1 00:02:19,087 --> 00:02:20,596 Okay, here's what I owe ya. 2 00:02:20,598 --> 00:02:22,331 Okay. Thank you. 3 00:02:33,426 --> 00:02:35,526 You take care of yourself. 4 00:04:02,697 --> 00:04:05,129 I don't see your reservation. 5 00:04:05,163 --> 00:04:07,496 I'm on the Amazon CamperForce list. 6 00:04:10,897 --> 00:04:12,363 Try M‐C‐D. 7 00:04:12,396 --> 00:04:13,930 There it is. Yeah. 8 00:05:16,999 --> 00:05:18,198 Good morning, everybody. 9 00:05:18,231 --> 00:05:20,032 How's everybody doing today? 10 00:05:20,066 --> 00:05:23,532 All right, let me get a safety tip. 11 00:05:23,566 --> 00:05:26,099 ‐ Three‐point contact. ‐ Why is it important 12 00:05:26,132 --> 00:05:27,699 to maintain three points of contact? 13 00:05:27,732 --> 00:05:29,399 So you don't fall down the stairs. 14 00:05:29,433 --> 00:05:31,500 So you don't fall down the stairs. 15 00:05:31,532 --> 00:05:34,299 Can I get a standard work tip from you? 16 00:05:34,332 --> 00:05:37,533 He's an oddball, right? Ed? He's an oddball. 17 00:05:39,266 --> 00:05:41,533 That's not even long enough. 18 00:05:41,567 --> 00:05:42,800 Now, okay... 19 00:05:43,767 --> 00:05:45,900 Some plastic... 20 00:05:51,033 --> 00:05:52,600 - This is Carl. - Hi. 21 00:05:52,633 --> 00:05:55,033 This is Angela. Hey. 22 00:05:55,067 --> 00:05:56,567 Doug. Hi, Fern. 23 00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:58,967 Ryan. Teresa. Hey, Fern. 24 00:05:59,000 --> 00:06:00,401 Karie. Good to meet you. 25 00:06:00,433 --> 00:06:01,967 And your good ol' friend... 26 00:06:02,000 --> 00:06:03,600 ...Linda May. And I'm Fern. 27 00:06:03,633 --> 00:06:04,900 - This is my friend Fern. - Hey. 28 00:06:04,933 --> 00:06:06,700 - Hi, everybody. - Hey, how're you, Fern? 29 00:06:06,733 --> 00:06:09,033 Another Smith lyric I have is, 30 00:06:09,067 --> 00:06:11,634 "When you're laughing and dancing, and finally living, 31 00:06:11,668 --> 00:06:13,468 "you hear my voice in your head and think of me kindly." 32 00:06:13,501 --> 00:06:16,468 And then also the one that means the most to me is, 33 00:06:16,501 --> 00:06:17,801 "Home, is it just a word? 34 00:06:17,834 --> 00:06:19,568 "Or is it something that you carry within you?" 35 00:06:19,601 --> 00:06:20,934 - All right. - So... 36 00:06:20,968 --> 00:06:22,634 Yeah, we like that. - I like that one. 37 00:06:22,668 --> 00:06:23,868 - Yeah. - Me, too. 38 00:06:23,901 --> 00:06:25,333 Like, his lyrics are very deep. 39 00:06:28,234 --> 00:06:30,234 And then you also have... - Yeah. 40 00:06:48,201 --> 00:06:49,535 Yes? No. 41 00:06:49,569 --> 00:06:51,268 So, the guy that had the van before, 42 00:06:51,301 --> 00:06:52,469 he just had a mattress in the back, 43 00:06:52,502 --> 00:06:53,902 but I didn't wanna keep it that way. 44 00:06:53,935 --> 00:06:54,769 I wanted to build the bed up 45 00:06:54,802 --> 00:06:56,502 so I could have storage underneath. 46 00:06:56,535 --> 00:06:59,069 And I got these storage drawers, 47 00:06:59,102 --> 00:07:00,269 one set in the front 48 00:07:00,301 --> 00:07:02,369 so I could get in them from the inside, 49 00:07:02,402 --> 00:07:04,635 and then another on the outside. 50 00:07:04,669 --> 00:07:06,835 Very smart. I thought so. 51 00:07:08,702 --> 00:07:09,869 You see that? 52 00:07:10,669 --> 00:07:11,503 What is this? 53 00:07:11,536 --> 00:07:12,969 This is my husband's old fishing box. 54 00:07:13,002 --> 00:07:15,603 I put this little latch on it, and then when I open it, 55 00:07:15,636 --> 00:07:18,202 the stopper holds it and creates 56 00:07:18,235 --> 00:07:19,670 more counterspace. Ah... 57 00:07:19,703 --> 00:07:22,370 And then I keep my really nice stuff inside. 58 00:07:22,403 --> 00:07:24,403 My dishes that my dad gave me. 59 00:07:24,436 --> 00:07:27,370 He collected these, Linda May, from yard sales, 60 00:07:27,403 --> 00:07:29,003 and when I graduated from high school, 61 00:07:29,036 --> 00:07:30,936 he gave me the whole set. 62 00:07:30,970 --> 00:07:33,236 They are beautiful. Isn't that great? 63 00:07:33,270 --> 00:07:35,536 Yeah, it's called Autumn Leaf. 64 00:07:35,570 --> 00:07:37,970 I don't have that many pieces with me, but you know. 65 00:07:38,003 --> 00:07:40,437 What did you name your van? 66 00:07:41,003 --> 00:07:42,870 Vanguard. 67 00:07:42,903 --> 00:07:44,803 Oh, that is very strong. 68 00:07:44,836 --> 00:07:46,970 She is. Mmm. 69 00:08:00,937 --> 00:08:03,104 Hey. Hey. 70 00:08:03,137 --> 00:08:05,305 Hey, what are you doing? 71 00:08:10,737 --> 00:08:12,137 ...the bears held 72 00:08:12,171 --> 00:08:13,704 at the Polar Bear Holding Facility 73 00:08:13,737 --> 00:08:16,837 are troublemakers who are kept imprisoned 74 00:08:16,871 --> 00:08:18,405 until they settle down, 75 00:08:18,438 --> 00:08:21,338 which can take anywhere from two to thirty days. 76 00:08:39,373 --> 00:08:41,538 Hey, girls. It's Mrs. M. 77 00:08:41,938 --> 00:08:43,005 Fern. 78 00:08:43,938 --> 00:08:45,138 Hey, Brandy. 79 00:08:45,172 --> 00:08:46,373 Oh, hi, Fern. Hi, kids. 80 00:08:46,406 --> 00:08:48,138 Hi. Say hi to Mrs. M. 81 00:08:48,172 --> 00:08:49,205 How are you? 82 00:08:49,239 --> 00:08:50,739 I'm good. Good. 83 00:08:50,772 --> 00:08:52,773 It's nice to see you. It's been a while. 84 00:08:52,806 --> 00:08:54,339 How've you been? Good. 85 00:08:54,373 --> 00:08:55,706 Good. You look good. Thanks. 86 00:08:55,739 --> 00:08:57,473 You cut your hair. Yeah, I cut it. 87 00:08:57,506 --> 00:08:59,172 I like it. I like it a lot. Thank you. 88 00:08:59,205 --> 00:09:00,239 Are you working at Amazon again? 89 00:09:00,273 --> 00:09:01,939 Yeah, I am. You like it? 90 00:09:01,973 --> 00:09:03,139 Uh, yeah. Great money. 91 00:09:03,172 --> 00:09:05,339 Are you still doing the van thing? 92 00:09:05,373 --> 00:09:08,439 Yeah. I'm parked over at the Desert Rose R. V. Park. 93 00:09:08,473 --> 00:09:10,739 Oh, we just drove by there today. 94 00:09:10,773 --> 00:09:11,606 Didn't we, girls? 95 00:09:11,639 --> 00:09:13,139 How's your mom? She's wonderful. 96 00:09:13,173 --> 00:09:14,739 She misses you a lot. 97 00:09:14,773 --> 00:09:16,173 Please tell her I miss her, too. 98 00:09:16,206 --> 00:09:18,939 I will. I will. But really, Fern, 99 00:09:18,973 --> 00:09:20,540 if you need a place to stay, 100 00:09:20,574 --> 00:09:22,440 you can come over and stay with us. 101 00:09:22,474 --> 00:09:23,707 We're worried about you. 102 00:09:23,740 --> 00:09:25,507 Thanks. Don't worry about me. 103 00:09:25,540 --> 00:09:27,307 I'll let you know. I promise. 104 00:09:27,340 --> 00:09:28,640 Okay. Okay. 105 00:09:28,674 --> 00:09:30,607 - See you, Aubrey. - Bye. 106 00:09:34,307 --> 00:09:35,540 Hey. 107 00:09:36,207 --> 00:09:37,707 Hey. Hi. 108 00:09:37,740 --> 00:09:40,074 You still the smartest kid in school? 109 00:09:40,107 --> 00:09:42,208 Yeah, kinda. 110 00:09:42,241 --> 00:09:45,208 You remember anything that we worked on when I tutored ya? 111 00:09:47,140 --> 00:09:48,375 Yes. 112 00:09:48,408 --> 00:09:50,940 Um... "Tomorrow, and tomorrow, and tomorrow. 113 00:09:50,974 --> 00:09:53,441 "And all of our yesterdays have lighted fools. 114 00:09:53,475 --> 00:09:56,408 "The way to dusty death. Out, out, brief candle." 115 00:09:57,007 --> 00:09:59,074 That's really good. 116 00:09:59,107 --> 00:10:01,441 Thank you. Thank you. 117 00:10:01,475 --> 00:10:02,475 Um... 118 00:10:02,508 --> 00:10:05,441 My mom says that you're homeless. Is that true? 119 00:10:05,475 --> 00:10:07,775 No, I'm not homeless. 120 00:10:07,808 --> 00:10:10,242 I'm just houseless. 121 00:10:10,275 --> 00:10:11,708 Not the same thing, right? 122 00:10:11,741 --> 00:10:12,641 No. 123 00:10:12,675 --> 00:10:14,041 Don't worry about me. I'm okay. 124 00:10:14,075 --> 00:10:15,276 Okay. 125 00:10:19,675 --> 00:10:21,409 Hey, Santa, 126 00:10:21,442 --> 00:10:23,476 Bellweather Auto has a ho, ho, whole lotta great deals 127 00:10:23,509 --> 00:10:25,309 on new and used cars and trucks. 128 00:10:25,342 --> 00:10:27,209 So come on in and find... 129 00:10:39,809 --> 00:10:42,442 Before I moved into the Squeeze Inn, 130 00:10:42,476 --> 00:10:46,377 I was out looking for work and putting in applications... 131 00:10:46,409 --> 00:10:49,509 2008, and it was just tough. 132 00:10:49,542 --> 00:10:54,942 And I got to a really, really low point. 133 00:10:56,577 --> 00:10:59,743 And I thought about suicide, and I decided 134 00:10:59,777 --> 00:11:02,942 I was gonna go buy a bottle of booze, 135 00:11:02,976 --> 00:11:05,743 turn on the propane stove... 136 00:11:07,377 --> 00:11:10,910 and I was gonna drink that booze until I passed out. 137 00:11:10,943 --> 00:11:12,743 And if I woke up... 138 00:11:13,677 --> 00:11:15,310 I was gonna light a cigarette, 139 00:11:15,343 --> 00:11:17,410 and I was gonna blow us all up. 140 00:11:18,610 --> 00:11:21,510 And I looked at my two sweet little trusting dogs, 141 00:11:21,543 --> 00:11:25,478 my Cocker Spaniel and my little Toy Poodle, 142 00:11:25,511 --> 00:11:29,744 and I just couldn't do that to them. 143 00:11:29,777 --> 00:11:32,444 And I thought, well, 144 00:11:32,478 --> 00:11:34,511 I can't do that to me, either. 145 00:11:34,544 --> 00:11:38,411 So, I was getting close to 62 146 00:11:38,444 --> 00:11:43,145 and I went online to look at my social security benefit. 147 00:11:43,178 --> 00:11:45,844 It said $550. 148 00:11:48,179 --> 00:11:50,711 Fern, I had worked my whole life. 149 00:11:50,744 --> 00:11:53,112 I'd worked since I was 12 years old, 150 00:11:53,145 --> 00:11:55,811 raised two daughters. I couldn't believe it. 151 00:11:56,345 --> 00:11:57,512 So I'm online, 152 00:11:57,545 --> 00:12:00,911 and I find Bob Wells Cheap RV Living. 153 00:12:00,944 --> 00:12:03,145 I could live in an RV, 154 00:12:03,179 --> 00:12:04,679 travel 155 00:12:05,812 --> 00:12:08,412 and not have to work for the rest of my life. 156 00:12:08,445 --> 00:12:14,179 The RTR is a bootcamp for beginner nomads. 157 00:12:14,212 --> 00:12:17,146 Bob Wells looks just like Santa Claus. 158 00:12:17,180 --> 00:12:18,213 Doesn't he? 159 00:12:18,246 --> 00:12:20,080 Everybody says that. 160 00:12:20,113 --> 00:12:21,912 What's RTR stand for? 161 00:12:21,945 --> 00:12:23,712 Rubber Tramp Rendezvous. 162 00:12:24,446 --> 00:12:26,513 It is in Quartzsite, Arizona, 163 00:12:26,545 --> 00:12:29,413 out in the middle of the desert, on BLM land. 164 00:12:29,446 --> 00:12:30,480 You should come. 165 00:12:30,513 --> 00:12:31,613 I'm gonna make you a map. 166 00:12:31,646 --> 00:12:33,680 No, I don't think I'm gonna go. 167 00:12:33,713 --> 00:12:35,180 Oh, I hope you come. 168 00:12:35,213 --> 00:12:36,580 I'm gonna make you a map anyway. 169 00:12:36,613 --> 00:12:39,313 So, that's what the RTR is. 170 00:12:39,346 --> 00:12:42,146 It is a support system for people 171 00:12:42,180 --> 00:12:45,346 who need help now. 172 00:13:01,514 --> 00:13:03,980 See you next year, Fern. Happy holidays. 173 00:13:04,014 --> 00:13:05,547 Yeah, you, too, Doug. 174 00:13:40,348 --> 00:13:42,915 Carl had a stroke. 175 00:13:42,947 --> 00:13:44,315 Is he dead? No. 176 00:13:44,348 --> 00:13:48,182 No, no. His daughter came and took him back East. 177 00:13:48,215 --> 00:13:49,515 Yeah. 178 00:13:49,548 --> 00:13:50,882 But they didn't take the dog? 179 00:13:50,915 --> 00:13:52,382 They couldn't take him. 180 00:13:52,415 --> 00:13:54,249 Would you like to have him? 181 00:13:54,282 --> 00:13:55,582 He's really a good dog. 182 00:13:55,615 --> 00:13:57,415 No. No. He's real friendly. 183 00:13:57,448 --> 00:14:01,748 Okay, so you are leaving on Thursday, right? 184 00:14:01,782 --> 00:14:03,249 Yeah. Okay. Um... 185 00:14:03,283 --> 00:14:05,616 I just finished Amazon yesterday. 186 00:14:05,648 --> 00:14:09,116 Okay. Amazon pays through Thursday. 187 00:14:09,149 --> 00:14:12,549 And then after that, it's $375 a month. 188 00:14:12,583 --> 00:14:14,549 Well, is there a discount 189 00:14:14,583 --> 00:14:16,616 if I don't use the electric and dump, 190 00:14:16,649 --> 00:14:18,049 'cause I just have my van, you know? 191 00:14:18,083 --> 00:14:21,583 No, but since you're in a van, it's easy for you to move 192 00:14:21,616 --> 00:14:23,950 and to go south to a warmer place. 193 00:14:23,984 --> 00:14:26,549 Yeah, but I wanted to get a job around here first. 194 00:14:26,583 --> 00:14:28,217 Oh. Good luck with that. 195 00:14:28,250 --> 00:14:30,950 That's tough. 196 00:14:31,849 --> 00:14:33,384 Bye, Patty. Bye, Fern. 197 00:14:33,417 --> 00:14:34,749 We'll see you next year. 198 00:14:34,783 --> 00:14:36,584 Thank you. Have a nice day. 199 00:14:57,750 --> 00:15:01,484 My husband worked at the USG mine in Empire 200 00:15:01,517 --> 00:15:03,185 and I worked in human resources there 201 00:15:03,218 --> 00:15:04,318 for a few years. 202 00:15:04,351 --> 00:15:05,684 That was my last full‐time job. 203 00:15:05,717 --> 00:15:07,051 I did a lot of part‐time jobs. 204 00:15:07,085 --> 00:15:08,717 I cashiered at the Empire Store. 205 00:15:08,750 --> 00:15:11,518 I was a substitute teacher at the school for five years... 206 00:15:11,551 --> 00:15:12,985 Didn't the Empire Mine shut down 207 00:15:13,018 --> 00:15:15,685 and then all of the resident workers had to relocate? 208 00:15:15,718 --> 00:15:18,218 Yeah, about a year ago. Wow. 209 00:15:18,251 --> 00:15:20,818 So, when do you need to get back to work? 210 00:15:21,518 --> 00:15:22,518 Now? 211 00:15:23,385 --> 00:15:25,919 It is a tough time right now. 212 00:15:25,952 --> 00:15:27,751 You may want to consider 213 00:15:27,785 --> 00:15:29,986 registering for early retirement. 214 00:15:30,019 --> 00:15:33,585 I don't think I can get by on the benefits, and, um... 215 00:15:36,485 --> 00:15:39,751 I need work. I like work. 216 00:15:39,785 --> 00:15:43,619 I'm not sure exactly what you would be eligible for. 217 00:15:50,853 --> 00:15:52,452 - Hi, there. - Hi! 218 00:15:52,486 --> 00:15:54,987 I'm Rachel. I'm the manager here at Fox Peak. 219 00:15:55,020 --> 00:15:56,053 Hi, I'm Fern. 220 00:15:56,087 --> 00:15:57,286 Hi, Fern. 221 00:15:59,153 --> 00:16:01,853 Um, I asked someone, they said I could park here overnight. 222 00:16:01,887 --> 00:16:03,752 Oh, you're fine. You're more than welcome. 223 00:16:03,786 --> 00:16:06,652 But you know, the temperature is gonna drop. 224 00:16:06,686 --> 00:16:08,187 It gets really cold here at night. 225 00:16:08,220 --> 00:16:10,087 Yeah, I know. I can tell. Really cold. 226 00:16:10,120 --> 00:16:11,253 Yeah. 227 00:16:11,287 --> 00:16:13,686 I don't want to overstep my bounds here. 228 00:16:13,719 --> 00:16:16,853 There is a church down by 7‐Eleven. 229 00:16:16,887 --> 00:16:20,153 It's a Baptist church, and they do have open beds. 230 00:16:20,187 --> 00:16:21,653 I'm gonna be good. 231 00:16:21,687 --> 00:16:24,888 Okay. Okay. We're here if you need anything. 232 00:16:24,921 --> 00:16:26,420 Thank you. 233 00:18:23,091 --> 00:18:24,791 Linda? Linda? 234 00:18:24,824 --> 00:18:25,824 Hey. 235 00:18:28,057 --> 00:18:29,224 Shh. 236 00:18:29,257 --> 00:18:30,624 So glad you came. 237 00:18:31,892 --> 00:18:35,624 That's Bob Wells. Sit here. Keep the chair. 238 00:18:35,657 --> 00:18:36,858 Thank you. 239 00:18:37,624 --> 00:18:40,225 And the odd thing is that we... 240 00:18:40,257 --> 00:18:43,457 We not only accept the tyranny of the dollar, 241 00:18:43,491 --> 00:18:45,025 the tyranny of the marketplace, 242 00:18:45,058 --> 00:18:46,491 we embrace it. 243 00:18:46,524 --> 00:18:48,624 We gladly throw the yoke 244 00:18:48,658 --> 00:18:51,425 of the tyranny of the dollar on 245 00:18:51,458 --> 00:18:54,158 and live by it our whole lives. 246 00:18:54,192 --> 00:18:57,358 I think of an analogy as a workhorse. 247 00:18:57,392 --> 00:19:00,425 The workhorse that is willing to work itself to death 248 00:19:00,458 --> 00:19:02,325 and then be put out to pasture. 249 00:19:02,358 --> 00:19:04,926 And that's what happens to so many of us. 250 00:19:04,959 --> 00:19:06,592 If society was throwing us away 251 00:19:06,625 --> 00:19:09,192 and sending us, the workhorse, out to the pasture, 252 00:19:09,225 --> 00:19:11,159 we workhorses had to gather together 253 00:19:11,193 --> 00:19:12,292 and take care of each other. 254 00:19:12,325 --> 00:19:14,592 And that's what this is all about. 255 00:19:14,625 --> 00:19:17,425 The way I see it is that the Titanic is sinking 256 00:19:17,458 --> 00:19:19,726 and economic times are changing. 257 00:19:19,759 --> 00:19:23,593 And so my goal is to get the lifeboats out 258 00:19:23,626 --> 00:19:25,993 and get as many people into the lifeboats as I can. 259 00:19:26,026 --> 00:19:27,859 Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. There's plenty. 260 00:19:27,893 --> 00:19:29,159 Yeah. We got plenty. Jump and shout. 261 00:19:29,193 --> 00:19:30,226 How many vegans we got here? 262 00:19:30,259 --> 00:19:31,627 Let you know, huh? 263 00:19:31,660 --> 00:19:32,959 - What's that? - Vegan. 264 00:19:32,993 --> 00:19:34,159 This is vegan. 265 00:19:34,193 --> 00:19:36,359 No, I'm... I'm a carnivore. - Yeah. 266 00:19:36,393 --> 00:19:37,559 Okay. Thank you. Yes. 267 00:19:37,593 --> 00:19:38,794 Okay. Thank you, though. 268 00:19:38,827 --> 00:19:40,226 - Looks good. - Another carnivore? 269 00:19:40,259 --> 00:19:41,760 - She's a carnivore. - Okay. 270 00:19:41,794 --> 00:19:42,827 Mac 'n' cheese. 271 00:19:42,860 --> 00:19:44,027 Just tell me when? 272 00:19:44,794 --> 00:19:46,359 You good? More? 273 00:19:46,393 --> 00:19:48,994 Oh! She likes the red peppers. 274 00:19:49,027 --> 00:19:50,493 Cilantro? No! 275 00:19:50,526 --> 00:19:51,460 No! 276 00:19:51,493 --> 00:19:52,727 No! No, no. 277 00:19:59,460 --> 00:20:01,394 I'm a Vietnam vet. 278 00:20:01,427 --> 00:20:04,494 And, um, I got PTSD. 279 00:20:04,527 --> 00:20:08,060 I really can't handle loud noises, 280 00:20:08,094 --> 00:20:11,061 uh, big crowds, fireworks. 281 00:20:12,095 --> 00:20:15,095 I got a pickup truck and a camper. 282 00:20:15,128 --> 00:20:16,661 I can live out here... 283 00:20:17,294 --> 00:20:19,861 and be at peace. 284 00:20:22,795 --> 00:20:26,128 I had, um, finally convinced my grandpa, 285 00:20:26,161 --> 00:20:28,261 and my papa, and my mama, 286 00:20:28,295 --> 00:20:30,361 that we should 287 00:20:30,395 --> 00:20:33,895 take off in an RV and see the country. 288 00:20:33,928 --> 00:20:38,028 But then both of them were told that they had cancer, 289 00:20:38,061 --> 00:20:40,762 they passed away three weeks apart. 290 00:20:40,796 --> 00:20:42,461 I began watching 291 00:20:42,495 --> 00:20:47,096 Bob Wells' videos on van‐dwelling. 292 00:20:47,129 --> 00:20:48,796 Then I bought my van... 293 00:20:48,829 --> 00:20:52,162 Paint, because she takes me where I ain't. 294 00:20:52,196 --> 00:20:54,362 And 295 00:20:54,396 --> 00:20:58,596 started my healing journey two and a half years ago. 296 00:20:58,629 --> 00:21:00,829 Um, I worked for corporate America, 297 00:21:00,862 --> 00:21:02,262 you know, for 20 years. 298 00:21:02,296 --> 00:21:05,763 And my friend, Bill, worked for the same company, 299 00:21:06,362 --> 00:21:09,730 and he had liver failure. 300 00:21:09,763 --> 00:21:12,429 A week before he was due to retire, 301 00:21:12,462 --> 00:21:17,462 HR called him in hospice, and said... 302 00:21:17,496 --> 00:21:20,130 "Let's talk about your retirement." 303 00:21:20,163 --> 00:21:22,863 And he died 10 days later, 304 00:21:22,897 --> 00:21:27,197 having never been able to take that sailboat 305 00:21:27,230 --> 00:21:30,430 that he bought out of his driveway. 306 00:21:30,463 --> 00:21:34,097 And he missed out on everything. 307 00:21:34,130 --> 00:21:36,197 And he told me before he died, 308 00:21:36,230 --> 00:21:38,030 "Just don't waste any time, Merle. 309 00:21:38,063 --> 00:21:39,498 "Don't waste any time." 310 00:21:39,531 --> 00:21:41,931 So I retired as soon as I could. 311 00:21:41,963 --> 00:21:43,097 I didn't want my sailboat 312 00:21:43,130 --> 00:21:45,498 to be in the driveway when I died... 313 00:21:46,463 --> 00:21:49,498 so, yeah... 314 00:21:50,664 --> 00:21:52,098 And it's not. 315 00:21:52,131 --> 00:21:54,463 My sailboat's out here in the desert. 316 00:22:03,664 --> 00:22:06,699 I can't imagine what you're going through, 317 00:22:07,964 --> 00:22:09,699 the loss of your husband, 318 00:22:09,732 --> 00:22:12,765 and the loss of your whole town, and friends, 319 00:22:12,799 --> 00:22:14,398 and village, 320 00:22:14,431 --> 00:22:19,231 and that kind of loss is never easy. 321 00:22:19,264 --> 00:22:22,231 And I wish I had an easy answer for you. 322 00:22:22,264 --> 00:22:23,899 But I think you've come to the right place 323 00:22:23,932 --> 00:22:25,032 to find an answer. 324 00:22:25,065 --> 00:22:27,132 I think that... 325 00:22:27,165 --> 00:22:29,232 I think connecting to nature 326 00:22:29,265 --> 00:22:32,565 and to a real true community and tribe, 327 00:22:32,599 --> 00:22:34,299 will make all the difference for you. 328 00:22:35,265 --> 00:22:37,432 I hope so. 329 00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:03,266 Hey, Fern. 330 00:23:03,300 --> 00:23:04,501 Hey, Linda. 331 00:23:04,533 --> 00:23:05,866 Come over and join us. 332 00:23:05,900 --> 00:23:07,633 No, I'm just gonna take a little walk. 333 00:23:07,666 --> 00:23:10,400 Okay. Be back soon. 334 00:24:13,403 --> 00:24:15,902 Hey. Good morning... 335 00:24:16,536 --> 00:24:18,335 - Bob. - Morning. 336 00:24:38,169 --> 00:24:40,069 One of the questions that I get all the time is, 337 00:24:40,103 --> 00:24:41,203 "Bob, I have to live in the city. 338 00:24:41,236 --> 00:24:42,936 "I'd like to be out here, but I can't. 339 00:24:42,969 --> 00:24:46,470 "How can I avoid the famous knock on the door?" 340 00:24:46,504 --> 00:24:47,869 So, I've developed what I call 341 00:24:47,903 --> 00:24:50,370 the Ten Commandments of Stealth Parking. 342 00:24:55,704 --> 00:24:58,704 Stop being so quiet. 343 00:24:58,737 --> 00:25:01,004 And then, in and out. Just make... 344 00:25:01,037 --> 00:25:02,370 You gotta make the hole bigger 345 00:25:02,404 --> 00:25:03,904 so the rope fits. 346 00:25:03,937 --> 00:25:06,204 Very... Yeah. That's it. That's perfect. 347 00:25:07,737 --> 00:25:09,904 Oh, my God. Ladies. Then you go... 348 00:25:12,604 --> 00:25:15,571 I love this lifestyle. It is a lifestyle of freedom 349 00:25:15,605 --> 00:25:18,137 and beauty, and connection to the Earth. 350 00:25:18,170 --> 00:25:20,771 Yet there is a trade‐off. 351 00:25:20,804 --> 00:25:23,805 You gotta learn how to take care of your own shit. 352 00:25:25,104 --> 00:25:29,204 Most of us, in this lifestyle, use a five‐gallon bucket. 353 00:25:29,237 --> 00:25:33,171 Most of us are in vans or something larger. 354 00:25:33,204 --> 00:25:35,605 I'm in a Prius, 355 00:25:35,638 --> 00:25:38,138 so I use a two‐gallon bucket. 356 00:25:38,171 --> 00:25:39,205 If you have bad knees, 357 00:25:39,238 --> 00:25:40,339 you could use a seven‐gallon bucket. 358 00:25:43,372 --> 00:25:44,971 Hi, Fern. Hi, guys. 359 00:25:49,905 --> 00:25:53,138 Got these for you. Thank you. These are nice. 360 00:25:53,171 --> 00:25:54,306 Yeah. 361 00:25:54,339 --> 00:25:55,639 She always has some nice appliances. 362 00:25:57,706 --> 00:26:00,071 Here, you should take this one. 363 00:26:00,105 --> 00:26:01,706 That one's kind of funky. 364 00:26:02,171 --> 00:26:03,506 Oh. These yours? 365 00:26:03,539 --> 00:26:06,839 Yeah. There's a black hole in every van. 366 00:26:06,872 --> 00:26:10,340 Specially mine. One time I had seven of these can openers. 367 00:26:10,372 --> 00:26:12,106 Doesn't happen to me. 368 00:26:12,139 --> 00:26:14,739 Trade you for a potholder. I make 'em. 369 00:26:14,772 --> 00:26:17,806 Okay, sure. Wow. What is this? Crochet? 370 00:26:17,839 --> 00:26:18,939 No. Something different. 371 00:26:20,906 --> 00:26:22,740 Nice. Wow, that is nice. 372 00:26:22,772 --> 00:26:23,607 Yeah. Wow. 373 00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:25,139 It's going home with me. 374 00:26:25,172 --> 00:26:26,740 Okay. 375 00:26:26,773 --> 00:26:28,006 See ya. 376 00:26:28,039 --> 00:26:29,573 Thank you. Yep. 377 00:26:40,507 --> 00:26:42,973 Seems like the work is not gonna be horrible. 378 00:26:43,007 --> 00:26:45,040 Uh‐oh, uh‐oh, it's sliding. 379 00:26:45,073 --> 00:26:47,940 Do you take resumes? Um... 380 00:26:47,973 --> 00:26:50,040 I'll leave it with you, just in case. 381 00:26:50,073 --> 00:26:52,873 No. Just go on... Go online? 382 00:26:52,907 --> 00:26:54,073 Yeah. Oh, okay. 383 00:26:54,107 --> 00:26:55,973 I got a four‐pack for $100. 384 00:26:56,007 --> 00:26:57,341 Just like that. 385 00:26:57,374 --> 00:26:59,308 Whoa! 386 00:26:59,341 --> 00:27:00,374 Did you feel it? 387 00:27:00,408 --> 00:27:01,674 That's what it does to people. 388 00:27:01,708 --> 00:27:03,741 - It scared me. - It scares them away. 389 00:27:03,774 --> 00:27:06,074 You guys know how much money is sitting here? 390 00:27:06,107 --> 00:27:08,941 It's like they're, uh, dinosaurs. 391 00:27:10,741 --> 00:27:13,574 Nope. Watch out, watch out. 392 00:27:13,608 --> 00:27:15,041 Watch the steps. 393 00:27:15,074 --> 00:27:16,108 Welcome aboard. 394 00:27:16,141 --> 00:27:17,175 Whoa. 395 00:27:17,209 --> 00:27:19,674 Whoa. It's like a disco. 396 00:27:19,708 --> 00:27:21,409 Oh, my gosh. 397 00:27:22,409 --> 00:27:25,041 Oh, the lighting is beautiful. 398 00:27:25,074 --> 00:27:28,074 Washer and dryer. Oh, my gosh. 399 00:27:28,108 --> 00:27:30,475 You're kidding. Oh, man. 400 00:27:31,375 --> 00:27:33,542 Okay, ladies, where are we going? 401 00:27:33,575 --> 00:27:34,975 - Hawaii. - No, no. 402 00:27:35,009 --> 00:27:35,909 Well, yeah. 403 00:27:35,942 --> 00:27:38,375 Well, there's water between here and there. 404 00:27:38,409 --> 00:27:40,175 Let's not go to the East Coast. 405 00:27:40,209 --> 00:27:41,775 There's no place big enough over there 406 00:27:41,809 --> 00:27:43,942 to park something this size. 407 00:27:43,975 --> 00:27:45,342 This is a magic bus. 408 00:27:45,375 --> 00:27:47,376 We could go to Hawaii. 409 00:27:47,409 --> 00:27:48,742 Okay. Hawaii. 410 00:28:15,476 --> 00:28:17,443 All right. In Quartzsite, Arizona, 411 00:28:17,476 --> 00:28:19,177 especially in the Quartzsite Yacht Club, 412 00:28:19,211 --> 00:28:21,444 line dancing is a long‐standing tradition, 413 00:28:21,476 --> 00:28:23,344 so here we go. 414 00:28:52,345 --> 00:28:55,811 Looks like you got a hankering to go out there. 415 00:28:57,145 --> 00:28:59,145 No. 416 00:28:59,178 --> 00:29:00,412 You sure? 417 00:29:00,977 --> 00:29:02,044 Okay. 418 00:29:02,078 --> 00:29:03,778 Come on. All right. 419 00:29:10,745 --> 00:29:12,412 There are no professionals here. 420 00:29:52,314 --> 00:29:54,579 Goodbye, Fern! 421 00:30:32,714 --> 00:30:34,581 Nice. 422 00:30:36,947 --> 00:30:39,081 ...for your security while on the road, 423 00:30:39,115 --> 00:30:40,548 or out in the boondocks, 424 00:30:40,581 --> 00:30:42,947 so if there are any questions that you may have 425 00:30:42,981 --> 00:30:46,048 regarding RV system design, maintenance, 426 00:30:46,081 --> 00:30:47,648 and troubleshooting, 427 00:30:47,681 --> 00:30:50,148 stop on by today, and bring your rig, 428 00:30:50,181 --> 00:30:51,881 so that we can help you take advantage 429 00:30:51,915 --> 00:30:54,915 of what Mother Nature is offering for free. 430 00:31:33,917 --> 00:31:36,816 Hey, Ron. Can you come here a second? 431 00:31:36,849 --> 00:31:40,117 These guys have some really nice stuff. 432 00:31:40,150 --> 00:31:41,650 This is Noodle, Roxy. That's Ron. 433 00:31:41,683 --> 00:31:43,117 How's it going, Ron? Noodle. 434 00:31:43,150 --> 00:31:44,217 Trying to make some gas money. 435 00:31:44,250 --> 00:31:45,750 - Roxy. - Nice to meet you. 436 00:31:45,783 --> 00:31:47,383 Yeah, I think these are really nice, Ron. 437 00:31:47,417 --> 00:31:48,918 Look at that work. 438 00:31:48,951 --> 00:31:50,650 It's got nice whoop‐de‐doos. Yeah, look at that. 439 00:31:50,683 --> 00:31:53,183 Yeah. Look, look. I see those. 440 00:31:53,217 --> 00:31:54,350 Ron, look. 441 00:32:21,384 --> 00:32:23,184 Hello, ma'am. 442 00:32:23,218 --> 00:32:25,751 You by chance have an extra cigarette? 443 00:32:26,151 --> 00:32:28,318 Yeah, sure. 444 00:32:28,718 --> 00:32:30,085 Need a light? 445 00:32:30,119 --> 00:32:31,952 I'd love one. 446 00:32:35,285 --> 00:32:36,452 Need it? 447 00:32:36,484 --> 00:32:38,385 Well, sure. Thank you. 448 00:32:38,419 --> 00:32:39,919 Yep. What's your name? 449 00:32:39,952 --> 00:32:41,751 Fern. Fern, Derek. 450 00:32:41,784 --> 00:32:42,784 Hi, Derek. 451 00:32:42,818 --> 00:32:44,352 Well, it's nice to meet you. Nice to meet you. 452 00:32:44,385 --> 00:32:46,019 I'll be seeing you. 453 00:33:08,953 --> 00:33:09,953 What? 454 00:33:10,953 --> 00:33:11,920 What? 455 00:33:11,953 --> 00:33:14,320 It's Fern, it's Fern, Swankie. It's Fern. 456 00:33:16,453 --> 00:33:18,620 Hey. Hi. Didn't you see the flag? 457 00:33:18,653 --> 00:33:20,086 Yeah, yeah. I'm sorry. It means 458 00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:22,120 I don't wanna be disturbed. I know. 459 00:33:22,153 --> 00:33:23,620 I need a ride to town. 460 00:33:23,653 --> 00:33:24,720 Why? 461 00:33:24,753 --> 00:33:26,386 I blew my tire. 462 00:33:26,420 --> 00:33:27,987 Well, go change it. 463 00:33:28,021 --> 00:33:29,186 I don't have a spare. 464 00:33:29,220 --> 00:33:30,520 You don't have a spare? 465 00:33:30,553 --> 00:33:32,486 You're out in the boondocks and you don't have a spare? 466 00:33:37,686 --> 00:33:40,087 You can die out here. You're out in the wilderness, 467 00:33:40,121 --> 00:33:41,520 far away from anybody. 468 00:33:41,553 --> 00:33:43,554 You can die out here. Don't you understand that? 469 00:33:43,586 --> 00:33:44,686 You have to take it seriously. 470 00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:46,221 You have to have a way to get help. 471 00:33:46,254 --> 00:33:48,187 You have to be able to change your own tire. 472 00:33:48,221 --> 00:33:49,587 I appreciate it. Thanks, Swankie. 473 00:33:49,621 --> 00:33:51,254 All right. 474 00:33:51,287 --> 00:33:53,387 You can... You can pay me back. 475 00:33:53,421 --> 00:33:56,021 I'm gonna go on this trip. I'm getting ready to leave. 476 00:33:56,054 --> 00:33:57,187 I got a lot to do. 477 00:33:57,221 --> 00:33:58,421 I can't get it all done fast enough. 478 00:33:58,454 --> 00:33:59,487 Yeah, sure. I owe ya. I owe ya. 479 00:33:59,521 --> 00:34:00,621 You can help me finish things up. 480 00:34:00,654 --> 00:34:02,354 I really appreciate it. You got it. 481 00:34:02,387 --> 00:34:03,788 Here's what I suggest. 482 00:34:03,822 --> 00:34:05,354 Don't get AAA, okay? 483 00:34:05,387 --> 00:34:06,955 You gotta get something like a SPOT device. 484 00:34:06,988 --> 00:34:08,354 A satellite tracking device. 485 00:34:08,387 --> 00:34:09,754 We need to soak the sandpaper. 486 00:34:09,788 --> 00:34:11,454 ‐ It's called wet and dry. ‐ Mmm‐hmm. 487 00:34:11,487 --> 00:34:12,955 We need it to be wet. 488 00:34:12,988 --> 00:34:14,055 Ready? 489 00:34:14,088 --> 00:34:17,355 Ready. Yep. 490 00:34:17,388 --> 00:34:19,488 Now we need to mask the fender off, 491 00:34:19,522 --> 00:34:21,922 because white paint will land on the fender, too. 492 00:34:21,955 --> 00:34:23,555 Put plastic over this. 493 00:34:23,588 --> 00:34:24,922 All right, let me just say 494 00:34:24,955 --> 00:34:27,422 that this is a lot more complicated than I thought. 495 00:34:27,455 --> 00:34:28,655 Oh, it's very, very complicated. 496 00:34:28,688 --> 00:34:30,088 And it's taking me 497 00:34:30,122 --> 00:34:34,355 a long time to patch all the peeling paint on this van. 498 00:34:34,388 --> 00:34:36,189 So are you quitting on me? Okay. 499 00:34:36,222 --> 00:34:38,123 No, no, I'm not quitting. 500 00:34:38,156 --> 00:34:39,422 When we get done with all this, 501 00:34:39,455 --> 00:34:40,789 I'm gonna give you all my paint. 502 00:34:40,823 --> 00:34:42,356 I don't want to take any more of it with me, 503 00:34:42,389 --> 00:34:46,023 you can have it all 'cause your van looks kind of... 504 00:34:46,956 --> 00:34:48,056 ratty. 505 00:34:48,089 --> 00:34:49,789 No, it doesn't. 506 00:34:49,823 --> 00:34:52,156 She does not. She just needs a wash. 507 00:34:52,189 --> 00:34:54,823 No. You take my paint. 508 00:35:11,790 --> 00:35:14,290 Ratty. 509 00:36:07,291 --> 00:36:09,892 Fern. It's Swankie. 510 00:36:09,926 --> 00:36:12,126 What? I'm indisposed. 511 00:36:12,159 --> 00:36:13,525 Where did I get all this stuff? 512 00:36:13,558 --> 00:36:15,491 Yeah? Well, it adds up. Where'd it come from? 513 00:36:15,525 --> 00:36:17,259 I just put on Facebook, 514 00:36:17,292 --> 00:36:18,859 Quartzsite Chatter, the other day 515 00:36:18,892 --> 00:36:20,392 that I was givin' all this stuff away 516 00:36:20,426 --> 00:36:22,459 and I asked people to come get it. 517 00:36:22,492 --> 00:36:24,059 So, I'm hopin' they do. 518 00:36:24,859 --> 00:36:26,026 I love this. 519 00:36:26,059 --> 00:36:27,159 Take it. 520 00:36:27,192 --> 00:36:29,192 You kidding? It's yours. 521 00:36:29,226 --> 00:36:30,492 Whoa, that's nice. 522 00:36:30,526 --> 00:36:31,793 You look really good in that chair. 523 00:36:32,926 --> 00:36:35,259 And that's called red, white, and blue jasper. 524 00:36:35,292 --> 00:36:36,326 What's that? 525 00:36:36,359 --> 00:36:39,292 That's petrified palm wood. 526 00:36:39,326 --> 00:36:42,559 And that's part of the same... 527 00:36:42,592 --> 00:36:45,027 Rock, and, uh... 528 00:36:45,060 --> 00:36:46,227 Ouch! 529 00:36:46,260 --> 00:36:47,359 Um... 530 00:36:47,392 --> 00:36:48,927 Careful, your arm. That's another one 531 00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:50,793 of the red, white, and blue. 532 00:36:52,393 --> 00:36:55,460 What's going on? What? I don't feel very good. 533 00:36:55,493 --> 00:36:57,527 I got a headache. Hey. 534 00:36:57,560 --> 00:36:59,860 Here. Sit down. 535 00:37:02,860 --> 00:37:04,027 Got it? 536 00:37:06,327 --> 00:37:08,127 What's goin' on? What do you need? 537 00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:09,393 My head hurts really, really bad 538 00:37:09,427 --> 00:37:11,260 and I'm nauseated. 539 00:37:11,293 --> 00:37:12,661 Water'll help? Would water help? 540 00:37:12,694 --> 00:37:13,728 Oh, yeah. 541 00:37:15,161 --> 00:37:17,393 Oh, boy. Here. 542 00:37:19,328 --> 00:37:20,761 Careful, your arm. 543 00:37:28,094 --> 00:37:31,028 Mrs. McQuarry reminded me of someone. 544 00:37:35,629 --> 00:37:37,629 You all right? 545 00:37:38,094 --> 00:37:39,428 I... 546 00:37:39,461 --> 00:37:41,528 I guess I'm all right. 547 00:37:51,662 --> 00:37:52,862 You okay? 548 00:37:55,295 --> 00:37:56,462 Um... 549 00:37:56,495 --> 00:37:58,495 Doctors told me that... 550 00:37:58,529 --> 00:38:02,095 Well, I had cancer removed from my lung a while back 551 00:38:02,129 --> 00:38:05,429 and, small cell carcinoma. 552 00:38:05,462 --> 00:38:08,863 And they told me it's spread to my brain. 553 00:38:08,895 --> 00:38:12,495 And they've only given me seven or eight months to live. 554 00:38:13,129 --> 00:38:14,663 I'm sorry. 555 00:38:15,596 --> 00:38:16,696 I'm sorry. 556 00:38:16,730 --> 00:38:18,163 I'm gonna 557 00:38:18,195 --> 00:38:19,630 take my trip. 558 00:38:19,663 --> 00:38:21,395 I'm gonna go back to Alaska again, 559 00:38:21,429 --> 00:38:23,096 because of some good memories. 560 00:38:23,596 --> 00:38:24,763 And, um, 561 00:38:25,530 --> 00:38:27,830 just do what I have to do. 562 00:38:27,863 --> 00:38:31,396 I have this book called Final Exitby Dr. Kevorkian. 563 00:38:31,430 --> 00:38:33,531 Some people call him Dr. Death. 564 00:38:33,564 --> 00:38:35,930 And it's like, various ways 565 00:38:35,963 --> 00:38:38,664 that you can end your life if you need to. 566 00:38:38,697 --> 00:38:39,731 And, um, 567 00:38:39,764 --> 00:38:41,864 it's kind of like a recipe. 568 00:38:41,897 --> 00:38:45,130 I have it, if I have to fall back on it for some ideas, 569 00:38:45,163 --> 00:38:47,831 but I'm not gonna spend any more time 570 00:38:47,864 --> 00:38:49,831 indoors in a hospital. 571 00:38:50,664 --> 00:38:51,797 No, thanks. 572 00:38:57,397 --> 00:38:59,564 I'm gonna be 75 this year 573 00:38:59,597 --> 00:39:01,764 and I think I've lived a pretty good life. 574 00:39:01,797 --> 00:39:03,964 I've seen some really neat things, 575 00:39:03,997 --> 00:39:06,131 kayaking, all those places. 576 00:39:06,164 --> 00:39:09,464 And, you know, moose in the wild. 577 00:39:09,498 --> 00:39:13,064 A moose family on a river in Idaho. 578 00:39:13,097 --> 00:39:14,364 Um... 579 00:39:15,164 --> 00:39:17,498 And big, white pelicans landin' 580 00:39:17,532 --> 00:39:19,197 just six feet over my kayak 581 00:39:19,231 --> 00:39:21,032 on a lake in Colorado. 582 00:39:21,065 --> 00:39:22,765 Or, uh... 583 00:39:22,798 --> 00:39:26,898 um, come around a bend, was a cliff, 584 00:39:26,932 --> 00:39:29,431 and find hundreds and hundreds of swallow nests 585 00:39:29,465 --> 00:39:30,832 on the wall of the cliff. 586 00:39:30,865 --> 00:39:33,432 And the swallows flyin' all around. 587 00:39:33,466 --> 00:39:35,566 And reflecting in the water 588 00:39:35,599 --> 00:39:38,098 so it looks like I'm flying with the swallows 589 00:39:38,132 --> 00:39:39,432 and they're under me, and over me, 590 00:39:39,466 --> 00:39:40,566 and all around me. 591 00:39:40,599 --> 00:39:42,699 And the little babies are hatchin' out 592 00:39:42,733 --> 00:39:44,499 and egg shells are fallin' out of the nests, 593 00:39:44,533 --> 00:39:46,866 landin' on the water and floatin' on the water. 594 00:39:46,899 --> 00:39:48,198 These little white shells. 595 00:39:48,232 --> 00:39:50,332 It's like, well, it's just so awesome. 596 00:39:50,365 --> 00:39:53,265 I felt like I'd done enough. My life was complete. 597 00:39:53,298 --> 00:39:55,966 If I died right then, that moment, 598 00:39:55,999 --> 00:39:57,365 it'd be perfectly fine. 599 00:40:16,366 --> 00:40:18,467 I don't know. Maybe when I die, 600 00:40:18,500 --> 00:40:20,667 my friends will gather around the fire 601 00:40:20,700 --> 00:40:23,800 and toss a rock into the fire in memory of me. 602 00:40:30,167 --> 00:40:32,467 Oh, I see somethin' neat. 603 00:40:44,300 --> 00:40:47,300 Here we go. And then pull it up 604 00:40:47,334 --> 00:40:48,934 and close it up. 605 00:40:48,967 --> 00:40:50,000 How's that? 606 00:40:50,034 --> 00:40:53,635 Oh! Look at this. 607 00:41:01,601 --> 00:41:04,035 My grandmother made that for me, and gave it to me. 608 00:41:04,068 --> 00:41:06,235 So, enjoy. Take good care of it. 609 00:41:06,268 --> 00:41:08,502 Thank you. Bye. 610 00:42:18,704 --> 00:42:21,237 Can I tell you somethin', Swankie? 611 00:42:21,270 --> 00:42:22,504 What? 612 00:42:22,538 --> 00:42:25,404 Been thinkin' a lot about my husband Bo. 613 00:42:25,438 --> 00:42:26,571 When it got really bad at the end, 614 00:42:26,604 --> 00:42:27,904 they had him in the hospital 615 00:42:27,938 --> 00:42:29,771 on morphine drip 616 00:42:29,804 --> 00:42:32,671 and I would sit there at night, in the hospital. 617 00:42:33,971 --> 00:42:36,438 And... 618 00:42:36,471 --> 00:42:39,404 I'd wanna put my thumb down on that morphine drip 619 00:42:39,438 --> 00:42:41,405 just a little bit longer... 620 00:42:43,138 --> 00:42:44,904 so I could let him go. 621 00:42:45,771 --> 00:42:48,738 Maybe I should have tried harder 622 00:42:49,871 --> 00:42:53,805 so he could have gone sooner without all that pain. 623 00:42:55,138 --> 00:42:56,839 Well, maybe he wouldn't have wanted that. 624 00:42:56,872 --> 00:42:59,639 Maybe he was tryin' to stay with you as long as he could. 625 00:43:00,872 --> 00:43:03,672 I'm sure you took good care of him, Fern. 626 00:43:05,872 --> 00:43:07,005 I did. 627 00:43:12,872 --> 00:43:14,539 Bye, Fern. 628 00:43:48,173 --> 00:43:49,541 All right. 629 00:45:11,243 --> 00:45:13,776 Fern! 630 00:46:41,546 --> 00:46:42,579 Hey. How you doin'? Hi, there. 631 00:46:42,612 --> 00:46:44,346 Thank you very much. Yeah, sure. 632 00:46:44,379 --> 00:46:46,479 It's just black, so... Ah, that's good. 633 00:46:48,812 --> 00:46:50,646 Hello. Coffee? 634 00:46:56,413 --> 00:46:58,712 I know you. Yeah, hi. Dave. Right? 635 00:46:58,746 --> 00:47:00,080 Guess. 636 00:47:00,113 --> 00:47:01,480 Fern. Yes. 637 00:47:01,513 --> 00:47:03,347 I have your can opener. 638 00:47:03,380 --> 00:47:05,513 Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah, you do. 639 00:47:05,547 --> 00:47:07,247 Are you working here now or... 640 00:47:07,280 --> 00:47:08,480 Yeah, first year. 641 00:47:09,347 --> 00:47:10,979 So, coffee? 642 00:47:11,013 --> 00:47:13,380 Yeah, sure. 643 00:47:16,847 --> 00:47:18,647 Yeah. That's good. 644 00:47:20,213 --> 00:47:22,148 Black, so... 645 00:47:22,181 --> 00:47:23,248 If you want anything in it, 646 00:47:23,280 --> 00:47:24,613 you gotta put it in. So, see ya. 647 00:47:24,647 --> 00:47:26,747 Yeah. Have a good day. I'm your camp host. 648 00:47:26,780 --> 00:47:28,447 One thing you wanna make sure 649 00:47:28,480 --> 00:47:30,547 that you always do is put on gloves. 650 00:47:30,580 --> 00:47:32,014 You need to protect your health. 651 00:47:32,048 --> 00:47:34,980 We have people from all over the world coming here. 652 00:47:35,014 --> 00:47:37,148 Give 'em a little puff. 653 00:47:37,181 --> 00:47:38,780 And that's it. 654 00:47:47,281 --> 00:47:50,148 The walls, too? Or just that silver thing? 655 00:47:50,181 --> 00:47:52,581 Oh, walls, too. Yes. Walls, too. Okay. 656 00:47:52,614 --> 00:47:55,814 Where do you go and find scenery like this? 657 00:47:55,848 --> 00:47:57,414 Right here is where you go. Yeah. 658 00:47:57,448 --> 00:47:59,814 The Badlands. The Badlands. 659 00:48:00,714 --> 00:48:03,049 We be the bitches of the Badlands. 660 00:48:12,349 --> 00:48:14,315 Look. Look. 661 00:48:18,950 --> 00:48:20,849 Ew! 662 00:48:20,882 --> 00:48:24,116 I don't want those on me. No. 663 00:48:24,150 --> 00:48:25,482 Some people. 664 00:48:25,515 --> 00:48:27,250 Oh, that's almost a whole bag of Doritos. 665 00:48:27,282 --> 00:48:29,415 Excuse me. Yeah? 666 00:48:29,649 --> 00:48:31,050 Hey. 667 00:48:31,083 --> 00:48:32,283 Are you the camp host? 668 00:48:32,316 --> 00:48:34,250 Yeah. I'm Fern. That's Linda May. 669 00:48:34,283 --> 00:48:35,649 How you guys doin'? Good. 670 00:48:35,682 --> 00:48:36,983 I'd shake your hand... I'm Victor. 671 00:48:37,016 --> 00:48:38,116 ...but you wouldn't. Not now. 672 00:48:38,150 --> 00:48:39,383 Yeah. You don't wanna touch these. 673 00:48:39,416 --> 00:48:40,749 Well, the power's out here. 674 00:48:40,782 --> 00:48:42,950 We're tryin' to have our daughter's birthday party. 675 00:48:44,950 --> 00:48:45,983 Is it on? 676 00:48:46,016 --> 00:48:47,416 It's on! All right! 677 00:48:47,450 --> 00:48:49,750 Do you want me to tie this one on your wrist, too? 678 00:48:49,783 --> 00:48:51,783 Oh, no! The wind's picking up! 679 00:48:52,416 --> 00:48:54,450 Oh, my. Oops. 680 00:48:54,483 --> 00:48:56,616 Which hand do you want it on? 681 00:48:56,650 --> 00:48:58,017 That one? 682 00:48:58,051 --> 00:48:59,650 What beautiful hands. 683 00:48:59,683 --> 00:49:02,416 Thank you. There you go. 684 00:49:02,450 --> 00:49:04,816 Welcome to Badlands Spa. 685 00:49:04,850 --> 00:49:08,517 Can I please have a volunteer from the audience? 686 00:49:08,551 --> 00:49:10,017 Pick me. Okay. 687 00:49:14,117 --> 00:49:16,584 Oh, doesn't that feel wonderful? 688 00:49:16,617 --> 00:49:18,117 What's your name, miss? 689 00:49:18,151 --> 00:49:19,884 Linda. Linda. 690 00:49:29,584 --> 00:49:31,085 Hi, may I help you? 691 00:49:31,118 --> 00:49:32,617 Yes. We're here for the tour. 692 00:49:32,651 --> 00:49:34,784 The tour will be in about 15 minutes. 693 00:49:34,817 --> 00:49:36,252 Should we wait right here? 694 00:49:36,285 --> 00:49:37,651 You can wait if you want, here. 695 00:49:37,684 --> 00:49:39,518 I got a great map of the local area, here. 696 00:49:39,551 --> 00:49:41,185 We have a schedule of some of the summer 697 00:49:41,218 --> 00:49:42,452 activities right here. Hi. 698 00:49:42,485 --> 00:49:44,052 - You can take one. - Oh, wonderful. 699 00:49:48,285 --> 00:49:50,452 - There you go. - Okay. 700 00:49:50,485 --> 00:49:52,452 This is gonna be really exciting. 701 00:49:52,485 --> 00:49:53,986 Rub two stones together. 702 00:49:55,152 --> 00:49:56,485 And you'll see what happens 703 00:49:56,518 --> 00:49:58,818 as they start to get like sand. 704 00:49:58,853 --> 00:50:02,618 That's why it's so easy for a paleontologist 705 00:50:02,652 --> 00:50:04,219 to find fossils in here. 706 00:50:04,253 --> 00:50:05,452 Why are there holes in the rocks? 707 00:50:05,485 --> 00:50:07,685 That's a... That's a very good question. 708 00:50:07,718 --> 00:50:10,652 At one time, there was air inside these rocks. 709 00:50:10,685 --> 00:50:13,519 Like little pockets, little bubbles of gas. 710 00:50:14,519 --> 00:50:16,353 And they're trapped inside the rocks. 711 00:50:16,386 --> 00:50:19,119 That's what makes them so, uh, breakable. 712 00:51:00,487 --> 00:51:02,821 Hey, hey! 713 00:51:04,121 --> 00:51:06,021 Find anything interesting? 714 00:51:06,988 --> 00:51:08,554 Rocks! 715 00:51:14,255 --> 00:51:15,587 Hey, Fern! 716 00:51:26,521 --> 00:51:28,688 Hey, Greg. 717 00:51:29,155 --> 00:51:30,188 Line that up. 718 00:51:30,221 --> 00:51:31,321 Salud! 719 00:51:31,355 --> 00:51:32,588 To the earthship. 720 00:51:32,621 --> 00:51:34,555 To the earthship, Linda May. To the earthship. 721 00:51:34,588 --> 00:51:36,688 - Thank you. - You're welcome. 722 00:51:36,721 --> 00:51:37,756 Thank you. 723 00:51:41,089 --> 00:51:42,488 ‐ Oh, yeah. ‐ Mmm‐hmm. 724 00:51:42,521 --> 00:51:44,822 makes your voice go high. 725 00:51:44,856 --> 00:51:46,588 Oh, yeah. Mmm! 726 00:51:47,922 --> 00:51:49,022 Okay. 727 00:51:49,056 --> 00:51:52,089 This is my land in Arizona. 728 00:51:52,122 --> 00:51:54,256 I'm gonna build an earthship 729 00:51:54,289 --> 00:51:56,622 that's a totally self‐contained house, 730 00:51:56,656 --> 00:52:00,056 built out of tires, and bottles, and cans. 731 00:52:00,089 --> 00:52:01,289 So it has no waste. 732 00:52:01,322 --> 00:52:03,857 It in no way harms the land, this house. 733 00:52:03,890 --> 00:52:06,289 Self‐sufficient? Self‐sufficient. 734 00:52:06,322 --> 00:52:08,757 It looks like a living piece of art 735 00:52:08,790 --> 00:52:10,689 that you've made with your own two hands. 736 00:52:10,723 --> 00:52:13,689 It's something that I can leave to my grandchildren. 737 00:52:13,723 --> 00:52:17,057 This house would be there for generations. 738 00:52:17,090 --> 00:52:18,957 Outlive us all. 739 00:52:18,990 --> 00:52:20,590 That's a good thing. 740 00:52:23,757 --> 00:52:26,090 There. Now we're on. 741 00:52:26,123 --> 00:52:28,157 When you get old, you get personality. 742 00:52:28,190 --> 00:52:29,890 Yeah. 743 00:52:29,923 --> 00:52:32,758 I'm not gonna see you for a while. 744 00:52:32,791 --> 00:52:34,057 But... But... 745 00:52:38,323 --> 00:52:40,590 You come and see me. 746 00:52:40,623 --> 00:52:43,091 You come and stay as long as you like. 747 00:52:43,124 --> 00:52:45,324 - Whenever you like. - Mmm. 748 00:52:45,358 --> 00:52:47,324 Okay. Thank you. 749 00:52:47,358 --> 00:52:49,824 Thank you, Linda May. 750 00:52:49,858 --> 00:52:51,623 Oh, thank you. 751 00:52:51,657 --> 00:52:53,858 You have given me so much. 752 00:52:58,491 --> 00:53:00,591 Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. 753 00:53:38,760 --> 00:53:39,860 Hi, Fern. 754 00:53:39,893 --> 00:53:41,359 Hey. 755 00:53:41,392 --> 00:53:44,225 I was at the gas station, and, uh, 756 00:53:44,259 --> 00:53:45,826 and I think it's better if you don't 757 00:53:45,860 --> 00:53:47,160 drive through the park when it's dark 758 00:53:47,193 --> 00:53:49,260 for your cigarettes, so I got you these. 759 00:53:49,293 --> 00:53:50,360 What are they? 760 00:53:50,393 --> 00:53:51,726 Uh, licorice sticks. 761 00:53:51,760 --> 00:53:53,460 I can't smoke licorice sticks, Dave. 762 00:53:53,493 --> 00:53:55,693 I know, but you can chew on these, 763 00:53:55,726 --> 00:53:58,693 and, you know, they help curb the urge. 764 00:53:58,726 --> 00:54:00,260 I'm not gonna quit smoking, Dave. 765 00:54:00,293 --> 00:54:03,226 Yeah, I know, but you should try these. 766 00:54:03,260 --> 00:54:05,026 They're good for the digestion, too. 767 00:54:06,026 --> 00:54:07,794 Fine. Thanks. 768 00:54:07,827 --> 00:54:10,493 What's going on? Ants. I've got ants. 769 00:54:10,526 --> 00:54:11,994 Oh, ants. They're okay. 770 00:54:12,027 --> 00:54:14,994 No, they're not. They're in my food, Dave! 771 00:54:15,027 --> 00:54:16,393 I can do it. Thanks. 772 00:54:19,061 --> 00:54:20,227 Where do you want this? 773 00:54:24,394 --> 00:54:26,261 Fern, I'm sorry. 774 00:54:26,294 --> 00:54:27,794 I'm sorry, I didn't know that... 775 00:54:27,827 --> 00:54:28,994 Go over there! 776 00:54:33,094 --> 00:54:34,227 You don't have to shout. Okay? 777 00:54:34,261 --> 00:54:35,327 Stay over there. 778 00:54:35,361 --> 00:54:36,561 I'm going. 779 00:55:14,029 --> 00:55:15,495 Okay. 780 00:55:25,296 --> 00:55:27,629 No, we're closed. 781 00:55:41,797 --> 00:55:43,664 You are one of those lucky people 782 00:55:43,697 --> 00:55:45,964 that is from the United States. 783 00:55:45,997 --> 00:55:48,296 Of the US of A. Yes. 784 00:55:48,329 --> 00:55:50,396 Yes, I am. And you can travel anywhere. 785 00:55:50,429 --> 00:55:51,463 Yes, ma'am. I know. 786 00:55:51,496 --> 00:55:53,797 And they sometimes call you 787 00:55:53,830 --> 00:55:55,429 nomads... Yeah. 788 00:55:55,463 --> 00:55:57,396 ...or people who don't have a home. 789 00:55:57,429 --> 00:56:00,097 I see that you have this ring. 790 00:56:00,130 --> 00:56:02,397 Are you married? 791 00:56:02,697 --> 00:56:04,164 I am, 792 00:56:04,197 --> 00:56:06,730 but my husband died. 793 00:56:07,864 --> 00:56:09,397 And so... 794 00:56:10,264 --> 00:56:11,464 I'm not gonna take that off. 795 00:56:11,498 --> 00:56:14,130 ‐ That ring is a circle. ‐ Mmm‐hmm. 796 00:56:14,164 --> 00:56:16,598 And it never ends. 797 00:56:16,631 --> 00:56:19,631 And that means that your love never ends. 798 00:56:21,531 --> 00:56:25,965 And you may not be able to take it off if you tried. 799 00:56:25,998 --> 00:56:27,098 I don't think I could. 800 00:56:27,131 --> 00:56:28,131 No. 801 00:56:55,132 --> 00:56:57,431 Got a nice setup. The best one. 802 00:57:10,633 --> 00:57:12,700 He has a case of diverticulitis. 803 00:57:12,733 --> 00:57:14,600 Which is inflammation of his intestines. 804 00:57:15,500 --> 00:57:17,132 So, earlier the surgeon went in 805 00:57:17,166 --> 00:57:18,433 and did a laparoscopic surgery. 806 00:57:18,467 --> 00:57:20,132 He had surgery? 807 00:57:20,166 --> 00:57:21,366 Ooh, Cup Noodles. 808 00:57:21,399 --> 00:57:23,366 Yeah. Well, it's good for when you're sick. 809 00:57:23,399 --> 00:57:25,933 Wow. Animal crackers. 810 00:57:25,967 --> 00:57:27,000 And... 811 00:57:27,833 --> 00:57:29,067 for you. 812 00:57:31,366 --> 00:57:32,700 That's my favorite. 813 00:57:32,733 --> 00:57:33,833 I know. 814 00:57:34,300 --> 00:57:36,000 Thanks, Fern. 815 00:57:36,033 --> 00:57:38,667 So, what are you gonna do next? 816 00:57:38,700 --> 00:57:41,833 Uh, I'm gonna go to the beet harvest in Nebraska. 817 00:57:41,867 --> 00:57:44,000 Uh, that doesn't start till October. 818 00:57:44,033 --> 00:57:45,734 How 'bout you? 819 00:57:45,768 --> 00:57:48,000 I'm gonna start in at Wall Drug. 820 00:57:48,033 --> 00:57:49,333 Yeah, I did that last year. 821 00:57:49,367 --> 00:57:51,568 I can see if they have another opening. 822 00:57:52,167 --> 00:57:53,968 For me? Yeah. 823 00:57:54,001 --> 00:57:55,834 Got a great place to park. 824 00:57:57,834 --> 00:58:01,101 Enjoy your kippers. Get better. Bye. 825 00:58:16,134 --> 00:58:18,602 How's it going? Good, good, good. 826 00:58:19,369 --> 00:58:20,869 One... 827 00:58:25,369 --> 00:58:26,769 Hey, Michael! MICHAEL: Hey! How's it goin'? 828 00:58:26,802 --> 00:58:28,469 Good. Can I take these tomatoes and onions? 829 00:58:28,502 --> 00:58:29,769 Yes. Absolutely. 830 00:58:29,802 --> 00:58:31,035 Thank you. 831 00:58:39,502 --> 00:58:40,535 I don't like it. 832 00:58:40,569 --> 00:58:41,935 One up over the right side there. 833 00:58:41,969 --> 00:58:43,470 Okay. 834 00:58:43,503 --> 00:58:45,802 Please don't let her face get near me. 835 00:58:45,835 --> 00:58:47,436 Oh, sheesh. 836 00:58:47,470 --> 00:58:50,002 - Oh, my gosh. - Isn't she beautiful? 837 00:58:51,636 --> 00:58:54,636 I'm kinda kidding, but I'm not, really. 838 00:58:54,670 --> 00:58:57,636 Oh, no. It's really squeezing my arm a lot. 839 00:58:57,670 --> 00:58:58,736 That's me. 840 00:58:59,503 --> 00:59:00,803 Okay. 841 00:59:00,836 --> 00:59:02,170 Yeah! 842 00:59:02,202 --> 00:59:03,770 He didn't get it. 843 00:59:03,803 --> 00:59:06,636 Oh, my God, look at how gross it is. 844 00:59:06,670 --> 00:59:09,803 Ew. No! Get out of there, Terry. Get out! Get out! 845 00:59:09,836 --> 00:59:11,303 He's fine, Fern. Fern, he's fine. 846 00:59:11,337 --> 00:59:12,736 - No, no. No, no. - He's fine, he's fine. 847 00:59:12,770 --> 00:59:13,736 Look. Just look. 848 00:59:13,770 --> 00:59:16,504 What is it? What's he feeding them? Oh! 849 00:59:16,537 --> 00:59:17,571 Probably chicken or something like that. 850 00:59:17,604 --> 00:59:18,736 No. It's rabbits. 851 00:59:18,770 --> 00:59:20,371 Look at that. Look at that. 852 00:59:20,404 --> 00:59:22,471 Look at his eyes. Yeah, yeah. He wants you. 853 00:59:22,504 --> 00:59:24,371 He wants you next. 854 00:59:24,404 --> 00:59:25,704 You get in there. 855 00:59:25,737 --> 00:59:27,371 I don't wanna be the one. 856 00:59:27,404 --> 00:59:29,537 He's gonna come right through the glass. 857 00:59:54,272 --> 00:59:56,004 Pack in, pack out. 858 01:00:12,838 --> 01:00:15,538 I think they were actually this big. 859 01:00:29,673 --> 01:00:31,606 First thing we need to do is ask you 860 01:00:31,639 --> 01:00:33,306 to turn off your bright lights. 861 01:00:33,339 --> 01:00:34,639 - I can. - Oh, it's right there. 862 01:00:34,673 --> 01:00:37,039 Right, straight up, overhead. 863 01:00:37,073 --> 01:00:39,339 That's the star, Vega. 864 01:00:39,373 --> 01:00:41,373 But it's 24 light years away. 865 01:00:41,406 --> 01:00:42,439 - Wow. - Wow. 866 01:00:42,473 --> 01:00:45,139 So what that means 867 01:00:45,173 --> 01:00:47,240 is the light that you're looking at 868 01:00:47,274 --> 01:00:50,606 left Vega in 1987. 869 01:00:50,639 --> 01:00:52,607 Wow. 870 01:00:52,640 --> 01:00:53,973 And it just got here? 871 01:00:54,006 --> 01:00:55,407 And it just got here. 872 01:00:55,440 --> 01:00:59,139 So the telescope is set up on Jupiter. 873 01:00:59,173 --> 01:01:02,474 Jupiter is the largest planet in our 874 01:01:02,507 --> 01:01:04,674 entire solar system. 875 01:01:04,707 --> 01:01:07,507 Stars blow up, and they shoot plasma 876 01:01:07,540 --> 01:01:09,374 and atoms out into space. 877 01:01:09,407 --> 01:01:11,307 Sometimes land on Earth. 878 01:01:11,340 --> 01:01:13,140 Nourish the soil. 879 01:01:13,174 --> 01:01:15,607 They become part of you. 880 01:01:15,640 --> 01:01:19,174 So, hold out your right hand 881 01:01:19,208 --> 01:01:21,541 - and look at a star. - Wow. 882 01:01:21,574 --> 01:01:24,774 Because there are atoms 883 01:01:24,807 --> 01:01:28,408 from stars that blew up eons ago 884 01:01:28,441 --> 01:01:30,441 that landed on this planet, 885 01:01:30,475 --> 01:01:32,940 and now they're in your hand. 886 01:01:42,441 --> 01:01:43,508 Hi. Hi. 887 01:01:43,541 --> 01:01:45,075 Sorry, we're closed. 888 01:01:45,108 --> 01:01:47,375 Uh... I'm looking for Dave. 889 01:01:47,408 --> 01:01:50,276 I'm his son, James. 890 01:01:50,309 --> 01:01:52,941 He's in the kitchen. Around the counter there. 891 01:01:52,975 --> 01:01:54,542 That one? Yeah. 892 01:01:58,376 --> 01:02:01,376 In Nashville, we recorded a record... 893 01:02:07,676 --> 01:02:09,809 I got it. I got it. I got it. 894 01:02:15,177 --> 01:02:16,809 I've been through here. 895 01:02:16,842 --> 01:02:18,676 Oh, yeah? A couple of times, yeah. 896 01:02:20,143 --> 01:02:21,742 This place, man. 897 01:02:21,776 --> 01:02:25,377 I don't know why anybody would wanna live here. 898 01:02:25,410 --> 01:02:27,742 Well, I can think of worse places. 899 01:02:29,909 --> 01:02:31,842 You wanna know a good way to get to know a place? 900 01:02:31,876 --> 01:02:32,876 What? 901 01:02:33,743 --> 01:02:35,143 AA meetings. 902 01:02:35,177 --> 01:02:37,210 Really? I mean, for me. 903 01:02:37,243 --> 01:02:40,377 Back when I was with the band, and I was travelin' around, 904 01:02:41,377 --> 01:02:42,677 I used to go to AA meetings everywhere. 905 01:02:42,710 --> 01:02:44,277 It was a great way to get to know people 906 01:02:44,310 --> 01:02:45,710 and to get to know a place. 907 01:02:46,243 --> 01:02:47,710 How's the burger? 908 01:02:49,244 --> 01:02:50,543 Well, it's not bad. Yeah? 909 01:02:50,577 --> 01:02:51,843 He's a good cook, your dad. 910 01:02:51,877 --> 01:02:54,178 It's not that hard to make a burger. 911 01:02:54,211 --> 01:02:56,543 Cold. 912 01:02:56,577 --> 01:02:58,411 - That's his wife, Emily. - Oh, she's cute. 913 01:02:58,444 --> 01:03:00,810 Hope she's older than she looks. 914 01:03:00,843 --> 01:03:02,144 She's gonna have a baby. 915 01:03:03,077 --> 01:03:04,843 You're gonna be a grandpa. 916 01:03:04,877 --> 01:03:06,311 When's she due? 917 01:03:06,344 --> 01:03:07,478 In two weeks, he said. 918 01:03:07,511 --> 01:03:09,511 He's on his way home now. 919 01:03:10,578 --> 01:03:12,911 Asked me to come with him. You should go. 920 01:03:21,911 --> 01:03:23,044 I was... 921 01:03:25,279 --> 01:03:26,778 I was, uh... 922 01:03:29,145 --> 01:03:30,644 He didn't like it very much 923 01:03:30,678 --> 01:03:32,778 that I wasn't around when he was... 924 01:03:32,811 --> 01:03:33,778 when he was young. 925 01:03:33,811 --> 01:03:36,779 I tried to be around when he was older, 926 01:03:36,811 --> 01:03:40,112 but he was into his thing, and I was into mine 927 01:03:41,712 --> 01:03:45,712 and I guess, I just forgot how to be a dad. 928 01:03:47,812 --> 01:03:49,979 Anyway, I wasn't very good at it. 929 01:03:51,545 --> 01:03:53,379 Don't think about it too much, Dave. 930 01:03:53,412 --> 01:03:55,845 Just go. Be a grandfather. 931 01:04:08,280 --> 01:04:10,012 You wanna come with me? 932 01:04:13,713 --> 01:04:15,846 Maybe I can visit sometime. 933 01:04:17,246 --> 01:04:18,446 Great. 934 01:04:20,147 --> 01:04:21,380 'Night. 935 01:04:21,813 --> 01:04:22,880 'Night. 936 01:07:59,021 --> 01:08:02,520 You made it, Swankie. 937 01:08:34,254 --> 01:08:35,488 Thanks, man. 938 01:08:37,155 --> 01:08:40,721 Then I'm gonna get the big G right here. For Georgia. 939 01:08:40,754 --> 01:08:42,554 And the big bulldog right here. 940 01:08:42,588 --> 01:08:44,922 It'll be a full half sleeve for the Georgia Bulldogs. 941 01:09:24,090 --> 01:09:26,056 Oh, Jesus! 942 01:09:30,023 --> 01:09:32,623 No overnight parking. You can't sleep here. 943 01:09:32,656 --> 01:09:34,891 I'm leaving. I'm leaving. 944 01:10:03,424 --> 01:10:08,357 Okay, what we've got is parts and labor, 945 01:10:08,391 --> 01:10:10,725 $2,300 and tax. Okay. 946 01:10:10,758 --> 01:10:13,524 I just looked up the value on your van. 947 01:10:13,557 --> 01:10:15,225 With that high a mileage, 948 01:10:15,258 --> 01:10:18,092 you're lookin' about $5,000 at the most. 949 01:10:18,125 --> 01:10:21,325 I'd probably recommend, um, 950 01:10:21,358 --> 01:10:22,792 taking that money and putting it 951 01:10:22,825 --> 01:10:24,125 towards a different vehicle so that you... 952 01:10:24,158 --> 01:10:25,892 No, no. Well, I can't do that. 953 01:10:25,925 --> 01:10:29,392 I can't do that. See, 'cause... All right. Um... 954 01:10:29,425 --> 01:10:32,358 I, uh, spent a lot of time and money 955 01:10:32,392 --> 01:10:34,826 building the inside out, and, um, 956 01:10:34,859 --> 01:10:36,192 a lot of people don't understand 957 01:10:36,225 --> 01:10:37,558 the value of that. 958 01:10:37,592 --> 01:10:40,592 But it's not somethin', like, we can... 959 01:10:44,325 --> 01:10:45,959 I live in there. 960 01:10:46,859 --> 01:10:48,425 It's my home. 961 01:10:48,458 --> 01:10:51,525 Why can't you just wire it to me, Doll? 962 01:10:51,558 --> 01:10:53,159 I can pay you... I can... 963 01:10:53,193 --> 01:10:55,126 Dolly, listen, I can pay you back. 964 01:10:55,159 --> 01:10:57,226 I'm gonna do Amazon again soon. 965 01:10:57,259 --> 01:11:00,959 I'll be able to pay you back as soon as I get that check. 966 01:11:00,993 --> 01:11:01,993 It's gonna be... 967 01:11:06,059 --> 01:11:07,393 Yeah... I'm being stubborn? 968 01:11:07,426 --> 01:11:09,126 Well, I think you're being a bitch. 969 01:11:53,628 --> 01:11:54,695 Hi. 970 01:11:54,728 --> 01:11:56,061 Hi, Fern. 971 01:11:56,095 --> 01:11:57,428 The doorbell works. 972 01:11:57,461 --> 01:11:59,795 Yeah, well, I didn't hear it, so... 973 01:11:59,828 --> 01:12:01,828 Hey. 974 01:12:03,061 --> 01:12:05,328 You want yours with cheese on it? All right. 975 01:12:05,361 --> 01:12:07,895 Got my famous four‐egg cake. All right. 976 01:12:07,928 --> 01:12:09,495 Dolly talked me into it. Where do you want it? 977 01:12:09,528 --> 01:12:11,028 Okay. Yeah, put it there, Fern. 978 01:12:11,061 --> 01:12:13,395 Here? Okay. 979 01:12:13,428 --> 01:12:15,095 All right. Ooh, that looks good. 980 01:12:15,128 --> 01:12:16,662 I want that one. 981 01:12:16,696 --> 01:12:17,829 All right, that's yours. 982 01:12:17,862 --> 01:12:19,929 It's got your name on it. Double cheese, 983 01:12:19,962 --> 01:12:21,762 please. You want cheese? 984 01:12:21,796 --> 01:12:24,162 I want two slices, please. Okay. 985 01:12:26,461 --> 01:12:28,662 Uh, this is my sister, Fern. 986 01:12:28,696 --> 01:12:30,029 Fern? Hi, Fern. I'm Jim. 987 01:12:30,062 --> 01:12:31,296 Hi. Sorry. Lime on my hand. 988 01:12:31,329 --> 01:12:32,429 Nice to meet you. This is my wife, Pam. 989 01:12:32,462 --> 01:12:34,563 Hi, Pam. Sorry, wet hand. - Hi. 990 01:12:34,597 --> 01:12:36,630 Jim has been working with George for a long time. 991 01:12:36,663 --> 01:12:38,496 Yeah, George actually sold us our first house 992 01:12:38,529 --> 01:12:39,630 before I got in real estate. 993 01:12:39,663 --> 01:12:41,296 Did they tell you how they met? 994 01:12:41,329 --> 01:12:42,362 No. 995 01:12:42,396 --> 01:12:44,462 I introduced them. 996 01:12:44,496 --> 01:12:46,897 I introduced you to George, but I knew George before. 997 01:12:46,930 --> 01:12:50,396 So, I took her out and I said, "Listen, um... 998 01:12:51,496 --> 01:12:53,630 "George is a really good friend of mine. 999 01:12:53,663 --> 01:12:55,730 "I don't want you to mess this up. 1000 01:12:55,763 --> 01:12:58,297 "If you're not serious about him, 1001 01:12:58,330 --> 01:13:00,397 "don't mess with him." 1002 01:13:00,430 --> 01:13:01,963 And I didn't mess it up. 1003 01:13:01,997 --> 01:13:03,963 And you said, "What are you talkin' about?" 1004 01:13:03,997 --> 01:13:06,730 And so, how many years have you been together? 1005 01:13:07,664 --> 01:13:08,897 30 plus. 1006 01:13:08,930 --> 01:13:10,531 Worked out pretty good. Yeah, worked out pretty good. 1007 01:13:10,564 --> 01:13:13,163 I was able to take care of it on my own, actually, 1008 01:13:13,197 --> 01:13:15,130 after that introduction. You're welcome. 1009 01:13:15,163 --> 01:13:16,664 Things are looking good right now. 1010 01:13:16,698 --> 01:13:20,430 The prices are goin' up. 2012 was a winner. 1011 01:13:20,463 --> 01:13:22,131 I mean, I wish I would have had the money 1012 01:13:22,163 --> 01:13:23,263 in 2008 to buy everything, 1013 01:13:23,297 --> 01:13:25,064 so I could sell it now. 1014 01:13:25,098 --> 01:13:28,430 Seems like real estate always ends up on the upside. 1015 01:13:28,463 --> 01:13:30,298 I don't wanna disagree with you, 1016 01:13:30,331 --> 01:13:32,031 but I have to say I do. 1017 01:13:33,398 --> 01:13:36,931 It's strange that you encourage people 1018 01:13:36,964 --> 01:13:40,798 to invest their whole life savings, go into debt, 1019 01:13:40,831 --> 01:13:43,131 just to buy a house they can't afford. 1020 01:13:44,131 --> 01:13:45,565 Fern, 1021 01:13:45,599 --> 01:13:48,865 that's a rather limited look at what we do. 1022 01:13:48,899 --> 01:13:50,064 Is it limited, George? 1023 01:13:50,098 --> 01:13:53,499 I mean, we're not all in a position to just 1024 01:13:53,532 --> 01:13:54,932 chuck everything and hit the road. 1025 01:13:54,965 --> 01:13:56,999 Oh, you think that's what I've done, George? 1026 01:13:57,032 --> 01:14:00,299 I chucked everything to hit the road? Is that what I did? 1027 01:14:00,332 --> 01:14:02,465 All right. I'm sorry. 1028 01:14:06,899 --> 01:14:10,699 You know, I think that, um, what the nomads are doing 1029 01:14:10,732 --> 01:14:13,999 is not that different than what the pioneers did. 1030 01:14:14,032 --> 01:14:16,566 I think Fern's part of an American tradition. 1031 01:14:17,299 --> 01:14:18,700 I think it's great. 1032 01:14:24,433 --> 01:14:25,933 Hey. Hi. 1033 01:14:30,233 --> 01:14:31,433 Here you go. 1034 01:14:33,300 --> 01:14:36,133 Okay. Yeah, thanks. 1035 01:14:36,166 --> 01:14:37,666 You know I'll pay you back, right? 1036 01:14:39,300 --> 01:14:40,833 I will. 1037 01:14:43,733 --> 01:14:45,000 Why don't you move in with us? 1038 01:14:45,033 --> 01:14:46,233 I can't live here. 1039 01:14:46,266 --> 01:14:47,734 I can't live in this room. 1040 01:14:47,767 --> 01:14:50,801 I can't sleep in this bed. Thank you, but I can't... 1041 01:14:50,834 --> 01:14:52,133 I know, we're not as interesting 1042 01:14:52,166 --> 01:14:53,200 as the people you meet out there. 1043 01:14:53,233 --> 01:14:54,634 That's not what I'm talkin' about. 1044 01:14:54,667 --> 01:14:56,101 No, that's what it is. 1045 01:14:56,133 --> 01:15:00,567 It's always what's out there that's more interesting. 1046 01:15:00,601 --> 01:15:02,801 You left home as soon as you could, 1047 01:15:02,834 --> 01:15:06,434 you married Bo after just knowing him a few months, 1048 01:15:06,467 --> 01:15:08,901 and then you moved to the middle of nowhere with him. 1049 01:15:08,934 --> 01:15:11,634 And then even after Bo passed away, 1050 01:15:12,334 --> 01:15:14,767 you still stayed in Empire. 1051 01:15:14,801 --> 01:15:18,034 I just didn't get it. I mean, you could have left... 1052 01:15:18,067 --> 01:15:19,067 Yeah. 1053 01:15:22,367 --> 01:15:25,568 See, that's why I can't come here. 1054 01:15:28,802 --> 01:15:30,368 I never said this to you before, 1055 01:15:30,402 --> 01:15:32,435 and maybe I should have... 1056 01:15:32,468 --> 01:15:33,735 You know, when you were growin' up, 1057 01:15:33,768 --> 01:15:36,468 you were eccentric to other people. 1058 01:15:36,502 --> 01:15:38,768 You maybe seemed weird, 1059 01:15:38,802 --> 01:15:41,168 but it was just because you were braver, 1060 01:15:41,202 --> 01:15:43,702 and more honest than everybody else. 1061 01:15:45,268 --> 01:15:49,636 And you could see me when I was hiding from everybody. 1062 01:15:52,068 --> 01:15:54,968 And sometimes you could see me before I saw myself. 1063 01:15:59,235 --> 01:16:00,836 I needed that in my life. 1064 01:16:02,036 --> 01:16:03,969 And you're my sister. 1065 01:16:04,003 --> 01:16:07,636 I would have loved having you around all these years. 1066 01:16:09,403 --> 01:16:12,903 You left a big hole by leaving. 1067 01:16:19,103 --> 01:16:20,936 That one's on me. 1068 01:17:25,805 --> 01:17:27,406 Hey. 1069 01:17:27,439 --> 01:17:30,272 Hi. Want a sandwich? You hungry? 1070 01:17:30,306 --> 01:17:32,539 I think I've met you before. 1071 01:17:33,138 --> 01:17:34,339 Yeah, I'm Fern. 1072 01:17:34,372 --> 01:17:36,806 I was workin' at T‐Rock in Quartzsite. 1073 01:17:36,839 --> 01:17:38,072 Fern. 1074 01:17:38,106 --> 01:17:40,639 You let Noodle sell his rocks there, didn't you? 1075 01:17:40,672 --> 01:17:41,539 Yeah. 1076 01:17:41,572 --> 01:17:43,106 Would you like a beer? 1077 01:17:44,772 --> 01:17:47,273 Yeah, okay. I'll trade you for a sandwich. 1078 01:17:47,307 --> 01:17:49,340 Well, here you go. Thanks. 1079 01:17:49,373 --> 01:17:50,407 It's cold, you know. 1080 01:17:50,440 --> 01:17:51,672 You should sit down by the fire. 1081 01:17:51,706 --> 01:17:53,006 Got a little trouble with my knees, though. 1082 01:17:53,039 --> 01:17:54,139 Can you help me? 1083 01:17:54,172 --> 01:17:56,139 Of course. Thanks, man. 1084 01:17:56,172 --> 01:17:57,972 Yeah, that'll do it. Yeah. 1085 01:17:58,006 --> 01:17:59,740 All right. Great. Thanks. 1086 01:17:59,773 --> 01:18:02,139 You gave me a light back in Quartzsite. 1087 01:18:02,172 --> 01:18:04,273 You still have it? 1088 01:18:04,307 --> 01:18:08,607 No, that's long gone. But I do have this for ya. 1089 01:18:09,073 --> 01:18:10,507 Want you to have it. 1090 01:18:11,773 --> 01:18:14,340 Thanks. It's really beautiful. 1091 01:18:14,373 --> 01:18:16,341 What is that? What's that stone? 1092 01:18:16,374 --> 01:18:18,073 That there is dinosaur bone. 1093 01:18:18,107 --> 01:18:19,208 Really? 1094 01:18:19,241 --> 01:18:20,408 Uh, I think so. 1095 01:18:20,441 --> 01:18:22,173 But I only know what they tell me. 1096 01:18:22,208 --> 01:18:24,173 Where are your mom and dad? 1097 01:18:24,208 --> 01:18:25,574 Back home in Wisconsin. 1098 01:18:25,608 --> 01:18:27,541 You think they worry about you? 1099 01:18:31,208 --> 01:18:32,708 You don't get lonely? 1100 01:18:33,474 --> 01:18:34,808 Got a girlfriend anywhere? 1101 01:18:35,308 --> 01:18:37,241 Well, 1102 01:18:37,274 --> 01:18:39,308 to be truthful, well, there is one. 1103 01:18:40,708 --> 01:18:43,041 She lives up in the North Country. 1104 01:18:43,074 --> 01:18:44,574 Small farm. 1105 01:18:44,608 --> 01:18:46,841 She's happy with her life there. 1106 01:18:48,774 --> 01:18:49,774 I... 1107 01:18:51,141 --> 01:18:52,475 write letters to her. 1108 01:18:52,509 --> 01:18:55,409 Oh, smart man. Very good. Letters are good. 1109 01:18:55,442 --> 01:18:58,509 I just can't ever write about anything 1110 01:18:58,542 --> 01:19:01,409 I reckon she'd care about. 1111 01:19:03,509 --> 01:19:05,175 You ever try poems? 1112 01:19:06,909 --> 01:19:08,709 Can't say I have. 1113 01:19:08,742 --> 01:19:10,942 I don't think I know a one. 1114 01:19:11,775 --> 01:19:13,375 Do you know any? 1115 01:19:13,409 --> 01:19:17,342 How about one that I used for my wedding vow? 1116 01:19:17,375 --> 01:19:20,042 When I was not much older than you. 1117 01:19:20,075 --> 01:19:21,542 Oh, right on. 1118 01:19:22,042 --> 01:19:23,542 Mind if I hear it? 1119 01:19:23,575 --> 01:19:25,942 Okay. Let's see if I can remember it. 1120 01:19:25,975 --> 01:19:26,975 Um... 1121 01:19:29,775 --> 01:19:32,842 "Shall I compare thee to a summer's day? 1122 01:19:32,875 --> 01:19:35,710 "Thou art more lovely and more temperate. 1123 01:19:35,743 --> 01:19:38,743 "Rough winds do shake the darling buds of May. 1124 01:19:38,776 --> 01:19:43,743 "And summer's lease hath all too short a date. 1125 01:19:43,776 --> 01:19:47,510 "Sometime too hot the eye of heaven shines. 1126 01:19:47,543 --> 01:19:51,010 "And often is his gold complexion dimmed. 1127 01:19:51,043 --> 01:19:54,910 "And every fair from fair sometimes declines. 1128 01:19:54,943 --> 01:20:00,311 "By chance or nature's changing course undimmed. 1129 01:20:00,344 --> 01:20:03,776 "But thy eternal summer shall not fade. 1130 01:20:03,810 --> 01:20:07,910 "Nor lose possession of that fair thou ow'st. 1131 01:20:07,943 --> 01:20:08,976 "Nor 1132 01:20:09,976 --> 01:20:11,211 "shall... 1133 01:20:11,244 --> 01:20:15,744 "Nor shall death brag thou walkest in his shade. 1134 01:20:15,777 --> 01:20:19,611 "When in eternal lines to time thou grow'st. 1135 01:20:20,744 --> 01:20:25,245 "So long as men can breathe and eyes can see. 1136 01:20:25,278 --> 01:20:30,011 "So long lives this, and this gives life to thee." 1137 01:22:30,049 --> 01:22:31,781 Fern! 1138 01:22:31,815 --> 01:22:33,316 Hey! Hi! 1139 01:22:33,349 --> 01:22:34,548 Hey. 1140 01:22:39,449 --> 01:22:40,982 Hi. You made it. 1141 01:22:41,016 --> 01:22:42,182 Yeah. 1142 01:22:42,216 --> 01:22:44,182 Good. 1143 01:22:46,182 --> 01:22:49,449 Hey. Yeah. It's nice. Wow. Wow. 1144 01:22:49,482 --> 01:22:51,782 Well, hey. Come here. 1145 01:22:51,816 --> 01:22:53,182 Come on in. 1146 01:22:53,216 --> 01:22:55,017 I'll get that. Okay. 1147 01:22:58,482 --> 01:23:00,416 This is Emily, my daughter‐in‐law. 1148 01:23:00,449 --> 01:23:01,549 I'm Fern. So nice to meet you. 1149 01:23:01,582 --> 01:23:03,882 Hi. Welcome. 1150 01:23:03,916 --> 01:23:05,950 Hey, everybody. Hey! There you are! 1151 01:23:05,983 --> 01:23:07,150 This is Fern. 1152 01:23:07,183 --> 01:23:09,483 Hey. Hi, I'm Mike. 1153 01:23:09,517 --> 01:23:10,749 Hi. Nice to meet you. 1154 01:23:10,782 --> 01:23:12,317 Nice to meet you. Thank you. Welcome, welcome. 1155 01:23:12,350 --> 01:23:14,083 And you know James. 1156 01:23:14,117 --> 01:23:14,983 Hi, James. How are you? 1157 01:23:15,017 --> 01:23:16,283 Hi. How are you? It's nice to see you. 1158 01:23:16,317 --> 01:23:17,750 Thanks for having me. 1159 01:23:17,783 --> 01:23:19,150 Who's that? Is that the guy? This is Damien. 1160 01:23:19,183 --> 01:23:20,250 Hi. He's the guy. 1161 01:23:20,283 --> 01:23:22,250 Hi, Damien. Say hi. 1162 01:23:22,283 --> 01:23:23,383 How's your drive? 1163 01:23:23,417 --> 01:23:25,217 It was great. Little hairy on the end. 1164 01:23:25,250 --> 01:23:26,483 That's a scary road. 1165 01:23:26,517 --> 01:23:28,517 In your van? I've heard about your van. 1166 01:23:28,550 --> 01:23:30,218 Yeah, yeah. MIKE: I'd like to see it. 1167 01:23:30,250 --> 01:23:33,717 I'll, uh, introduce you at some point. Thanks. Yeah. 1168 01:23:33,750 --> 01:23:34,750 Okay. 1169 01:23:34,783 --> 01:23:36,517 Where you comin' from? That's Peter. 1170 01:23:36,550 --> 01:23:37,850 Hey! Can I get you somethin'? 1171 01:23:37,883 --> 01:23:39,318 Uh, yeah. Water would be great. Thanks. 1172 01:23:39,351 --> 01:23:40,650 Great. Sure. 1173 01:23:42,650 --> 01:23:44,184 Been on the road long? 1174 01:23:44,218 --> 01:23:47,018 Um... Yeah. I worked for a while, 1175 01:23:47,051 --> 01:23:49,518 but I've been travelin' since I last saw you, yeah. 1176 01:23:49,551 --> 01:23:50,651 - All right, cool. - Here you go. 1177 01:23:52,351 --> 01:23:54,684 Okay, I'll give you to mommy. 1178 01:24:11,385 --> 01:24:13,152 You had a flat. Did you eat something? 1179 01:24:13,185 --> 01:24:14,885 Eat something? 1180 01:24:14,919 --> 01:24:17,085 You had a flat tire on your van, Dave. 1181 01:24:17,119 --> 01:24:19,752 Oh, okay. I hadn't noticed. 1182 01:24:21,019 --> 01:24:22,585 'Cause you're stayin'? 1183 01:24:23,719 --> 01:24:24,920 Yeah. 1184 01:24:24,952 --> 01:24:26,019 Good. 1185 01:24:26,052 --> 01:24:28,152 Yeah, I never expected to. 1186 01:24:28,185 --> 01:24:29,585 Never thought I'd spend another night 1187 01:24:29,619 --> 01:24:31,719 under a roof, but... 1188 01:24:32,752 --> 01:24:34,619 Well, this is a really nice place, Dave. 1189 01:24:34,652 --> 01:24:36,819 Yeah, you can stay. 1190 01:24:36,853 --> 01:24:39,253 Oh, good, thanks. I need to do laundry. 1191 01:24:43,486 --> 01:24:46,286 You know, I meant stay longer, Fern. 1192 01:24:46,320 --> 01:24:48,653 They do have a guest house. 1193 01:24:51,819 --> 01:24:53,486 I'm serious. 1194 01:24:53,520 --> 01:24:55,120 What'd they think about that? 1195 01:24:56,053 --> 01:24:57,586 I already asked them. 1196 01:24:59,786 --> 01:25:02,921 I like you. You're a good person. 1197 01:25:04,220 --> 01:25:05,586 You... 1198 01:25:05,620 --> 01:25:08,453 You get along with people for the most part. 1199 01:25:08,486 --> 01:25:10,187 You know... 1200 01:25:11,586 --> 01:25:14,686 I like being around you. 1201 01:25:14,720 --> 01:25:16,753 I like being around you. 1202 01:25:16,786 --> 01:25:19,387 What's up? What's up? You don't wanna be that way? 1203 01:25:19,421 --> 01:25:21,854 You wanna be like this, don't you? Yeah. 1204 01:25:23,121 --> 01:25:24,254 Yeah. 1205 01:25:30,822 --> 01:25:32,888 Here. He might be getting a little tired. 1206 01:25:32,922 --> 01:25:35,154 Here. I've gotta go to the kitchen. 1207 01:25:35,187 --> 01:25:36,788 Okay. Okay. 1208 01:25:37,287 --> 01:25:39,721 Just, just... 1209 01:25:44,721 --> 01:25:46,922 Don't be gone long, Dave. 1210 01:25:47,988 --> 01:25:48,988 Okay? 1211 01:26:15,422 --> 01:26:17,389 ...aren't you? 1212 01:26:17,423 --> 01:26:19,456 Go ahead. Go ahead. 1213 01:26:19,489 --> 01:26:21,489 Come here. Come here. 1214 01:26:23,956 --> 01:26:25,856 Here they come. 1215 01:26:25,889 --> 01:26:27,589 Look at all those. 1216 01:26:27,623 --> 01:26:29,623 How many do you have? 1217 01:26:29,656 --> 01:26:32,123 I don't know how many we have. 1218 01:26:35,924 --> 01:26:38,924 That one's beautiful. Look at those feathers. 1219 01:26:38,957 --> 01:26:40,656 Hey. Where's that little puffed one? 1220 01:26:40,689 --> 01:26:41,957 I don't want him sneakin' up on me. 1221 01:26:41,990 --> 01:26:43,024 Yeah. 1222 01:26:48,057 --> 01:26:48,924 Thank you. 1223 01:26:48,957 --> 01:26:51,190 Can you give me some more stuffing... 1224 01:26:51,224 --> 01:26:52,857 Corn? ...and a little corn? 1225 01:26:54,689 --> 01:26:55,890 What is that called? 1226 01:26:55,924 --> 01:26:57,957 Thanks, Fern. That's good. 1227 01:26:57,990 --> 01:26:59,390 Gravy? 1228 01:26:59,424 --> 01:27:02,557 This turkey is so moist. 1229 01:27:02,590 --> 01:27:04,357 This is incredible food. 1230 01:27:04,390 --> 01:27:06,590 Thank you, Em. Thank you, James, 1231 01:27:06,624 --> 01:27:08,725 and just wanna say a little somethin'. 1232 01:27:08,758 --> 01:27:11,290 Uh... To welcome... To Fern. 1233 01:27:11,324 --> 01:27:13,457 Yeah. To this... 1234 01:27:13,490 --> 01:27:14,958 - To this feast of a... - Thanks! 1235 01:27:14,991 --> 01:27:17,158 ...a feast of a family, 1236 01:27:17,191 --> 01:27:18,624 and to the new one, 1237 01:27:18,657 --> 01:27:21,490 and I guess the old ones, too, 1238 01:27:21,524 --> 01:27:22,725 and everybody in between. 1239 01:27:22,758 --> 01:27:23,991 Yeah. So, welcome, Fern. 1240 01:27:24,025 --> 01:27:25,657 - Welcome. - Thank you very much. 1241 01:27:25,691 --> 01:27:27,458 Happy Thanksgiving. Happy Thanksgiving. 1242 01:27:27,491 --> 01:27:28,991 Yay! 1243 01:27:29,025 --> 01:27:30,091 Cheers, all. 1244 01:27:31,258 --> 01:27:33,258 Ah, the bells of Acrosanti. 1245 01:27:34,692 --> 01:27:37,391 That's the problem. That's the problem. 1246 01:27:37,425 --> 01:27:39,025 And they're not... No, they're terrible. 1247 01:27:39,058 --> 01:27:40,191 Yeah. 1248 01:27:48,458 --> 01:27:50,525 I like that name, Empire. 1249 01:27:50,558 --> 01:27:53,459 You know, we had an airport, public pool, 1250 01:27:53,959 --> 01:27:55,192 a golf course. 1251 01:27:55,226 --> 01:27:57,625 Wow. Sounds nice. 1252 01:27:57,659 --> 01:28:00,359 What was your house like there? 1253 01:28:00,392 --> 01:28:03,760 Nothing special. Just a company tract house. 1254 01:28:05,492 --> 01:28:06,926 Actually, it was special. 1255 01:28:09,559 --> 01:28:11,359 We were right on the edge of town. 1256 01:28:11,392 --> 01:28:15,459 And our backyard looks out at this huge open space. 1257 01:28:15,492 --> 01:28:18,127 It was just desert, desert, desert, 1258 01:28:18,160 --> 01:28:19,860 all the way to the mountains. 1259 01:28:20,793 --> 01:28:22,927 There was nothin' in our way. 1260 01:28:24,727 --> 01:28:27,227 You know, I'm really glad you're here. 1261 01:28:27,260 --> 01:28:29,060 Dave really likes you. 1262 01:28:29,093 --> 01:28:30,727 Yeah? Yeah. 1263 01:28:30,760 --> 01:28:33,060 He talks about you a lot. 1264 01:33:34,236 --> 01:33:36,070 Happy New Year. 1265 01:33:38,870 --> 01:33:41,603 Happy New Year! 1266 01:34:13,271 --> 01:34:15,638 Because she loved rocks. 1267 01:34:27,071 --> 01:34:29,439 See you down the road, Swankie. 1268 01:35:04,606 --> 01:35:07,873 Bo never knew his parents and we never had kids. 1269 01:35:09,040 --> 01:35:11,040 If I didn't stay, 1270 01:35:11,073 --> 01:35:15,606 if I left, it would be like he never existed. 1271 01:35:16,706 --> 01:35:20,241 I couldn't pack up and move on. 1272 01:35:20,274 --> 01:35:22,541 He loved Empire. 1273 01:35:23,341 --> 01:35:25,441 He loved his work so much. 1274 01:35:25,474 --> 01:35:28,207 He loved being there. Everybody loved him. 1275 01:35:31,006 --> 01:35:32,874 So I stayed. 1276 01:35:33,407 --> 01:35:35,874 Same town, same house. 1277 01:35:40,807 --> 01:35:43,641 It's like my dad used to say, 1278 01:35:43,674 --> 01:35:46,174 "What's remembered lives." 1279 01:35:49,474 --> 01:35:52,375 I maybe spent too much of my life 1280 01:35:52,408 --> 01:35:55,475 just remembering, Bob. 1281 01:35:56,542 --> 01:35:57,841 You know what I mean? 1282 01:35:57,874 --> 01:35:58,874 I can... 1283 01:35:59,542 --> 01:36:02,242 I can relate. Um... 1284 01:36:02,275 --> 01:36:06,175 I rarely ever talk about my son. 1285 01:36:06,208 --> 01:36:09,008 But, uh, today would be... 1286 01:36:13,308 --> 01:36:16,575 Today would be his 33rd birthday, 1287 01:36:17,675 --> 01:36:20,475 and five years ago, he took his life. 1288 01:36:24,675 --> 01:36:28,476 And I can still barely say that in a sentence. 1289 01:36:31,643 --> 01:36:34,042 And for a long time, 1290 01:36:35,942 --> 01:36:38,843 every day was, uh... 1291 01:36:40,176 --> 01:36:41,809 The question was... 1292 01:36:42,643 --> 01:36:44,776 how can I be alive on this Earth, 1293 01:36:44,809 --> 01:36:46,443 when he's not? 1294 01:36:48,309 --> 01:36:50,177 And I didn't have an answer. 1295 01:36:51,476 --> 01:36:53,909 And those were some hard, hard days. 1296 01:36:56,177 --> 01:36:57,510 But... 1297 01:36:59,310 --> 01:37:01,109 I realized that 1298 01:37:02,244 --> 01:37:04,909 I could honor him by, uh, 1299 01:37:05,809 --> 01:37:09,644 helping people, and serving people. 1300 01:37:09,677 --> 01:37:12,644 It gives me a reason to go through the day. 1301 01:37:12,677 --> 01:37:14,877 Some days that's all I've got. 1302 01:37:18,077 --> 01:37:20,644 And out here, there's a lot of people our age. 1303 01:37:20,677 --> 01:37:23,044 Inevitably, there's grief and loss. 1304 01:37:23,077 --> 01:37:26,111 And a lot of 'em don't get over it either. 1305 01:37:26,145 --> 01:37:27,577 And that's okay. 1306 01:37:29,278 --> 01:37:30,744 That's okay. 1307 01:37:31,944 --> 01:37:35,044 One of the things I love most about this life 1308 01:37:35,944 --> 01:37:39,445 is that there's no final goodbye. 1309 01:37:39,478 --> 01:37:42,411 You know, I've met hundreds of people out here 1310 01:37:42,445 --> 01:37:44,978 and I don't ever say a final goodbye. 1311 01:37:45,011 --> 01:37:48,145 I always just say, "I'll see you down the road." 1312 01:37:48,178 --> 01:37:49,778 And I do. 1313 01:37:49,811 --> 01:37:52,878 And whether it's a month, or a year, 1314 01:37:52,911 --> 01:37:54,011 or sometimes years, 1315 01:37:54,045 --> 01:37:55,445 I see them again. 1316 01:37:55,478 --> 01:37:56,778 And I can look down the road 1317 01:37:56,811 --> 01:37:58,745 and I can be certain in my heart 1318 01:37:58,778 --> 01:38:02,045 that I'll see my son again. 1319 01:38:04,379 --> 01:38:07,011 You'll see Bo again. 1320 01:38:07,045 --> 01:38:10,112 And you can remember your lives together then. 1321 01:38:52,114 --> 01:38:54,680 Are you sure you don't need any of this stuff? 1322 01:38:54,713 --> 01:38:57,613 No, don't need any of it. I'm good. 1323 01:38:57,647 --> 01:38:59,513 I'm not gonna miss one thing. 1324 01:39:04,780 --> 01:39:08,014 Well, we'll see you later. 1325 01:43:03,698 --> 01:43:06,498 Synced by Peterlin