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[Man]
She said,

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"Do you think it'd be fun
if we got married?"

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[Woman]
And what did you say?

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[Man]
I took her up on it.

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I never wanted to be
away from her.

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She had the spark of life.

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[no audible dialogue]

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Careful.

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When did we last
wash that sweater?

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Right after the war.

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[chuckling]

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Christmas.

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In the '50s sometime
or the '60s.

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[laughing]
Shut up.

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I'll go make the fire.

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"You climbed
the bank and said,

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"'This is how you touch
other women,

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"the grass cutter's wife,
the lime burner's daughter.

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"And you searched your arms

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for the missing perfume
and knew--"

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Don't worry, darling.

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I expect I'm just
losing my mind.

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Shh-shh.

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"What good is it to be
the lime burner's daughter,

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"left with no trace

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"as if not spoken to
in the act of love,

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"as if wounded without
the pleasure of a scar.

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"You touched your belly
to my hands in the dry air

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"and said, 'I am
the cinnamon peeler's wife.

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Smell me.'"

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When I look away,
I forget what yellow means.

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But I can look again.

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Sometimes there's something
delicious in oblivion.

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I think you're
supposed to be able

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to put your fingers
inside the curled petal

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and feel the heat.

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[Man]
Well?

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I can't be sure.

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I can't be sure
if what I can feel

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is the heat
or my imagination.

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The heat attracts the bugs.

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Nature never fools around
just being decorative.

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[car beeping]

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[knocking]

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Yes?

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I don't quite know
how to introduce myself.

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I used to see your husband
at Meadowlake.

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I'm a regular visitor
there myself.

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Those are lovely flowers.

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I've never seen
those purple ones before.

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Hmm.

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The earth there must
really appeal to them.

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[chuckling]

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What?

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You could just
open the drawers.

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Remind yourself.

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What?

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Maybe
all the labels and lists

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are defeating the purpose.

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If you stopped
thinking about things

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the moment
you write them down,

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maybe that's the end
of your need to recall.

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I heard a story
at a dinner party

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about the German soldiers
on border patrol

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in Czechoslovakia
during the war.

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I heard it from that
Czech student of yours.

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Veronica.

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We spoke once
at a dinner party.

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Don't be nervous.

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It's a good story.

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She told me that each
of the German patrol dogs

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wore a sign saying "hund."

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"Why?" said the Czechs.

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And the Germans replied,
"Because that is a hund."

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It was one
of those craft shows

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where you look around
and wonder that the laws
of supply and demand

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can allow for the production
of so many macramé ducks.

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[laughs]
Oh, God, those things
are everywhere.

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What do you do with them?
Oh, come on, Phoebe,
you've got one of those.

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You use it as a--
what do you call it--

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a light fixture holder
or som--

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I do not.
Phoebe, in the...

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Oh, yes.
Wait a second, I do.

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Fiona gave it to me.

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Yes, I did.
[chuckling]

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Would anybody
like some more?

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Mm.

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Ween...

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Wai-- Wain--

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No, but I'll have
a touch of wine.

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Yeah, Fiona,
that would be lovely.

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Some more wain.

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The thing is...

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half the time
I wander around

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00:10:00,656 --> 00:10:02,421
looking for something
which I know

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is very pertinent.

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I can't remember what it is.

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Once the idea is gone,
everything is gone.

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I just wander around

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trying to figure out
what it was

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that was so important
earlier.

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I think I may be
beginning to disappear.

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[Woman]
And what year is it?

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2003.

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Fiona, if you found
a letter on the street,

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addressed,
with a stamp on it,

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what would you do with it?

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I'd mail it.

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And where would
you put it to mail it?

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00:11:05,089 --> 00:11:08,555
And if there was a fire
in a movie theater,

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and you were the first person
to spot that fire,

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what would you do?

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Well, we don't go
to the movies much anymore,

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do we, Grant?

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All those multiplexes showing
the same American garbage.

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Have you seen my coat?

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There it is, dear.

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It's on your chair.

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Oh, yes.

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00:11:45,824 --> 00:11:46,887
Fiona, would you mind

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00:11:46,888 --> 00:11:49,488
if I asked you
a few more questions?

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Would you mind
taking a seat?

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I was just feeling
a little cold, that's all.

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[baby burbling]

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[sotto voce]
What an ugly baby.

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When did we move
into this cottage?

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Was it last year
or the year before?

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[sigh]

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00:12:42,922 --> 00:12:44,788
No.
It was longer than that.

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It was when I left
the university,

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20 years ago.

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Hmm.

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Well, that's shocking.

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[chuckle]

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00:13:11,489 --> 00:13:14,988
Let's just see how it goes,
shall we, hmm?

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00:13:16,489 --> 00:13:17,521
Hmm?

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00:13:17,522 --> 00:13:20,555
[Grant]
How is your husband doing?

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Okay.

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He and my wife struck up
quite a close friendship.

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I heard about that.

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So, uh,

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I'd like to speak to you
about something.

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00:13:35,723 --> 00:13:38,088
If you have a minute.

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00:13:38,089 --> 00:13:40,855
My husband did not
try to start anything
with your wife,

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00:13:40,855 --> 00:13:42,621
if that's what
you're getting at.

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He did not
try to molest her.

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He's incapable of it.

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00:13:45,689 --> 00:13:47,421
And anyway, he wouldn't.

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From what I hear,
it was the other way
around.

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00:13:50,522 --> 00:13:52,488
No, uh,
that isn't it at all.

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I didn't come here
with any complaints.

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Oh.

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00:13:57,955 --> 00:14:00,089
Oh, well, I'm sorry.
I thought you did.

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00:14:04,456 --> 00:14:05,621
Maybe you should come in.

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00:14:05,622 --> 00:14:09,622
It's not as warm a day
as it looks.

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[Fiona]
"Never let a person
make you feel guilty

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for your anger with God."

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00:14:19,589 --> 00:14:22,522
Hmm. Random.

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00:14:24,922 --> 00:14:28,722
I can't even see
what the point is.

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00:14:28,723 --> 00:14:31,788
We can't be certain
this is what--

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You're far too young.

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"Should the patient
afflicted with the disease

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"remain at home...

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the caregiver
will very often
be the spouse."

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"The caregiver must preside
over the degeneration

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"of someone he or she
loves very much,

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"must do this
for years and years

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"with the news always
getting worse, not better,

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"must put up sometimes
with deranged

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"but at the same time
very personal insults,

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"and must somehow learn
to smile through it all.

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"Caregivers must
be able to diagnose

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"a wide variety
of ordinary ailments

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"under extraordinary
circumstances.

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"Imagine the person
you love the most

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"suddenly upset
about something,

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"but completely unable
to communicate the problem

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or even to understand it
himself."

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Sounds like a regular marriage.

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[chuckle]

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00:16:24,723 --> 00:16:26,689
[sigh]

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00:17:59,022 --> 00:18:00,522
Hello, there!

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00:18:03,855 --> 00:18:05,621
[shivering]
Oh!

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00:18:05,622 --> 00:18:07,656
Hello, there.

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00:18:54,789 --> 00:18:57,589
We are at that stage,
Grant.

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00:19:00,589 --> 00:19:02,756
We are at that stage.

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00:19:08,622 --> 00:19:10,089
[sigh]

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00:19:12,789 --> 00:19:14,556
Well...

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00:19:17,723 --> 00:19:19,887
if we do think of it...

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00:19:19,888 --> 00:19:23,088
if we do...

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00:19:23,089 --> 00:19:28,022
then it must be as something
that isn't permanent.

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A kind of experimental
treatment or...

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a rest cure of sorts.

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00:19:50,888 --> 00:19:53,921
All right.

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00:19:53,922 --> 00:19:55,021
All right.

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00:19:55,022 --> 00:19:57,589
We can think
of it that way.

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00:20:00,922 --> 00:20:04,622
We have to sit in the kitchen,
where I can hear Aubrey.

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00:20:11,622 --> 00:20:14,655
Well, you might as well
have a cup of coffee.

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Thank you.

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00:20:16,689 --> 00:20:22,488
My son put him on
the Sports Channel
a year ago Christmas.

201
00:20:22,489 --> 00:20:24,621
I don't know what
we'd do without it.

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00:20:24,622 --> 00:20:26,622
Must be a struggle.

203
00:20:27,922 --> 00:20:30,021
Well, you know.

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00:20:30,022 --> 00:20:32,756
You know what
struggle is by now.

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00:20:35,622 --> 00:20:37,823
You're sure?
I'm sure.

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00:20:39,756 --> 00:20:43,521
You don't want
to just get a sense
of the place?

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00:20:43,522 --> 00:20:45,922
I don't want to make
this decision alone.

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00:20:49,955 --> 00:20:51,055
What place?

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00:20:55,622 --> 00:20:56,756
Just kidding!

210
00:20:58,522 --> 00:20:59,723
Fuck off.

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00:21:07,789 --> 00:21:11,822
You're not making
this decision alone, Grant.

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00:21:11,823 --> 00:21:14,522
I've already
made up my mind.

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00:21:19,756 --> 00:21:20,656
Okay.

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00:21:50,422 --> 00:21:52,421
[Woman]
It's time to go home now.

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00:21:52,422 --> 00:21:54,054
[Man]
No, no.
Mrs. Taylor--

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00:21:54,055 --> 00:21:55,887
Hi. Is this your son?
Yeah. I'm her son.

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00:21:55,888 --> 00:21:59,088
Hi. I'm Betty.
It's time for your bath.

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00:21:59,089 --> 00:22:01,121
Bath.
Yeah.

219
00:22:01,122 --> 00:22:02,822
You have to have
a bath now.

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00:22:02,823 --> 00:22:04,588
Mama.

221
00:22:04,589 --> 00:22:07,788
Mr. Andersson?
Madeleine Montpelier.

222
00:22:07,789 --> 00:22:09,722
I'm the supervisor
here at Meadowlake.
Hi, there.

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00:22:09,723 --> 00:22:12,555
I'm just going to take
you on the quick tour
of the facility,

224
00:22:12,556 --> 00:22:13,954
and then we can sit down

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00:22:13,955 --> 00:22:15,488
and discuss
Mrs. Andersson's condition

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00:22:15,489 --> 00:22:17,988
and the appropriate time
for admitting her.

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00:22:21,456 --> 00:22:23,455
As you can see, we get
a lot of natural light.

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00:22:23,456 --> 00:22:26,088
Yes,
I can see that.

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00:22:26,089 --> 00:22:27,822
This
is my favorite room.

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00:22:27,823 --> 00:22:29,655
Look, over there,
as you can see,

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00:22:29,656 --> 00:22:31,688
they have
a puzzle on the go.

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00:22:31,689 --> 00:22:32,855
They always have
a puzzle on the go.

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00:22:32,855 --> 00:22:35,488
This works.
You know, it's real
important to us here

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00:22:35,489 --> 00:22:37,722
that our residents
maintain social function,

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00:22:37,723 --> 00:22:40,488
so a lot of our activities
and our whole layout

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00:22:40,489 --> 00:22:41,456
is really geared toward--

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00:22:41,457 --> 00:22:43,088
Hello, there,
Miss Madeleine.

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00:22:43,089 --> 00:22:45,021
Hello, Michael.

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00:22:45,022 --> 00:22:46,987
Now, as you can see,
we're coming into
our common room,

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00:22:46,988 --> 00:22:49,987
and again, we're really
emphasizing everybody
being social.

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00:22:49,988 --> 00:22:51,521
So you can
bring the family.

242
00:22:51,522 --> 00:22:52,722
Everybody
can come and visit.

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00:22:52,723 --> 00:22:55,455
We have
a state-of-the-art
entertainment system

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00:22:55,456 --> 00:22:57,722
so the residents
can gather
and watch together.

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00:22:57,723 --> 00:22:59,555
Hi, Madeleine.
Hello, ladies.

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00:22:59,556 --> 00:23:01,588
Hello, Madeleine.
I got a Christmas sweater.

247
00:23:01,589 --> 00:23:03,555
Aren't you festive!

248
00:23:03,556 --> 00:23:05,088
And this
is our quiet corner

249
00:23:05,089 --> 00:23:08,121
for crafts and reading
and reflection.

250
00:23:08,122 --> 00:23:11,822
We have a lot of activities
for physical activity.

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00:23:11,823 --> 00:23:15,021
Balloon badminton
and sit and fit.

252
00:23:15,022 --> 00:23:18,521
And here we have our
lovely new dining room.

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00:23:18,522 --> 00:23:22,021
We can accommodate
any dietary preferences
or restrictions.

254
00:23:22,022 --> 00:23:26,021
We're just serving up
a little Christmas dinner
early for the families.

255
00:23:26,022 --> 00:23:27,987
The old Meadowlake
is just next door,

256
00:23:27,988 --> 00:23:31,354
and that's a day center
now, but, um...

257
00:23:31,355 --> 00:23:33,088
this for the permanent
residents.

258
00:23:33,089 --> 00:23:34,588
This is
brand-spanking new.

259
00:23:34,589 --> 00:23:36,556
So let's go upstairs,
shall we?

260
00:23:38,888 --> 00:23:41,656
Just taking my tea
for a ride.

261
00:23:42,522 --> 00:23:45,588
Oh, look at this one,
Flo.

262
00:23:45,589 --> 00:23:48,088
He's a real charmer,
isn't he?

263
00:23:48,089 --> 00:23:50,822
Would you say,
are you a charmer?

264
00:23:50,823 --> 00:23:53,088
I think you could say
I was kind of a charmer.

265
00:23:53,089 --> 00:23:55,655
[chuckles]
You're a rascal.

266
00:23:55,656 --> 00:23:57,788
Mr. Andersson is here
about his wife, Eliza.
Behave yourself.

267
00:23:57,789 --> 00:24:00,088
Ahh.
I should have known it.

268
00:24:00,089 --> 00:24:02,789
At this age, it's--

269
00:24:04,055 --> 00:24:06,722
What do the kids
call it, Flo? It's--

270
00:24:06,723 --> 00:24:08,788
It's a real clusterfuck.

271
00:24:08,789 --> 00:24:10,987
All the charmers are taken.

272
00:24:10,988 --> 00:24:13,788
Or dead. Mostly dead.
[elevator dings]

273
00:24:13,789 --> 00:24:15,789
You're kind of charming
yourself, sweetheart.

274
00:24:17,122 --> 00:24:18,122
Shall we?

275
00:24:26,955 --> 00:24:29,421
This is our second floor,
the extended care wing.

276
00:24:29,422 --> 00:24:30,788
The elevators, of course,

277
00:24:30,789 --> 00:24:31,921
have the lockdown system,

278
00:24:31,922 --> 00:24:34,354
and this is where
the patients can move to

279
00:24:34,355 --> 00:24:36,455
once they become
more progressed.

280
00:24:36,456 --> 00:24:39,121
Interesting choice
of words.

281
00:24:39,122 --> 00:24:42,421
Why don't I show you
some of the rooms here,
while we're at it?

282
00:24:42,422 --> 00:24:44,722
Then we can go back down
and see the regular rooms

283
00:24:44,723 --> 00:24:45,788
where Mrs. Andersson
will be living.

284
00:24:45,789 --> 00:24:48,421
No, that will not
be necessary.

285
00:24:48,422 --> 00:24:50,621
My wife will not be
progressing to this floor.

286
00:24:50,622 --> 00:24:52,855
All right.

287
00:24:52,855 --> 00:24:54,521
♪ [Muzak]

288
00:24:54,522 --> 00:24:55,822
Who chooses the music?

289
00:24:55,823 --> 00:24:57,588
I'm sorry?

290
00:24:57,589 --> 00:24:58,822
I'm assuming
it's not the residents.

291
00:24:58,823 --> 00:25:02,088
I don't see any of them
singing along.

292
00:25:02,089 --> 00:25:05,887
Yeah, well. You know the rooms
on the regular floors all have
their own stereo systems

293
00:25:05,888 --> 00:25:08,054
so the patients can listen
to whatever they like.

294
00:25:08,055 --> 00:25:09,022
How kind.

295
00:25:11,022 --> 00:25:14,588
Now, we don't admit anyone
during the month of December,

296
00:25:14,589 --> 00:25:16,521
so Mrs. Andersson will
have to wait till January

297
00:25:16,522 --> 00:25:18,555
to make the big move.

298
00:25:18,556 --> 00:25:23,121
Just December, Christmas,
you know, too many
emotional pitfalls.

299
00:25:23,122 --> 00:25:24,987
Right.
Sorry to interrupt,
Madeleine.

300
00:25:24,988 --> 00:25:26,688
I'm looking for
those documents
on Aubrey Burke.

301
00:25:26,689 --> 00:25:28,588
Sure. Go ahead.

302
00:25:28,589 --> 00:25:31,588
Mr. Andersson,
this is Kristy,
our new managing nurse.

303
00:25:31,589 --> 00:25:33,855
Against some people's
better judgment.

304
00:25:33,855 --> 00:25:35,855
Now, now.
[chuckles]

305
00:25:35,855 --> 00:25:38,121
Mr. Andersson is here
about his wife,
Mrs. Andersson,

306
00:25:38,122 --> 00:25:39,588
who will be
joining us in January.

307
00:25:39,589 --> 00:25:40,722
Hi, there.
Hi.

308
00:25:40,723 --> 00:25:41,855
We also have a policy,

309
00:25:41,855 --> 00:25:43,621
which I'm sure you saw
in the brochure,

310
00:25:43,622 --> 00:25:45,621
that our new residents
are not allowed visitors

311
00:25:45,622 --> 00:25:47,555
or receiving phone calls
during the first 30 days,

312
00:25:47,556 --> 00:25:49,521
just to give them
a chance to settle in.

313
00:25:49,522 --> 00:25:50,756
What sort of visitors?

314
00:25:54,789 --> 00:25:57,655
Everyone.
Even close relatives.

315
00:25:57,656 --> 00:25:59,354
I couldn't just
leave her here.

316
00:25:59,355 --> 00:26:01,755
We understand,
it is very difficult

317
00:26:01,756 --> 00:26:04,488
to leave a loved one
in a new environment
for so long,

318
00:26:04,489 --> 00:26:07,621
but most people need
that time to settle in.

319
00:26:07,622 --> 00:26:09,555
Before we had
this rule in place,

320
00:26:09,556 --> 00:26:11,521
residents would forget
again and again

321
00:26:11,522 --> 00:26:12,755
why they were being
left here.

322
00:26:12,756 --> 00:26:13,954
Whereas we find,

323
00:26:13,955 --> 00:26:16,655
you give them the month
to settle in,

324
00:26:16,656 --> 00:26:18,954
and they're happy as clams.

325
00:26:18,955 --> 00:26:22,755
And after that,
a little visit home
every now and then,

326
00:26:22,756 --> 00:26:24,722
perfectly fine.

327
00:26:24,723 --> 00:26:26,556
We'll take good care
of her, I promise.

328
00:26:31,389 --> 00:26:33,655
Knock-knock.
Oh, no! Not again.

329
00:26:33,656 --> 00:26:36,655
Knock-knock. Boo.

330
00:26:36,656 --> 00:26:39,823
[general chatter]

331
00:26:44,756 --> 00:26:46,722
She's bringing two babies.
Two babies?

332
00:26:46,723 --> 00:26:49,988
She's got a new baby,
four months old.

333
00:27:35,823 --> 00:27:39,456
♪ [guitar]

334
00:29:38,556 --> 00:29:39,922
Smells good.

335
00:29:42,522 --> 00:29:45,887
I was going to go
for a ski, but I thought
I shouldn't chance it,

336
00:29:45,888 --> 00:29:48,588
what with the Alzheimer's
and all.

337
00:29:48,589 --> 00:29:49,722
Why didn't you wake me?

338
00:29:49,723 --> 00:29:51,556
What are these, Grant?

339
00:30:00,855 --> 00:30:03,688
Those are the documents
you're supposed to sign

340
00:30:03,689 --> 00:30:06,555
if you decide
to go to Meadowlake.

341
00:30:06,556 --> 00:30:08,621
That is exactly
what I have decided.

342
00:30:08,622 --> 00:30:11,521
You were to go an sign these
and leave them there.

343
00:30:11,522 --> 00:30:15,122
I wouldn't be allowed
to visit you for 30 days.

344
00:30:22,556 --> 00:30:24,755
30 days isn't
such a long time

345
00:30:24,756 --> 00:30:27,954
after 44 years.

346
00:30:27,955 --> 00:30:29,888
I don't think
I like the place.

347
00:30:34,456 --> 00:30:39,987
I don't think we should
be looking for something
we like, Grant.

348
00:30:39,988 --> 00:30:43,122
I don't think
we'll ever find that.

349
00:30:44,556 --> 00:30:47,121
I think all we can aspire
to in this situation

350
00:30:47,122 --> 00:30:49,756
is a little bit of grace.

351
00:30:57,456 --> 00:30:59,988
Hmm?

352
00:31:01,756 --> 00:31:06,088
♪ Come a little bit closer ♪

353
00:31:06,089 --> 00:31:10,055
♪ Hear what I have to say ♪

354
00:31:18,723 --> 00:31:23,054
♪ Just like children
sleeping ♪

355
00:31:23,055 --> 00:31:27,422
♪ We can dream
this night away ♪

356
00:31:33,922 --> 00:31:36,955
I suppose I'll be
dressed up all the time.

357
00:31:38,622 --> 00:31:43,556
It will be sort of like...
in a hotel.

358
00:31:47,789 --> 00:31:49,388
How do I look?

359
00:31:49,389 --> 00:31:50,655
Just like always.

360
00:31:50,656 --> 00:31:52,354
Just as you've
always looked.

361
00:31:52,355 --> 00:31:54,422
And how does that look?

362
00:31:56,656 --> 00:31:58,556
Direct and vague...

363
00:32:00,022 --> 00:32:02,489
sweet and ironic.

364
00:32:08,422 --> 00:32:10,988
Is that how I look?

365
00:32:13,922 --> 00:32:18,954
[on radio]
♪ Because I'm still
in love with you ♪

366
00:32:18,955 --> 00:32:23,455
♪ I want to see you
dance again ♪

367
00:32:23,456 --> 00:32:25,689
Oh. Remember?

368
00:32:28,522 --> 00:32:30,388
Surprised, Grant?

369
00:32:30,389 --> 00:32:31,755
No, I'm not surprised.

370
00:32:31,756 --> 00:32:35,455
I'm just grateful
you can remember that.

371
00:32:35,456 --> 00:32:38,555
I'm not all gone, Grant.
Just...

372
00:32:38,556 --> 00:32:40,589
[sigh] going--

373
00:32:43,522 --> 00:32:46,422
There are things
I wish would go away.

374
00:32:48,355 --> 00:32:53,422
But won't. You know.
Things we don't talk about.

375
00:32:58,622 --> 00:33:01,521
You never left me.

376
00:33:01,522 --> 00:33:02,722
You still made love to me,

377
00:33:02,723 --> 00:33:05,422
despite disturbing
demands elsewhere.

378
00:33:09,656 --> 00:33:14,855
But all those sandals, Grant.
All those bare female toes.

379
00:33:17,422 --> 00:33:20,921
What could you do but
be a part of the time
you were a part of?

380
00:33:20,922 --> 00:33:23,588
All those pretty girls.

381
00:33:23,589 --> 00:33:26,422
Didn't seem like anyone
was willing to be left out.

382
00:33:28,556 --> 00:33:29,855
I think you did all right,

383
00:33:29,855 --> 00:33:34,621
compared to some
of your colleagues.

384
00:33:34,622 --> 00:33:36,888
Those who left their wives.

385
00:33:39,422 --> 00:33:41,855
And the women who
wouldn't put up with it.

386
00:33:45,089 --> 00:33:50,421
I think people
are too demanding.

387
00:33:50,422 --> 00:33:53,521
People want to be in love
every single day.

388
00:33:53,522 --> 00:33:58,455
What a liability.
And then that silly girl.

389
00:33:58,456 --> 00:34:00,355
That silly girl Veronica.

390
00:34:01,489 --> 00:34:04,121
Girls that age
are always going around

391
00:34:04,122 --> 00:34:07,588
saying they're going
to kill themselves.

392
00:34:07,589 --> 00:34:09,389
But that was that.

393
00:34:11,456 --> 00:34:12,887
Promised me a new life.

394
00:34:12,888 --> 00:34:15,354
We moved out here,

395
00:34:15,355 --> 00:34:18,622
that is exactly
what you gave me.

396
00:34:20,922 --> 00:34:22,887
How long ago was that?

397
00:34:22,888 --> 00:34:26,021
20 years.

398
00:34:26,022 --> 00:34:27,756
[shuddering]

399
00:34:30,089 --> 00:34:32,022
God, that's shocking.

400
00:34:33,988 --> 00:34:38,621
So you see, I'm going...

401
00:34:38,622 --> 00:34:41,489
but I'm not gone.

402
00:34:52,656 --> 00:34:56,121
♪ And we were lovers ♪

403
00:34:56,122 --> 00:35:01,389
♪ I loved you
with all my heart ♪

404
00:35:09,888 --> 00:35:12,556
Fiona.
Grant.

405
00:35:15,656 --> 00:35:16,522
Don't go.

406
00:35:18,955 --> 00:35:21,088
That's what is happening,
Grant.

407
00:35:21,089 --> 00:35:24,389
It's happening...right now.

408
00:35:54,556 --> 00:35:55,489
Fiona.

409
00:35:57,689 --> 00:35:59,621
Hello.
I'm checking in today.

410
00:35:59,622 --> 00:36:01,488
My name
is Fiona Andersson.

411
00:36:01,489 --> 00:36:02,488
Yes, Mrs. Andersson.

412
00:36:02,489 --> 00:36:04,688
We have your room
all ready for you.

413
00:36:04,689 --> 00:36:06,121
Perfect.
We'll have our supervisor,

414
00:36:06,122 --> 00:36:07,488
Mrs. Montpelier, show you.

415
00:36:07,489 --> 00:36:09,855
I'll go fetch her.
She's expecting you.

416
00:36:09,855 --> 00:36:11,022
Thank you.

417
00:36:12,389 --> 00:36:13,556
Fiona.

418
00:36:14,589 --> 00:36:15,887
Grant.

419
00:36:15,888 --> 00:36:17,488
I can't go away
from you like this.

420
00:36:17,489 --> 00:36:22,655
We had nothing
to tie us down, Grant.

421
00:36:22,656 --> 00:36:25,588
You could have
just driven away
and forsaken me.

422
00:36:25,589 --> 00:36:27,756
But you didn't.

423
00:36:29,622 --> 00:36:31,389
I thank you for that.

424
00:36:36,055 --> 00:36:38,421
Mrs. Andersson.
Oh, hello.

425
00:36:38,422 --> 00:36:40,421
How do you do?
I'm Madeleine.
Hello.

426
00:36:40,422 --> 00:36:42,021
Should I give
you two a moment?

427
00:36:42,022 --> 00:36:43,887
No, thank you.
Yes, please.

428
00:36:43,888 --> 00:36:45,755
All right, then, well,
we'll get you settled
in your room,

429
00:36:45,756 --> 00:36:47,855
and then I'd like to give you
a tour of the facility.

430
00:36:47,855 --> 00:36:50,589
That'd be lovely.
Thank you.
Right this way.

431
00:36:56,756 --> 00:37:00,622
So, as you can see,
we get a lot
of natural light.

432
00:37:01,855 --> 00:37:04,489
Here we go.

433
00:37:11,589 --> 00:37:15,054
Yes.
This'll do just fine.

434
00:37:15,055 --> 00:37:17,655
Good. I'm so glad
you like it. Now, is--

435
00:37:17,656 --> 00:37:19,354
is this all you brought
with you today?

436
00:37:19,355 --> 00:37:21,089
For now.
We'll see how it goes.

437
00:37:23,089 --> 00:37:27,021
Well, if you need any
help arranging things,
you just let me know.

438
00:37:27,022 --> 00:37:30,688
Thank you,
Mrs. Montpelier.

439
00:37:30,689 --> 00:37:33,887
Now, if you wouldn't mind,
I-I'd like to say good-bye
to my husband.

440
00:37:33,888 --> 00:37:38,521
We haven't been
apart for a month
for the last 44 years.

441
00:37:38,522 --> 00:37:39,789
It could be quite something.

442
00:37:48,522 --> 00:37:50,389
Please, Fiona.

443
00:37:53,922 --> 00:37:56,021
[sigh]
Grant.

444
00:37:56,022 --> 00:37:58,788
Fiona--

445
00:37:58,789 --> 00:38:00,855
You know what I'd like?

446
00:38:04,522 --> 00:38:06,555
I'd like to make love,

447
00:38:06,556 --> 00:38:09,588
and then
I'd like you to go.

448
00:38:09,589 --> 00:38:11,121
Because
I need to stay here,

449
00:38:11,122 --> 00:38:12,954
and if you
make it hard for me,

450
00:38:12,955 --> 00:38:15,589
I might cry so hard
I'll never stop.

451
00:38:48,723 --> 00:38:50,489
Go now.

452
00:38:52,988 --> 00:38:54,689
Go now.

453
00:39:40,422 --> 00:39:41,655
[Woman]
"All of the officers

454
00:39:41,656 --> 00:39:42,822
"were from outside
the local area,

455
00:39:42,823 --> 00:39:44,954
"and it probably had not
entered their minds

456
00:39:44,955 --> 00:39:47,788
"that almost all of us
were named McDonald.

457
00:39:47,789 --> 00:39:50,121
"Nobody moved except for
the shuffling of feet.

458
00:39:50,122 --> 00:39:52,788
The red roo"-- Hey.

459
00:39:52,789 --> 00:39:54,755
Hello, there.
Kristy.
We met on your tour.

460
00:39:54,756 --> 00:39:56,555
How's Mrs. Andersson?
Has she settled in?

461
00:39:56,556 --> 00:39:58,722
I'm wondering
if I could have

462
00:39:58,723 --> 00:40:00,855
a moment of your time
to ask your advice?

463
00:40:00,855 --> 00:40:03,354
Oh, sure. I was just
reading to Mr. Burke here.

464
00:40:03,355 --> 00:40:04,722
Maybe when we finish
this chapter,

465
00:40:04,723 --> 00:40:06,621
I can come find you
in the dining room?

466
00:40:06,622 --> 00:40:08,622
Sure. That's fine.

467
00:40:10,589 --> 00:40:13,722
Mm-- "The red roof lights
revolved in the afternoon sun,

468
00:40:13,723 --> 00:40:15,823
and even the dogs were
temporarily quiet."

469
00:40:30,656 --> 00:40:34,755
Hi, there, Mr. Andersson.
Now, how can I help you?

470
00:40:34,756 --> 00:40:36,655
Going down the center
of the dining room--

471
00:40:36,656 --> 00:40:39,788
That's Frank. He used
to be the play-by-play guy
for the Winnipeg Jets.

472
00:40:39,789 --> 00:40:41,887
Really?
Yeah.

473
00:40:41,888 --> 00:40:44,855
He loved his job
too much to retire.

474
00:40:44,855 --> 00:40:46,789
Frank's
on the second floor.

475
00:40:50,756 --> 00:40:55,521
I just--
My wife has always been

476
00:40:55,522 --> 00:40:58,655
sort of a different
sort of person.

477
00:40:58,656 --> 00:41:03,588
I've been told
that Alzheimer's can't be
confirmed until after--

478
00:41:03,589 --> 00:41:05,887
And on our way here today,

479
00:41:05,888 --> 00:41:07,621
we passed
this conservation area

480
00:41:07,622 --> 00:41:11,021
where we went
for a walk last spring.

481
00:41:11,022 --> 00:41:13,455
And there were these
gorgeous flowers.
The skunk lilies.

482
00:41:13,456 --> 00:41:15,388
Oh, those are
beautiful, aren't they?

483
00:41:15,389 --> 00:41:18,021
Yes, they really made
an impression, see?

484
00:41:18,022 --> 00:41:20,621
And even though the whole
place was covered in snow,

485
00:41:20,622 --> 00:41:23,122
she said, "Oh, remember?"

486
00:41:24,823 --> 00:41:27,987
Now, that was--
that was...quite recently.

487
00:41:27,988 --> 00:41:29,954
And isn't
the short-term memory

488
00:41:29,955 --> 00:41:31,688
the thing
that goes first?

489
00:41:31,689 --> 00:41:35,987
Well, yeah,
but not all at once.

490
00:41:35,988 --> 00:41:37,755
And what's comforting

491
00:41:37,756 --> 00:41:39,421
is the long-term memory
sometimes stays

492
00:41:39,422 --> 00:41:40,422
for quite a long time.

493
00:41:42,855 --> 00:41:45,954
Yeah, her long-term memory
seems quite intact.

494
00:41:45,955 --> 00:41:49,555
But when she mentioned that,
about the skunk lilies,

495
00:41:49,556 --> 00:41:52,655
it was all I could do not
to turn the truck around.

496
00:41:52,656 --> 00:41:59,054
What if this is just her
just being herself?

497
00:41:59,055 --> 00:42:01,589
She's far too young to--

498
00:42:02,922 --> 00:42:04,722
She is young.

499
00:42:04,723 --> 00:42:07,722
And it is hard.

500
00:42:07,723 --> 00:42:10,521
No doubt about that.

501
00:42:10,522 --> 00:42:12,656
A month is
a real long time.

502
00:42:15,355 --> 00:42:18,588
I mean, between
you and me, I don't know
about the policy myself.

503
00:42:18,589 --> 00:42:21,588
I think it makes it
easier for the staff
is what I think.

504
00:42:21,589 --> 00:42:25,723
Look. I'll give you
my pager number.

505
00:42:27,122 --> 00:42:28,788
You can call me
whenever you want.

506
00:42:28,789 --> 00:42:31,522
You can call me every day
if you feel like it.

507
00:42:34,823 --> 00:42:37,089
I don't know what to do.

508
00:42:38,855 --> 00:42:41,788
Mr. Andersson, your wife
wrote you this note,

509
00:42:41,789 --> 00:42:44,022
and she asked me
to pass it along.

510
00:42:54,089 --> 00:42:55,522
Okay.

511
00:43:01,622 --> 00:43:03,756
Thank you so much.

512
00:43:15,456 --> 00:43:17,955
[no audible dialogue]

513
00:43:28,589 --> 00:43:31,621
[Grant reading]
"Throughout much of
the thinking brain,

514
00:43:31,622 --> 00:43:36,922
gooey plaques now crowd
neurons from outside
the cell membranes."

515
00:43:38,756 --> 00:43:41,488
"And knotty tangles

516
00:43:41,489 --> 00:43:46,556
mangle microtubal transports
from inside the cells."

517
00:43:55,355 --> 00:43:59,589
"All told, tens of millions
of synapses dissolve away."

518
00:44:01,689 --> 00:44:04,722
"Because the structures
and substructures of the brain

519
00:44:04,723 --> 00:44:06,688
"are so highly specialized,

520
00:44:06,689 --> 00:44:10,788
"the precise location
of the neuronal loss

521
00:44:10,789 --> 00:44:16,689
determines
what specific abilities
will become impaired."

522
00:44:21,022 --> 00:44:25,822
"It is like a series
of circuit breakers

523
00:44:25,823 --> 00:44:30,689
in a large house,
flipping off one by one."

524
00:45:29,823 --> 00:45:31,688
That's a great-looking
coffee maker.

525
00:45:31,689 --> 00:45:33,756
I always meant
to get one of those.

526
00:45:35,589 --> 00:45:38,954
I saw they had them on sale
at Canadian Tire.

527
00:45:38,955 --> 00:45:42,521
They gave it to us,
my son and his wife.

528
00:45:42,522 --> 00:45:44,555
They live in Kamloops, B.C.

529
00:45:44,556 --> 00:45:48,054
They send us more stuff
than we can handle.

530
00:45:48,055 --> 00:45:52,055
Wouldn't hurt
if they spent the money
to come see us instead.

531
00:45:53,922 --> 00:45:56,455
I suppose they're busy
with their own lives.

532
00:45:56,456 --> 00:45:58,921
Not so busy they couldn't
go to Hawaii last year.

533
00:45:58,922 --> 00:46:00,388
I mean,
you could understand it

534
00:46:00,389 --> 00:46:03,521
if there was someone
in the family closer at hand,

535
00:46:03,522 --> 00:46:06,955
but, uh...
he's the only one.

536
00:46:10,823 --> 00:46:14,655
People do get lonely,

537
00:46:14,656 --> 00:46:17,988
especially when
they're deprived of seeing
someone they care about.

538
00:46:22,689 --> 00:46:24,589
Fiona, for instance.

539
00:46:27,556 --> 00:46:29,521
My wife.

540
00:46:29,522 --> 00:46:31,922
I thought you said
you went and visited her.

541
00:46:34,589 --> 00:46:36,655
I do.

542
00:46:36,656 --> 00:46:39,688
No, that's not it.

543
00:46:39,689 --> 00:46:41,621
[Kristy]
She's really settling in well.

544
00:46:41,622 --> 00:46:43,455
Good. Good.

545
00:46:43,456 --> 00:46:45,388
Looking forward to
seeing you tomorrow,
Mr. Andersson.

546
00:46:45,389 --> 00:46:47,655
Right. So I'll see you
tomorrow morning, then.

547
00:46:47,656 --> 00:46:50,689
Now, remember, she may
be a little surprised
to see you.

548
00:46:52,756 --> 00:46:54,488
Don't be shaken by that.

549
00:46:54,489 --> 00:46:56,688
Just-- She hasn't
seen you in a while.

550
00:46:56,689 --> 00:46:58,723
She's sort of
settled in here.

551
00:47:00,723 --> 00:47:02,122
[Grant]
I understand.

552
00:47:15,556 --> 00:47:19,555
There you are. I'll
walk you down to her.

553
00:47:19,556 --> 00:47:21,855
Wow. Narcissus
this early.

554
00:47:21,855 --> 00:47:24,054
You must have spent
a fortune.

555
00:47:24,055 --> 00:47:26,755
We brought it back here.
Hi, Mr. Andersson.

556
00:47:26,756 --> 00:47:28,722
It's great to see you.

557
00:47:28,723 --> 00:47:31,621
I'm gonna help you find
your sweater, Mrs. Albright.

558
00:47:31,622 --> 00:47:35,488
All right. Here we are.
There is her room,
right over there.

559
00:47:35,489 --> 00:47:37,555
You remember from last time
you were here, don't you?

560
00:47:37,556 --> 00:47:40,789
Her nameplate's
right on the door.
I'll leave you to it.

561
00:48:22,022 --> 00:48:25,421
There she is. Now you just
go over and say hello,

562
00:48:25,422 --> 00:48:29,488
and try not to startle her--
Remember, she may not--

563
00:48:29,489 --> 00:48:31,389
Well, just go ahead.

564
00:48:50,522 --> 00:48:53,855
Bridge.
Deadly serious.

565
00:48:53,855 --> 00:48:57,488
Quite rabid about it.

566
00:48:57,489 --> 00:49:00,621
I can remember being
like that at college
for a while.

567
00:49:00,622 --> 00:49:03,054
My friends and I
would cut class

568
00:49:03,055 --> 00:49:05,755
and sit
in the common room
and smoke

569
00:49:05,756 --> 00:49:08,021
and play like cutthroats.

570
00:49:08,022 --> 00:49:09,722
One's name was Phoebe.

571
00:49:09,723 --> 00:49:11,555
I don't remember
the others.

572
00:49:11,556 --> 00:49:12,887
Phoebe Hart.

573
00:49:12,888 --> 00:49:15,788
Oh, you knew her, too.

574
00:49:15,789 --> 00:49:18,655
Can I get you something?
A cup of tea?

575
00:49:18,656 --> 00:49:21,722
I'm afraid the coffee's
not up to much here.

576
00:49:21,723 --> 00:49:22,722
I don't drink tea.

577
00:49:22,723 --> 00:49:24,987
Oh.

578
00:49:24,988 --> 00:49:26,621
I brought you some flowers.

579
00:49:26,622 --> 00:49:29,688
I thought they might do
to brighten up your room.

580
00:49:29,689 --> 00:49:31,855
I went to your room,
but you weren't there.

581
00:49:31,855 --> 00:49:34,589
Well, no, I'm here.

582
00:49:37,422 --> 00:49:38,622
So you've made a new friend.

583
00:49:39,922 --> 00:49:42,588
Oh, that's just Aubrey.

584
00:49:42,589 --> 00:49:47,954
The funny thing is I knew
him years and years ago.

585
00:49:47,955 --> 00:49:49,488
He used to work in the store,

586
00:49:49,489 --> 00:49:53,521
the hardware store where
my grandpa used to shop.

587
00:49:53,522 --> 00:49:56,521
He and I were always
kidding around,

588
00:49:56,522 --> 00:49:59,755
but he never could get up
the nerve to ask me out.

589
00:49:59,756 --> 00:50:03,121
Until the very last weekend,
he took me to a ball game.

590
00:50:03,122 --> 00:50:08,021
But my grandpa showed up
to drive us home.

591
00:50:08,022 --> 00:50:11,555
I was up visiting
for the summer.

592
00:50:11,556 --> 00:50:14,688
Visiting my grandparents.

593
00:50:14,689 --> 00:50:16,789
They lived in a cottage
on a lake.

594
00:50:18,556 --> 00:50:21,521
Fiona, I know where
your grandparents lived.

595
00:50:21,522 --> 00:50:23,389
It's where we lived.
We live.

596
00:50:24,656 --> 00:50:26,055
Really?

597
00:50:27,955 --> 00:50:29,655
I'd better go back.

598
00:50:29,656 --> 00:50:32,088
He thinks he can't play
without me sitting there.

599
00:50:32,089 --> 00:50:35,354
It's silly. I hardly
know the game anymore.

600
00:50:35,355 --> 00:50:37,555
I'm afraid you'll have
to excuse me.

601
00:50:37,556 --> 00:50:38,522
Will you be through soon?

602
00:50:38,523 --> 00:50:40,521
We should be.
I mean, it depends.

603
00:50:40,522 --> 00:50:43,588
If you asked that grim-looking
lady over there nicely,

604
00:50:43,589 --> 00:50:45,756
she'll get you a cup of tea.

605
00:50:47,389 --> 00:50:48,987
No, I'm fine.
I can leave you, then?

606
00:50:48,988 --> 00:50:52,555
You can entertain yourself?
Must all seem strange to you.

607
00:50:52,556 --> 00:50:55,421
But you'll be surprised
how soon you get used to it.

608
00:50:55,422 --> 00:50:57,755
You'll get to know
who everybody is,

609
00:50:57,756 --> 00:51:02,354
except that some of them
are pretty well off
in the clouds, you know?

610
00:51:02,355 --> 00:51:07,489
Hmm. Can't expect them all
to get to know who you are.

611
00:52:26,422 --> 00:52:29,421
Hey, I've been thinking
of dying my hair.
What do you think?

612
00:52:29,422 --> 00:52:32,622
Do you think I'd look
good with red hair?

613
00:52:52,556 --> 00:52:55,455
You caught her at
sort of a bad moment,
involved in a game.

614
00:52:55,456 --> 00:52:57,621
She isn't even playing.

615
00:52:57,622 --> 00:52:59,887
Well, but her friend's
playing, Aubrey.

616
00:52:59,888 --> 00:53:01,388
Now, who is Aubrey?

617
00:53:01,389 --> 00:53:03,388
That's who he is,
Aubrey.

618
00:53:03,389 --> 00:53:04,855
You know, they get
these attachments.

619
00:53:04,855 --> 00:53:06,887
That kind of takes over
for a while.

620
00:53:06,888 --> 00:53:08,921
Best buddy kind of thing.

621
00:53:08,922 --> 00:53:10,456
Sort of a phase.

622
00:53:11,422 --> 00:53:13,389
Does she even know who I am?

623
00:53:14,855 --> 00:53:16,788
No, she might not.

624
00:53:16,789 --> 00:53:20,621
Not today, and then,
tomorrow you never know.

625
00:53:20,622 --> 00:53:23,588
Things change
back and forth
all the time.

626
00:53:23,589 --> 00:53:24,621
You'll see
the way it is

627
00:53:24,622 --> 00:53:26,488
once you get used
to coming here.

628
00:53:26,489 --> 00:53:28,121
You'll learn
not to take it
so personal.

629
00:53:28,122 --> 00:53:31,456
Learn to take it
day by day.

630
00:53:33,723 --> 00:53:36,489
[inaudible dialogue]

631
00:53:54,122 --> 00:53:56,021
Oh, I'm sorry.

632
00:53:56,022 --> 00:53:58,622
I'll have to go
and fix that now.

633
00:54:28,589 --> 00:54:30,855
[Man, TV]
Here's Yung Menenikenaha,

634
00:54:30,855 --> 00:54:34,655
desperately clinging
to his one-stroke lead.

635
00:54:34,656 --> 00:54:36,455
Here's the swing.

636
00:54:36,456 --> 00:54:38,388
It doesn't look good.

637
00:54:38,389 --> 00:54:40,788
Looks like he's pushed it
out to the right.

638
00:54:40,789 --> 00:54:42,788
It lands 25 feet
from the green.

639
00:54:42,789 --> 00:54:44,621
This must be disappointing.

640
00:54:44,622 --> 00:54:47,088
It doesn't look good
for Yung Menenikenaha.

641
00:54:47,089 --> 00:54:49,455
He was three strokes
on the happy side of par

642
00:54:49,456 --> 00:54:50,522
until these last three holes.

643
00:54:55,355 --> 00:54:59,121
Look at you,
Mr. Andersson.

644
00:54:59,122 --> 00:55:01,723
I think you might
be one of our most
frequent visitors.

645
00:55:10,823 --> 00:55:12,521
Hi, Fiona.

646
00:55:12,522 --> 00:55:14,521
Oh, you are persistent,
aren't you?

647
00:55:14,522 --> 00:55:16,555
I brought you some books.

648
00:55:16,556 --> 00:55:18,921
They don't seem to have
an awful lot around here.

649
00:55:18,922 --> 00:55:21,421
Letters from Iceland
by Auden.

650
00:55:21,422 --> 00:55:24,688
We always meant
to read that together,
didn't we?

651
00:55:24,689 --> 00:55:27,088
Do you think
it'd be possible
to talk alone?

652
00:55:27,089 --> 00:55:28,655
Well, I don't know.

653
00:55:28,656 --> 00:55:31,455
Um, Aubrey's card game
starts in a few minutes,

654
00:55:31,456 --> 00:55:33,121
and then we usually
go walking,

655
00:55:33,122 --> 00:55:34,722
and then he does
his drawing--

656
00:55:34,723 --> 00:55:38,021
Or perhaps you can find
a bit of time later on.

657
00:55:38,022 --> 00:55:39,555
Um, I'll stay here.

658
00:55:39,556 --> 00:55:41,455
Or I'll come back
in a few hours.

659
00:55:41,456 --> 00:55:43,855
Oh, you are persistent,
aren't you?

660
00:56:06,589 --> 00:56:08,488
[Man, TV]
Up comes Kapanen--
Boy, oh, boy!

661
00:56:08,489 --> 00:56:10,521
[Frank]
Here we are at the Spectrum
in Philadelphia.

662
00:56:10,522 --> 00:56:12,788
It's sudden-death overtime.
They're tied 2-2.

663
00:56:12,789 --> 00:56:14,488
Here are the Leafs again,
led by Andreychuk.

664
00:56:14,489 --> 00:56:15,722
He carries it
over the blue line,

665
00:56:15,723 --> 00:56:17,688
winds up a shot right on!

666
00:56:17,689 --> 00:56:19,588
The bounce, the rebound
comes back behind the net.

667
00:56:19,589 --> 00:56:20,887
McCabe couldn't get to it.

668
00:56:20,888 --> 00:56:22,455
It goes back
on the left wing

669
00:56:22,456 --> 00:56:24,887
and here come the Flyers
led by Roenick again.

670
00:56:24,888 --> 00:56:27,488
Roenick and Mitchell,
what a twosome
this two has been.

671
00:56:27,489 --> 00:56:28,855
A shot right on!
Oh, it just went wide.

672
00:56:28,855 --> 00:56:30,655
Go for it, Frank.
Over to the right side.

673
00:56:30,656 --> 00:56:31,954
Here we go again.
The Leafs again.

674
00:56:31,955 --> 00:56:34,488
Here's Sundin carrying it
up over the line.

675
00:56:34,489 --> 00:56:37,488
Can't get a shot away
and it's cleared away
by Philadelphia.

676
00:56:37,489 --> 00:56:39,688
A loose puck
grabbed by Philadelphia
over on the left wing--

677
00:56:39,689 --> 00:56:42,555
I just came down to say
Aubrey is having his nap

678
00:56:42,556 --> 00:56:44,755
if you'd like to, um, talk.

679
00:56:44,756 --> 00:56:46,688
Oh, sure.

680
00:56:46,689 --> 00:56:48,755
Can we go somewhere
a little more private?

681
00:56:48,756 --> 00:56:50,455
[Frank]
...the side with Mitchell.
He shoots, he scores!

682
00:56:50,456 --> 00:56:51,855
If-- If you'd like.

683
00:56:51,855 --> 00:56:53,488
[Frank]
And Philly wins this series

684
00:56:53,489 --> 00:56:54,688
by a score of 3-2.

685
00:56:54,689 --> 00:56:56,621
That's it this season
for the Leafs.

686
00:56:56,622 --> 00:56:58,855
Look at Phil Hitchcock.
Is he a happy coach.

687
00:56:58,855 --> 00:57:00,788
Philadelphia wins 3-2.

688
00:57:00,789 --> 00:57:02,656
The game is over
in sudden-death overtime.

689
00:57:23,689 --> 00:57:26,054
Y-You said you had
some books for me?

690
00:57:26,055 --> 00:57:27,656
This.

691
00:57:29,489 --> 00:57:31,388
Letters from Iceland.

692
00:57:31,389 --> 00:57:34,987
Yes, yes.
You said by Auden.

693
00:57:34,988 --> 00:57:37,455
Yes. That's right.

694
00:57:37,456 --> 00:57:40,723
Now...where is Iceland?

695
00:57:43,988 --> 00:57:48,521
Well, Iceland
is in the middle
of the Atlantic.

696
00:57:48,522 --> 00:57:50,855
It's an island.

697
00:57:52,556 --> 00:57:54,788
Youngest country
in the world.

698
00:57:54,789 --> 00:57:57,088
It's constantly erupting.

699
00:57:57,089 --> 00:58:00,688
Volcanoes, earthquakes.

700
00:58:00,689 --> 00:58:04,723
It's always
shaking itself off.

701
00:58:05,888 --> 00:58:09,354
Wouldn't it be nice to come
from a young country?

702
00:58:09,355 --> 00:58:11,621
You do.
That's where you're from.

703
00:58:11,622 --> 00:58:14,954
That's where
your people are from.

704
00:58:14,955 --> 00:58:19,588
They immigrated here
in the late 1800s.

705
00:58:19,589 --> 00:58:22,354
But that's where
you're from, Fiona.

706
00:58:22,355 --> 00:58:27,688
And I teach-- Well, I taught
the myths from there.

707
00:58:27,689 --> 00:58:28,855
Norse mythology.

708
00:58:28,855 --> 00:58:30,588
I-I must have
been there, then.

709
00:58:30,589 --> 00:58:32,388
Have I been there?

710
00:58:32,389 --> 00:58:33,455
[sniffs]

711
00:58:33,456 --> 00:58:34,522
No.

712
00:58:36,422 --> 00:58:37,822
Oh.

713
00:58:37,823 --> 00:58:40,455
Why not?
Wasn't I curious?

714
00:58:40,456 --> 00:58:43,555
You were very curious.

715
00:58:43,556 --> 00:58:46,054
Very curious.

716
00:58:46,055 --> 00:58:50,088
You always said
there ought to be one place

717
00:58:50,089 --> 00:58:52,722
that you knew about
and you thought about

718
00:58:52,723 --> 00:58:54,688
and maybe even longed for,

719
00:58:54,689 --> 00:58:56,756
but you did never did
get to see.

720
00:59:03,389 --> 00:59:06,054
Did I say that?

721
00:59:06,055 --> 00:59:07,988
Yes, you said that.

722
00:59:22,789 --> 00:59:25,021
Well, I'd better
go and see to Aubrey.

723
00:59:25,022 --> 00:59:27,655
He'll be wanting a little
walk around, I suppose.

724
00:59:27,656 --> 00:59:28,755
It was nice chatting.

725
00:59:28,756 --> 00:59:31,588
You'll be back again
tomorrow, I suppose?

726
00:59:31,589 --> 00:59:35,421
Fiona, what are you doing--

727
00:59:35,422 --> 00:59:36,756
What are you doing
with Aubrey?

728
00:59:40,055 --> 00:59:43,755
He doesn't confuse me.

729
00:59:43,756 --> 00:59:46,389
He doesn't confuse me
at all.

730
00:59:50,656 --> 00:59:53,855
Well,
it's been nice chatting.

731
00:59:53,855 --> 00:59:56,656
I'll see you again
tomorrow, I suppose.

732
00:59:59,456 --> 01:00:03,789
[door opens, closes]

733
01:00:16,522 --> 01:00:19,388
[Grant]
These affections
between residents,

734
01:00:19,389 --> 01:00:20,555
do they ever go too far?

735
01:00:20,556 --> 01:00:21,855
[Kristy chuckles]

736
01:00:21,855 --> 01:00:23,588
Well, that depends
on what you mean.

737
01:00:23,589 --> 01:00:26,388
The problem we have here,
it's funny.

738
01:00:26,389 --> 01:00:28,021
It's actually
often the ones

739
01:00:28,022 --> 01:00:30,521
who haven't been friendly
with each other at all.

740
01:00:30,522 --> 01:00:32,021
I mean, they maybe
don't even know each other

741
01:00:32,022 --> 01:00:34,722
beyond knowing, like,
is it a man or is it a woman?

742
01:00:34,723 --> 01:00:35,822
And you'd think
it'd be the old guys

743
01:00:35,823 --> 01:00:37,855
trying to crawl in bed
with the old ladies,

744
01:00:37,855 --> 01:00:39,688
but half the time
it's the other way around.

745
01:00:39,689 --> 01:00:42,588
It's the old ladies
going after the old men.

746
01:00:42,589 --> 01:00:44,521
It could be they aren't
so worn out.

747
01:00:44,522 --> 01:00:46,589
[chuckling]

748
01:00:51,756 --> 01:00:56,455
Now don't get me wrong.
I don't mean Fiona.

749
01:00:56,456 --> 01:00:58,588
Fiona is a lady.

750
01:00:58,589 --> 01:01:00,955
She's a real lady.

751
01:01:02,489 --> 01:01:05,921
I sometimes wonder--

752
01:01:05,922 --> 01:01:07,988
You wonder what?

753
01:01:10,556 --> 01:01:15,822
I wonder if she isn't
putting on some kind
of...charade.

754
01:01:15,823 --> 01:01:17,722
A what?

755
01:01:17,723 --> 01:01:20,755
Some kind of act.

756
01:01:20,756 --> 01:01:23,988
Maybe some kind of punishment.

757
01:01:27,622 --> 01:01:29,622
Why would she do that?

758
01:01:36,355 --> 01:01:37,855
Oh.

759
01:02:07,022 --> 01:02:08,987
[Fiona]
Are you getting tired?

760
01:02:08,988 --> 01:02:10,556
[Aubrey]
No.
[Fiona]
Are you certain--

761
01:02:17,556 --> 01:02:19,887
Excuse me.

762
01:02:19,888 --> 01:02:22,054
Yes, Mr. Andersson?

763
01:02:22,055 --> 01:02:24,688
How can I help you?

764
01:02:24,689 --> 01:02:26,488
Fiona's wearing
someone else's sweater.

765
01:02:26,489 --> 01:02:28,921
[Madeleine]
Well, it's pretty,
isn't it?

766
01:02:28,922 --> 01:02:30,488
No, it's not pretty.
It's tacky.

767
01:02:30,489 --> 01:02:33,521
She would never wear it.
Well, I'll tell you what.

768
01:02:33,522 --> 01:02:34,987
You can talk
to the duty attendant

769
01:02:34,988 --> 01:02:36,755
on Mrs. Andersson's
wing.

770
01:02:36,756 --> 01:02:38,987
Boy, it's a marvel, really,

771
01:02:38,988 --> 01:02:41,522
the way she's getting him up
and out of that chair.

772
01:02:48,389 --> 01:02:49,789
Can you manage?

773
01:02:52,522 --> 01:02:53,887
Will you be all right?

774
01:02:53,888 --> 01:02:55,855
I'll
be back in a second.

775
01:02:58,622 --> 01:03:01,021
Fiona,
I'm your husband.

776
01:03:01,022 --> 01:03:02,887
Fiona, it's Grant.

777
01:03:02,888 --> 01:03:05,388
We've been married
for 45 years.

778
01:03:05,389 --> 01:03:08,788
Look at me, Fiona.
That is not your sweater.

779
01:03:08,789 --> 01:03:10,688
We had a good life
together.

780
01:03:10,689 --> 01:03:13,621
Those are your words,
Fiona, not mine.

781
01:03:13,622 --> 01:03:15,655
That is not your sweater.

782
01:03:15,656 --> 01:03:18,789
[Aubrey groaning]

783
01:03:21,689 --> 01:03:23,954
It's all right.

784
01:03:23,955 --> 01:03:26,822
It's all right.
It's all right.

785
01:03:26,823 --> 01:03:28,755
I'm coming
straight back.

786
01:03:28,756 --> 01:03:29,921
I'm coming
straight back.

787
01:03:29,922 --> 01:03:32,122
It's going to be
all right.

788
01:03:50,723 --> 01:03:53,823
I'll see you again
tomorrow, I suppose.

789
01:03:57,723 --> 01:03:59,622
Please...

790
01:04:01,089 --> 01:04:02,022
don't.

791
01:04:04,888 --> 01:04:07,855
Please, please don't.

792
01:04:11,355 --> 01:04:13,922
You're very persistent,
aren't you?

793
01:04:20,355 --> 01:04:23,722
I wish I--

794
01:04:23,723 --> 01:04:25,456
Wish I knew what--

795
01:04:30,988 --> 01:04:34,555
[sniffles]

796
01:04:34,556 --> 01:04:37,355
We'll see you again
tomorrow, I suppose.

797
01:05:20,622 --> 01:05:23,655
You're not doing
too well, are you?

798
01:05:23,656 --> 01:05:25,354
Well, no big surprise.

799
01:05:25,355 --> 01:05:28,522
What we're handling
isn't so easy.

800
01:05:30,689 --> 01:05:32,054
I thought
when I married,

801
01:05:32,055 --> 01:05:35,688
I'd be with someone
to the final stretch.

802
01:05:35,689 --> 01:05:38,855
I'm betting
you thought the same.

803
01:05:38,855 --> 01:05:41,054
Well, didn't work out.

804
01:05:41,055 --> 01:05:44,921
[Aubrey groaning]

805
01:05:44,922 --> 01:05:49,588
So, I, uh, think
you're here for a reason.

806
01:05:49,589 --> 01:05:53,054
I'm the kind of person
you can say things
flat out to, so shoot.

807
01:05:53,055 --> 01:05:57,054
[sigh]

808
01:05:57,055 --> 01:06:00,388
I wonder if you would
consider taking Aubrey
back to Meadowlake,

809
01:06:00,389 --> 01:06:03,421
maybe just for a visit.

810
01:06:03,422 --> 01:06:06,822
Or I suppose
I could take Aubrey
out there myself.

811
01:06:06,823 --> 01:06:08,556
I wouldn't mind that at all.

812
01:06:10,855 --> 01:06:12,556
[sigh]

813
01:06:13,656 --> 01:06:15,355
Homemade.

814
01:06:22,589 --> 01:06:23,622
Really?

815
01:06:26,589 --> 01:06:30,455
No. No, I can't do that.

816
01:06:30,456 --> 01:06:32,588
And the reason is
I don't want to upset him.

817
01:06:32,589 --> 01:06:34,088
But wouldn't he understand
it was just a visit?

818
01:06:34,089 --> 01:06:36,954
He understands everything.

819
01:06:36,955 --> 01:06:39,555
Now, if I go
to all that trouble,

820
01:06:39,556 --> 01:06:42,121
I'd prefer to take him
someplace that'd be
more fun, hmm?

821
01:06:42,122 --> 01:06:44,722
It would make more sense
to take him to the mall

822
01:06:44,723 --> 01:06:46,088
where there are kids
and whatnot.

823
01:06:46,089 --> 01:06:48,588
And then I'd have to
get him all ready,

824
01:06:48,589 --> 01:06:50,088
maneuver him
into the car.

825
01:06:50,089 --> 01:06:52,555
He's a big man.
He's not that easy
to manage.

826
01:06:52,556 --> 01:06:54,655
Even if I agreed to do it?

827
01:06:54,656 --> 01:06:55,921
You couldn't do it.
You don't know him.

828
01:06:55,922 --> 01:06:57,555
You couldn't manage him.

829
01:06:57,556 --> 01:06:59,621
And he wouldn't stand
your doing for him.

830
01:06:59,622 --> 01:07:04,455
And after all that,
what would he get
out of it?

831
01:07:04,456 --> 01:07:05,589
Uh...

832
01:07:06,789 --> 01:07:08,389
Hmm.

833
01:07:27,723 --> 01:07:29,121
Smoke?

834
01:07:29,122 --> 01:07:31,488
No. No, thanks.

835
01:07:31,489 --> 01:07:33,621
What, did you never,
or did you quit?

836
01:07:33,622 --> 01:07:34,887
I quit.

837
01:07:34,888 --> 01:07:36,121
How long ago?

838
01:07:36,122 --> 01:07:40,887
Oh, 30 years,
maybe more.

839
01:07:40,888 --> 01:07:42,522
I quit quitting.

840
01:07:44,823 --> 01:07:47,789
Just made a resolution
to quit quitting,
that's all.

841
01:07:49,456 --> 01:07:52,622
So your wife's
depressed, huh?

842
01:07:53,589 --> 01:07:55,788
What's her name again?
I forget.

843
01:07:55,789 --> 01:07:57,521
Fiona.

844
01:07:57,522 --> 01:07:59,788
[Kristy]
And how old were you
when you met?

845
01:07:59,789 --> 01:08:01,887
She was 18.

846
01:08:01,888 --> 01:08:04,655
Holy, that's pretty young
to get married, eh?

847
01:08:04,656 --> 01:08:06,355
[chuckling]

848
01:08:08,756 --> 01:08:10,088
Wasn't my idea.

849
01:08:10,089 --> 01:08:12,621
You mean
she proposed to you?

850
01:08:12,622 --> 01:08:14,354
Well, that's lovely,
that's what I think.

851
01:08:14,355 --> 01:08:15,122
How'd she do it?

852
01:08:15,123 --> 01:08:17,788
She hadn't planned it
necessarily.

853
01:08:17,789 --> 01:08:21,621
We were in Tobermory
waiting for the ferry
to Manitoulin,

854
01:08:21,622 --> 01:08:24,521
and it was miserable
and rainy,

855
01:08:24,522 --> 01:08:28,388
and she was in a good mood.

856
01:08:28,389 --> 01:08:30,388
She didn't want any part
of my sour mood.

857
01:08:30,389 --> 01:08:32,788
[chuckles]
And what'd she do,
what'd she say?

858
01:08:32,789 --> 01:08:37,655
Well, she said,
"Do you think it'd be fun--

859
01:08:37,656 --> 01:08:41,488
Do you think it'd be fun
if we got married?"

860
01:08:41,489 --> 01:08:42,987
And what did you say?

861
01:08:42,988 --> 01:08:44,588
I took her up on it.

862
01:08:44,589 --> 01:08:46,456
I shouted yes.

863
01:08:51,122 --> 01:08:53,789
I never wanted
to be away from her.

864
01:08:55,955 --> 01:08:58,422
She had the spark of life.

865
01:09:00,489 --> 01:09:02,555
[Kristy]
You know, nothing
can take away

866
01:09:02,556 --> 01:09:06,954
what's happened to you
and what you've experienced.

867
01:09:06,955 --> 01:09:08,655
I don't think so, anyway.

868
01:09:08,656 --> 01:09:13,954
Even if it goes away somehow,
it's still there.

869
01:09:13,955 --> 01:09:16,089
It's still what you are.

870
01:09:18,055 --> 01:09:19,688
[Grant]
It's curious.

871
01:09:19,689 --> 01:09:20,822
What's curious?

872
01:09:20,823 --> 01:09:24,421
All of that
"madly in love" business.

873
01:09:24,422 --> 01:09:25,887
The beginning.

874
01:09:25,888 --> 01:09:31,589
I hear myself tell the story,
and it all sounds so crucial.

875
01:09:33,422 --> 01:09:35,121
I suppose it is.

876
01:09:35,122 --> 01:09:37,588
But compared to what
we ended up with,

877
01:09:37,589 --> 01:09:39,855
until recently...

878
01:09:41,823 --> 01:09:45,622
all of that seems
so superficial somehow.

879
01:09:47,855 --> 01:09:50,756
[chatter,
plates clinking]

880
01:10:23,789 --> 01:10:27,488
♪ [heavy metal]

881
01:10:27,489 --> 01:10:31,121
Not such a fun place
to visit, eh?

882
01:10:31,122 --> 01:10:32,455
Excuse me?

883
01:10:32,456 --> 01:10:35,921
Not such a fun place
to visit.

884
01:10:35,922 --> 01:10:37,556
Fucking depressing.

885
01:10:39,589 --> 01:10:40,655
No offense.

886
01:10:40,656 --> 01:10:41,756
None taken.

887
01:10:43,756 --> 01:10:47,054
No one came
to visit you, huh?

888
01:10:47,055 --> 01:10:49,021
That must suck huge.

889
01:10:49,022 --> 01:10:52,621
Well, it would suck huge,
but I don't live here.

890
01:10:52,622 --> 01:10:54,788
I'm just visiting someone.

891
01:10:54,789 --> 01:10:57,088
Who? Which one?

892
01:10:57,089 --> 01:11:00,521
Beautiful woman
with the shock of hair.

893
01:11:00,522 --> 01:11:01,788
The one sitting
with her husband?

894
01:11:01,789 --> 01:11:04,588
You might say that.
Why wouldn't you?

895
01:11:04,589 --> 01:11:06,656
I wouldn't say that
because I'm her husband.

896
01:11:08,656 --> 01:11:11,456
So why aren't you
sitting with her, then?

897
01:11:14,522 --> 01:11:17,855
Just learned to give her
some space.

898
01:11:17,855 --> 01:11:20,354
She's in love with that man
she's sitting with.

899
01:11:20,355 --> 01:11:22,655
I don't like to disturb her.

900
01:11:22,656 --> 01:11:25,121
I just like to see her,
I suppose.

901
01:11:25,122 --> 01:11:28,656
Make sure she's
doing well, you know?

902
01:11:31,723 --> 01:11:34,689
I suppose that must seem
rather pathetic.

903
01:11:36,489 --> 01:11:38,823
I should be so lucky.

904
01:11:44,955 --> 01:11:46,489
Come on.

905
01:11:48,122 --> 01:11:49,689
[chuckles]

906
01:12:11,422 --> 01:12:13,021
She's not here.

907
01:12:13,022 --> 01:12:14,788
She's sick.

908
01:12:14,789 --> 01:12:17,488
He's not here, either.

909
01:12:17,489 --> 01:12:19,556
[laughing]

910
01:12:35,589 --> 01:12:37,456
[knocking]

911
01:12:45,756 --> 01:12:49,521
I brought you a book.

912
01:12:49,522 --> 01:12:51,722
It's all about Iceland.

913
01:12:51,723 --> 01:12:54,121
Thought you might like
to take a look at it.

914
01:12:54,122 --> 01:12:56,421
Why, thank you.

915
01:12:56,422 --> 01:12:57,521
[crying]

916
01:12:57,522 --> 01:13:00,555
Oh, what is it,
dear heart?

917
01:13:00,556 --> 01:13:03,421
[Aubrey sniffling]
What is it?
Oh, I see.

918
01:13:03,422 --> 01:13:05,722
Here. Here.
Here.

919
01:13:05,723 --> 01:13:08,022
Here, here, yes.

920
01:13:10,789 --> 01:13:13,755
Do you by any chance have
any influence around here?

921
01:13:13,756 --> 01:13:17,622
I've seen you
talking to them.

922
01:13:19,622 --> 01:13:21,656
Oh.

923
01:13:24,522 --> 01:13:25,655
We'll get to see each other.

924
01:13:25,656 --> 01:13:29,521
[groans]
You'll see.
We have to.

925
01:13:29,522 --> 01:13:32,555
I'll come and see you,

926
01:13:32,556 --> 01:13:35,055
and you'll come
and see me.

927
01:13:41,988 --> 01:13:43,555
You know,
I just wish his wife

928
01:13:43,556 --> 01:13:45,088
would hurry up
and get here.

929
01:13:45,089 --> 01:13:47,021
I wish she'd
get him out of here

930
01:13:47,022 --> 01:13:48,521
and cut the agony
short.

931
01:13:48,522 --> 01:13:49,954
Should I stay?

932
01:13:49,955 --> 01:13:52,789
Don't worry.
She's not sick,
you know.

933
01:13:54,922 --> 01:13:56,655
To keep her company.

934
01:13:56,656 --> 01:13:59,388
Well, they have to learn
to get over these things
by themselves.

935
01:13:59,389 --> 01:14:02,823
They've got short memories,
and that's not always so bad.

936
01:14:05,522 --> 01:14:06,689
Okay?

937
01:14:32,622 --> 01:14:36,755
[Woman]
Fiona. Her name is Fiona.

938
01:14:36,756 --> 01:14:38,121
And what's yours?

939
01:14:38,122 --> 01:14:41,421
I don't think
I was ever told that.

940
01:14:41,422 --> 01:14:44,054
Oh, I'm sorry.
It's Grant.

941
01:14:44,055 --> 01:14:46,054
Hmm.

942
01:14:46,055 --> 01:14:48,488
Hello, Grant.

943
01:14:48,489 --> 01:14:50,556
I'm Marian.

944
01:14:54,089 --> 01:14:57,388
Well, now that we know
each other's name,

945
01:14:57,389 --> 01:15:01,588
I can
tell you straight out
what I'm thinking.

946
01:15:01,589 --> 01:15:06,655
I don't know if he's still
so stuck on seeing your--

947
01:15:06,656 --> 01:15:07,788
seeing Fiona.

948
01:15:07,789 --> 01:15:10,655
I don't ask him,
he doesn't tell me.

949
01:15:10,656 --> 01:15:13,987
But I don't feel like
putting him back in there

950
01:15:13,988 --> 01:15:16,588
in case it turns out
to be more than that.

951
01:15:16,589 --> 01:15:19,455
I don't want him
getting hard to handle.

952
01:15:19,456 --> 01:15:23,021
I don't have any help.
It's just me here.

953
01:15:23,022 --> 01:15:24,488
I'm it.

954
01:15:24,489 --> 01:15:25,788
It is very hard for you.

955
01:15:25,789 --> 01:15:28,688
Did-- Did you ever consider
his going in there for good?

956
01:15:28,689 --> 01:15:31,722
No. I'm keeping him
right here.

957
01:15:31,723 --> 01:15:34,421
Well, that's very good
and noble of you.

958
01:15:34,422 --> 01:15:35,722
Oh, you think so?

959
01:15:35,723 --> 01:15:39,788
Well, noble is not
what I'm thinking about.

960
01:15:39,789 --> 01:15:41,788
No, but it isn't easy.

961
01:15:41,789 --> 01:15:44,121
No, it isn't,
but I don't have a choice.

962
01:15:44,122 --> 01:15:47,954
If I pay to put him in there,
I won't hold on to the house,

963
01:15:47,955 --> 01:15:50,489
and the house
is the only thing
we own outright.

964
01:15:53,122 --> 01:15:57,421
And it means a lot to me,
this house does.

965
01:15:57,422 --> 01:15:58,922
It's very nice.

966
01:15:59,888 --> 01:16:02,987
Well, I guess it's all right.

967
01:16:02,988 --> 01:16:06,688
I've done a lot on it,
fixing it up, keeping it up.

968
01:16:06,689 --> 01:16:08,722
Yes, I can see
that you have-- you do.

969
01:16:08,723 --> 01:16:10,621
I don't want to lose it.
No.

970
01:16:10,622 --> 01:16:12,855
I'm not going to lose it.
I see your point.

971
01:16:12,855 --> 01:16:14,855
See, the company
left us high and dry.

972
01:16:14,855 --> 01:16:20,888
In the end, they said
he owed them money.

973
01:16:22,489 --> 01:16:27,354
What do I think?
Well, he was pretty stupid.

974
01:16:27,355 --> 01:16:28,488
[sigh]

975
01:16:28,489 --> 01:16:32,588
But I'm not supposed
to ask, so I shut up.

976
01:16:32,589 --> 01:16:34,054
You've been married, huh?

977
01:16:34,055 --> 01:16:36,955
I mean, you are married.
You know what it's like.

978
01:16:38,723 --> 01:16:40,921
And then, in the middle
of all this,

979
01:16:40,922 --> 01:16:45,922
he gets sick from this virus,
and he goes into a coma.

980
01:16:50,922 --> 01:16:55,723
So that pretty much
takes him off the hook, hmm?

981
01:16:57,988 --> 01:16:59,589
It's bad luck.

982
01:17:00,723 --> 01:17:03,589
It's, no, just life.

983
01:17:07,355 --> 01:17:08,922
Can't beat life.

984
01:17:10,622 --> 01:17:11,955
No.

985
01:17:16,089 --> 01:17:17,556
[knocking at door]

986
01:17:23,823 --> 01:17:26,422
Oh. Hello.

987
01:18:08,055 --> 01:18:09,789
Perhaps you'd like me
to read to you.

988
01:18:11,922 --> 01:18:14,122
I don't have any books.

989
01:18:17,622 --> 01:18:19,022
Oh, there are some.

990
01:18:21,656 --> 01:18:23,723
Letters from Iceland.

991
01:18:32,955 --> 01:18:35,621
"Isn't it true,
however far we've wandered

992
01:18:35,622 --> 01:18:38,455
"into our provinces
of persecution,

993
01:18:38,456 --> 01:18:42,621
"where our regrets accuse,
we keep returning

994
01:18:42,622 --> 01:18:44,722
"back to the common faith

995
01:18:44,723 --> 01:18:46,921
"from which
we've all dissented,

996
01:18:46,922 --> 01:18:50,921
"back to the hands,
the feet, the faces?

997
01:18:50,922 --> 01:18:54,655
"Children are always there
and take the hands,

998
01:18:54,656 --> 01:18:56,621
"even when they
are most terrified.

999
01:18:56,622 --> 01:19:00,855
"Those in love cannot
make up their minds
to go or stay.

1000
01:19:00,855 --> 01:19:04,421
"Artist and doctor
return most often.

1001
01:19:04,422 --> 01:19:07,655
"Only the mad will never,
never come back.

1002
01:19:07,656 --> 01:19:10,488
"For doctors keep
on worrying while away,

1003
01:19:10,489 --> 01:19:15,388
"in case their skill
is suffering and deserted.

1004
01:19:15,389 --> 01:19:19,354
"Lovers have lived so long
with giants and elves,

1005
01:19:19,355 --> 01:19:22,921
"they want belief again
in their own size.

1006
01:19:22,922 --> 01:19:25,987
"And the artist prays
ever so gently,

1007
01:19:25,988 --> 01:19:29,722
"'Let me find pure
all that can happen.

1008
01:19:29,723 --> 01:19:32,954
"'Only uniqueness is success.

1009
01:19:32,955 --> 01:19:37,521
"'For instance,
let me perceive
the images of history.

1010
01:19:37,522 --> 01:19:41,588
"'All that I push away
with doubt and travel,

1011
01:19:41,589 --> 01:19:45,655
today's and yesterday's alike,
like bodies."

1012
01:19:45,656 --> 01:19:48,655
[George W. Bush]
To all the men and women of
the United States Armed Forces

1013
01:19:48,656 --> 01:19:50,987
now in the Middle East,
the peace of a troubled world

1014
01:19:50,988 --> 01:19:53,421
and the hopes
of an oppressed people

1015
01:19:53,422 --> 01:19:56,655
now depend on you.

1016
01:19:56,656 --> 01:19:58,488
How could they forget Vietnam?

1017
01:19:58,489 --> 01:20:00,855
[Woman]
The air strike started again
at 5 A.M. this morning

1018
01:20:00,855 --> 01:20:02,855
and lasted for three hours.

1019
01:20:02,855 --> 01:20:04,722
Roadside explosions
have killed

1020
01:20:04,723 --> 01:20:08,089
eight Iraqi civilians
and one U.S. soldier.

1021
01:20:09,622 --> 01:20:11,355
Hmm.
Hmm.

1022
01:20:17,656 --> 01:20:18,756
Here you go.

1023
01:20:19,955 --> 01:20:23,089
Next time you do it,
just go pick it up, okay?

1024
01:20:29,022 --> 01:20:31,755
Her muscles
are deteriorating.

1025
01:20:31,756 --> 01:20:32,755
If she doesn't
improve soon,

1026
01:20:32,756 --> 01:20:35,954
we're going to have to
put her on a walker.

1027
01:20:35,955 --> 01:20:37,488
I keep trying
to get her walking,

1028
01:20:37,489 --> 01:20:39,555
but she doesn't seem
to want to go anywhere.

1029
01:20:39,556 --> 01:20:43,388
But, you know,
once they get on a walker,
they start to depend on it,

1030
01:20:43,389 --> 01:20:45,455
and then they don't want
to walk much anymore,

1031
01:20:45,456 --> 01:20:48,088
just get wherever it is
they have to go.

1032
01:20:48,089 --> 01:20:50,455
You're going to have to
work at her harder.

1033
01:20:50,456 --> 01:20:52,555
Try and encourage her.

1034
01:20:52,556 --> 01:20:53,988
Sorry.

1035
01:20:59,656 --> 01:21:01,522
Here you go.

1036
01:21:13,489 --> 01:21:15,588
Mrs. Andersson.

1037
01:21:15,589 --> 01:21:18,389
How would you like
to go on a field trip?

1038
01:22:00,622 --> 01:22:03,888
They've kept it
so like it was.

1039
01:22:06,355 --> 01:22:08,788
Who has?

1040
01:22:08,789 --> 01:22:11,389
The people who live here.

1041
01:23:21,089 --> 01:23:23,422
But everything...

1042
01:23:29,689 --> 01:23:32,888
Everything
just reminds me of him.

1043
01:23:34,556 --> 01:23:38,621
It wasn't enough,
I suppose.

1044
01:23:38,622 --> 01:23:40,656
Who, Fiona?

1045
01:23:42,022 --> 01:23:44,656
Who does everything
remind you of?

1046
01:24:03,689 --> 01:24:07,522
I'd like to go home now,
if you don't mind.

1047
01:24:12,489 --> 01:24:14,388
[Madeleine]
Now, as you know,

1048
01:24:14,389 --> 01:24:17,555
we don't do extended care
on the first floor.

1049
01:24:17,556 --> 01:24:21,621
I mean, we do it temporarily
if someone isn't feeling well.

1050
01:24:21,622 --> 01:24:25,121
But if they progress
too far,

1051
01:24:25,122 --> 01:24:29,355
we have to consider
moving upstairs.

1052
01:24:30,622 --> 01:24:32,688
[sigh]

1053
01:24:32,689 --> 01:24:35,655
Do you happen to have
Aubrey's address?

1054
01:24:35,656 --> 01:24:37,355
I'm sorry?

1055
01:24:40,355 --> 01:24:43,987
Aubrey and his wife.

1056
01:24:43,988 --> 01:24:46,522
Where do they live?

1057
01:25:03,489 --> 01:25:04,887
[Marian]
Well, it was
probably a mistake

1058
01:25:04,888 --> 01:25:07,488
putting him there
in the first place,

1059
01:25:07,489 --> 01:25:09,688
but I wasn't going
to get another chance

1060
01:25:09,689 --> 01:25:12,755
to get away,
so I took it.

1061
01:25:12,756 --> 01:25:13,988
Well, so...

1062
01:25:15,789 --> 01:25:17,689
[chuckles]
Now I know better.

1063
01:25:21,089 --> 01:25:23,621
Did your husband ever
work in a hardware store

1064
01:25:23,622 --> 01:25:25,822
in the summers
when he was going to school?

1065
01:25:25,823 --> 01:25:29,655
No, I never heard
about that.

1066
01:25:29,656 --> 01:25:31,522
But I wasn't raised here.

1067
01:25:32,955 --> 01:25:36,489
No. I didn't think so.

1068
01:25:43,622 --> 01:25:47,021
Thank you very much
for your time, Miriam.

1069
01:25:47,022 --> 01:25:50,655
It's Marian.

1070
01:25:50,656 --> 01:25:51,823
Sorry.

1071
01:25:59,556 --> 01:26:01,555
[sigh]

1072
01:26:01,556 --> 01:26:03,689
What a jerk.

1073
01:26:09,756 --> 01:26:10,723
Hmm.

1074
01:26:13,355 --> 01:26:15,489
[car engine starts]

1075
01:26:23,122 --> 01:26:25,121
Yeah, maybe someone
could just drop in on her,

1076
01:26:25,122 --> 01:26:26,655
like, if the nurse
is around.

1077
01:26:26,656 --> 01:26:29,054
All right.

1078
01:26:29,055 --> 01:26:30,855
No, I don't think
there's much to it,

1079
01:26:30,855 --> 01:26:32,722
but I'd like you
to call me back.

1080
01:26:32,723 --> 01:26:34,621
Okay.

1081
01:26:34,622 --> 01:26:36,954
Thanks a lot. Bye-bye.

1082
01:26:36,955 --> 01:26:38,588
Hey.
Hi.

1083
01:26:38,589 --> 01:26:40,121
[punching keypad]

1084
01:26:40,122 --> 01:26:43,555
Uh...

1085
01:26:43,556 --> 01:26:47,987
I think I want to ask you
about the second floor,

1086
01:26:47,988 --> 01:26:51,555
just to know
a little more about it.

1087
01:26:51,556 --> 01:26:53,656
Well, it's for people
who've really lost it.

1088
01:27:00,955 --> 01:27:03,655
What do they do, then?

1089
01:27:03,656 --> 01:27:08,455
What happens after that?
After they've...lost it?

1090
01:27:08,456 --> 01:27:10,555
You don't really
want to know.

1091
01:27:10,556 --> 01:27:12,621
But, you know,
sometimes they get it back.

1092
01:27:12,622 --> 01:27:15,555
They go into their room
for a year, they don't
know you from Adam,

1093
01:27:15,556 --> 01:27:17,788
and then one day,
it's, "Oh, hi.
When are we going home?"

1094
01:27:17,789 --> 01:27:20,388
I mean, all of a sudden,
they're back to normal.

1095
01:27:20,389 --> 01:27:22,121
But it doesn't
last for long.

1096
01:27:22,122 --> 01:27:23,921
You think,
"Oh, wow, back to normal,"

1097
01:27:23,922 --> 01:27:25,722
and then they're gone again--

1098
01:27:25,723 --> 01:27:27,656
[snaps fingers]
like so.

1099
01:27:30,556 --> 01:27:33,655
I haven't even asked you
about yourself.

1100
01:27:33,656 --> 01:27:35,054
You married?

1101
01:27:35,055 --> 01:27:38,954
Well, technically,
yeah, I guess.

1102
01:27:38,955 --> 01:27:41,021
Got three kids.

1103
01:27:41,022 --> 01:27:43,621
Their dad lives
in Alberta, I think.

1104
01:27:43,622 --> 01:27:45,822
He's making it rich, maybe.
I wouldn't know.

1105
01:27:45,823 --> 01:27:48,455
Must be quite a struggle.

1106
01:27:48,456 --> 01:27:52,388
It, uh...knocks the wind
out of you every now and then,

1107
01:27:52,389 --> 01:27:55,656
but you just pick yourself
back up like everyone else.

1108
01:27:57,522 --> 01:28:01,421
I suppose our lives
must seem easy to you.

1109
01:28:01,422 --> 01:28:04,688
We got through life
without too much
going wrong.

1110
01:28:04,689 --> 01:28:08,488
What we have to suffer
now, when we're old,

1111
01:28:08,489 --> 01:28:10,088
hardly counts,
I suppose.

1112
01:28:10,089 --> 01:28:12,656
That's
what you must think.

1113
01:28:16,556 --> 01:28:18,921
Well, how would you
know what I think?

1114
01:28:18,922 --> 01:28:20,822
To tell you the truth,
I'd rather be

1115
01:28:20,823 --> 01:28:24,621
the one that stayed
than the one that left.

1116
01:28:24,622 --> 01:28:26,954
I'll bet you weren't always
the doggedly devoted husband.

1117
01:28:26,955 --> 01:28:29,621
Am I right?

1118
01:28:29,622 --> 01:28:33,088
I mean, you said
that you wondered

1119
01:28:33,089 --> 01:28:37,688
if maybe she was punishing
you for something?

1120
01:28:37,689 --> 01:28:39,955
I'll bet you had something
pretty specific in mind,
didn't you?

1121
01:28:42,955 --> 01:28:48,822
You know, you see a lot
of things in this job.

1122
01:28:48,823 --> 01:28:51,621
You see the end of things
all day long.

1123
01:28:51,622 --> 01:28:53,521
And in my experience,
at the end of things

1124
01:28:53,522 --> 01:28:55,354
it's almost always
the men that think

1125
01:28:55,355 --> 01:28:58,621
that not too much
went wrong.

1126
01:28:58,622 --> 01:29:00,855
I wonder if your wife
feels the same way.

1127
01:29:02,888 --> 01:29:04,756
I wonder that, too.

1128
01:29:06,089 --> 01:29:08,522
I bet you do.

1129
01:29:26,756 --> 01:29:31,455
[phone ringing]

1130
01:29:31,456 --> 01:29:32,621
[answering machine beeps]

1131
01:29:32,622 --> 01:29:34,421
[Marian]
Uh, hello, Grant.

1132
01:29:34,422 --> 01:29:36,621
I hope I got
the right person.

1133
01:29:36,622 --> 01:29:38,488
I just thought of something.

1134
01:29:38,489 --> 01:29:40,655
There is a dance
here in town

1135
01:29:40,656 --> 01:29:42,855
at the Legion
on Saturday night,

1136
01:29:42,855 --> 01:29:44,621
and I am
on the supper committee,

1137
01:29:44,622 --> 01:29:46,822
which means I can
bring a free guest.

1138
01:29:46,823 --> 01:29:49,521
So I wondered
whether you would happen

1139
01:29:49,522 --> 01:29:51,655
to be interested in that.

1140
01:29:51,656 --> 01:29:54,054
Call me back
when you get a chance.

1141
01:29:54,055 --> 01:29:57,788
555-3457.

1142
01:29:57,789 --> 01:29:59,588
[click]

1143
01:29:59,589 --> 01:30:01,488
[answering machine beeps]

1144
01:30:01,489 --> 01:30:04,388
[Marian]
I just realizedI'd forgotten
to say who it was.

1145
01:30:04,389 --> 01:30:05,621
[chuckles]

1146
01:30:05,622 --> 01:30:08,755
Well, you probably recognize
the voice, the accent.

1147
01:30:08,756 --> 01:30:10,421
It's Marian.

1148
01:30:10,422 --> 01:30:12,722
I'm still not so used
to these machines,

1149
01:30:12,723 --> 01:30:15,488
and I wanted to say
I realize you're not single

1150
01:30:15,489 --> 01:30:17,588
and I don't mean it
that way.

1151
01:30:17,589 --> 01:30:19,455
I'm not, either.

1152
01:30:19,456 --> 01:30:22,588
But it doesn't hurt
to get out once in a while.

1153
01:30:22,589 --> 01:30:24,855
Anyway,
now I've said all this,

1154
01:30:24,855 --> 01:30:27,521
I really hope
it's you I'm talking to.

1155
01:30:27,522 --> 01:30:29,621
It did sound like your voice.

1156
01:30:29,622 --> 01:30:31,822
If you're interested,
you can call me.

1157
01:30:31,823 --> 01:30:34,887
And if you are not,
you don't need to bother.

1158
01:30:34,888 --> 01:30:39,488
I just thought you might
like the chance to get out.

1159
01:30:39,489 --> 01:30:41,121
It's Marian speaking.

1160
01:30:41,122 --> 01:30:43,054
[chuckling]

1161
01:30:43,055 --> 01:30:46,521
I guess I already said that.

1162
01:30:46,522 --> 01:30:49,656
Okay, then.
Good-bye.

1163
01:30:53,656 --> 01:30:55,655
[Grant]
"The desires of the heart

1164
01:30:55,656 --> 01:30:57,987
"are as crooked
as corkscrews.

1165
01:30:57,988 --> 01:31:00,655
"Not to be born
is the best for man.

1166
01:31:00,656 --> 01:31:04,088
"The second-best
is a formal order.

1167
01:31:04,089 --> 01:31:08,522
The dance's pattern:
dance while you can."

1168
01:31:13,723 --> 01:31:16,822
Fiona?

1169
01:31:16,823 --> 01:31:19,822
Is there any way
to let this go...

1170
01:31:19,823 --> 01:31:21,823
do you think?

1171
01:31:26,055 --> 01:31:29,555
If I let it go,
it'll only hit me harder

1172
01:31:29,556 --> 01:31:31,823
when I bump into it again.

1173
01:31:37,089 --> 01:31:38,689
Okay.

1174
01:31:43,556 --> 01:31:46,688
"Dance, dance,
for the figure is easy.

1175
01:31:46,689 --> 01:31:50,489
The tune is catchy
and will not stop."

1176
01:31:52,589 --> 01:31:53,921
[Grant]
"Dance till the stars

1177
01:31:53,922 --> 01:31:55,921
"come down
from the rafters.

1178
01:31:55,922 --> 01:31:59,455
Dance, dance, dance
till you drop."

1179
01:31:59,456 --> 01:32:01,855
[phone ringing]

1180
01:32:05,888 --> 01:32:07,722
[Marian]
Yes?

1181
01:32:07,723 --> 01:32:09,888
Hello, Marian.

1182
01:32:20,022 --> 01:32:21,589
So...

1183
01:32:23,723 --> 01:32:25,389
There you are.

1184
01:32:26,589 --> 01:32:28,589
Here I am.

1185
01:32:31,589 --> 01:32:32,688
Thank you.

1186
01:32:32,689 --> 01:32:35,789
♪ [slow jazz]

1187
01:32:58,888 --> 01:33:00,556
What are you thinking?

1188
01:33:02,522 --> 01:33:04,556
Not an awful lot, really.

1189
01:33:06,556 --> 01:33:08,689
Skiing.

1190
01:33:11,955 --> 01:33:13,022
Downhill?

1191
01:33:15,589 --> 01:33:16,656
Cross-country.

1192
01:33:19,589 --> 01:33:23,089
I'm more a thrill-seeker,
I guess.

1193
01:33:28,656 --> 01:33:29,823
What are you thinking?

1194
01:33:31,656 --> 01:33:33,354
I'm thinking
you never know

1195
01:33:33,355 --> 01:33:35,823
how things are going
to turn out.

1196
01:33:38,656 --> 01:33:41,921
You almost know...

1197
01:33:41,922 --> 01:33:45,855
but you can never
be quite sure.

1198
01:34:21,955 --> 01:34:23,689
Mr. Andersson?

1199
01:34:30,489 --> 01:34:32,488
Mr. Andersson?

1200
01:34:32,489 --> 01:34:34,588
Now, as you know,
we're, uh,

1201
01:34:34,589 --> 01:34:36,021
we're going to have to
think about moving

1202
01:34:36,022 --> 01:34:39,722
Mrs. Andersson upstairs
fairly soon, I'm afraid.

1203
01:34:39,723 --> 01:34:42,054
She hasn't been
out of that bed
for two weeks now, and--

1204
01:34:42,055 --> 01:34:45,722
I'm quite aware
of your policies.

1205
01:34:45,723 --> 01:34:47,855
I'm more than aware
of your bloody policies.

1206
01:34:50,656 --> 01:34:53,588
[Frank]
Well, once again,
Nurse Kristy is taking me

1207
01:34:53,589 --> 01:34:54,887
back to the second floor.

1208
01:34:54,888 --> 01:34:56,822
The area to my right
are the elevators,

1209
01:34:56,823 --> 01:34:58,855
and as we go on
down the hall,

1210
01:34:58,855 --> 01:35:00,755
there's a man
with a broken heart,

1211
01:35:00,756 --> 01:35:02,588
broken
in a thousand pieces.

1212
01:35:02,589 --> 01:35:04,887
Well, we'll go
to Madeleine's office,
past the lunchroom.

1213
01:35:04,888 --> 01:35:06,855
Hopefully,
they're serving right now.

1214
01:35:06,855 --> 01:35:08,488
The cannelloni
was cold yesterday,

1215
01:35:08,489 --> 01:35:09,855
but let's see
what it's doing today.

1216
01:35:09,855 --> 01:35:11,855
Let's have-- I gotta have
some Cokes again.

1217
01:35:11,855 --> 01:35:13,888
That's what I'm
going to do.

1218
01:35:16,656 --> 01:35:21,521
Wouldn't it be better
if...

1219
01:35:21,522 --> 01:35:24,488
when we go out again,

1220
01:35:24,489 --> 01:35:27,088
to put Aubrey
back into Meadowlake?

1221
01:35:27,089 --> 01:35:29,588
Just for a day?

1222
01:35:29,589 --> 01:35:31,622
What do you think?

1223
01:35:34,522 --> 01:35:39,488
I'm thinking
that sometimes you...

1224
01:35:39,489 --> 01:35:44,022
just have to make
the decision to be happy.

1225
01:35:46,589 --> 01:35:48,355
Just decide.

1226
01:35:49,955 --> 01:35:53,588
Things aren't ever
what you hoped they'd be.

1227
01:35:53,589 --> 01:35:55,489
Not ever, for anybody.

1228
01:35:57,389 --> 01:35:58,788
The only thing
that separates

1229
01:35:58,789 --> 01:36:01,054
one kind of person
from another

1230
01:36:01,055 --> 01:36:05,054
is there are some
who stay angry about it

1231
01:36:05,055 --> 01:36:08,688
and there
are some who...

1232
01:36:08,689 --> 01:36:11,055
accept
what comes their way.

1233
01:36:12,689 --> 01:36:14,089
And which kind
of person are you?

1234
01:36:15,622 --> 01:36:19,054
I was pretty mad
about it.

1235
01:36:19,055 --> 01:36:22,121
But now...

1236
01:36:22,122 --> 01:36:26,955
looking at what
came my way...

1237
01:36:31,656 --> 01:36:34,589
I think I could be
the other kind of person.

1238
01:36:37,589 --> 01:36:40,055
Quite the philosopher,
huh?

1239
01:36:43,522 --> 01:36:45,021
Look, why don't you
pull over here?

1240
01:36:45,022 --> 01:36:49,422
Just...
pull over, could you?

1241
01:37:00,422 --> 01:37:02,689
Ahem.

1242
01:37:05,089 --> 01:37:06,756
I know what you're doing.

1243
01:37:08,556 --> 01:37:11,755
It would be easier for me

1244
01:37:11,756 --> 01:37:13,622
if you could pretend
a little.

1245
01:37:15,089 --> 01:37:17,422
Do you think
you could do that?

1246
01:37:32,422 --> 01:37:35,055
Now, what were
we talking about?

1247
01:38:20,622 --> 01:38:22,455
She was the only one
in her family

1248
01:38:22,456 --> 01:38:23,656
who bothered to learn
sign language.

1249
01:38:25,122 --> 01:38:29,688
Now she can't remember how,
or maybe even who she is.

1250
01:38:29,689 --> 01:38:30,987
Her daughter?

1251
01:38:30,988 --> 01:38:32,755
Yeah.

1252
01:38:32,756 --> 01:38:35,655
It's left her
pretty stranded.

1253
01:38:35,656 --> 01:38:37,689
Marooned.

1254
01:38:39,723 --> 01:38:41,588
You know,
I thought of you
the other day.

1255
01:38:41,589 --> 01:38:43,488
You know that billboard
out in front

1256
01:38:43,489 --> 01:38:44,755
of the United Church
in Bradford,

1257
01:38:44,756 --> 01:38:48,388
they post all that
biblical-type stuff?

1258
01:38:48,389 --> 01:38:51,688
The other day, it said,

1259
01:38:51,689 --> 01:38:53,088
"It's never too late

1260
01:38:53,089 --> 01:38:54,723
to become what you
might have been."

1261
01:38:56,988 --> 01:39:00,788
Doesn't sound
all that biblical.

1262
01:39:00,789 --> 01:39:03,389
Well, maybe they're
getting creative on us.

1263
01:39:22,823 --> 01:39:24,522
[ding]

1264
01:39:46,122 --> 01:39:47,489
[ding]

1265
01:40:30,022 --> 01:40:32,489
See you soon, Aubrey.

1266
01:41:13,723 --> 01:41:15,788
Oh, yeah.

1267
01:41:15,789 --> 01:41:16,955
Thanks.

1268
01:41:32,022 --> 01:41:33,489
Thanks.

1269
01:42:28,456 --> 01:42:30,521
Would you mind
if I had a moment alone

1270
01:42:30,522 --> 01:42:31,988
before you come in?

1271
01:42:33,456 --> 01:42:35,556
To explain things to her?

1272
01:42:51,556 --> 01:42:55,555
I found this beautiful book
about Iceland.

1273
01:42:55,556 --> 01:42:58,621
You wouldn't think
they'd leave valuable books
lying around.

1274
01:42:58,622 --> 01:43:02,723
People who stay here
aren't all necessarily honest.

1275
01:43:04,022 --> 01:43:08,921
And I think they got
the clothes mixed up.

1276
01:43:08,922 --> 01:43:11,622
I never wear yellow.

1277
01:43:19,855 --> 01:43:22,922
I seem to remember you
reading this to me.

1278
01:43:25,389 --> 01:43:27,723
You were trying
to make me feel better.

1279
01:43:30,022 --> 01:43:32,622
You tried so hard.

1280
01:43:36,422 --> 01:43:38,622
You're a lovely man,
you know?

1281
01:43:39,955 --> 01:43:43,555
I'm a very lucky woman.

1282
01:43:43,556 --> 01:43:46,021
Fiona?
You've been gone
a long time.

1283
01:43:46,022 --> 01:43:47,755
Are we all checked out?

1284
01:43:47,756 --> 01:43:50,756
I have a surprise for you.

1285
01:43:55,355 --> 01:43:56,556
Do you remember Aubrey?

1286
01:44:20,022 --> 01:44:22,389
Names elude me.

1287
01:44:34,922 --> 01:44:37,723
I'm happy to see you.

1288
01:44:42,556 --> 01:44:45,521
You could've
just driven away.

1289
01:44:45,522 --> 01:44:50,788
Just driven away
without a care in the world

1290
01:44:50,789 --> 01:44:53,389
and forsook me.

1291
01:44:55,522 --> 01:44:57,689
Forsooken me.

1292
01:44:59,122 --> 01:45:01,556
Forsaken.

1293
01:45:03,389 --> 01:45:05,422
Not a chance.

1294
01:45:43,522 --> 01:45:46,622
♪ [folk rock]

1295
01:46:03,456 --> 01:46:08,622
[Woman]
♪ There is a town
in north Ontario ♪

1296
01:46:10,656 --> 01:46:16,622
♪ With dream, comfort,
and memory to spare ♪

1297
01:46:18,422 --> 01:46:20,621
♪ And in my mind ♪

1298
01:46:20,622 --> 01:46:24,723
♪ I still need
a place to go ♪

1299
01:46:25,723 --> 01:46:30,622
♪ All my changes were there ♪

1300
01:46:33,422 --> 01:46:35,555
♪ Blue, blue window ♪

1301
01:46:35,556 --> 01:46:40,521
♪ Behind the stars ♪

1302
01:46:40,522 --> 01:46:45,756
♪ Yellow Moon on the rise ♪

1303
01:46:47,988 --> 01:46:53,955
♪ Big birds
flying across the sky ♪

1304
01:46:55,622 --> 01:47:00,855
♪ Throwing shadows
on our eyes ♪

1305
01:47:00,855 --> 01:47:08,756
♪ Leaves us helpless,
helpless, helpless ♪

1306
01:47:10,723 --> 01:47:15,988
♪ Helpless, helpless,
helpless ♪

1307
01:47:25,522 --> 01:47:32,788
♪ Baby,
can you hear me now? ♪

1308
01:47:32,789 --> 01:47:38,656
♪ The chains are locked
and tied around my door ♪

1309
01:47:40,589 --> 01:47:47,921
♪ And, baby, will you
sing with me somehow? ♪

1310
01:47:47,922 --> 01:47:55,588
♪ Helpless, helpless,
helpless ♪

1311
01:47:55,589 --> 01:48:01,723
helpless ♪
♪ Helpless, helpless,

1312
01:48:03,556 --> 01:48:08,988
helpless ♪
♪ Helpless, helpless,

1313
01:48:10,756 --> 01:48:17,622
♪ Helpless, helpless ♪

1314
01:48:33,522 --> 01:48:36,388
♪ Blue, blue windows ♪

1315
01:48:36,389 --> 01:48:39,389
♪ Behind the stars ♪

1316
01:48:40,689 --> 01:48:46,589
♪ Yellow moon on the rise ♪

1317
01:48:48,089 --> 01:48:53,988
♪ Big birds
flying across the sky ♪

1318
01:48:55,622 --> 01:49:01,621
♪ Throwing shadows
on our eyes ♪

1319
01:49:01,622 --> 01:49:08,855
♪ Leaves us helpless,
helpless, helpless ♪

1320
01:49:10,855 --> 01:49:17,556
♪ Helpless, helpless,
helpless ♪

1321
01:49:18,589 --> 01:49:24,756
♪ Helpless, helpless ♪

1322
01:49:25,756 --> 01:49:31,622
♪ Helpless, helpless,
helpless ♪

1323
01:49:33,556 --> 01:49:38,788
helpless ♪
♪ Helpless, helpless,

1324
01:49:38,789 --> 01:49:41,789
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