking at door]

986
01:17:18,468 --> 01:17:21,067
Oh. Hello.

987
01:18:02,700 --> 01:18:04,434
Perhaps you'd like me
to read to you.

988
01:18:06,567 --> 01:18:08,767
I don't have any books.

989
01:18:12,267 --> 01:18:13,667
Oh, there are some.

990
01:18:16,301 --> 01:18:18,368
Letters from Iceland.

991
01:18:27,600 --> 01:18:30,266
"Isn't it true,
however far we've wandered

992
01:18:30,267 --> 01:18:33,100
"into our provinces
of persecution,

993
01:18:33,101 --> 01:18:37,266
"where our regrets accuse,
we keep returning

994
01:18:37,267 --> 01:18:39,367
"back to the common faith

995
01:18:39,368 --> 01:18:41,566
"from which
we've all dissented,

996
01:18:41,567 --> 01:18:45,566
"back to the hands,
the feet, the faces?

997
01:18:45,567 --> 01:18:49,300
"Children are always there
and take the hands,

998
01:18:49,301 --> 01:18:51,266
"even when they
are most terrified.

999
01:18:51,267 --> 01:18:55,500
"Those in love cannot
make up their minds
to go or stay.

1000
01:18:55,500 --> 01:18:59,066
"Artist and doctor
return most often.

1001
01:18:59,067 --> 01:19:02,300
"Only the mad will never,
never come back.

1002
01:19:02,301 --> 01:19:05,133
"For doctors keep
on worrying while away,

1003
01:19:05,134 --> 01:19:10,033
"in case their skill
is suffering and deserted.

1004
01:19:10,034 --> 01:19:13,999
"Lovers have lived so long
with giants and elves,

1005
01:19:14,000 --> 01:19:17,566
"they want belief again
in their own size.

1006
01:19:17,567 --> 01:19:20,632
"And the artist prays
ever so gently,

1007
01:19:20,633 --> 01:19:24,367
"'Let me find pure
all that can happen.

1008
01:19:24,368 --> 01:19:27,599
"'Only uniqueness is success.

1009
01:19:27,600 --> 01:19:32,166
"'For instance,
let me perceive
the images of history.

1010
01:19:32,167 --> 01:19:36,233
"'All that I push away
with doubt and travel,

1011
01:19:36,234 --> 01:19:40,300
today's and yesterday's alike,
like bodies."

1012
01:19:40,301 --> 01:19:43,300
[George W. Bush]
To all the men and women of
the United States Armed Forces

1013
01:19:43,301 --> 01:19:45,632
now in the Middle East,
the peace of a troubled world

1014
01:19:45,633 --> 01:19:48,066
and the hopes
of an oppressed people

1015
01:19:48,067 --> 01:19:51,300
now depend on you.

1016
01:19:51,301 --> 01:19:53,133
How could they forget Vietnam?

1017
01:19:53,134 --> 01:19:55,500
[Woman]
The air strike started again
at 5 A.M. this morning

1018
01:19:55,500 --> 01:19:57,500
and lasted for three hours.

1019
01:19:57,500 --> 01:19:59,367
Roadside explosions
have killed

1020
01:19:59,368 --> 01:20:02,734
eight Iraqi civilians
and one U.S. soldier.

1021
01:20:04,267 --> 01:20:06,000
Hmm.
Hmm.

1022
01:20:12,301 --> 01:20:13,401
Here you go.

1023
01:20:14,600 --> 01:20:17,734
Next time you do it,
just go pick it up, okay?

1024
01:20:23,667 --> 01:20:26,400
Her muscles
are deteriorating.

1025
01:20:26,401 --> 01:20:27,400
If she doesn't
improve soon,

1026
01:20:27,401 --> 01:20:30,599
we're going to have to
put her on a walker.

1027
01:20:30,600 --> 01:20:32,133
I keep trying
to get her walking,

1028
01:20:32,134 --> 01:20:34,200
but she doesn't seem
to want to go anywhere.

1029
01:20:34,201 --> 01:20:38,033
But, you know,
once they get on a walker,
they start to depend on it,

1030
01:20:38,034 --> 01:20:40,100
and then they don't want
to walk much anymore,

1031
01:20:40,101 --> 01:20:42,733
just get wherever it is
they have to go.

1032
01:20:42,734 --> 01:20:45,100
You're going to have to
work at her harder.

1033
01:20:45,101 --> 01:20:47,200
Try and encourage her.

1034
01:20:47,201 --> 01:20:48,633
Sorry.

1035
01:20:54,301 --> 01:20:56,167
Here you go.

1036
01:21:08,134 --> 01:21:10,233
Mrs. Andersson.

1037
01:21:10,234 --> 01:21:13,034
How would you like
to go on a field trip?

1038
01:21:55,267 --> 01:21:58,533
They've kept it
so like it was.

1039
01:22:01,000 --> 01:22:03,433
Who has?

1040
01:22:03,434 --> 01:22:06,034
The people who live here.

1041
01:23:15,734 --> 01:23:18,067
But everything...

1042
01:23:24,334 --> 01:23:27,533
Everything
just reminds me of him.

1043
01:23:29,201 --> 01:23:33,266
It wasn't enough,
I suppose.

1044
01:23:33,267 --> 01:23:35,301
Who, Fiona?

1045
01:23:36,667 --> 01:23:39,301
Who does everything
remind you of?

1046
01:23:58,334 --> 01:24:02,167
I'd like to go home now,
if you don't mind.

1047
01:24:07,134 --> 01:24:09,033
[Madeleine]
Now, as you know,

1048
01:24:09,034 --> 01:24:12,200
we don't do extended care
on the first floor.

1049
01:24:12,201 --> 01:24:16,266
I mean, we do it temporarily
if someone isn't feeling well.

1050
01:24:16,267 --> 01:24:19,766
But if they progress
too far,

1051
01:24:19,767 --> 01:24:24,000
we have to consider
moving upstairs.

1052
01:24:25,267 --> 01:24:27,333
[sigh]

1053
01:24:27,334 --> 01:24:30,300
Do you happen to have
Aubrey's address?

1054
01:24:30,301 --> 01:24:32,000
I'm sorry?

1055
01:24:35,000 --> 01:24:38,632
Aubrey and his wife.

1056
01:24:38,633 --> 01:24:41,167
Where do they live?

1057
01:24:58,134 --> 01:24:59,532
[Marian]
Well, it was
probably a mistake

1058
01:24:59,533 --> 01:25:02,133
putting him there
in the first place,

1059
01:25:02,134 --> 01:25:04,333
but I wasn't going
to get another chance

1060
01:25:04,334 --> 01:25:07,400
to get away,
so I took it.

1061
01:25:07,401 --> 01:25:08,633
Well, so...

1062
01:25:10,434 --> 01:25:12,334
[chuckles]
Now I know better.

1063
01:25:15,734 --> 01:25:18,266
Did your husband ever
work in a hardware store

1064
01:25:18,267 --> 01:25:20,467
in the summers
when he was going to school?

1065
01:25:20,468 --> 01:25:24,300
No, I never heard
about that.

1066
01:25:24,301 --> 01:25:26,167
But I wasn't raised here.

1067
01:25:27,600 --> 01:25:31,134
No. I didn't think so.

1068
01:25:38,267 --> 01:25:41,666
Thank you very much
for your time, Miriam.

1069
01:25:41,667 --> 01:25:45,300
It's Marian.

1070
01:25:45,301 --> 01:25:46,468
Sorry.

1071
01:25:54,201 --> 01:25:56,200
[sigh]

1072
01:25:56,201 --> 01:25:58,334
What a jerk.

1073
01:26:04,401 --> 01:26:05,368
Hmm.

1074
01:26:08,000 --> 01:26:10,134
[car engine starts]

1075
01:26:17,767 --> 01:26:19,766
Yeah, maybe someone
could just drop in on her,

1076
01:26:19,767 --> 01:26:21,300
like, if the nurse
is around.

1077
01:26:21,301 --> 01:26:23,699
All right.

1078
01:26:23,700 --> 01:26:25,500
No, I don't think
there's much to it,

1079
01:26:25,500 --> 01:26:27,367
but I'd like you
to call me back.

1080
01:26:27,368 --> 01:26:29,266
Okay.

1081
01:26:29,267 --> 01:26:31,599
Thanks a lot. Bye-bye.

1082
01:26:31,600 --> 01:26:33,233
Hey.
Hi.

1083
01:26:33,234 --> 01:26:34,766
[punching keypad]

1084
01:26:34,767 --> 01:26:38,200
Uh...

1085
01:26:38,201 --> 01:26:42,632
I think I want to ask you
about the second floor,

1086
01:26:42,633 --> 01:26:46,200
just to know
a little more about it.

1087
01:26:46,201 --> 01:26:48,301
Well, it's for people
who've really lost it.

1088
01:26:55,600 --> 01:26:58,300
What do they do, then?

1089
01:26:58,301 --> 01:27:03,100
What happens after that?
After they've...lost it?

1090
01:27:03,101 --> 01:27:05,200
You don't really
want to know.

1091
01:27:05,201 --> 01:27:07,266
But, you know,
sometimes they get it back.

1092
01:27:07,267 --> 01:27:10,200
They go into their room
for a year, they don't
know you from Adam,

1093
01:27:10,201 --> 01:27:12,433
and then one day,
it's, "Oh, hi.
When are we going home?"

1094
01:27:12,434 --> 01:27:15,033
I mean, all of a sudden,
they're back to normal.

1095
01:27:15,034 --> 01:27:16,766
But it doesn't
last for long.

1096
01:27:16,767 --> 01:27:18,566
You think,
"Oh, wow, back to normal,"

1097
01:27:18,567 --> 01:27:20,367
and then they're gone again--

1098
01:27:20,368 --> 01:27:22,301
[snaps fingers]
like so.

1099
01:27:25,201 --> 01:27:28,300
I haven't even asked you
about yourself.

1100
01:27:28,301 --> 01:27:29,699
You married?

1101
01:27:29,700 --> 01:27:33,599
Well, technically,
yeah, I guess.

1102
01:27:33,600 --> 01:27:35,666
Got three kids.

1103
01:27:35,667 --> 01:27:38,266
Their dad lives
in Alberta, I think.

1104
01:27:38,267 --> 01:27:40,467
He's making it rich, maybe.
I wouldn't know.

1105
01:27:40,468 --> 01:27:43,100
Must be quite a struggle.

1106
01:27:43,101 --> 01:27:47,033
It, uh...knocks the wind
out of you every now and then,

1107
01:27:47,034 --> 01:27:50,301
but you just pick yourself
back up like everyone else.

1108
01:27:52,167 --> 01:27:56,066
I suppose our lives
must seem easy to you.

1109
01:27:56,067 --> 01:27:59,333
We got through life
without too much
going wrong.

1110
01:27:59,334 --> 01:28:03,133
What we have to suffer
now, when we're old,

1111
01:28:03,134 --> 01:28:04,733
hardly counts,
I suppose.

1112
01:28:04,734 --> 01:28:07,301
That's
what you must think.

1113
01:28:11,201 --> 01:28:13,566
Well, how would you
know what I think?

1114
01:28:13,567 --> 01:28:15,467
To tell you the truth,
I'd rather be

1115
01:28:15,468 --> 01:28:19,266
the one that stayed
than the one that left.

1116
01:28:19,267 --> 01:28:21,599
I'll bet you weren't always
the doggedly devoted husband.

1117
01:28:21,600 --> 01:28:24,266
Am I right?

1118
01:28:24,267 --> 01:28:27,733
I mean, you said
that you wondered

1119
01:28:27,734 --> 01:28:32,333
if maybe she was punishing
you for something?

1120
01:28:32,334 --> 01:28:34,600
I'll bet you had something
pretty specific in mind,
didn't you?

1121
01:28:37,600 --> 01:28:43,467
You know, you see a lot
of things in this job.

1122
01:28:43,468 --> 01:28:46,266
You see the end of things
all day long.

1123
01:28:46,267 --> 01:28:48,166
And in my experience,
at the end of things

1124
01:28:48,167 --> 01:28:49,999
it's almost always
the men that think

1125
01:28:50,000 --> 01:28:53,266
that not too much
went wrong.

1126
01:28:53,267 --> 01:28:55,500
I wonder if your wife
feels the same way.

1127
01:28:57,533 --> 01:28:59,401
I wonder that, too.

1128
01:29:00,734 --> 01:29:03,167
I bet you do.

1129
01:29:21,401 --> 01:29:26,100
[phone ringing]

1130
01:29:26,101 --> 01:29:27,266
[answering machine beeps]

1131
01:29:27,267 --> 01:29:29,066
[Marian]
Uh, hello, Grant.

1132
01:29:29,067 --> 01:29:31,266
I hope I got
the right person.

1133
01:29:31,267 --> 01:29:33,133
I just thought of something.

1134
01:29:33,134 --> 01:29:35,300
There is a dance
here in town

1135
01:29:35,301 --> 01:29:37,500
at the Legion
on Saturday night,

1136
01:29:37,500 --> 01:29:39,266
and I am
on the supper committee,

1137
01:29:39,267 --> 01:29:41,467
which means I can
bring a free guest.

1138
01:29:41,468 --> 01:29:44,166
So I wondered
whether you would happen

1139
01:29:44,167 --> 01:29:46,300
to be interested in that.

1140
01:29:46,301 --> 01:29:48,699
Call me back
when you get a chance.

1141
01:29:48,700 --> 01:29:52,433
555-3457.

1142
01:29:52,434 --> 01:29:54,233
[click]

1143
01:29:54,234 --> 01:29:56,133
[answering machine beeps]

1144
01:29:56,134 --> 01:29:59,033
[Marian]
I just realizedI'd forgotten
to say who it was.

1145
01:29:59,034 --> 01:30:00,266
[chuckles]

1146
01:30:00,267 --> 01:30:03,400
Well, you probably recognize
the voice, the accent.

1147
01:30:03,401 --> 01:30:05,066
It's Marian.

1148
01:30:05,067 --> 01:30:07,367
I'm still not so used
to these machines,

1149
01:30:07,368 --> 01:30:10,133
and I wanted to say
I realize you're not single

1150
01:30:10,134 --> 01:30:12,233
and I don't mean it
that way.

1151
01:30:12,234 --> 01:30:14,100
I'm not, either.

1152
01:30:14,101 --> 01:30:17,233
But it doesn't hurt
to get out once in a while.

1153
01:30:17,234 --> 01:30:19,500
Anyway,
now I've said all this,

1154
01:30:19,500 --> 01:30:22,166
I really hope
it's you I'm talking to.

1155
01:30:22,167 --> 01:30:24,266
It did sound like your voice.

1156
01:30:24,267 --> 01:30:26,467
If you're interested,
you can call me.

1157
01:30:26,468 --> 01:30:29,532
And if you are not,
you don't need to bother.

1158
01:30:29,533 --> 01:30:34,133
I just thought you might
like the chance to get out.

1159
01:30:34,134 --> 01:30:35,766
It's Marian speaking.

1160
01:30:35,767 --> 01:30:37,699
[chuckling]

1161
01:30:37,700 --> 01:30:41,166
I guess I already said that.

1162
01:30:41,167 --> 01:30:44,301
Okay, then.
Good-bye.

1163
01:30:48,301 --> 01:30:50,300
[Grant]
"The desires of the heart

1164
01:30:50,301 --> 01:30:52,632
"are as crooked
as corkscrews.

1165
01:30:52,633 --> 01:30:55,300
"Not to be born
is the best for man.

1166
01:30:55,301 --> 01:30:58,733
"The second-best
is a formal order.

1167
01:30:58,734 --> 01:31:03,167
The dance's pattern:
dance while you can."

1168
01:31:08,368 --> 01:31:11,467
Fiona?

1169
01:31:11,468 --> 01:31:14,467
Is there any way
to let this go...

1170
01:31:14,468 --> 01:31:16,468
do you think?

1171
01:31:20,700 --> 01:31:24,200
If I let it go,
it'll only hit me harder

1172
01:31:24,201 --> 01:31:26,468
when I bump into it again.

1173
01:31:31,734 --> 01:31:33,334
Okay.

1174
01:31:38,201 --> 01:31:41,333
"Dance, dance,
for the figure is easy.

1175
01:31:41,334 --> 01:31:45,134
The tune is catchy
and will not stop."

1176
01:31:47,234 --> 01:31:48,566
[Grant]
"Dance till the stars

1177
01:31:48,567 --> 01:31:50,566
"come down
from the rafters.

1178
01:31:50,567 --> 01:31:54,100
Dance, dance, dance
till you drop."

1179
01:31:54,101 --> 01:31:56,500
[phone ringing]

1180
01:32:00,533 --> 01:32:02,367
[Marian]
Yes?

1181
01:32:02,368 --> 01:32:04,533
Hello, Marian.

1182
01:32:14,667 --> 01:32:16,234
So...

1183
01:32:18,368 --> 01:32:20,034
There you are.

1184
01:32:21,234 --> 01:32:23,234
Here I am.

1185
01:32:26,234 --> 01:32:27,333
Thank you.

1186
01:32:27,334 --> 01:32:30,434
♪ [slow jazz]

1187
01:32:53,533 --> 01:32:55,201
What are you thinking?

1188
01:32:57,167 --> 01:32:59,201
Not an awful lot, really.

1189
01:33:01,201 --> 01:33:03,334
Skiing.

1190
01:33:06,600 --> 01:33:07,667
Downhill?

1191
01:33:10,234 --> 01:33:11,301
Cross-country.

1192
01:33:14,234 --> 01:33:17,734
I'm more a thrill-seeker,
I guess.

1193
01:33:23,301 --> 01:33:24,468
What are you thinking?

1194
01:33:26,301 --> 01:33:27,999
I'm thinking
you never know

1195
01:33:28,000 --> 01:33:30,468
how things are going
to turn out.

1196
01:33:33,301 --> 01:33:36,566
You almost know...

1197
01:33:36,567 --> 01:33:40,500
but you can never
be quite sure.

1198
01:34:16,600 --> 01:34:18,334
Mr. Andersson?

1199
01:34:25,134 --> 01:34:27,133
Mr. Andersson?

1200
01:34:27,134 --> 01:34:29,233
Now, as you know,
we're, uh,

1201
01:34:29,234 --> 01:34:30,666
we're going to have to
think about moving

1202
01:34:30,667 --> 01:34:34,367
Mrs. Andersson upstairs
fairly soon, I'm afraid.

1203
01:34:34,368 --> 01:34:36,699
She hasn't been
out of that bed
for two weeks now, and--

1204
01:34:36,700 --> 01:34:40,367
I'm quite aware
of your policies.

1205
01:34:40,368 --> 01:34:42,500
I'm more than aware
of your bloody policies.

1206
01:34:45,301 --> 01:34:48,233
[Frank]
Well, once again,
Nurse Kristy is taking me

1207
01:34:48,234 --> 01:34:49,532
back to the second floor.

1208
01:34:49,533 --> 01:34:51,467
The area to my right
are the elevators,

1209
01:34:51,468 --> 01:34:53,500
and as we go on
down the hall,

1210
01:34:53,500 --> 01:34:55,400
there's a man
with a broken heart,

1211
01:34:55,401 --> 01:34:57,233
broken
in a thousand pieces.

1212
01:34:57,234 --> 01:34:59,532
Well, we'll go
to Madeleine's office,
past the lunchroom.

1213
01:34:59,533 --> 01:35:01,500
Hopefully,
they're serving right now.

1214
01:35:01,500 --> 01:35:03,133
The cannelloni
was cold yesterday,

1215
01:35:03,134 --> 01:35:04,500
but let's see
what it's doing today.

1216
01:35:04,500 --> 01:35:06,500
Let's have-- I gotta have
some Cokes again.

1217
01:35:06,500 --> 01:35:08,533
That's what I'm
going to do.

1218
01:35:11,301 --> 01:35:16,166
Wouldn't it be better
if...

1219
01:35:16,167 --> 01:35:19,133
when we go out again,

1220
01:35:19,134 --> 01:35:21,733
to put Aubrey
back into Meadowlake?

1221
01:35:21,734 --> 01:35:24,233
Just for a day?

1222
01:35:24,234 --> 01:35:26,267
What do you think?

1223
01:35:29,167 --> 01:35:34,133
I'm thinking
that sometimes you...

1224
01:35:34,134 --> 01:35:38,667
just have to make
the decision to be happy.

1225
01:35:41,234 --> 01:35:43,000
Just decide.

1226
01:35:44,600 --> 01:35:48,233
Things aren't ever
what you hoped they'd be.

1227
01:35:48,234 --> 01:35:50,134
Not ever, for anybody.

1228
01:35:52,034 --> 01:35:53,433
The only thing
that separates

1229
01:35:53,434 --> 01:35:55,699
one kind of person
from another

1230
01:35:55,700 --> 01:35:59,699
is there are some
who stay angry about it

1231
01:35:59,700 --> 01:36:03,333
and there
are some who...

1232
01:36:03,334 --> 01:36:05,700
accept
what comes their way.

1233
01:36:07,334 --> 01:36:08,734
And which kind
of person are you?

1234
01:36:10,267 --> 01:36:13,699
I was pretty mad
about it.

1235
01:36:13,700 --> 01:36:16,766
But now...

1236
01:36:16,767 --> 01:36:21,600
looking at what
came my way...

1237
01:36:26,301 --> 01:36:29,234
I think I could be
the other kind of person.

1238
01:36:32,234 --> 01:36:34,700
Quite the philosopher,
huh?

1239
01:36:38,167 --> 01:36:39,666
Look, why don't you
pull over here?

1240
01:36:39,667 --> 01:36:44,067
Just...
pull over, could you?

1241
01:36:55,067 --> 01:36:57,334
Ahem.

1242
01:36:59,734 --> 01:37:01,401
I know what you're doing.

1243
01:37:03,201 --> 01:37:06,400
It would be easier for me

1244
01:37:06,401 --> 01:37:08,267
if you could pretend
a little.

1245
01:37:09,734 --> 01:37:12,067
Do you think
you could do that?

1246
01:37:27,067 --> 01:37:29,700
Now, what were
we talking about?

1247
01:38:15,267 --> 01:38:17,100
She was the only one
in her family

1248
01:38:17,101 --> 01:38:18,301
who bothered to learn
sign language.

1249
01:38:19,767 --> 01:38:24,333
Now she can't remember how,
or maybe even who she is.

1250
01:38:24,334 --> 01:38:25,632
Her daughter?

1251
01:38:25,633 --> 01:38:27,400
Yeah.

1252
01:38:27,401 --> 01:38:30,300
It's left her
pretty stranded.

1253
01:38:30,301 --> 01:38:32,334
Marooned.

1254
01:38:34,368 --> 01:38:36,233
You know,
I thought of you
the other day.

1255
01:38:36,234 --> 01:38:38,133
You know that billboard
out in front

1256
01:38:38,134 --> 01:38:39,400
of the United Church
in Bradford,

1257
01:38:39,401 --> 01:38:43,033
they post all that
biblical-type stuff?

1258
01:38:43,034 --> 01:38:46,333
The other day, it said,

1259
01:38:46,334 --> 01:38:47,733
"It's never too late

1260
01:38:47,734 --> 01:38:49,368
to become what you
might have been."

1261
01:38:51,633 --> 01:38:55,433
Doesn't sound
all that biblical.

1262
01:38:55,434 --> 01:38:58,034
Well, maybe they're
getting creative on us.

1263
01:39:17,468 --> 01:39:19,167
[ding]

1264
01:39:40,767 --> 01:39:42,134
[ding]

1265
01:40:24,667 --> 01:40:27,134
See you soon, Aubrey.

1266
01:41:08,368 --> 01:41:10,433
Oh, yeah.

1267
01:41:10,434 --> 01:41:11,600
Thanks.

1268
01:41:26,667 --> 01:41:28,134
Thanks.

1269
01:42:23,101 --> 01:42:25,166
Would you mind
if I had a moment alone

1270
01:42:25,167 --> 01:42:26,633
before you come in?

1271
01:42:28,101 --> 01:42:30,201
To explain things to her?

1272
01:42:46,201 --> 01:42:50,200
I found this beautiful book
about Iceland.

1273
01:42:50,201 --> 01:42:53,266
You wouldn't think
they'd leave valuable books
lying around.

1274
01:42:53,267 --> 01:42:57,368
People who stay here
aren't all necessarily honest.

1275
01:42:58,667 --> 01:43:03,566
And I think they got
the clothes mixed up.

1276
01:43:03,567 --> 01:43:06,267
I never wear yellow.

1277
01:43:14,500 --> 01:43:17,567
I seem to remember you
reading this to me.

1278
01:43:20,034 --> 01:43:22,368
You were trying
to make me feel better.

1279
01:43:24,667 --> 01:43:27,267
You tried so hard.

1280
01:43:31,067 --> 01:43:33,267
You're a lovely man,
you know?

1281
01:43:34,600 --> 01:43:38,200
I'm a very lucky woman.

1282
01:43:38,201 --> 01:43:40,666
Fiona?
You've been gone
a long time.

1283
01:43:40,667 --> 01:43:42,400
Are we all checked out?

1284
01:43:42,401 --> 01:43:45,401
I have a surprise for you.

1285
01:43:50,000 --> 01:43:51,201
Do you remember Aubrey?

1286
01:44:14,667 --> 01:44:17,034
Names elude me.

1287
01:44:29,567 --> 01:44:32,368
I'm happy to see you.

1288
01:44:37,201 --> 01:44:40,166
You could've
just driven away.

1289
01:44:40,167 --> 01:44:45,433
Just driven away
without a care in the world

1290
01:44:45,434 --> 01:44:48,034
and forsook me.

1291
01:44:50,167 --> 01:44:52,334
Forsooken me.

1292
01:44:53,767 --> 01:44:56,201
Forsaken.

1293
01:44:58,034 --> 01:45:00,067
Not a chance.

1294
01:45:38,167 --> 01:45:41,267
♪ [folk rock]

1295
01:45:58,101 --> 01:46:03,267
[Woman]
♪ There is a town
in north Ontario ♪

1296
01:46:05,301 --> 01:46:11,267
♪ With dream, comfort,
and memory to spare ♪

1297
01:46:13,067 --> 01:46:15,266
♪ And in my mind ♪

1298
01:46:15,267 --> 01:46:19,368
♪ I still need
a place to go ♪

1299
01:46:20,368 --> 01:46:25,267
♪ All my changes were there ♪

1300
01:46:28,067 --> 01:46:30,200
♪ Blue, blue window ♪

1301
01:46:30,201 --> 01:46:35,166
♪ Behind the stars ♪

1302
01:46:35,167 --> 01:46:40,401
♪ Yellow Moon on the rise ♪

1303
01:46:42,633 --> 01:46:48,600
♪ Big birds
flying across the sky ♪

1304
01:46:50,267 --> 01:46:55,500
♪ Throwing shadows
on our eyes ♪

1305
01:46:55,500 --> 01:47:03,401
♪ Leaves us helpless,
helpless, helpless ♪

1306
01:47:05,368 --> 01:47:10,633
♪ Helpless, helpless,
helpless ♪

1307
01:47:20,167 --> 01:47:27,433
♪ Baby,
can you hear me now? ♪

1308
01:47:27,434 --> 01:47:33,301
♪ The chains are locked
and tied around my door ♪

1309
01:47:35,234 --> 01:47:42,566
♪ And, baby, will you
sing with me somehow? ♪

1310
01:47:42,567 --> 01:47:50,233
♪ Helpless, helpless,
helpless ♪

1311
01:47:50,234 --> 01:47:56,368
helpless ♪
♪ Helpless, helpless,

1312
01:47:58,201 --> 01:48:03,633
helpless ♪
♪ Helpless, helpless,

1313
01:48:05,401 --> 01:48:12,267
♪ Helpless, helpless ♪

1314
01:48:28,167 --> 01:48:31,033
♪ Blue, blue windows ♪

1315
01:48:31,034 --> 01:48:34,034
♪ Behind the stars ♪

1316
01:48:35,334 --> 01:48:41,234
♪ Yellow moon on the rise ♪

1317
01:48:42,734 --> 01:48:48,633
♪ Big birds
flying across the sky ♪

1318
01:48:50,267 --> 01:48:56,266
♪ Throwing shadows
on our eyes ♪

1319
01:48:56,267 --> 01:49:03,500
♪ Leaves us helpless,
helpless, helpless ♪

1320
01:49:05,500 --> 01:49:12,201
♪ Helpless, helpless,
helpless ♪

1321
01:49:13,234 --> 01:49:19,401
♪ Helpless, helpless ♪

1322
01:49:20,401 --> 01:49:26,267
♪ Helpless, helpless,
helpless ♪

1323
01:49:28,201 --> 01:49:33,433
helpless ♪
♪ Helpless, helpless,

1324
01:49:33,434 --> 01:49:36,434
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