1 00:00:18,785 --> 00:00:19,318 ADMISSION 2 00:00:19,319 --> 00:00:22,287 An admissions officer must have a strong constitution... 3 00:00:22,288 --> 00:00:23,956 to be on the receiving end of... 4 00:00:23,957 --> 00:00:26,725 ..-an entire nation's application panic. 5 00:00:26,726 --> 00:00:31,726 To endure the frustration and anger of all the so-called millennial parents, 6 00:00:31,765 --> 00:00:32,798 who just realized... 7 00:00:32,799 --> 00:00:35,200 - Come on, hurry up! - God, mom, relax. 8 00:00:35,201 --> 00:00:37,836 There isn't room for every perfectly nurtured, 9 00:00:37,837 --> 00:00:39,874 organically fed, well-tutored offspring. 10 00:00:39,973 --> 00:00:41,673 OK, I'm your tour guide. 11 00:00:41,674 --> 00:00:43,375 There's no point in trying to impress me. 12 00:00:43,376 --> 00:00:46,912 I have absolutely no power over your fate here. 13 00:00:46,913 --> 00:00:48,914 The people with the power are right in there. 14 00:00:48,915 --> 00:00:51,122 The Admissions officers. 15 00:00:51,317 --> 00:00:54,520 And no, that sign is not an omen. 16 00:00:54,521 --> 00:00:56,288 Except for some of you. 17 00:00:56,289 --> 00:00:57,956 Almost all of you, actually. 18 00:00:57,957 --> 00:00:59,425 We had twenty six thousand, 19 00:00:59,426 --> 00:01:02,895 two hundred and forty one applications last year. 20 00:01:02,896 --> 00:01:05,397 One thousand, three hundred and eight of those applicants... 21 00:01:05,398 --> 00:01:07,469 are attending school here. 22 00:01:14,507 --> 00:01:17,709 James, tours leave at 9:15. It is 9:25. 23 00:01:17,710 --> 00:01:21,346 Sorry, I thought I'd wait. We had a late arrival. 24 00:01:21,347 --> 00:01:24,453 I'm sorry, our GPS lied. 25 00:01:25,452 --> 00:01:28,120 No worries, Mrs... 26 00:01:28,121 --> 00:01:29,464 ...Lafont. 27 00:01:30,023 --> 00:01:31,832 Welcome to Princeton. 28 00:01:33,827 --> 00:01:35,961 So what's the secret to getting in? 29 00:01:35,962 --> 00:01:37,498 The secret. 30 00:01:41,401 --> 00:01:42,868 Just be yourself. 31 00:01:42,869 --> 00:01:47,409 If this is the right place for you, then this is where you'll end up. 32 00:01:48,641 --> 00:01:50,742 - James? - Ok, let's go see Princeton. 33 00:01:50,743 --> 00:01:51,944 We're going to play a fun game. 34 00:01:51,945 --> 00:01:54,246 It's called spot the Nobel Prize winner. 35 00:01:54,247 --> 00:01:55,647 What's the secret to getting in? 36 00:01:55,648 --> 00:01:57,249 There has to be one, right? 37 00:01:57,250 --> 00:01:58,317 Well, there is. 38 00:01:58,318 --> 00:02:00,719 But I can't tell you. Not yet. 39 00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:03,322 What I can tell you is everyone thinks we're sadists. 40 00:02:03,323 --> 00:02:06,191 That we like saying no. This is not true. 41 00:02:06,192 --> 00:02:08,293 - No. - Portia. 42 00:02:08,294 --> 00:02:08,927 No no no. 43 00:02:08,928 --> 00:02:11,530 You're second reader on my territory this season. 44 00:02:11,531 --> 00:02:13,799 Yes, I know. As are you on mine. 45 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:16,246 That's the way it works. 46 00:02:18,271 --> 00:02:21,980 I'll just wail until you catch up with me. 47 00:02:24,144 --> 00:02:26,678 We are in this job for one reason. 48 00:02:26,679 --> 00:02:28,113 - Hello? - Is this Portia Nathan? 49 00:02:28,114 --> 00:02:28,580 To say. 50 00:02:28,581 --> 00:02:29,214 Yes. 51 00:02:29,215 --> 00:02:31,583 Wow, I didn't think I'd gel you. It's John Pressman... 52 00:02:31,584 --> 00:02:34,386 ...from the New Quest School in Keene, New Hampshire. 53 00:02:34,387 --> 00:02:34,987 OK. 54 00:02:34,988 --> 00:02:38,023 Yeah, I sent you a few e-mails and left a couple messages. 55 00:02:38,024 --> 00:02:39,091 Listen, thank you for calling. 56 00:02:39,092 --> 00:02:41,326 Can you please e-mail me your information and I will call you back? 57 00:02:41,327 --> 00:02:42,327 Hey, not so rough. 58 00:02:42,328 --> 00:02:44,096 How'd you like to have your udder yanked like that? 59 00:02:44,097 --> 00:02:46,465 - Excuse me? - Sorry, I was just talking to a student. 60 00:02:46,466 --> 00:02:49,601 People, everyone, please. 61 00:02:49,602 --> 00:02:51,904 I have a couple of announcements. 62 00:02:51,905 --> 00:02:53,572 There is an announcement. 63 00:02:53,573 --> 00:02:55,207 Portia, we're a new developmental school... 64 00:02:55,208 --> 00:02:57,743 and we have our first graduating class this year. 65 00:02:57,744 --> 00:03:00,312 I know you're going to be making your school visits in the next few weeks. 66 00:03:00,313 --> 00:03:02,014 I'd like for you to visit our campus. 67 00:03:02,015 --> 00:03:04,816 Our kids would gain a lot from it and I think you would too. 68 00:03:04,817 --> 00:03:06,818 Right, I will look into it. Gotta go. 69 00:03:06,819 --> 00:03:08,887 You know, I went to Dartmouth, same time as you. 70 00:03:08,888 --> 00:03:11,156 Bye. Thank you for calling. 71 00:03:11,157 --> 00:03:15,127 So we're breaking records in application numbers, naturally... 72 00:03:15,128 --> 00:03:18,931 ...because we've been number one for so long. 73 00:03:18,932 --> 00:03:21,776 Number one until today. 74 00:03:22,202 --> 00:03:25,775 Princeton has just fallen to number two. 75 00:03:27,307 --> 00:03:31,577 What this means is that we all have to work harder than ever... 76 00:03:31,578 --> 00:03:33,845 ...because I want to go out on top. 77 00:03:33,846 --> 00:03:36,815 Yes, you see the rumors are true. 78 00:03:36,816 --> 00:03:38,817 I've decided to retire. 79 00:03:38,818 --> 00:03:43,021 And pass the baton to a worthy successor. 80 00:03:43,022 --> 00:03:45,724 I'm spending an extra four days in the Andover-Hotchkiss triangle. 81 00:03:45,725 --> 00:03:49,494 And I've added five full days to the San Francisco Bay Area and Northern California. 82 00:03:49,495 --> 00:03:51,763 And I've added a number of new schools. 83 00:03:51,764 --> 00:03:55,100 In fact, I was just talking to the co-founder of Quest.-. 84 00:03:55,101 --> 00:03:58,303 ...a developmental high school with their first year of college applicants. 85 00:03:58,304 --> 00:04:00,105 Clarence, we're going to be back on lop. 86 00:04:00,106 --> 00:04:01,540 We're going to make that happen. 87 00:04:01,541 --> 00:04:03,953 By working together. Right, Portia? 88 00:04:04,777 --> 00:04:06,188 Absolutely. 89 00:04:06,613 --> 00:04:09,348 As a mother myself, I know the importance of teamwork. 90 00:04:09,349 --> 00:04:13,118 And I am not a mother, but I know the importance of it loo. 91 00:04:13,119 --> 00:04:14,792 Can't go it alone. 92 00:04:16,589 --> 00:04:18,190 Good. 93 00:04:18,191 --> 00:04:21,393 Because you two are my superstars... 94 00:04:21,394 --> 00:04:24,997 ...and nothing would make me happier than if one of you... 95 00:04:24,998 --> 00:04:29,003 .-.were to have this office next year-. 96 00:04:39,012 --> 00:04:40,184 OK. 97 00:04:40,813 --> 00:04:43,726 Class of 2016. 98 00:04:46,185 --> 00:04:49,454 Pediatric surgery best combines my love of children... 99 00:04:49,455 --> 00:04:53,492 ...of science, and my desire to give back to my community. 100 00:04:53,493 --> 00:04:55,927 Yes, but you didn't challenge yourself academically. 101 00:04:55,928 --> 00:04:59,671 B's in Physics and you didn't take AP Chem. 102 00:05:02,368 --> 00:05:03,235 UNLIKELY 103 00:05:03,236 --> 00:05:04,403 Princeton's awesome. 104 00:05:04,404 --> 00:05:09,478 Since 1841, every male in my family has attended the place. 105 00:05:10,643 --> 00:05:12,244 Student Body President. 106 00:05:12,245 --> 00:05:14,112 And gymnastics national champion. 107 00:05:14,113 --> 00:05:16,848 Educated family. Privileged upbringing. 108 00:05:16,849 --> 00:05:18,350 Unfair advantage? 109 00:05:18,351 --> 00:05:21,520 2400 on the SAT. 4.5 GPA. 110 00:05:21,521 --> 00:05:24,189 And my poetry, written in my mother's psych ward... 111 00:05:24,190 --> 00:05:27,492 ...will be published by Knopf. And my father is Cuban. 112 00:05:27,493 --> 00:05:29,200 And in a wheelchair. 113 00:05:32,865 --> 00:05:34,666 - Can I gel some advice? - No. 114 00:05:34,667 --> 00:05:36,868 Applicalus interruptus. You know the rule. 115 00:05:36,869 --> 00:05:39,509 Never start a folder if you can't finish it. 116 00:05:41,040 --> 00:05:43,041 I have to start over anyway. OK. 117 00:05:43,042 --> 00:05:46,244 This kid from Alaska, Aput Kunayak. 118 00:05:46,245 --> 00:05:49,214 High grades, but low scores. 119 00:05:49,215 --> 00:05:52,451 President of ten clubs, but that might be because of his ADD. 120 00:05:52,452 --> 00:05:54,953 We want to accept people who will succeed here. 121 00:05:54,954 --> 00:05:59,524 You know, I once fought for a bipolar Inuit girl and she lasted nineteen days. 122 00:05:59,525 --> 00:06:01,793 - Do you think he might fail? - Maybe. 123 00:06:01,794 --> 00:06:03,535 I like him. 124 00:06:05,732 --> 00:06:07,040 It's so hard. 125 00:06:07,333 --> 00:06:09,468 You can't take it so personally. 126 00:06:09,469 --> 00:06:12,416 You have to toughen up or you won't last here either. 127 00:06:12,572 --> 00:06:14,552 Now outsies. I'm swamped. 128 00:06:15,475 --> 00:06:16,920 Portia? 129 00:06:17,410 --> 00:06:19,185 I hope it's you. 130 00:06:19,445 --> 00:06:20,753 Thank you. 131 00:06:21,381 --> 00:06:22,883 Back to work. 132 00:06:35,194 --> 00:06:36,172 Portia! 133 00:06:36,729 --> 00:06:37,329 Hello? 134 00:06:37,330 --> 00:06:39,831 Portia? Portia? Portia... 135 00:06:39,832 --> 00:06:42,033 I'm so sorry, I've got an emergency. 136 00:06:42,034 --> 00:06:44,469 Can you just watch the kids while I run to the vet? 137 00:06:44,470 --> 00:06:46,438 Because Richard's at his Faulkner seminar. 138 00:06:46,439 --> 00:06:47,439 Me? 139 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:49,107 Well, Mark should have been home twenty minutes ago, 140 00:06:49,108 --> 00:06:51,343 and it's our poetry night, and... 141 00:06:51,344 --> 00:06:54,848 ...really, I'm the last person you want watching your kids. 142 00:07:00,720 --> 00:07:01,824 Quiet! 143 00:07:02,522 --> 00:07:05,257 - Did someone die? - Rachael's dog is sick. 144 00:07:05,258 --> 00:07:06,601 She begged me. 145 00:07:07,026 --> 00:07:08,801 Good times. 146 00:07:11,030 --> 00:07:13,874 - I've got essays to grade. - No. 147 00:07:19,472 --> 00:07:22,174 It's OK. Mommy's here. 148 00:07:22,175 --> 00:07:23,241 What did you do to them? 149 00:07:23,242 --> 00:07:25,744 Rachael, you know Portia's not good with kids. 150 00:07:25,745 --> 00:07:27,245 It's not her fault. 151 00:07:27,246 --> 00:07:30,615 Kids just don't take to some people. 152 00:07:30,616 --> 00:07:32,823 I don't know what you were thinking. 153 00:07:33,286 --> 00:07:34,953 Sorry, he's right. 154 00:07:34,954 --> 00:07:37,856 They're like pit bulls. They can smell fear. 155 00:07:37,857 --> 00:07:39,324 Good night. 156 00:07:39,325 --> 00:07:40,633 Take them all. 157 00:07:49,035 --> 00:07:52,170 You know, if I gel Clarence's job, this will be my last travel season. 158 00:07:52,171 --> 00:07:53,371 Lovely and wonderful. 159 00:07:53,372 --> 00:07:56,408 I've got everything planned out. I'll be back in time for the department lunch. 160 00:07:56,409 --> 00:07:57,943 And I've ordered everything, you just need to pick up the... 161 00:07:57,944 --> 00:08:02,581 ...chicken and I will stop and get the famous bean salad on my way home. 162 00:08:02,582 --> 00:08:05,250 The famous bean salad. 163 00:08:05,251 --> 00:08:08,153 Is that horrible Woolf woman going to be there? 164 00:08:08,154 --> 00:08:12,257 Helen is the preeminent Virginia Woolf scholar. 165 00:08:12,258 --> 00:08:13,792 It was quite a coup to get her from Cambridge. 166 00:08:13,793 --> 00:08:16,895 But I think she has other plans. 167 00:08:16,896 --> 00:08:18,705 Lovely and wonderful. 168 00:08:24,270 --> 00:08:25,977 I like this life. 169 00:08:26,372 --> 00:08:29,819 - I do, I do. - Good. So do I. 170 00:08:31,611 --> 00:08:34,922 It's so wonderfully... 171 00:08:35,081 --> 00:08:36,081 ...simple. 172 00:08:36,082 --> 00:08:39,495 Well, we're simple folk. 173 00:08:43,723 --> 00:08:44,723 Woof! 174 00:08:44,724 --> 00:08:45,724 Excuse me? 175 00:08:45,725 --> 00:08:48,827 You just patted me on the head like a dog. 176 00:08:48,828 --> 00:08:50,273 Did I? 177 00:08:50,963 --> 00:08:52,738 Good doggie. 178 00:09:12,251 --> 00:09:13,852 Hi. 179 00:09:13,853 --> 00:09:15,520 Thank you so much for coming. 180 00:09:15,521 --> 00:09:17,422 My pleasure. We love Deerfield students. 181 00:09:17,423 --> 00:09:19,190 I'm so pleased. Good. 182 00:09:19,191 --> 00:09:21,831 - Can I help you bring in your things? - Yes, please. 183 00:09:29,602 --> 00:09:31,002 Princeton. 184 00:09:31,003 --> 00:09:35,281 In the nation's service and in the service of all nations. 185 00:09:37,009 --> 00:09:42,584 So, you all want to know the secret formula for getting in, right? 186 00:09:42,915 --> 00:09:45,984 Take out your pens. Write this down. 187 00:09:45,985 --> 00:09:48,363 There is no secret formula. 188 00:09:49,722 --> 00:09:51,656 Left on Pony Run Drive. 189 00:09:51,657 --> 00:09:53,959 But I will tell you what not to do. 190 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:56,127 No champagne, no baked goods, 191 00:09:56,128 --> 00:09:59,064 and when you phone, it is noted in your file. 192 00:09:59,065 --> 00:10:02,634 So put the reins on those eager parents of yours. 193 00:10:02,635 --> 00:10:04,035 We're looking for passion. 194 00:10:04,036 --> 00:10:06,304 Whatever it's for, doesn't matter. 195 00:10:06,305 --> 00:10:07,138 Passion. 196 00:10:07,139 --> 00:10:09,074 Right on Shady Lane. 197 00:10:09,075 --> 00:10:13,678 Does that mean every Princeton undergraduate is a genius or a prodigy? 198 00:10:13,679 --> 00:10:14,980 Absolutely not. 199 00:10:14,981 --> 00:10:17,816 Although we certainly wouldn't hold it against you. 200 00:10:17,817 --> 00:10:19,592 Almost enough for everybody. 201 00:10:24,957 --> 00:10:29,463 Recalcu Eating. Recalculating. Recalculating-. 202 00:10:33,799 --> 00:10:36,801 Make a U turn as soon as possible. 203 00:10:36,802 --> 00:10:38,008 The New Quest School 204 00:10:39,171 --> 00:10:40,013 No Service 205 00:10:56,088 --> 00:10:57,355 HEY- 206 00:10:57,356 --> 00:10:58,630 Hi. 207 00:10:59,025 --> 00:11:01,559 Portia Nathan, Princeton Admissions office. 208 00:11:01,560 --> 00:11:03,194 I know. I'm John. 209 00:11:03,195 --> 00:11:05,664 Yes, and you said you went to Dartmouth? 210 00:11:05,665 --> 00:11:09,100 Yeah, and my dad, and his dad, and his dad. 211 00:11:09,101 --> 00:11:10,201 A legacy- 212 00:11:10,202 --> 00:11:12,773 A legacy of what, I'm not really sure. 213 00:11:13,272 --> 00:11:15,874 So you're chopping some wood here? 214 00:11:15,875 --> 00:11:19,277 I'm showing them how to build a sustainable irrigation system. 215 00:11:19,278 --> 00:11:20,945 This is my third world development class. 216 00:11:20,946 --> 00:11:22,881 Well, nice axe. 217 00:11:22,882 --> 00:11:24,520 Great axe. 218 00:11:25,718 --> 00:11:28,164 - So let's gel to it. - Yeah. 219 00:11:44,870 --> 00:11:46,071 Hi there. 220 00:11:46,072 --> 00:11:50,680 You all want to know the secret formula for getting in, right? 221 00:11:53,145 --> 00:11:55,648 Well, take out your pens. 222 00:11:59,719 --> 00:12:01,426 Take them out. 223 00:12:04,156 --> 00:12:05,464 Yes? 224 00:12:06,025 --> 00:12:08,359 I'll tell you what I'd like to know. 225 00:12:08,360 --> 00:12:10,929 Why should I apply to an elitist institution... 226 00:12:10,930 --> 00:12:14,666 .-.with a history of anti-black, anti-gay, and anti-female oppression? 227 00:12:14,667 --> 00:12:16,768 Well, actually, I reject that stereotype- 228 00:12:16,769 --> 00:12:17,902 Speaking of rejection, 229 00:12:17,903 --> 00:12:20,939 don't you reject 99.9 percent of your applicants? 230 00:12:20,940 --> 00:12:23,808 And don't you just want to drum up applications to keep your number one position... 231 00:12:23,809 --> 00:12:25,076 on U.S. News and World Report? 232 00:12:25,077 --> 00:12:27,645 Well actually, I think it's number two this year, right? 233 00:12:27,646 --> 00:12:30,648 - Yes, but- - No, I'm sure it's an aberration. 234 00:12:30,649 --> 00:12:33,017 Don't people just need a college degree if you want lo pursue... 235 00:12:33,018 --> 00:12:35,787 the societally approved definition of success? 236 00:12:35,788 --> 00:12:38,623 Yeah, wouldn't you be better off sitting in your room reading books... 237 00:12:38,624 --> 00:12:40,158 instead of spending all that money? 238 00:12:40,159 --> 00:12:41,793 I'm sorry, _ are you a senior? 239 00:12:41,794 --> 00:12:43,261 No, I'm in sixth grade. 240 00:12:43,262 --> 00:12:45,997 Yeah, Portia, this is my son, Nelson. 241 00:12:45,998 --> 00:12:48,032 I'm adopted. I was born in Uganda. 242 00:12:48,033 --> 00:12:50,809 - Love you, buddy. - OK, dad. 243 00:12:51,504 --> 00:12:54,939 I thought it would be educational for him to sit in on this. 244 00:12:54,940 --> 00:12:56,975 How's it going so far? Are you learning a lot? 245 00:12:56,976 --> 00:12:59,244 Kind of. Half and half. 246 00:12:59,245 --> 00:13:01,913 - Well there you go. - OK. Right. 247 00:13:01,914 --> 00:13:05,016 Well, Nelson, sure... 248 00:13:05,017 --> 00:13:08,486 sitting in a room and reading books would be very cost effective, but- 249 00:13:08,487 --> 00:13:10,388 Princeton is a corporation. 250 00:13:10,389 --> 00:13:12,624 No different than an oil company. 251 00:13:12,625 --> 00:13:15,260 We should be educating ourselves to be citizens of the world... 252 00:13:15,261 --> 00:13:17,362 and not of some guarded suburban enclave. 253 00:13:17,363 --> 00:13:21,869 What we want is to leave the planet better than we found it. 254 00:13:25,805 --> 00:13:28,445 OK. Well. Good luck with that. 255 00:13:29,141 --> 00:13:30,017 Wail, wait. 256 00:13:30,309 --> 00:13:33,778 I want to hear about Princeton, please. 257 00:13:33,779 --> 00:13:37,048 OK, fine. But first, I have a question for all of you. 258 00:13:37,049 --> 00:13:40,251 Just how will you leave the planet better? 259 00:13:40,252 --> 00:13:43,254 Will you eradicate disease? You're going to need a medical degree. 260 00:13:43,255 --> 00:13:45,990 If you want to create new drug therapies, that's a PhD. 261 00:13:45,991 --> 00:13:50,128 Do you want to defend the innocent and secure justice for all? 262 00:13:50,129 --> 00:13:53,731 I regret to inform you that you will have to go to law school. 263 00:13:53,732 --> 00:13:56,501 There are plenty of college graduates out there... 264 00:13:56,502 --> 00:13:59,671 ...ardently hoping to leave the world better than they found it. 265 00:13:59,672 --> 00:14:01,940 We are looking for those people! 266 00:14:01,941 --> 00:14:07,323 Students with blazing minds and hearts who will change the goddamn world! 267 00:14:11,217 --> 00:14:13,885 All right, Portia. Well done! 268 00:14:13,886 --> 00:14:17,026 I bet you guys feel like bunch of assholes. 269 00:14:21,894 --> 00:14:22,660 Sorry, I probably should have warned you. 270 00:14:22,661 --> 00:14:24,429 Sorry, I probably should have warned you. 271 00:14:24,430 --> 00:14:27,131 We tend to encourage that sort of spirited debate here. 272 00:14:27,132 --> 00:14:28,600 But you did well. 273 00:14:28,601 --> 00:14:30,945 You can hit a curveball. 274 00:14:32,037 --> 00:14:35,506 You know, I'd really like to introduce you to somebody. 275 00:14:35,507 --> 00:14:37,342 This is Jeremiah Balakian. 276 00:14:37,343 --> 00:14:39,010 He's a very special student. 277 00:14:39,011 --> 00:14:41,079 My parents work in a mini-mart. 278 00:14:41,080 --> 00:14:42,480 They're not very educated. 279 00:14:42,481 --> 00:14:44,883 Do you think that matters? 280 00:14:44,884 --> 00:14:47,218 Of course not. It's your application. 281 00:14:47,219 --> 00:14:49,654 Maybe I should apply then. Princeton seems like a cool place. 282 00:14:49,655 --> 00:14:51,389 It's very cool. 283 00:14:51,390 --> 00:14:53,391 So you're saying I should apply? 284 00:14:53,392 --> 00:14:55,126 You know, I'm not really your typical student. 285 00:14:55,127 --> 00:14:59,473 My brain sort of goes on a little Walkabout, you know? 286 00:14:59,765 --> 00:15:02,100 Yes, you should apply. 287 00:15:02,101 --> 00:15:04,903 And if you would like to visit the campus... 288 00:15:04,904 --> 00:15:07,906 ...we can match you up with an undergrad and you can spend the night in his room. 289 00:15:07,907 --> 00:15:08,973 That sounds great. 290 00:15:08,974 --> 00:15:12,210 Then you could hang out and gel to know each other. 291 00:15:12,211 --> 00:15:14,612 Well, I don't really hang out with the applicants. 292 00:15:14,613 --> 00:15:16,247 - That's not how it works. - Right. 293 00:15:16,248 --> 00:15:17,515 Because there's over twenty thousand of them. 294 00:15:17,516 --> 00:15:18,650 Exactly. 295 00:15:18,651 --> 00:15:21,632 Still, I think you should gel to know this one. 296 00:15:23,188 --> 00:15:24,923 So, Portia, like the Merchant of Venice? 297 00:15:24,924 --> 00:15:25,490 Yes. 298 00:15:25,491 --> 00:15:27,926 My mother thought if she named me that I would grow up to be wise. 299 00:15:27,927 --> 00:15:29,193 I'm lucky she didn't name me Athena. 300 00:15:29,194 --> 00:15:30,962 Or Minerva. Or Sophie. 301 00:15:30,963 --> 00:15:32,196 Except a lot of people are named Sophie. 302 00:15:32,197 --> 00:15:33,498 They probably don't even know what their name means. 303 00:15:33,499 --> 00:15:35,266 Or Metis. That would be really strange. 304 00:15:35,267 --> 00:15:39,871 Or if your name was Aushenaya or lflok or Saraswati. 305 00:15:39,872 --> 00:15:41,572 I think you got lucky. 306 00:15:41,573 --> 00:15:44,417 If you had to be called something that stands for wisdom. 307 00:15:47,980 --> 00:15:50,381 Well, thanks for this. 308 00:15:50,382 --> 00:15:53,556 I have to go. I have robotics class. 309 00:15:57,122 --> 00:15:59,390 - Interesting kid. - He's a great kid. 310 00:15:59,391 --> 00:16:01,392 He's become like part of my family. 311 00:16:01,393 --> 00:16:02,994 I met him at a garage sale. 312 00:16:02,995 --> 00:16:04,562 He was reading a law encyclopedia. 313 00:16:04,563 --> 00:16:07,565 We went and had coffee and talked for five hours. 314 00:16:07,566 --> 00:16:08,733 He's a prodigy. 315 00:16:08,734 --> 00:16:11,536 Well, be sure to include all of that in your recommendation. 316 00:16:11,537 --> 00:16:13,016 Bye. 317 00:16:17,176 --> 00:16:20,111 So how long have you been at Princeton? 318 00:16:20,112 --> 00:16:21,312 Since college. Sixteen years. 319 00:16:21,313 --> 00:16:23,348 Wow, that's a long time to stay in one place. 320 00:16:23,349 --> 00:16:24,148 Are you married? 321 00:16:24,149 --> 00:16:25,516 No I live with someone. 322 00:16:25,517 --> 00:16:26,784 - Chair of the English Department. - Kids? 323 00:16:26,785 --> 00:16:27,752 Thousands. 324 00:16:27,753 --> 00:16:29,620 Can you get these cows out of the way? 325 00:16:29,621 --> 00:16:31,155 I doubt it. They're enormous. 326 00:16:31,156 --> 00:16:32,590 That one's pregnant. 327 00:16:32,591 --> 00:16:33,891 Where do you stay while you're here? 328 00:16:33,892 --> 00:16:37,203 My morn lives about ten miles away. 329 00:16:41,300 --> 00:16:42,745 Mom? 330 00:16:42,901 --> 00:16:44,209 It's me. 331 00:16:44,670 --> 00:16:46,537 Who? 332 00:16:46,538 --> 00:16:48,373 How many people call you morn? 333 00:16:48,374 --> 00:16:51,609 Why didn't you tell me you were coming? 334 00:16:51,610 --> 00:16:54,112 I left a message. I was visiting a school nearby. 335 00:16:54,113 --> 00:16:55,880 K never check my messages. 336 00:16:55,881 --> 00:16:57,548 That's a good policy. 337 00:16:57,549 --> 00:17:00,585 Thought Yd spend the night if it's a“ right with you. 338 00:17:00,586 --> 00:17:03,888 I've got to gel up very early, and then hit a few schools and race back... 339 00:17:03,889 --> 00:17:05,089 ...for Mark's department lunch. 340 00:17:05,090 --> 00:17:07,859 How can you stand those English Department gatherings? 341 00:17:07,860 --> 00:17:09,127 What could be more dull? 342 00:17:09,128 --> 00:17:13,297 Sometimes you make sacrifices for the person you've been living with for ten years. 343 00:17:13,298 --> 00:17:14,932 That's what a healthy relationship is. 344 00:17:14,933 --> 00:17:16,968 Thank god I'm not in one of those. 345 00:17:16,969 --> 00:17:17,835 Yes. Thank god. 346 00:17:17,836 --> 00:17:22,640 If I had to do what I was supposed to be doing every minute of my life, like you do... 347 00:17:22,641 --> 00:17:24,746 ...I'd kill myself. 348 00:17:25,778 --> 00:17:28,579 Did you just say if you were me you would kill yourself? 349 00:17:28,580 --> 00:17:30,782 Portia, don't' exaggerate. 350 00:17:30,783 --> 00:17:31,883 I'm working on my bike. 351 00:17:31,884 --> 00:17:36,320 You know, they actually have stores where you can buy bikes already made. 352 00:17:36,321 --> 00:17:38,956 And did you know that women are the only exploited group in history... 353 00:17:38,957 --> 00:17:41,659 ...to have been idealized into powerlessness. 354 00:17:41,660 --> 00:17:43,528 - Erica Jung. - Erica long. 355 00:17:43,529 --> 00:17:44,896 Hey pups! 356 00:17:44,897 --> 00:17:46,205 Hey! 357 00:17:46,665 --> 00:17:49,333 Hi Gloria! Hi Betty! Hi! 358 00:17:49,334 --> 00:17:50,868 Whoa, you're so skinny. 359 00:17:50,869 --> 00:17:52,036 Come on, let's gel you something to eat. 360 00:17:52,037 --> 00:17:52,970 No, no. 361 00:17:52,971 --> 00:17:55,139 They're not skinny, they're lean. 362 00:17:55,140 --> 00:17:57,075 Dogs are too dependent on humans. 363 00:17:57,076 --> 00:17:59,510 I'm not their slave. They can gel their own damn food. 364 00:17:59,511 --> 00:18:02,346 - From where? - Outside. Gophers, squirrels... 365 00:18:02,347 --> 00:18:05,483 - ..-neighbor's cat. - An unattended baby? 366 00:18:05,484 --> 00:18:09,520 They're carnivores. They're meant to be hunters. 367 00:18:09,521 --> 00:18:13,264 Here, hand me that chain break. 368 00:18:15,427 --> 00:18:17,407 Mom, you look... 369 00:18:17,529 --> 00:18:18,974 bigger. 370 00:18:19,398 --> 00:18:21,399 These? Fake. 371 00:18:21,400 --> 00:18:23,935 Fake? You mean you had a boob job? 372 00:18:23,936 --> 00:18:26,337 No, I had a mastectomy. 373 00:18:26,338 --> 00:18:27,772 These are prosthetic. 374 00:18:27,773 --> 00:18:30,374 I was wondering, you know, women who have really big breasts, 375 00:18:30,375 --> 00:18:32,243 I'd like to see what that's like... 376 00:18:32,244 --> 00:18:35,646 ...and I'll tell you, they get so in the way, it's unbelievable. 377 00:18:35,647 --> 00:18:38,082 I'm thinking of trading them in for a mid-size. 378 00:18:38,083 --> 00:18:40,151 When? When did you have a mastectomy? 379 00:18:40,152 --> 00:18:42,553 I don't know. Five weeks ago or so. 380 00:18:42,554 --> 00:18:44,322 Who keeps track? 381 00:18:44,323 --> 00:18:46,424 They found a lump. It was aggressive. 382 00:18:46,425 --> 00:18:47,158 Hadn't spread yet. 383 00:18:47,159 --> 00:18:50,328 I'm aggressive too, so I said "what the hell, why push my luck? 384 00:18:50,329 --> 00:18:51,706 Take them both." 385 00:18:52,231 --> 00:18:53,831 Why didn't you tell me? 386 00:18:53,832 --> 00:18:56,108 I am telling you. 387 00:18:56,401 --> 00:18:57,568 Now. 388 00:18:57,569 --> 00:19:01,005 Well I would have driven you to the hospital. 389 00:19:01,006 --> 00:19:02,073 Portia... 390 00:19:02,074 --> 00:19:04,308 I cabbed it. I'm OK. 391 00:19:04,309 --> 00:19:07,245 You know, I'm thinking you should... 392 00:19:07,246 --> 00:19:10,615 .-.start calling me Susannah. 393 00:19:10,616 --> 00:19:12,950 I think this could help us avoid... 394 00:19:12,951 --> 00:19:19,095 ...all this mother-daughter role playing crap that you can't seem to shake. 395 00:19:19,525 --> 00:19:21,325 You're welcome to stay... 396 00:19:21,326 --> 00:19:24,773 but there's not much for supper unless you want to go pick some kale. 397 00:19:26,899 --> 00:19:29,675 I'm remodeling your old room. 398 00:19:30,335 --> 00:19:34,579 That's good. I'm going to make a tea kettle. 399 00:19:35,874 --> 00:19:38,252 Come on, do it! 400 00:19:40,679 --> 00:19:42,659 Oh baby. 401 00:19:50,389 --> 00:19:52,924 - Portia Nathan. - John Pressman. 402 00:19:52,925 --> 00:19:53,925 Hi. 403 00:19:53,926 --> 00:19:58,529 Look, I wanted to see if you wanted to maybe get a drink or a bite to eat or something? 404 00:19:58,530 --> 00:20:01,399 Maybe talk about the application process, since we're new to it? 405 00:20:01,400 --> 00:20:05,507 - I can swing by and pick you up. - I guess I could eat. 406 00:20:07,105 --> 00:20:09,774 The parents all think that their kids' acceptance... 407 00:20:09,775 --> 00:20:12,443 is the final referendum on their parenting skills... 408 00:20:12,444 --> 00:20:14,312 ...which, hello, it's not about you. 409 00:20:14,313 --> 00:20:17,748 As far as I can tell, parents exist just to drive their kids insane. 410 00:20:17,749 --> 00:20:19,417 Of course, what the hell do I know, really? 411 00:20:19,418 --> 00:20:21,219 Why, were you raised by wolves? 412 00:20:21,220 --> 00:20:23,054 Wolf. Singular. 413 00:20:23,055 --> 00:20:25,122 - One wolf. - One wolf. 414 00:20:25,123 --> 00:20:27,391 And you never wanted kids? 415 00:20:27,392 --> 00:20:29,627 I love that question. 416 00:20:29,628 --> 00:20:34,628 It seemed unfair to subject anyone to the miserable experience I had. 417 00:20:34,800 --> 00:20:36,000 Why would you? 418 00:20:36,001 --> 00:20:38,603 There's no way in hell I would raise Nelson the way I was raised. 419 00:20:38,604 --> 00:20:39,503 Why not? 420 00:20:39,504 --> 00:20:41,772 Because I was raised by sheep. 421 00:20:41,773 --> 00:20:44,475 So... Uganda. 422 00:20:44,476 --> 00:20:48,646 I was working there and Nelson's morn was a friend. 423 00:20:48,647 --> 00:20:51,015 And she died in a car crash. 424 00:20:51,016 --> 00:20:53,751 Along with his uncle. Nelson was two. 425 00:20:53,752 --> 00:20:55,920 So you adopted him. 426 00:20:55,921 --> 00:20:58,089 Seemed like the only thing to do. 427 00:20:58,090 --> 00:21:01,859 All my friends thought for sure that I'd bail. 428 00:21:01,860 --> 00:21:04,528 That I was not ready to be a father, but... 429 00:21:04,529 --> 00:21:06,998 - ...screw that. - Right. Screw that. 430 00:21:06,999 --> 00:21:09,800 Nelson loves traveling. He loves it. 431 00:21:09,801 --> 00:21:11,836 We've lived in Indonesia. 432 00:21:11,837 --> 00:21:15,539 We built a water purification system in Myanmar. 433 00:21:15,540 --> 00:21:17,975 I'm sorry, so you're just this single dad... 434 00:21:17,976 --> 00:21:21,045 ...traveling the world with his kid, doing good? 435 00:21:21,046 --> 00:21:24,081 Well, when you put it like that it just sounds so appealing. 436 00:21:24,082 --> 00:21:26,584 But I have that on a t-shirt, actually. 437 00:21:26,585 --> 00:21:29,320 'Single dad, traveling the world with his kid, doing good" 438 00:21:29,321 --> 00:21:30,755 You can borrow it some day if you like. 439 00:21:30,756 --> 00:21:33,457 I'm not sure people would believe it on me. 440 00:21:33,458 --> 00:21:37,161 Anyway, it's the best thing I ever did... 441 00:21:37,162 --> 00:21:38,863 ...adopting a kid. 442 00:21:38,864 --> 00:21:40,537 It's getting late. 443 00:21:44,403 --> 00:21:45,736 Excuse me? 444 00:21:45,737 --> 00:21:49,840 Oh no, I can't do that, actually. I can't accept gifts. 445 00:21:49,841 --> 00:21:51,442 Excuse me? 446 00:21:51,443 --> 00:21:54,219 Princeton wants to buy me a chicken sandwich. 447 00:22:03,855 --> 00:22:06,096 Thank you so much. 448 00:22:08,293 --> 00:22:12,029 Portia, there's something I want to ask you... 449 00:22:12,030 --> 00:22:14,565 ...and I know this is all a bit abrupt. 450 00:22:14,566 --> 00:22:15,636 Yes? 451 00:22:17,869 --> 00:22:21,872 Do you think you have room for one more in your life? 452 00:22:21,873 --> 00:22:23,541 One more what? 453 00:22:23,542 --> 00:22:26,785 One more person. 454 00:22:27,079 --> 00:22:31,048 Oh John, that's so sweet. 455 00:22:31,049 --> 00:22:33,250 But you seem like a great guy too. 456 00:22:33,251 --> 00:22:34,552 And you can handle an axe... 457 00:22:34,553 --> 00:22:38,389 ...and you know, you have a very nice nose and your... 458 00:22:38,390 --> 00:22:40,057 ...face, but I have a long-term boyfriend. 459 00:22:40,058 --> 00:22:42,193 Long, long, long-term. 460 00:22:42,194 --> 00:22:44,228 And you know, we are happy. We're very happy. 461 00:22:44,229 --> 00:22:45,730 We're so... 462 00:22:45,731 --> 00:22:46,709 haPPY- 463 00:22:47,099 --> 00:22:50,167 Wow, happy is one of those words that if you say it... 464 00:22:50,168 --> 00:22:53,304 ...a lot, it loses its meaning. Like "fork." 465 00:22:53,305 --> 00:22:55,940 Fork. Fork. Fork. Fork. 466 00:22:55,941 --> 00:22:57,341 Happv- Happy- Happy- Hapw 467 00:22:57,342 --> 00:22:58,209 Happy. Fork. 468 00:22:58,210 --> 00:23:00,311 It's not...Portia, what I mean- 469 00:23:00,312 --> 00:23:04,658 No, goodbye. Thank you. This was so much better than kale. 470 00:23:05,751 --> 00:23:08,085 OK. I'm sorry. 471 00:23:08,086 --> 00:23:09,820 I was going for the cheek. 472 00:23:09,821 --> 00:23:11,689 Yeah! That's OK. 473 00:23:11,690 --> 00:23:13,624 OK, well, nice catching up... 474 00:23:13,625 --> 00:23:15,926 ...and best of luck with the application process. 475 00:23:15,927 --> 00:23:17,328 Here is my card. 476 00:23:17,329 --> 00:23:18,796 I have your card. 477 00:23:18,797 --> 00:23:20,398 - I gave you my card? - Yeah. 478 00:23:20,399 --> 00:23:22,777 That's great. Then you have my card- 479 00:23:30,108 --> 00:23:31,842 Oh my god. 480 00:23:31,843 --> 00:23:34,478 Sorry, it was there, you know? You just... 481 00:23:34,479 --> 00:23:35,646 What are you going to do? 482 00:23:35,647 --> 00:23:37,181 - Look, the reason that I'm - - You look! 483 00:23:37,182 --> 00:23:41,051 I am an admissions officer and you run a school and I live with someone.“... 484 00:23:41,052 --> 00:23:43,320 ...and I've had a really long day... 485 00:23:43,321 --> 00:23:45,389 and I'm exhausted and this never happened, do you understand? 486 00:23:45,390 --> 00:23:46,926 Portia, no. 487 00:23:47,492 --> 00:23:50,060 Portia, look, I asked you here for a reason. 488 00:23:50,061 --> 00:23:51,162 And it wasn't to kiss you. 489 00:23:51,163 --> 00:23:53,097 Please communicate with my associate Ben in the future. 490 00:23:53,098 --> 00:23:54,732 Portia, wait! Wait, it's just... 491 00:23:54,733 --> 00:23:55,939 I think.-. 492 00:23:56,635 --> 00:23:59,970 I think maybe Jeremiah's your son. 493 00:23:59,971 --> 00:24:01,172 What? 494 00:24:01,173 --> 00:24:02,673 Jeremiah. 495 00:24:02,674 --> 00:24:05,655 I think maybe he's your son. 496 00:24:05,811 --> 00:24:08,179 Are you out of your fucking mind? 497 00:24:08,180 --> 00:24:09,580 All right. Let me rewind. 498 00:24:09,581 --> 00:24:11,582 At Dartmouth, I was friends with Shelley- 499 00:24:11,583 --> 00:24:14,051 I don't know what you're talking about and you need to leave. 500 00:24:14,052 --> 00:24:15,853 - Now. - Portia, wait- 501 00:24:15,854 --> 00:24:17,755 - Jesus! - She said leave her alone! 502 00:24:17,756 --> 00:24:19,757 What the hell! Morn, put the gun down! 503 00:24:19,758 --> 00:24:21,759 No means no, asshole. 504 00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:25,329 I have got this under control. Go inside! 505 00:24:25,330 --> 00:24:28,065 You don't have shit under control. You never have. 506 00:24:28,066 --> 00:24:30,801 Screw you, mom. I do so have my life under control! 507 00:24:30,802 --> 00:24:33,204 You could have been somebody, goddamn it! 508 00:24:33,205 --> 00:24:34,672 You could have been a trailblazer! 509 00:24:34,673 --> 00:24:35,673 Right, like you? 510 00:24:35,674 --> 00:24:37,741 Holed up here like some crazy old witch? 511 00:24:37,742 --> 00:24:40,945 You know what? I'm just going to get into my car, very slowly... 512 00:24:40,946 --> 00:24:43,358 ...and let you two chat. 513 00:24:44,449 --> 00:24:46,250 - Portia, I'll call you. - Please don't-. 514 00:24:46,251 --> 00:24:49,323 Well you're not very good at returning e-mails. 515 00:24:51,957 --> 00:24:53,557 - You all right? - Fine. 516 00:24:53,558 --> 00:24:56,026 Watch where you're waving that thing. 517 00:24:56,027 --> 00:24:58,530 Your breasts are sliding off. 518 00:25:01,099 --> 00:25:02,566 Hi everyone. 519 00:25:02,567 --> 00:25:05,970 Just back from a boring recruitment trip. Uneventful. 520 00:25:05,971 --> 00:25:07,104 There she is. 521 00:25:07,105 --> 00:25:11,775 So, have you found the finest young minds in the nation for us? 522 00:25:11,776 --> 00:25:12,776 I'm trying! 523 00:25:12,777 --> 00:25:17,157 Course she has, she's our golden retriever. 524 00:25:19,184 --> 00:25:21,619 I love this. I love this bean salad. 525 00:25:21,620 --> 00:25:24,321 It's just so beans and vinaigrette. 526 00:25:24,322 --> 00:25:27,895 - So simple, but it just works. - Yeah, beans. 527 00:25:28,193 --> 00:25:31,362 Oh, hello Helen. So glad you could make it after all-. 528 00:25:31,363 --> 00:25:35,099 And I can guarantee personally that next year all your Virginia Woolf seminars... 529 00:25:35,100 --> 00:25:37,268 will be filled with superhumans. 530 00:25:37,269 --> 00:25:40,738 I'll never really understand your admissions system in America. 531 00:25:40,739 --> 00:25:42,339 Because we just do tests. 532 00:25:42,340 --> 00:25:45,276 You know, we don't really care about your childhood... 533 00:25:45,277 --> 00:25:47,678 ...or your recent conversion to Buddhism. 534 00:25:47,679 --> 00:25:50,047 Gray matter, that's what counts. 535 00:25:50,048 --> 00:25:53,250 Helen, would you mind putting the bread on the table? 536 00:25:53,251 --> 00:25:55,891 Thank you so much. 537 00:25:57,589 --> 00:26:00,524 I just... I want you to know that this... 538 00:26:00,525 --> 00:26:04,200 ...us, this life, it's everything I've always wanted. 539 00:26:04,496 --> 00:26:06,263 Helen, back so soon. 540 00:26:06,264 --> 00:26:08,744 Could you put the salad on? 541 00:26:13,038 --> 00:26:15,780 What's she got against bean salad? 542 00:26:17,142 --> 00:26:18,876 Portia, we need to talk. 543 00:26:18,877 --> 00:26:21,145 I can't do this anymore. I'm sorry. 544 00:26:21,146 --> 00:26:22,646 Oh god, I hate these lunches too. 545 00:26:22,647 --> 00:26:25,093 No, this. Us. 546 00:26:25,884 --> 00:26:29,086 Is that Helen? That's weird. 547 00:26:29,087 --> 00:26:30,020 Portia, I'm having twins. 548 00:26:30,021 --> 00:26:32,022 - What are you talking about? - Twins. 549 00:26:32,023 --> 00:26:35,292 Twins, I'm having twins. 550 00:26:35,293 --> 00:26:36,427 You're talking like a crazy person. 551 00:26:36,428 --> 00:26:41,104 Helen is having twins. My twins. I'm leaving you. 552 00:26:41,666 --> 00:26:45,035 I'm sorry, you had sex with that woman? 553 00:26:45,036 --> 00:26:45,736 A bit. 554 00:26:45,737 --> 00:26:50,107 You had unprotected sex with that vile Virginia Woolf scholar? 555 00:26:50,108 --> 00:26:52,242 There's no need to make a scene. I'm sorry. 556 00:26:52,243 --> 00:26:54,111 You don't deserve this, you don't. 557 00:26:54,112 --> 00:26:56,347 You're loyal and a good companion... 558 00:26:56,348 --> 00:26:58,515 - Slop it with the dog stuff! - What? 559 00:26:58,516 --> 00:26:59,984 I have to go. Now. 560 00:26:59,985 --> 00:27:03,454 No, you have to slay. We have guests. 561 00:27:03,455 --> 00:27:06,190 And, we are a family..-unit. 562 00:27:06,191 --> 00:27:07,925 You didn't want a family. 563 00:27:07,926 --> 00:27:11,795 - Neither did you! - No, that's true. I really don't. 564 00:27:11,796 --> 00:27:15,165 I can't stand babies. They're repulsive. 565 00:27:15,166 --> 00:27:17,868 Oh god, she's backing out now. 566 00:27:17,869 --> 00:27:18,669 That's the chicken. 567 00:27:18,670 --> 00:27:21,810 Would you mind, terribly, taking it out? Goodbye. 568 00:27:23,208 --> 00:27:27,054 I kissed someone! Almost on purpose! 569 00:27:29,648 --> 00:27:33,917 Mark had an emergency. A student was... 570 00:27:33,918 --> 00:27:37,021 ...having a breakdown about Robert Frost. 571 00:27:37,022 --> 00:27:40,891 Two roads diverging in a wood and which to lake. 572 00:27:40,892 --> 00:27:43,460 So, who likes breasts? 573 00:27:43,461 --> 00:27:45,996 Mark loves breasts. The more the merrier. 574 00:27:45,997 --> 00:27:49,500 In fact, why don't I just put this aside for him for when he gets home? 575 00:27:49,501 --> 00:27:53,142 So who likes legs? Well, Mark likes legs. 576 00:27:53,705 --> 00:27:56,948 Who likes assholes? I guess that's me. 577 00:27:58,576 --> 00:28:03,576 Virginia Woolf was a twat. Extremely overrated. 578 00:28:03,715 --> 00:28:06,093 No Gertrude Stein. 579 00:28:06,518 --> 00:28:08,691 I'll have a breast, please. 580 00:28:15,060 --> 00:28:16,630 Oh god. 581 00:28:16,828 --> 00:28:20,537 God dammit. Dammit! 582 00:28:28,106 --> 00:28:29,813 Excuse me. 583 00:28:30,308 --> 00:28:33,243 This is your mother? 584 00:28:33,244 --> 00:28:34,746 Yes. 585 00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:39,016 I saw her lecture on Frida Kahlo in 1977. 586 00:28:39,017 --> 00:28:42,219 She was extremely hot. 587 00:28:42,220 --> 00:28:44,221 OK. 588 00:28:44,222 --> 00:28:45,889 Is she well? Your mother? 589 00:28:45,890 --> 00:28:47,124 Yeah, she's fine. 590 00:28:47,125 --> 00:28:52,125 Good. Well, thank you for the party. It was very pleasant. 591 00:28:52,330 --> 00:28:54,832 Everyone is now leaving, OK. 592 00:28:54,833 --> 00:28:59,077 - I shall close this door behind? - Yes. I'll be right out. 593 00:29:25,396 --> 00:29:27,376 Get to work. 594 00:29:37,642 --> 00:29:42,682 I will always be there for you. Nothing will ever change that. 595 00:30:10,975 --> 00:30:13,353 Top of the morning, Clarence. 596 00:30:13,978 --> 00:30:15,548 Morning. 597 00:30:17,816 --> 00:30:21,389 If you want to take a couple personal days... 598 00:30:22,086 --> 00:30:24,191 Why would I? 599 00:30:25,290 --> 00:30:27,825 Everyone knows? 600 00:30:27,826 --> 00:30:30,864 - About Mark, I mean. - Yes. 601 00:30:31,162 --> 00:30:34,631 And that Woolf woman. 602 00:30:34,632 --> 00:30:37,868 I'm very sorry about the timing of this... 603 00:30:37,869 --> 00:30:42,239 ...bul I want you to know that I am here for you one thousand percent. 604 00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:45,442 This is my life. It's what I'm good at. 605 00:30:45,443 --> 00:30:46,743 I know. 606 00:30:46,744 --> 00:30:50,113 And please, rest assured, that nothing... 607 00:30:50,114 --> 00:30:52,416 ...will affect my work. Nothing. 608 00:30:52,417 --> 00:30:56,365 Well that's great. You just carry on. 609 00:31:05,830 --> 00:31:09,141 And that was the famous Blair Arch. 610 00:31:10,668 --> 00:31:13,604 Here comes one of our illustrious Admissions officers. 611 00:31:13,605 --> 00:31:15,739 Clearly a very busy time for you all. 612 00:31:15,740 --> 00:31:19,710 Any words of wisdom for hopefully future Princelonians? 613 00:31:19,711 --> 00:31:22,282 - What? - Words of wisdom? 614 00:31:23,248 --> 00:31:26,817 Just... gel those applications in and... 615 00:31:26,818 --> 00:31:29,219 ...remember to be yourself, because... 616 00:31:29,220 --> 00:31:32,133 ...who else could you be? That's... 617 00:31:32,290 --> 00:31:34,531 .-.that's who you're stuck with. 618 00:31:35,526 --> 00:31:40,063 OK. You got the idea. Let's keep moving! 619 00:31:40,064 --> 00:31:42,633 Any budding astrophysicists in the crowd? 620 00:31:42,634 --> 00:31:44,434 Because I've got a treat for you next! 621 00:31:44,435 --> 00:31:47,437 Jeremiah, from Quest. Hi. 622 00:31:47,438 --> 00:31:49,706 - You remember me? - Yes. I remember you. 623 00:31:49,707 --> 00:31:51,241 I'm Nelson. 624 00:31:51,242 --> 00:31:52,175 I remember you loo. 625 00:31:52,176 --> 00:31:53,243 I'm John. 626 00:31:53,244 --> 00:31:56,046 Turns out we had a chance to come down here today, visit the campus. 627 00:31:56,047 --> 00:31:57,047 What a surprise. 628 00:31:57,048 --> 00:31:59,716 It's awesome. It's like, ancient. 629 00:31:59,717 --> 00:32:02,586 I'm sorry, but what do you think that you're doing here? 630 00:32:02,587 --> 00:32:05,122 Jeremiah wanted to see the place. And you and I should talk. 631 00:32:05,123 --> 00:32:06,590 You are out of your mind. 632 00:32:06,591 --> 00:32:07,791 I almost forgot to ask... 633 00:32:07,792 --> 00:32:11,795 Remember when you said I could spend the night with an undergrad? 634 00:32:11,796 --> 00:32:14,865 Is that still possible? 635 00:32:14,866 --> 00:32:17,134 OK. Yes. That's possible. 636 00:32:17,135 --> 00:32:20,708 Just catch up with the tour and meet me back at Admissions. 637 00:32:38,122 --> 00:32:40,524 What are you doing? You're not allowed in here! 638 00:32:40,525 --> 00:32:41,692 What happened the other night. 639 00:32:41,693 --> 00:32:43,093 Nothing happened the other night. 640 00:32:43,094 --> 00:32:44,494 Right. It was nothing. 641 00:32:44,495 --> 00:32:48,068 So don't let it get in the way of this. 642 00:32:49,033 --> 00:32:51,702 This is Jeremiah's birth certificate. 643 00:32:51,703 --> 00:32:54,104 I knew Shelley. Your roommate at Dartmouth. 644 00:32:54,105 --> 00:32:55,038 I had a car. 645 00:32:55,039 --> 00:32:57,074 She borrowed it to pick you up after you had the baby. 646 00:32:57,075 --> 00:32:58,642 Valentine's Day. 647 00:32:58,643 --> 00:33:01,578 Shelley told me you had the baby at 1pm on Valentine's Day. 648 00:33:01,579 --> 00:33:05,315 That stuck with me. I hate Valentine's Day-. 649 00:33:05,316 --> 00:33:07,851 - It's a despicable holiday. - It sucks. 650 00:33:07,852 --> 00:33:09,619 Here's the crazy part. 651 00:33:09,620 --> 00:33:12,155 When Jeremiah applied to Quest, I saw this and put it together. 652 00:33:12,156 --> 00:33:15,192 It says that he was born and given up for adoption on Valentine's Day... 653 00:33:15,193 --> 00:33:18,795 1995, 1pm at Blaine Hospital. 654 00:33:18,796 --> 00:33:20,797 I know you didn't ask for this. 655 00:33:20,798 --> 00:33:23,200 And I'm not trying to ruin your life. 656 00:33:23,201 --> 00:33:24,668 But I care about this kid... 657 00:33:24,669 --> 00:33:28,405 and I think he could use a little more connection in his life. 658 00:33:28,406 --> 00:33:31,074 But I didn't tell him anything. It's your decision-. 659 00:33:31,075 --> 00:33:32,884 I'm just setting it up. 660 00:33:34,545 --> 00:33:39,216 He has his parents. He has you, right? Nelson? 661 00:33:39,217 --> 00:33:41,752 Yeah, his parents are great people. But we're moving on... 662 00:33:41,753 --> 00:33:43,220 .-.Nelson and me. 663 00:33:43,221 --> 00:33:44,955 Hey, maybe it was meant to be. 664 00:33:44,956 --> 00:33:46,156 Nothing is meant to be. 665 00:33:46,157 --> 00:33:48,792 And you don't just barrel into other people's lives like this. 666 00:33:48,793 --> 00:33:50,193 This is bad form. 667 00:33:50,194 --> 00:33:52,829 - This is bad form. - Bad form. 668 00:33:52,830 --> 00:33:54,031 I am not a project. 669 00:33:54,032 --> 00:33:57,343 I am not some village in need of a water system. 670 00:33:57,769 --> 00:34:01,080 - Hi. - Hi. 671 00:34:01,506 --> 00:34:04,419 John Pressman. Quest School. 672 00:34:04,575 --> 00:34:08,445 Clarence Hall, Dean of Admissions. Princeton. 673 00:34:08,446 --> 00:34:10,847 - It's quite an operation you have here. - Thank you. 674 00:34:10,848 --> 00:34:13,761 OK. Well, Mr. Pressman was just leaving. 675 00:34:14,052 --> 00:34:16,555 Right. Of course. 676 00:34:17,388 --> 00:34:18,588 It was nice to meet you. 677 00:34:18,589 --> 00:34:21,391 Hey, I heard about you guys dropping to number two. 678 00:34:21,392 --> 00:34:22,059 Sorry. 679 00:34:22,060 --> 00:34:25,062 But number two is, you know, that's good..-too-. 680 00:34:25,063 --> 00:34:27,264 Here's the information you wanted for your student... 681 00:34:27,265 --> 00:34:29,099 the undergrad he'll be spending the night with. 682 00:34:29,100 --> 00:34:29,800 Thank you. 683 00:34:29,801 --> 00:34:33,010 And here is the information you'll need on that student. 684 00:34:34,072 --> 00:34:37,007 Ben, do you mind escorting Mr. Pressman out? 685 00:34:37,008 --> 00:34:38,341 And Mr. Pressman, in the future... 686 00:34:38,342 --> 00:34:41,011 e-mail is the appropriate form of communication. 687 00:34:41,012 --> 00:34:44,881 Right. Sorry. Yeah. E-mail. 688 00:34:44,882 --> 00:34:49,262 Will do. All right, see you. 689 00:34:50,888 --> 00:34:53,957 You know, it's highly unusual... 690 00:34:53,958 --> 00:34:58,495 ...it's actually unheard of, for a school director lo be back here. 691 00:34:58,496 --> 00:34:59,296 I know. 692 00:34:59,297 --> 00:35:03,366 I think we should hire a security guard to keep the crazies out because... 693 00:35:03,367 --> 00:35:05,540 ...it is getting out of control. 694 00:35:26,924 --> 00:35:28,258 New Hampshire Certificate of Live Birth 695 00:35:28,259 --> 00:35:29,159 CHILD'S NAME: DOE, JOHN 696 00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:30,230 MOTHER'S CURRENT LEGAL NAME DOE, JANE 697 00:35:44,542 --> 00:35:45,876 Yo, whassup? 698 00:35:45,877 --> 00:35:49,450 - I beg your pardon? - I'm looking for my roomie. 699 00:35:51,549 --> 00:35:54,996 - Can I help you? - You're doing a great job. 700 00:35:55,753 --> 00:35:59,623 So a zombie will move and talk as if it were awake and genuinely aware... 701 00:35:59,624 --> 00:36:02,292 ...of its surroundings, but its inner light is off. 702 00:36:02,293 --> 00:36:02,826 Right. 703 00:36:02,827 --> 00:36:06,263 And if it is logically possible for a creature to have a brain just like yours... 704 00:36:06,264 --> 00:36:07,631 ...and no conscious experience, 705 00:36:07,632 --> 00:36:11,268 then consciousness is not literally identical to brain activity. 706 00:36:11,269 --> 00:36:12,145 Exactly! 707 00:36:12,436 --> 00:36:13,608 Exactly! 708 00:36:14,172 --> 00:36:17,374 Hi. You are not a student. 709 00:36:17,375 --> 00:36:21,111 - What, you're trying to crash or something here? - Yo, whassup? 710 00:36:21,112 --> 00:36:23,092 L...Hi! 711 00:36:25,383 --> 00:36:28,718 Hi everyone, I'm from Admissions and we like to come in and..-... 712 00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:31,388 ...check on our overnight high school visitors. 713 00:36:31,389 --> 00:36:33,924 So Jeremiah, are you warm enough? 714 00:36:33,925 --> 00:36:35,659 Do you have everything that you need? 715 00:36:35,660 --> 00:36:38,595 Do you need a Princeton sweatshirt... 716 00:36:38,596 --> 00:36:41,631 or did you remember to bring your toothbrush? 717 00:36:41,632 --> 00:36:42,999 I'm fine. Thanks. 718 00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:44,734 Good. What is that? 719 00:36:44,735 --> 00:36:47,404 - This is diet soda? - Diet soda? Why diet? 720 00:36:47,405 --> 00:36:51,274 - I just like the taste better. - So do I. That is...unbelievable. 721 00:36:51,275 --> 00:36:52,042 I guess. 722 00:36:52,043 --> 00:36:54,878 Just diet soda? No... 723 00:36:54,879 --> 00:36:56,213 Yeah. It's just... 724 00:36:56,214 --> 00:36:57,948 Great. Good. Well... 725 00:36:57,949 --> 00:37:00,987 ...gel back to your zombie talk. 726 00:37:01,686 --> 00:37:04,189 OK. Thank you. 727 00:37:06,624 --> 00:37:09,264 Dude, what a cougar. 728 00:37:15,700 --> 00:37:16,872 Shit. 729 00:37:20,905 --> 00:37:21,972 Hi. 730 00:37:21,973 --> 00:37:24,774 You don't happen to actually have an extra toothbrush on you, do you? 731 00:37:24,775 --> 00:37:27,711 On me? No. No. Why? You do need a toothbrush? 732 00:37:27,712 --> 00:37:29,157 - Yeah. - OK. 733 00:37:29,580 --> 00:37:30,880 Soft bristles, right? 734 00:37:30,881 --> 00:37:33,750 That's what kids - teenagers - your age... 735 00:37:33,751 --> 00:37:35,788 ...are supposed to use, right? 736 00:37:36,354 --> 00:37:38,455 I think soft might be more for baby teeth. 737 00:37:38,456 --> 00:37:39,723 I prefer to use just a medium. 738 00:37:39,724 --> 00:37:41,591 Yup, don't listen to me. 739 00:37:41,592 --> 00:37:43,994 You'd end up with a mouthful of cavities. 740 00:37:43,995 --> 00:37:46,796 Hey, how about this rechargeable toothbrush? 741 00:37:46,797 --> 00:37:48,164 That looks pretty cool. 742 00:37:48,165 --> 00:37:49,266 Yeah, I don't think I need that... 743 00:37:49,267 --> 00:37:53,215 as much as I do appreciate Thomas the Tank Engine. 744 00:37:55,740 --> 00:37:57,073 I'm an idiot. 745 00:37:57,074 --> 00:37:59,520 You just pick what you need. 746 00:38:00,411 --> 00:38:01,981 Just... 747 00:38:02,546 --> 00:38:04,389 Ok then. 748 00:38:05,483 --> 00:38:06,549 OK... 749 00:38:06,550 --> 00:38:09,463 - Well I guess this is it. - Yeah. 750 00:38:12,556 --> 00:38:15,594 - Thanks. - Don't mention it. 751 00:38:23,701 --> 00:38:25,271 Portia? 752 00:38:25,770 --> 00:38:28,683 Are you all right? 753 00:38:30,841 --> 00:38:33,109 I'm fine. I'm great. 754 00:38:33,110 --> 00:38:34,444 What are you doing here? 755 00:38:34,445 --> 00:38:37,781 Well, we're just up the street. 756 00:38:37,782 --> 00:38:39,728 She said she's fine. 757 00:38:39,884 --> 00:38:41,351 Have you been drinking, Portia? 758 00:38:41,352 --> 00:38:44,120 A little bit. You know me, I'm a lightweight. 759 00:38:44,121 --> 00:38:45,896 Where are your glasses? 760 00:38:46,357 --> 00:38:49,959 I thought I'd give contacts a try. 761 00:38:49,960 --> 00:38:53,806 Well, all right. Good to see you. 762 00:38:58,035 --> 00:38:59,742 Oh no. 763 00:39:00,571 --> 00:39:02,949 That's harsh. 764 00:39:03,240 --> 00:39:05,743 Yes. Yes it is. 765 00:39:09,747 --> 00:39:12,415 - Portia Nathan here. - Susannah here. 766 00:39:12,416 --> 00:39:15,018 Your mother. Mom. 767 00:39:15,019 --> 00:39:15,952 Mark called. 768 00:39:15,953 --> 00:39:16,886 I know he never liked me... 769 00:39:16,887 --> 00:39:19,022 but he thought you might be in need of some comfort and guidance. 770 00:39:19,023 --> 00:39:22,225 So, I think this is all a very good thing. 771 00:39:22,226 --> 00:39:25,428 Getting left is a good thing? Really? I have to go. 772 00:39:25,429 --> 00:39:27,430 Good, you're angry. You need to express that. 773 00:39:27,431 --> 00:39:29,165 Talk to me. I'm here for you. 774 00:39:29,166 --> 00:39:30,406 Sweetie. 775 00:39:31,702 --> 00:39:34,904 Well, I actually feel really sad and- 776 00:39:34,905 --> 00:39:38,708 And that is exactly why I knew that night on the train thirty seven years ago... 777 00:39:38,709 --> 00:39:40,910 ...-the man reading "I'm OK, You're OK".-. 778 00:39:40,911 --> 00:39:42,278 No, please, not the train story. 779 00:39:42,279 --> 00:39:45,849 I knew I needed his sperm but I did not need him. 780 00:39:45,850 --> 00:39:48,660 Hey! Watch yourself, asshole! 781 00:39:49,620 --> 00:39:51,521 Mom. Susannah... 782 00:39:51,522 --> 00:39:54,557 I wanted a child but not some moody relationship. 783 00:39:54,558 --> 00:39:58,595 Sex with a stranger on the New Jersey Transit was the answer to my problems. 784 00:39:58,596 --> 00:40:01,164 It's not healthy to need other people too much. 785 00:40:01,165 --> 00:40:03,867 Now you need to go out and fall in love with yourself. 786 00:40:03,868 --> 00:40:06,603 - Well I'm going to go do that. - You go, girl. 787 00:40:06,604 --> 00:40:08,948 Yup. Going to go buy a train ticket right now. 788 00:40:14,678 --> 00:40:16,521 Please Do Not Disturb 789 00:40:17,281 --> 00:40:19,349 John, it's Portia again. This is my eighth... 790 00:40:19,350 --> 00:40:21,684 no ninth message. Please call me back. 791 00:40:21,685 --> 00:40:26,685 It is very important that you not tell Jeremiah a thing about... 792 00:40:27,258 --> 00:40:28,324 ...the thing. 793 00:40:28,325 --> 00:40:31,928 The thing that we were talking about. Not a word. 794 00:40:31,929 --> 00:40:33,738 Call me back. 795 00:40:39,470 --> 00:40:44,274 Maybe I got a glass eye, but it some from working in a factory at the age of eleven. 796 00:40:44,275 --> 00:40:46,609 They hooked it out because they didn't have a shield on the works... 797 00:40:46,610 --> 00:40:49,312 ...bul I wear it like a medal because it tells the world where I belong, 798 00:40:49,313 --> 00:40:51,347 deep down in the working class. 799 00:40:51,348 --> 00:40:52,449 Yeah! 800 00:40:52,450 --> 00:40:54,050 Hey Princeton, what are you doing? 801 00:40:54,051 --> 00:40:58,855 Just observing the school so I can better evaluate applicants. 802 00:40:58,856 --> 00:41:00,457 Cool. I'm cutting class. 803 00:41:00,458 --> 00:41:02,325 Cutting class is never a good idea. 804 00:41:02,326 --> 00:41:05,528 I hate geography class. I hate maps. 805 00:41:05,529 --> 00:41:06,863 You hate maps? Why? 806 00:41:06,864 --> 00:41:09,532 Because you never know where you'll end up on them. 807 00:41:09,533 --> 00:41:10,700 Not with my dad. 808 00:41:10,701 --> 00:41:14,838 Well, I'm sure your dad has excellent reasons for living a rootless and impulsive life. 809 00:41:14,839 --> 00:41:15,638 I thought you loved traveling. 810 00:41:15,639 --> 00:41:18,575 I'm sick of traveling. I love playing Bridge. 811 00:41:18,576 --> 00:41:20,610 Besides, do they even play Bridge in Ecuador? 812 00:41:20,611 --> 00:41:21,578 No idea. 813 00:41:21,579 --> 00:41:23,546 - How long have you been at Princeton? - Sixteen years, but- 814 00:41:23,547 --> 00:41:24,948 Wow. You totally rock. 815 00:41:24,949 --> 00:41:28,251 - Yeah, thanks. Why is that? - Because you're totally predictable. 816 00:41:28,252 --> 00:41:31,256 So, can you tell me where I can find your dad? 817 00:41:32,456 --> 00:41:35,525 I've been trying to reach you. I left you a million messages. 818 00:41:35,526 --> 00:41:36,860 Yeah, well sorry, I'm a little busy. 819 00:41:36,861 --> 00:41:38,061 What are you doing to that cow? 820 00:41:38,062 --> 00:41:40,129 The cow's in labor. I'd shake your hand, but... 821 00:41:40,130 --> 00:41:42,765 - Look, I never told a soul- - Stay back! 822 00:41:42,766 --> 00:41:44,033 This cow doesn't know you. 823 00:41:44,034 --> 00:41:46,870 Actually, I think we met the last time I was here. 824 00:41:46,871 --> 00:41:50,707 Do you even know whether Jeremiah wants to meet his birth mother'? 825 00:41:50,708 --> 00:41:52,509 He wrote an essay last year entitled... 826 00:41:52,510 --> 00:41:55,211 "Nature versus Nurture: I wonder who my birth parents are" 827 00:41:55,212 --> 00:41:57,614 Portia the Wise! Nelson told me you were here. 828 00:41:57,615 --> 00:42:01,451 I just wanted to thank you so much! I had the best night of my life. 829 00:42:01,452 --> 00:42:03,820 There is nothing I want more in life than to go to Princeton. 830 00:42:03,821 --> 00:42:05,562 Nothing. 831 00:42:07,591 --> 00:42:08,791 Is something wrong with that cow? 832 00:42:08,792 --> 00:42:10,560 Where's the goddamn vet! 833 00:42:10,561 --> 00:42:13,363 Well, I'm going to find my own way out. 834 00:42:13,364 --> 00:42:15,098 Shit! This isn't right. 835 00:42:15,099 --> 00:42:16,399 This isn't how it looks on the internet! 836 00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:18,401 - OK, bye now. Best of luck with all that. - Come back! 837 00:42:18,402 --> 00:42:19,736 Grab her head. Calm her down. 838 00:42:19,737 --> 00:42:21,337 No, you said stay back. 839 00:42:21,338 --> 00:42:22,908 I changed my mind! 840 00:42:26,810 --> 00:42:31,054 - She looks so mad. - Well she's probably protecting her young. 841 00:42:31,649 --> 00:42:33,993 Hey there, little mama. 842 00:42:34,418 --> 00:42:36,953 It's all going to be OK. Just... 843 00:42:36,954 --> 00:42:39,222 ...just focus on your breath. 844 00:42:39,223 --> 00:42:41,224 Your terrible, terrible breath. 845 00:42:41,225 --> 00:42:44,694 Think how lucky you are not to be on a beef ranch right now. 846 00:42:44,695 --> 00:42:47,730 I'm sorry, that was inappropriate. 847 00:42:47,731 --> 00:42:50,567 Where is the bull that did this to you? 848 00:42:50,568 --> 00:42:52,569 He's probably out partying with his friends. 849 00:42:52,570 --> 00:42:54,571 She's clamping again! Jeremiah, get back here! 850 00:42:54,572 --> 00:42:56,439 Please! Fast! 851 00:42:56,440 --> 00:42:59,509 You are not alone. You are not alone, OK mama? 852 00:42:59,510 --> 00:43:02,312 We're here with you. You can do this. 853 00:43:02,313 --> 00:43:06,049 Because it happens either way. It happens either way. 854 00:43:06,050 --> 00:43:08,451 All right, it's coming! Portia, gel back here, now! 855 00:43:08,452 --> 00:43:09,919 Horrible. 856 00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:13,766 Grab a hoof, grab a hoof. All right, I'm going to count to three. One... 857 00:43:14,992 --> 00:43:17,632 ...two, three, pull! 858 00:43:22,733 --> 00:43:24,303 It's gross! 859 00:43:28,339 --> 00:43:29,539 Boundaries! 860 00:43:29,540 --> 00:43:31,674 Did you not see my "Do Not Disturb" Sign? 861 00:43:31,675 --> 00:43:32,609 Yeah, I saw it. 862 00:43:32,610 --> 00:43:34,410 But you're not the only one who reeks of cow placenta. 863 00:43:34,411 --> 00:43:36,613 Why do you have "Do Not Disturb" signs with you? 864 00:43:36,614 --> 00:43:38,982 Oh, I don't know. Maybe for times like these. 865 00:43:38,983 --> 00:43:41,017 Here, try this soap. 866 00:43:41,018 --> 00:43:43,152 Look, he's a great kid... 867 00:43:43,153 --> 00:43:46,623 ...and you're clearly a great, mildly compulsive woman. 868 00:43:46,624 --> 00:43:47,423 Take the leap! 869 00:43:47,424 --> 00:43:49,158 I'm sorry, who's mildly compulsive? 870 00:43:49,159 --> 00:43:51,427 Why do you run around fixing everyone else's life? 871 00:43:51,428 --> 00:43:52,495 What about yours? 872 00:43:52,496 --> 00:43:55,832 My life is fine, thank you very much. It's frigging great. 873 00:43:55,833 --> 00:43:57,967 Oh god, the water just turned to ice! 874 00:43:57,968 --> 00:44:00,236 Whoops, sorry. Yeah, it's solar powered. 875 00:44:00,237 --> 00:44:01,875 Bit finicky. 876 00:44:04,508 --> 00:44:07,844 Jeremiah has to get his application in, pronto. 877 00:44:07,845 --> 00:44:08,645 Work on his resume. 878 00:44:08,646 --> 00:44:12,382 A unique talent that demonstrates passion and commitment would be good. 879 00:44:12,383 --> 00:44:14,384 He has got to get going on his essay. 880 00:44:14,385 --> 00:44:17,186 And you have to prepare him for an alumni interview. 881 00:44:17,187 --> 00:44:19,455 You may have built schools in third world countries... 882 00:44:19,456 --> 00:44:21,457 and cleaned contaminated water from villages... 883 00:44:21,458 --> 00:44:23,860 ...but you have never tried to get a kid into Princeton. 884 00:44:23,861 --> 00:44:25,995 - Neither have you. - I am not trying! 885 00:44:25,996 --> 00:44:29,198 I am an Admissions Officer. I'm just helping you try. 886 00:44:29,199 --> 00:44:33,336 As I would with any outstanding student who may have been overlooked. 887 00:44:33,337 --> 00:44:35,715 There's nothing improper going on here. 888 00:44:37,608 --> 00:44:39,609 I am going to exit the shower stall now. 889 00:44:39,610 --> 00:44:40,677 OK. 890 00:44:40,678 --> 00:44:43,880 Well I'm going to remain in the shower stall for approximately thirty seconds. 891 00:44:43,881 --> 00:44:45,189 Fantastic. 892 00:44:45,616 --> 00:44:46,749 HEY- 893 00:44:46,750 --> 00:44:48,551 Yes? How can I help you? 894 00:44:48,552 --> 00:44:50,286 Do you think he has a shot? 895 00:44:50,287 --> 00:44:52,130 Send me his transcripts. 896 00:44:53,891 --> 00:44:53,990 Nelson, take a corner kick. 897 00:44:53,991 --> 00:44:56,528 Nelson, take a corner kick. 898 00:44:58,696 --> 00:45:00,430 What was that? Do it again. 899 00:45:00,431 --> 00:45:02,165 I'm not good at corner kicks. 900 00:45:02,166 --> 00:45:04,407 Horseshit. Put your heart into it-. 901 00:45:07,504 --> 00:45:08,971 Hey, Portia- How you doing? 902 00:45:08,972 --> 00:45:12,842 This is, without a doubt, the worst transcript I have ever seen. 903 00:45:12,843 --> 00:45:13,509 Switch. 904 00:45:13,510 --> 00:45:16,979 Ds and Fs in ninth, tenth and eleventh grade? 905 00:45:16,980 --> 00:45:20,450 Suspensions, detentions, a Special Ed class? 906 00:45:20,451 --> 00:45:21,784 What the hell were you thinking? 907 00:45:21,785 --> 00:45:22,819 Did you read the rest of it? 908 00:45:22,820 --> 00:45:25,388 Why? Am I missing a police record? 909 00:45:25,389 --> 00:45:27,390 Come on, man! 910 00:45:27,391 --> 00:45:29,525 Quit half-assing it! 911 00:45:29,526 --> 00:45:32,061 Play like that, those Ecuadorian kids are going to eat you up. 912 00:45:32,062 --> 00:45:32,595 An right. 913 00:45:32,596 --> 00:45:35,264 Jeremiah got the top score on eight Advanced Placement tests... 914 00:45:35,265 --> 00:45:38,201 ...without ever taking the Advanced Placement courses? 915 00:45:38,202 --> 00:45:41,003 And his SATs are almost perfect. 916 00:45:41,004 --> 00:45:43,539 - God, did he... - Cheat? No. 917 00:45:43,540 --> 00:45:44,874 I insisted he take those tests. 918 00:45:44,875 --> 00:45:48,211 He's the most brilliant student I've come across. 919 00:45:48,212 --> 00:45:49,946 - Really? - Switch! 920 00:45:49,947 --> 00:45:53,149 Regardless, kids like Jeremiah don't get into Princeton. 921 00:45:53,150 --> 00:45:56,085 He's going to be up against kids that have resumes fifteen feet long. 922 00:45:56,086 --> 00:45:56,786 So? 923 00:45:56,787 --> 00:45:59,689 Those kids are so burnt out already all they want to do is get stoned... 924 00:45:59,690 --> 00:46:00,890 and play frisbee for the rest of their lives. 925 00:46:00,891 --> 00:46:04,093 Princeton would be damn lucky to have Jeremiah. 926 00:46:04,094 --> 00:46:05,695 Hey, "Fulbol." 927 00:46:05,696 --> 00:46:07,630 "Futbol" - it's the world's sport, all right? 928 00:46:07,631 --> 00:46:08,731 Put some heart into it! 929 00:46:08,732 --> 00:46:10,233 Did you get that other thing I sent you? 930 00:46:10,234 --> 00:46:12,475 - In the box? - What? 931 00:46:17,975 --> 00:46:19,818 World's Greatest Mom 932 00:46:20,244 --> 00:46:22,912 - Very funny. - Look, he wants this. 933 00:46:22,913 --> 00:46:23,980 He really wants this. 934 00:46:23,981 --> 00:46:27,019 And I think he would thrive there. I can see it. 935 00:46:27,451 --> 00:46:30,520 Look, I can't do anything that could get me into trouble. 936 00:46:30,521 --> 00:46:35,191 But since you're new to the process, as a professional courtesy, I can... 937 00:46:35,192 --> 00:46:38,528 ...send you books, resources, everything that one might need. OK? 938 00:46:38,529 --> 00:46:40,372 - Great. - Goodbye. 939 00:46:41,231 --> 00:46:43,232 What the hell was that? 940 00:46:43,233 --> 00:46:46,269 I put my heart into it- "Futbol." 941 00:46:46,270 --> 00:46:49,410 I'll give you ten bucks if you can do it again. 942 00:46:52,176 --> 00:46:54,310 They grow up so damn fast, don't they? 943 00:46:54,311 --> 00:46:57,079 Yeah. Which one is yours? 944 00:46:57,080 --> 00:46:58,115 Yeah. 945 00:47:02,152 --> 00:47:04,420 How to Talk So Teens WIN Listen 946 00:47:04,421 --> 00:47:06,155 With a megaphone. 947 00:47:06,156 --> 00:47:09,069 Right? Exactly. 948 00:47:11,495 --> 00:47:13,229 College Bound and Gagged 949 00:47:13,230 --> 00:47:13,867 Fat Envelope Frenzy 950 00:47:17,100 --> 00:47:18,670 Admission Matters 951 00:47:19,503 --> 00:47:22,038 OK, OK, I heard you. 952 00:47:22,039 --> 00:47:24,173 Let me. It lakes a village. 953 00:47:24,174 --> 00:47:25,775 Get your hands off my baby! 954 00:47:25,776 --> 00:47:27,910 - No, I'm just helping. - What are you doing? 955 00:47:27,911 --> 00:47:29,245 Everybody needs a little help. 956 00:47:29,246 --> 00:47:32,315 - What the hell. - I'm helping you. 957 00:47:32,316 --> 00:47:35,117 Come on, come on. Right now! 958 00:47:35,118 --> 00:47:38,031 I'm not a creep. 959 00:47:44,494 --> 00:47:46,997 Balakian, Jeremiah 960 00:47:52,302 --> 00:47:53,836 When I was eight years old... 961 00:47:53,837 --> 00:47:56,706 I realized my teachers were not going to be able to teach me. 962 00:47:56,707 --> 00:47:59,709 So I became an autodidact. 963 00:47:59,710 --> 00:48:01,849 I read everything. 964 00:48:04,448 --> 00:48:06,716 I read biographies... 965 00:48:06,717 --> 00:48:10,358 mainly because I didn't know how other people lived their lives. 966 00:48:16,493 --> 00:48:19,428 I learned several years ago that I was adopted. 967 00:48:19,429 --> 00:48:23,699 That I was supposed to be the son that my parents tried so hard to have on their own. 968 00:48:23,700 --> 00:48:28,700 I think my voracious reading came from a deep longing for something that was missing. 969 00:48:28,772 --> 00:48:30,239 I was searching for someone. 970 00:48:30,240 --> 00:48:31,947 For my story. 971 00:48:32,643 --> 00:48:35,146 To not feel so alone. 972 00:48:40,651 --> 00:48:42,631 Portia? 973 00:48:44,788 --> 00:48:46,989 I knew you were taking this all rather hard... 974 00:48:46,990 --> 00:48:48,925 but I thought by now you'd be back on your feet. 975 00:48:48,926 --> 00:48:50,393 What? 976 00:48:50,394 --> 00:48:52,428 It kills me. 977 00:48:52,429 --> 00:48:54,497 It really kills me. You'll get through this. 978 00:48:54,498 --> 00:48:56,732 - You think- - I know it seems impossible, but you will. 979 00:48:56,733 --> 00:49:01,537 - No, this has nothing to do with- - It's OK, it's OK. I understand. 980 00:49:01,538 --> 00:49:03,172 No really. 981 00:49:03,173 --> 00:49:08,452 Christ, I have to go. Hang on in there. 982 00:49:09,313 --> 00:49:10,246 That's so funny. 983 00:49:10,247 --> 00:49:12,915 Il Forno is one of my favorite restaurants loo. 984 00:49:12,916 --> 00:49:15,251 - That's amazing. - I know. 985 00:49:15,252 --> 00:49:18,888 Portia, sweetie. You feeling all right? 986 00:49:18,889 --> 00:49:20,356 Just terrific, thanks. 987 00:49:20,357 --> 00:49:21,257 Oh good. 988 00:49:21,258 --> 00:49:25,528 Then I think there was an evaluation card that was placed on the wrong file. 989 00:49:25,529 --> 00:49:27,663 Jeremiah Balakian. 990 00:49:27,664 --> 00:49:29,465 - Balakian. - Ba...? 991 00:49:29,466 --> 00:49:30,766 Balakian. 992 00:49:30,767 --> 00:49:33,769 - Balakian. - Balakian. 993 00:49:33,770 --> 00:49:35,071 I think-. 994 00:49:35,072 --> 00:49:39,141 You didn't mean to put "High Consider," did you? 995 00:49:39,142 --> 00:49:40,678 Let me see-. 996 00:49:44,414 --> 00:49:45,348 No, that's right. 997 00:49:45,349 --> 00:49:47,683 But he has Ds and Fs and suspensions. 998 00:49:47,684 --> 00:49:51,454 But did you notice that he also got 5s on all eight AP exams... 999 00:49:51,455 --> 00:49:54,323 .-.without ever taking any AP courses? 1000 00:49:54,324 --> 00:49:57,159 Yes. I'm going to investigate that. That's impossible. 1001 00:49:57,160 --> 00:49:58,227 No, apparently not. 1002 00:49:58,228 --> 00:50:02,598 If the child in question is a unique, special child. 1003 00:50:02,599 --> 00:50:05,735 This isn't a child, it's an applicant. 1004 00:50:05,736 --> 00:50:07,837 He's got no extracurriculars at all. 1005 00:50:07,838 --> 00:50:09,672 The counselor at his old high school said he was shocked... 1006 00:50:09,673 --> 00:50:11,407 Jeremiah was even applying to college. 1007 00:50:11,408 --> 00:50:13,142 He's an autodidact. 1008 00:50:13,143 --> 00:50:15,678 He's an advanced reader from the age of eight. 1009 00:50:15,679 --> 00:50:20,082 Leonardo DaVinci was an autodidact. So was Benjamin Franklin-. 1010 00:50:20,083 --> 00:50:23,686 Did this Balakian kid discover electricity or paint the Mona Lisa? 1011 00:50:23,687 --> 00:50:25,688 I must have missed that in his file. 1012 00:50:25,689 --> 00:50:27,423 He's a great kid. 1013 00:50:27,424 --> 00:50:28,732 Portia, dear. 1014 00:50:28,925 --> 00:50:30,632 Take a deep breath. 1015 00:50:30,894 --> 00:50:33,429 Teamwork, remember? 1016 00:50:33,430 --> 00:50:35,698 - I'm sorry. - No, I'm sorry. 1017 00:50:35,699 --> 00:50:38,100 I forgot you're in a very fragile stale. 1018 00:50:38,101 --> 00:50:42,208 Maybe you'd like to step outside and see how fragile I am. 1019 00:50:44,241 --> 00:50:46,642 Only kidding! Only kidding. 1020 00:50:46,643 --> 00:50:51,447 Just a little levity to enhance the teamwork. 1021 00:50:51,448 --> 00:50:53,826 Thank you for your thoughts, Corrine. 1022 00:50:57,154 --> 00:50:58,888 He is never getting in. Never. 1023 00:50:58,889 --> 00:50:59,789 Calm down. 1024 00:50:59,790 --> 00:51:01,123 There's something great I want to show you. 1025 00:51:01,124 --> 00:51:03,692 - It turns out Jeremiah was a stale champion- - In what? 1026 00:51:03,693 --> 00:51:05,728 You know what? It's better if you see it for yourself. 1027 00:51:05,729 --> 00:51:08,297 He's going to be doing it at Nelson's birthday party. 1028 00:51:08,298 --> 00:51:11,667 Shows originality, intellectual passion, everything the books talk about. 1029 00:51:11,668 --> 00:51:13,302 Slate champion. Thank god. 1030 00:51:13,303 --> 00:51:14,136 Excellent. 1031 00:51:14,137 --> 00:51:17,773 So Hi send you the address to Nelson's birthday party. 1032 00:51:17,774 --> 00:51:18,874 It's at my parents' house. 1033 00:51:18,875 --> 00:51:21,253 - I'll be there. - Good. 1034 00:51:22,479 --> 00:51:25,289 Is she coming to my party? 1035 00:51:27,017 --> 00:51:28,617 Why do you like her so much? 1036 00:51:28,618 --> 00:51:30,886 I don't know. She's weird. 1037 00:51:30,887 --> 00:51:34,023 - She is indeed. - Doesn't matter anyway, right? 1038 00:51:34,024 --> 00:51:35,662 Sure it matters. 1039 00:51:38,161 --> 00:51:41,764 But, about this Spanish test. 1040 00:51:41,765 --> 00:51:43,799 This is your third "try harder" in a row. 1041 00:51:43,800 --> 00:51:46,168 Senora Garcia says you have an aptitude for languages- 1042 00:51:46,169 --> 00:51:47,903 What if I don't? 1043 00:51:47,904 --> 00:51:51,073 What if I don't have an aptitude for languages? 1044 00:51:51,074 --> 00:51:53,008 What if I'm not a genius like Jeremiah? 1045 00:51:53,009 --> 00:51:55,778 I don't want you to be a genius. I'm not a genius. 1046 00:51:55,779 --> 00:51:57,379 But I want you to be able to get by in the world. 1047 00:51:57,380 --> 00:51:59,115 - Whatever. - En espanol. 1048 00:51:59,116 --> 00:52:01,892 Whatever. I have class. 1049 00:52:03,320 --> 00:52:06,522 Even Becket emerged from Goebbels' overcoat. 1050 00:52:06,523 --> 00:52:08,190 Not to mention Pinter, Janet. 1051 00:52:08,191 --> 00:52:09,658 - Professor Polokov. - Yes? 1052 00:52:09,659 --> 00:52:11,794 - Portia Nathan. - Yes, the sad lady. 1053 00:52:11,795 --> 00:52:13,929 The sad lady? That's not really how I think of myself. 1054 00:52:13,930 --> 00:52:15,397 How is your mother? 1055 00:52:15,398 --> 00:52:16,732 She's fine. 1056 00:52:16,733 --> 00:52:21,733 So I wonder, would you consider conducting some supplementary admissions interviews? 1057 00:52:22,339 --> 00:52:26,208 A scholar of your stature would carry a huge amount of weight with the committee. 1058 00:52:26,209 --> 00:52:29,411 In fact, there's one extremely unusual applicant... 1059 00:52:29,412 --> 00:52:32,214 ...who's shown a strong interest in literature and philosophy- 1060 00:52:32,215 --> 00:52:35,284 Why would I want to speak with a high school student? 1061 00:52:35,285 --> 00:52:39,021 Of course, perhaps we could make some sort of arrangement... 1062 00:52:39,022 --> 00:52:41,357 I can't believe you're pimping me. 1063 00:52:41,358 --> 00:52:44,493 I'm not "pimping" you. He's a fan of your writing. 1064 00:52:44,494 --> 00:52:46,495 And I need him to meet this applicant. 1065 00:52:46,496 --> 00:52:49,031 Besides, when was the last time you went to a party? 1066 00:52:49,032 --> 00:52:51,033 With racist jockey statues? Never. 1067 00:52:51,034 --> 00:52:53,139 Yeah, those are pretty weird. 1068 00:52:58,875 --> 00:53:00,743 Hey Portia, thanks for coming to my party. 1069 00:53:00,744 --> 00:53:02,621 Hey Nelson, happy birthday! 1070 00:53:03,813 --> 00:53:05,281 Glad you could make it. 1071 00:53:05,282 --> 00:53:07,983 So this is your parents' place? 1072 00:53:07,984 --> 00:53:10,519 Yeah, well, my mom's now. 1073 00:53:10,520 --> 00:53:12,788 My dad passed away a few months ago. 1074 00:53:12,789 --> 00:53:14,234 I'm sorry. 1075 00:53:15,325 --> 00:53:17,059 It's nice to see you again. 1076 00:53:17,060 --> 00:53:19,128 You're not packing heat by any chance, are you? 1077 00:53:19,129 --> 00:53:19,862 Should I be? 1078 00:53:19,863 --> 00:53:21,997 No, no, we're all friendlies. 1079 00:53:21,998 --> 00:53:23,465 So, what is this? 1080 00:53:23,466 --> 00:53:26,202 That is a fossil from the Jurassic era. 1081 00:53:26,203 --> 00:53:29,271 It has been in the same place for a hundred and fifty million years. 1082 00:53:29,272 --> 00:53:30,139 Cool! 1083 00:53:30,140 --> 00:53:32,808 Welcome, welcome, welcome! 1084 00:53:32,809 --> 00:53:36,412 - Mom, I would like you to- - I'm Johnny's mother, Mrs. Pressman. 1085 00:53:36,413 --> 00:53:38,414 Are you Johnny's girlfriend? 1086 00:53:38,415 --> 00:53:39,515 No. We are friends. 1087 00:53:39,516 --> 00:53:41,951 Just friendly acquaintances. Portia Nathan. 1088 00:53:41,952 --> 00:53:43,863 Of course. What am I thinking? 1089 00:53:44,054 --> 00:53:46,455 He can't love anything... 1090 00:53:46,456 --> 00:53:49,491 ...that's less than a ten hour flight from JFK. 1091 00:53:49,492 --> 00:53:51,493 Maybe we don't have to go, right Grandma? 1092 00:53:51,494 --> 00:53:54,563 - Nelson... - You're absolutely right, Nelson. 1093 00:53:54,564 --> 00:53:58,834 There's nothing wrong with staying in the same place for a while. 1094 00:53:58,835 --> 00:53:59,635 Ask Portia. 1095 00:53:59,636 --> 00:54:01,804 She's been in the same job for sixteen years! 1096 00:54:01,805 --> 00:54:03,772 Yeah, and it's a travesty, Nelson. 1097 00:54:03,773 --> 00:54:05,908 Portia was president of her high school class. 1098 00:54:05,909 --> 00:54:06,442 Mom- 1099 00:54:06,443 --> 00:54:10,179 She resigned in protest over funding for the girls' sports program. 1100 00:54:10,180 --> 00:54:12,648 She led a school-wide walk out. 1101 00:54:12,649 --> 00:54:14,450 And the relevance of all this is? 1102 00:54:14,451 --> 00:54:18,988 When you were nine months old, you could walk. 1103 00:54:18,989 --> 00:54:20,055 She actually walked. 1104 00:54:20,056 --> 00:54:23,926 I don't mean just stumble walking like an infant or a toddler... 1105 00:54:23,927 --> 00:54:26,061 ...she waked with absolute certainty. 1106 00:54:26,062 --> 00:54:28,597 One day I saw her tumble over her shoelaces. 1107 00:54:28,598 --> 00:54:31,100 She did not cry. She didn't fall down. 1108 00:54:31,101 --> 00:54:36,101 She sat down, carefully, and tied her shoelaces in a double knot... 1109 00:54:36,206 --> 00:54:39,141 .-.got up and kept going- At nine months old. 1110 00:54:39,142 --> 00:54:40,743 There are a lot of holes in that story. 1111 00:54:40,744 --> 00:54:44,480 You were fearless. You were born an Amazon. 1112 00:54:44,481 --> 00:54:46,081 That's amazing. I love it. 1113 00:54:46,082 --> 00:54:48,217 And what makes you think she needs your approval? 1114 00:54:48,218 --> 00:54:50,486 - I don't. - OK, that's enough crazytown. 1115 00:54:50,487 --> 00:54:53,155 When Johnny got admitted to Harvard Law... 1116 00:54:53,156 --> 00:54:53,822 Oh god. 1117 00:54:53,823 --> 00:54:57,026 ...he decided to go and live in Outer Mongolia instead. 1118 00:54:57,027 --> 00:54:57,559 Yeah. 1119 00:54:57,560 --> 00:54:58,494 Outer Mongolia. 1120 00:54:58,495 --> 00:55:00,896 You know what, Portia, I'm with you. Enough crazytown. 1121 00:55:00,897 --> 00:55:04,366 Have another vat of gin, Mom. 1122 00:55:04,367 --> 00:55:06,101 - Ms. Nathan. - Yes? 1123 00:55:06,102 --> 00:55:07,945 Vladimir Polokov. 1124 00:55:13,610 --> 00:55:16,812 You are just as beautiful today as you were thirty years ago. 1125 00:55:16,813 --> 00:55:18,647 I just had a mastectomy. 1126 00:55:18,648 --> 00:55:21,686 I was just translated into Finnish. 1127 00:55:23,453 --> 00:55:25,721 Brilliant. 1128 00:55:25,722 --> 00:55:27,323 Can I gel you some iced lea? 1129 00:55:27,324 --> 00:55:29,491 Or something stronger perhaps? 1130 00:55:29,492 --> 00:55:31,060 Why not. 1131 00:55:31,061 --> 00:55:32,261 I'll stroll with you-. 1132 00:55:32,262 --> 00:55:35,064 I would love to. It would be a pleasure. 1133 00:55:35,065 --> 00:55:39,868 It was a pleasure. Your lawn jockeys are just...outstanding. 1134 00:55:39,869 --> 00:55:41,576 Yeah, aren't they fun? 1135 00:55:44,407 --> 00:55:49,857 And now, with a special performance for Nelson on his big day. 1136 00:55:52,349 --> 00:55:55,417 Performing the act that won him honorable mention... 1137 00:55:55,418 --> 00:55:57,219 at the New Hampshire Slate Championships. 1138 00:55:57,220 --> 00:55:59,063 Put your hands together... 1139 00:56:00,290 --> 00:56:02,668 Put your hands together! 1140 00:56:03,793 --> 00:56:06,831 For Jeremiah Balakian! 1141 00:56:10,166 --> 00:56:12,942 I want to dedicate this performance to Nelson. 1142 00:56:13,103 --> 00:56:15,083 Happy birthday, pal. 1143 00:56:15,905 --> 00:56:18,440 Honorable mention, I thought you said he won. 1144 00:56:18,441 --> 00:56:19,775 He was robbed. 1145 00:56:19,776 --> 00:56:21,243 This is my other friend... 1146 00:56:21,244 --> 00:56:23,112 ...Rene Descartes. 1147 00:56:23,113 --> 00:56:26,448 - Say "Hello, Rene." - Hello, Rene. 1148 00:56:26,449 --> 00:56:28,429 How are you, Rene? 1149 00:56:29,519 --> 00:56:34,025 I think, therefore I am. 1150 00:56:36,059 --> 00:56:39,261 Did you say you're pink, therefore you're ham? 1151 00:56:39,262 --> 00:56:41,397 Do you have any advice for a young man, Rene? 1152 00:56:41,398 --> 00:56:42,998 Whatever you do... 1153 00:56:42,999 --> 00:56:47,106 ...don't put the horse before... 1154 00:56:47,670 --> 00:56:49,911 "Descartes. 1155 00:56:52,475 --> 00:56:57,117 Do you guys want to see Descartes philosophize backwards? 1156 00:56:57,547 --> 00:57:00,215 I think, therefore I am. 1157 00:57:00,216 --> 00:57:02,484 Oh god. 1158 00:57:02,485 --> 00:57:04,863 That's terrible. 1159 00:57:09,159 --> 00:57:10,426 What was that? 1160 00:57:10,427 --> 00:57:12,761 Come on, that showed originality, depth- 1161 00:57:12,762 --> 00:57:13,829 Are you kidding me? 1162 00:57:13,830 --> 00:57:16,765 Here from the island of misfit toys is Jeremiah Balakian. 1163 00:57:16,766 --> 00:57:18,100 Are those birds? 1164 00:57:18,101 --> 00:57:19,435 Those are doves. 1165 00:57:19,436 --> 00:57:20,636 For the party? 1166 00:57:20,637 --> 00:57:22,638 No, you know, my morn has a dove room. 1167 00:57:22,639 --> 00:57:25,974 By the way, I know that wasn't a perfect showcase... 1168 00:57:25,975 --> 00:57:27,843 but he can't pretend to be somebody he's not. 1169 00:57:27,844 --> 00:57:29,745 Yes he can. You should try it sometime. 1170 00:57:29,746 --> 00:57:31,914 It's how humans behave here on planet earth. 1171 00:57:31,915 --> 00:57:33,715 I know how humans behave on planet earth... 1172 00:57:33,716 --> 00:57:36,452 because I've actually lived a few places on planet earth-. 1173 00:57:36,453 --> 00:57:38,120 Wait! Here, help me out. 1174 00:57:38,121 --> 00:57:39,388 Aren't you ready yet? 1175 00:57:39,389 --> 00:57:41,890 - I'm lighting them as fast as I can. - Hurry up! 1176 00:57:41,891 --> 00:57:43,459 Do you like the cake? 1177 00:57:43,460 --> 00:57:44,660 It's very patriotic. 1178 00:57:44,661 --> 00:57:46,231 Nelson's idea. 1179 00:57:46,930 --> 00:57:49,331 How many frigging candles are on this cake? 1180 00:57:49,332 --> 00:57:50,367 Fifty. 1181 00:57:50,667 --> 00:57:51,867 It was my mom's idea. 1182 00:57:51,868 --> 00:57:54,536 Polokov was looking at Jeremiah like he had two heads. 1183 00:57:54,537 --> 00:57:56,004 Well that's his problem, isn't it! 1184 00:57:56,005 --> 00:57:59,475 Look, I want Jeremiah to go to Princeton because he wants to go to Princeton... 1185 00:57:59,476 --> 00:58:00,809 and I actually think he'd do great there... 1186 00:58:00,810 --> 00:58:03,212 .-.but if he doesn't get in to Princeton, if he gets in to another school-.. 1187 00:58:03,213 --> 00:58:04,279 Well that's fine loo. 1188 00:58:04,280 --> 00:58:05,747 Because where you went to school... 1189 00:58:05,748 --> 00:58:08,283 and what your background is, that's just a box and I reject it. 1190 00:58:08,284 --> 00:58:10,924 I reject being put into a box. OK? 1191 00:58:18,161 --> 00:58:19,895 - Hi. - Hi, morn. 1192 00:58:19,896 --> 00:58:21,739 - How'd it go? - It was good. 1193 00:58:28,771 --> 00:58:32,908 Mr. and Mrs. Balakian, I'm Portia Nathan. 1194 00:58:32,909 --> 00:58:37,513 I want to say thank you so much for everything that you have done for this boy. 1195 00:58:37,514 --> 00:58:39,494 You're wonderful people. 1196 00:58:41,784 --> 00:58:44,287 She's from Princeton. 1197 00:58:45,121 --> 00:58:46,989 Well, you're welcome. 1198 00:58:46,990 --> 00:58:48,560 I love you. 1199 00:58:48,992 --> 00:58:50,699 OK. 1200 00:58:50,994 --> 00:58:52,701 Bye. 1201 00:59:02,071 --> 00:59:03,138 Portia? 1202 00:59:03,139 --> 00:59:04,473 What are you doing here? 1203 00:59:04,474 --> 00:59:05,941 I want to come live with you! 1204 00:59:05,942 --> 00:59:08,877 Why in god's name would you want to live with me? 1205 00:59:08,878 --> 00:59:11,947 Because you're a normal, boring adult. 1206 00:59:11,948 --> 00:59:13,549 I bet you'd take me to Chuck E. Cheese. 1207 00:59:13,550 --> 00:59:15,551 What makes you think I'm so boring? 1208 00:59:15,552 --> 00:59:17,286 You just are. 1209 00:59:17,287 --> 00:59:17,953 It's good. 1210 00:59:17,954 --> 00:59:19,855 At your age, you're supposed to be boring. 1211 00:59:19,856 --> 00:59:21,290 I'm the same age as your dad! 1212 00:59:21,291 --> 00:59:22,624 Tell him that! 1213 00:59:22,625 --> 00:59:25,027 - Hello? - John, it's Portia. I have Nelson. 1214 00:59:25,028 --> 00:59:26,495 - You do? - He's fine. 1215 00:59:26,496 --> 00:59:28,096 - He is? - Yes. He's fine. 1216 00:59:28,097 --> 00:59:29,269 Thank goodness. 1217 00:59:37,040 --> 00:59:40,509 Nelson, you know how much I love this statue, right? 1218 00:59:40,510 --> 00:59:41,476 Yeah. 1219 00:59:41,477 --> 00:59:46,148 You rode a horse three days through Outer Mongolia in the pouring rain... 1220 00:59:46,149 --> 00:59:48,450 ...living off mare's milk to bring it back. 1221 00:59:48,451 --> 00:59:49,718 That's right. 1222 00:59:49,719 --> 00:59:54,759 And I've dragged it place to place, across the world ever since I was twenty two. 1223 00:59:57,994 --> 01:00:01,730 That is nothing compared to how much I love you. 1224 01:00:01,731 --> 01:00:04,266 Please don't scare me like that again. 1225 01:00:04,267 --> 01:00:06,668 Why? You do it all the time? 1226 01:00:06,669 --> 01:00:07,869 Hide out in cars? 1227 01:00:07,870 --> 01:00:09,204 Run away! 1228 01:00:09,205 --> 01:00:10,339 I'll never run away from you. 1229 01:00:10,340 --> 01:00:13,942 And going across the world and helping people is not running away. 1230 01:00:13,943 --> 01:00:17,713 I know, but why can't we ever just do what I want? 1231 01:00:17,714 --> 01:00:20,182 Because you are a kid. I am an adult. 1232 01:00:20,183 --> 01:00:24,598 What I say in this house goes! 1233 01:00:33,763 --> 01:00:36,141 This parenthood thing... 1234 01:00:36,566 --> 01:00:38,567 ...well, it's a disaster. 1235 01:00:38,568 --> 01:00:40,302 So I hear. 1236 01:00:40,303 --> 01:00:44,172 I'm screwing it up. Am I? Screwing it up? 1237 01:00:44,173 --> 01:00:45,240 You're asking me? 1238 01:00:45,241 --> 01:00:48,176 I don't know, it's just, Nelson and I have always travelled. 1239 01:00:48,177 --> 01:00:50,579 I wanted to give him the kind of life I didn't have as a kid. 1240 01:00:50,580 --> 01:00:52,180 I wanted to give him the opposite of what I had as a kid... 1241 01:00:52,181 --> 01:00:54,583 but now all of a sudden he's turning into my mother. 1242 01:00:54,584 --> 01:00:57,919 You know, he plays Bridge. He listens to Lite FM. 1243 01:00:57,920 --> 01:01:02,324 He asked for a blue blazer with gold buttons and anchors on them for Christmas. 1244 01:01:02,325 --> 01:01:03,792 Does your mom wear blue blazers? 1245 01:01:03,793 --> 01:01:05,670 No, that was my father. 1246 01:01:06,195 --> 01:01:08,196 How is it possible? 1247 01:01:08,197 --> 01:01:10,198 What am I doing wrong? 1248 01:01:10,199 --> 01:01:11,800 At least you're trying. 1249 01:01:11,801 --> 01:01:14,736 I mean, there's so many different kinds of parents. 1250 01:01:14,737 --> 01:01:17,377 There's no one best way to do it. 1251 01:01:17,807 --> 01:01:19,141 Or so I have gathered... 1252 01:01:19,142 --> 01:01:22,885 with my vast experience reading personal essays. 1253 01:01:24,614 --> 01:01:28,721 Speaking of which, I have fifteen essays to get through tonight, so... 1254 01:01:32,889 --> 01:01:36,091 Well thank you for bringing him back. 1255 01:01:36,092 --> 01:01:37,400 Of course. 1256 01:01:39,028 --> 01:01:41,531 So you really are leaving, aren't you? 1257 01:01:41,964 --> 01:01:43,671 In a month and a half. 1258 01:01:52,108 --> 01:01:56,079 - I thought- - Let's just not think for a while. 1259 01:01:56,646 --> 01:01:57,954 Great. 1260 01:02:30,546 --> 01:02:32,787 Hey Portia. 1261 01:02:33,983 --> 01:02:36,384 Are you going to be my mom? 1262 01:02:36,385 --> 01:02:38,126 What? No. 1263 01:02:39,088 --> 01:02:41,193 Just messing with you. 1264 01:02:41,624 --> 01:02:43,604 Right. Go back to sleep. 1265 01:02:44,293 --> 01:02:47,206 Guess you're not so boring after all-. 1266 01:03:04,847 --> 01:03:06,181 - Good morning. - Hi. 1267 01:03:06,182 --> 01:03:08,316 Did you stay over? 1268 01:03:08,317 --> 01:03:10,185 Too long of a drive back to campus? 1269 01:03:10,186 --> 01:03:11,756 I slept on the sofa. 1270 01:03:12,455 --> 01:03:14,298 So did your mother. 1271 01:03:14,857 --> 01:03:16,992 We did not make it all the way to the bedroom. 1272 01:03:16,993 --> 01:03:18,460 I didn't need to know that. 1273 01:03:18,461 --> 01:03:20,996 Interesting. Unique, I would say. 1274 01:03:20,997 --> 01:03:22,464 Really, that's enough information. 1275 01:03:22,465 --> 01:03:24,599 The boy. Jeremiah. 1276 01:03:24,600 --> 01:03:26,067 The ventriloquism... 1277 01:03:26,068 --> 01:03:29,271 Weird- I liked it. 1278 01:03:29,272 --> 01:03:31,807 - I will write a recommendation. - Thank you! 1279 01:03:31,808 --> 01:03:34,049 Thank you, sad lady. 1280 01:03:59,035 --> 01:04:00,742 Mom? 1281 01:04:01,037 --> 01:04:02,209 Mom? 1282 01:04:04,907 --> 01:04:07,820 What are you doing here? 1283 01:04:09,445 --> 01:04:12,113 I wanted to tell you something. 1284 01:04:12,114 --> 01:04:13,181 I know. 1285 01:04:13,182 --> 01:04:15,717 You slept with that guy, didn't you? 1286 01:04:15,718 --> 01:04:16,918 I did. 1287 01:04:16,919 --> 01:04:19,024 Then we both got lucky. 1288 01:04:19,589 --> 01:04:22,365 Yeah. He's leaving. 1289 01:04:22,925 --> 01:04:25,838 It's OK. It's good. 1290 01:04:25,995 --> 01:04:26,795 It is good. 1291 01:04:26,796 --> 01:04:29,397 You don't need any commitments right now. 1292 01:04:29,398 --> 01:04:31,036 It's perfect. 1293 01:04:32,134 --> 01:04:32,934 No. 1294 01:04:32,935 --> 01:04:35,470 Honey, I'm exhausted. 1295 01:04:35,471 --> 01:04:39,248 That old Russian guy gave me a workout. 1296 01:04:41,477 --> 01:04:43,855 Just take a nap. 1297 01:04:44,947 --> 01:04:46,790 Just for a bit. 1298 01:04:48,284 --> 01:04:51,060 Actually, I've got to hit the road. 1299 01:05:50,279 --> 01:05:51,613 Next victim! 1300 01:05:51,614 --> 01:05:54,683 Good luck with the fencing finals, Sebastian. 1301 01:05:54,684 --> 01:05:57,018 It was a pleasure to meet you. 1302 01:05:57,019 --> 01:05:58,726 Thank you so much. 1303 01:05:59,021 --> 01:06:01,524 - Hi there. - Hi. 1304 01:06:04,060 --> 01:06:05,927 This is Jeremiah Balakian. 1305 01:06:05,928 --> 01:06:08,196 Good to meet you. Are you Mr. Balakian? 1306 01:06:08,197 --> 01:06:08,630 No. 1307 01:06:08,631 --> 01:06:10,765 His parents couldn't make it. I'm his teacher. 1308 01:06:10,766 --> 01:06:12,473 Yeah, you look like a teacher. 1309 01:06:12,902 --> 01:06:15,170 Might want to tuck that in, son. 1310 01:06:15,171 --> 01:06:17,572 So, Jeremiah, why don't you come into my torture chamber... 1311 01:06:17,573 --> 01:06:20,075 ...we'll have a chat and you can tell me why you want to go to Princeton. 1312 01:06:20,076 --> 01:06:21,977 I rode crew. 1313 01:06:21,978 --> 01:06:24,891 Class of eighty-one. Lot's changed since then. 1314 01:06:25,314 --> 01:06:28,917 Hey. This kid, he's terrific. 1315 01:06:28,918 --> 01:06:30,885 Yeah. Great. 1316 01:06:30,886 --> 01:06:33,455 No, I mean he's authentic. 1317 01:06:33,456 --> 01:06:36,658 He doesn't want to just go to Princeton to meet future business partners. 1318 01:06:36,659 --> 01:06:39,995 He loves learning for the sake of learning. 1319 01:06:39,996 --> 01:06:42,237 That's what it's about, isn't it? 1320 01:06:44,400 --> 01:06:46,401 Right. 1321 01:06:46,402 --> 01:06:48,937 Why don't you go get yourself a cup of coffee. 1322 01:06:48,938 --> 01:06:51,578 Yeah, great. Thanks. 1323 01:06:52,408 --> 01:06:54,786 - Prick. - Excuse me? 1324 01:06:57,213 --> 01:07:01,216 I just called you a prick. I'm sorry. 1325 01:07:01,217 --> 01:07:04,664 Don't take it out on him. It's my own thing. 1326 01:07:07,757 --> 01:07:09,624 That's not very nice. 1327 01:07:09,625 --> 01:07:10,797 I know. 1328 01:07:11,761 --> 01:07:14,799 So, Jeremiah, tell me about yourself-. 1329 01:07:17,366 --> 01:07:21,102 Myself as in, you know, in relation to my soul or... 1330 01:07:21,103 --> 01:07:25,106 ...do you mean myself as like a unified person as the source of consciousness? 1331 01:07:25,107 --> 01:07:29,078 Or do you mean myself like a narrative center of gravity? 1332 01:07:30,146 --> 01:07:31,479 How bad was it? 1333 01:07:31,480 --> 01:07:33,782 I'm not supposed to discuss alumni recommendations. 1334 01:07:33,783 --> 01:07:34,849 It was that bad? 1335 01:07:34,850 --> 01:07:36,384 Can we get him a second alumni interview? 1336 01:07:36,385 --> 01:07:37,519 I'm afraid not. 1337 01:07:37,520 --> 01:07:39,387 Tomorrow, the committee meetings begin... 1338 01:07:39,388 --> 01:07:41,523 ...and...look, I've got to go home and get some sleep. 1339 01:07:41,524 --> 01:07:43,258 It's the last chance I'm going to have for three weeks. 1340 01:07:43,259 --> 01:07:45,393 Your meetings last three weeks? 1341 01:07:45,394 --> 01:07:47,395 - I have to go. - Right. 1342 01:07:47,396 --> 01:07:48,568 Bye. 1343 01:08:10,486 --> 01:08:12,887 I have spoken to the Judo Association and... 1344 01:08:12,888 --> 01:08:16,461 ...they have no record of his "national championship.' 1345 01:08:16,525 --> 01:08:18,526 DENY 1346 01:08:18,527 --> 01:08:20,507 Thank you. Goodbye. 1347 01:08:24,834 --> 01:08:27,635 I just want to say thank you. 1348 01:08:27,636 --> 01:08:32,636 I've tried to put on a brave front about M-M- 1349 01:08:34,477 --> 01:08:36,511 I can't even say his name. 1350 01:08:36,512 --> 01:08:38,213 - Mark. - Yes. Him. 1351 01:08:38,214 --> 01:08:39,591 And honestly... 1352 01:08:40,349 --> 01:08:43,685 ...you're the only person who has really been so sensitive... 1353 01:08:43,686 --> 01:08:47,293 ...to what I'm going through and I appreciate it so much. 1354 01:08:48,791 --> 01:08:51,294 Men can be such pigs. 1355 01:08:51,727 --> 01:08:53,968 People are all pigs. 1356 01:08:54,396 --> 01:08:58,105 OK, yes. I'm with you on that. 1357 01:09:04,006 --> 01:09:05,314 Oh no- 1358 01:09:07,610 --> 01:09:10,278 Maybe we can declare a truce, because... 1359 01:09:10,279 --> 01:09:15,216 ...we women have to stick together in this man eat woman... 1360 01:09:15,217 --> 01:09:17,458 ...dog eat bitch world. 1361 01:09:17,753 --> 01:09:20,529 Sisterhood. 1362 01:09:21,757 --> 01:09:24,533 You are so right. 1363 01:09:28,164 --> 01:09:29,734 - Good. - Yeah. 1364 01:09:32,434 --> 01:09:34,435 Friends, today... 1365 01:09:34,436 --> 01:09:36,838 ...we begin the process of choosing... 1366 01:09:36,839 --> 01:09:41,879 ...the most remarkable freshman class in Princeton history. 1367 01:09:42,444 --> 01:09:48,827 Here is the order of territories, chosen randomly. 1368 01:09:49,251 --> 01:09:52,289 We begin with the West. 1369 01:09:52,588 --> 01:09:54,568 Ladies and gentlemen. 1370 01:09:54,990 --> 01:09:56,991 Corrine, are you ready? 1371 01:09:56,992 --> 01:09:58,699 Yes. 1372 01:09:59,295 --> 01:10:01,162 Yulia Karasov. 1373 01:10:01,163 --> 01:10:06,163 Class rank two of four hundred and fifty, magnet school in a suburb of San Diego. 1374 01:10:06,602 --> 01:10:09,270 Her family emigrated from Russia ten years ago. 1375 01:10:09,271 --> 01:10:13,541 She's captain of the cross-country team, sports editor of the school paper. 1376 01:10:13,542 --> 01:10:17,946 Math 760, Critical Reading 710, Writing 740. 1377 01:10:17,947 --> 01:10:19,681 But the recs aren't special. 1378 01:10:19,682 --> 01:10:23,151 They admire her, but they don't love her. 1379 01:10:23,152 --> 01:10:26,599 Show of hands for acceptance. 1380 01:10:30,359 --> 01:10:31,531 DENY 1381 01:10:34,096 --> 01:10:36,364 Holy shit, that's the kid that doesn't get in? 1382 01:10:36,365 --> 01:10:37,699 Sylvia Hadlock. 1383 01:10:37,700 --> 01:10:38,766 Applying from Los Angeles... 1384 01:10:38,767 --> 01:10:41,402 but she's originally from our beautiful stale of New Jersey. 1385 01:10:41,403 --> 01:10:42,814 DENY 1386 01:10:43,305 --> 01:10:46,107 Wallace Thompson. Twenty-one hundred combined SAT... 1387 01:10:46,108 --> 01:10:47,108 ...class treasurer... 1388 01:10:47,109 --> 01:10:51,012 Volunteers for Santa Claus...chess champion... prison web site... started an organic farm... 1389 01:10:51,013 --> 01:10:53,619 "electromagnetic waves on bees. 1390 01:10:54,083 --> 01:10:55,483 Alice Copley. 1391 01:10:55,484 --> 01:10:59,053 Her dream is to be a prosecutor, then serve on the Supreme Court. 1392 01:10:59,054 --> 01:11:01,522 Alice's mother was murdered. 1393 01:11:01,523 --> 01:11:04,058 The murderer got off on a technicality. 1394 01:11:04,059 --> 01:11:05,793 Alice would like to retry him... 1395 01:11:05,794 --> 01:11:07,637 ...and put him away for life. 1396 01:11:07,963 --> 01:11:11,069 Though she would prefer the death penalty. 1397 01:11:11,467 --> 01:11:13,735 Excellent extracurriculars. 1398 01:11:13,736 --> 01:11:18,206 Twenty-two twenty combined SAT. 4.2 GPA 1399 01:11:18,207 --> 01:11:22,710 I'm a little concerned about a revenge fantasy fueling her academics. 1400 01:11:22,711 --> 01:11:26,853 Portia, you were second reader. I see you put "Maybe" 1401 01:11:27,349 --> 01:11:29,550 I might have underestimated her passion... 1402 01:11:29,551 --> 01:11:32,787 ...upon first reading, as we all sometimes do. 1403 01:11:32,788 --> 01:11:36,424 I think this girl's self-knowledge is impressive. 1404 01:11:36,425 --> 01:11:38,234 She's an excellent candidate. 1405 01:11:40,262 --> 01:11:41,570 Vote. 1406 01:11:46,302 --> 01:11:47,635 Very good. 1407 01:11:47,636 --> 01:11:48,376 ACCEPT 1408 01:11:53,242 --> 01:11:56,689 Dashiel Weld Broward. 1409 01:11:56,779 --> 01:11:59,885 Fourth generation legacy. 1410 01:11:59,982 --> 01:12:02,019 Four point oh. 1411 01:12:02,251 --> 01:12:04,319 Captain of his sailing club. 1412 01:12:04,320 --> 01:12:07,055 He led them to victory three years in a row. 1413 01:12:07,056 --> 01:12:08,091 SATs? 1414 01:12:08,657 --> 01:12:10,992 660, 710, 600-. 1415 01:12:10,993 --> 01:12:13,328 He's just one of those kids that doesn't test well. 1416 01:12:13,329 --> 01:12:16,531 But, oh, can he read the wind. 1417 01:12:16,532 --> 01:12:20,068 So what you're saying is that an unusual candidate's strengths... 1418 01:12:20,069 --> 01:12:23,204 ...in some areas really do outweigh major... 1419 01:12:23,205 --> 01:12:26,846 ...and I mean major - weakness elsewhere. 1420 01:12:29,078 --> 01:12:29,852 Yes. 1421 01:12:31,146 --> 01:12:32,613 Well let's vote then. 1422 01:12:32,614 --> 01:12:34,252 For acceptance? 1423 01:12:39,021 --> 01:12:42,525 Aput Kunayak from Nome, Alaska. 1424 01:12:42,758 --> 01:12:44,625 Managed to take five AP classes... 1425 01:12:44,626 --> 01:12:47,829 ...while working on his father's reindeer farm and... 1426 01:12:47,830 --> 01:12:52,567 .-.starting and running a shelter for homeless sled dogs-. 1427 01:12:52,568 --> 01:12:54,969 Had suffered from ADD but overcame it... 1428 01:12:54,970 --> 01:12:57,505 ...to become a leader in his high school. 1429 01:12:57,506 --> 01:13:00,375 He'd be the first in his family to attend college. 1430 01:13:00,376 --> 01:13:05,376 Now Ben, as you know, we have room for very few of these "iffy" students. 1431 01:13:06,048 --> 01:13:09,427 But then again, we have to make room for the exceptional, right? 1432 01:13:10,052 --> 01:13:11,554 Let's vote. 1433 01:13:24,366 --> 01:13:27,142 Aput Kunayak. 1434 01:13:29,738 --> 01:13:32,184 Are you going to give me the file? 1435 01:13:32,441 --> 01:13:35,109 And last, we come to the end. 1436 01:13:35,110 --> 01:13:37,111 The Northeast. 1437 01:13:37,112 --> 01:13:40,491 Portia, please begin. 1438 01:13:41,283 --> 01:13:42,728 Thank you. 1439 01:13:44,820 --> 01:13:48,089 Richard Guinness. Rye Country Day School. 1440 01:13:48,090 --> 01:13:52,193 State champion in the one hundred and thirty eight pound wrestling class. 1441 01:13:52,194 --> 01:13:56,264 Played "Rolfe" in the school production of "The Sound of Music.' 1442 01:13:56,265 --> 01:13:56,964 DENY 1443 01:13:56,965 --> 01:13:59,834 Chess club, makes an excellent soufflé... 1444 01:13:59,835 --> 01:14:02,873 ...member of the team but not a leader. 1445 01:14:03,572 --> 01:14:06,507 Backbone of the Woodwinds section... 1446 01:14:06,508 --> 01:14:08,443 ...was the highest praise he got. 1447 01:14:08,444 --> 01:14:12,213 He is the kind of student you could always call upon... 1448 01:14:12,214 --> 01:14:15,316 ...-to help with Martin Luthor King Day activities-. 1449 01:14:15,317 --> 01:14:16,591 Who isn't? 1450 01:14:16,985 --> 01:14:21,789 That's twenty eight denies in a row. 1451 01:14:21,790 --> 01:14:24,892 Come on, Portia. Make us fall in love. 1452 01:14:24,893 --> 01:14:26,668 OK. Let's see. 1453 01:14:32,601 --> 01:14:34,581 Jeremiah Balakian. 1454 01:14:38,874 --> 01:14:41,943 Jeremiah is our first applicant from Quest... 1455 01:14:41,944 --> 01:14:43,845 ...a new school in New Hampshire. 1456 01:14:43,846 --> 01:14:46,714 Developmental, but academically rigorous. 1457 01:14:46,715 --> 01:14:48,549 Jeremiah is an only child. 1458 01:14:48,550 --> 01:14:51,152 Parents both work at a Stop N Go. 1459 01:14:51,153 --> 01:14:53,354 Neither of them attended college. 1460 01:14:53,355 --> 01:14:56,097 The first three years of his high school life were... 1461 01:14:56,592 --> 01:14:58,230 ...a disaster. 1462 01:14:58,460 --> 01:15:01,168 If you're wondering why you are even listening to this... 1463 01:15:01,263 --> 01:15:06,263 Jeremiah is also a self-described autodidact since the age of eight. 1464 01:15:06,535 --> 01:15:07,535 He's very well read. 1465 01:15:07,536 --> 01:15:10,705 In fact, he's the most well read person I have met. 1466 01:15:10,706 --> 01:15:11,810 Ever. 1467 01:15:12,374 --> 01:15:15,443 And why? For his resume? 1468 01:15:15,444 --> 01:15:17,044 To impress someone? 1469 01:15:17,045 --> 01:15:21,755 For the sake of learning. His passion for knowledge. 1470 01:15:22,751 --> 01:15:26,087 He had no plans to attend college until this past fall... 1471 01:15:26,088 --> 01:15:27,522 ...when he switched to Quest... 1472 01:15:27,523 --> 01:15:32,523 ...and came into contact with teachers who recognized his potential. 1473 01:15:33,128 --> 01:15:37,832 Last spring, he took the SATs and eight AP tests. 1474 01:15:37,833 --> 01:15:40,601 Wail, so he took AP classes? 1475 01:15:40,602 --> 01:15:44,071 No AP classes. No SAT prep courses. 1476 01:15:44,072 --> 01:15:47,308 But he got 5's on all eight APs. 1477 01:15:47,309 --> 01:15:52,309 And 790, 780 and 790 on the SATs. 1478 01:15:53,081 --> 01:15:55,182 - That's amazing. - I'm sorry, what did you say? 1479 01:15:55,183 --> 01:15:57,118 - That's amazing. - Amazing. 1480 01:15:57,119 --> 01:15:59,292 It's amazing. Exactly. 1481 01:15:59,588 --> 01:16:03,257 Do you think he can handle an intense academic community? 1482 01:16:03,258 --> 01:16:03,991 Thank you. 1483 01:16:03,992 --> 01:16:05,626 - That's a great question, thank you. - You're welcome. 1484 01:16:05,627 --> 01:16:07,962 The director of his new school says... 1485 01:16:07,963 --> 01:16:10,831 ...he is idiosyncratic, cerebral... 1486 01:16:10,832 --> 01:16:15,036 .-.a true original whose abilities would lift the level of discourse.“... 1487 01:16:15,037 --> 01:16:16,771 ...in any class he enrolled in. 1488 01:16:16,772 --> 01:16:19,006 You seem... passionate about him. 1489 01:16:19,007 --> 01:16:19,941 I am. 1490 01:16:19,942 --> 01:16:24,879 So what was his GPA? I mean, before Quest? 1491 01:16:24,880 --> 01:16:27,548 D plus. One point five. 1492 01:16:27,549 --> 01:16:29,617 He was a lost kid. 1493 01:16:29,618 --> 01:16:31,996 And then he was found. 1494 01:16:33,121 --> 01:16:37,391 So Corrine, you were second reader. I see you wrote "Deny." 1495 01:16:37,392 --> 01:16:39,167 Any second thoughts? 1496 01:16:42,331 --> 01:16:45,778 Well, he is like no other applicant we have ever considered. 1497 01:16:46,802 --> 01:16:48,869 His alumni interview was not so great. 1498 01:16:48,870 --> 01:16:51,214 That guy sounded like a jerk. 1499 01:16:53,742 --> 01:16:57,011 And he has a positive recommendation... 1500 01:16:57,012 --> 01:17:00,425 ...from no less of a scholar than Vladimir Polokov. 1501 01:17:03,952 --> 01:17:08,222 OK, maybe from our perspective he could have done more... 1502 01:17:08,223 --> 01:17:12,927 ...made himself more of a resume and paper trail. 1503 01:17:12,928 --> 01:17:17,431 But he look himself from nowhere to where he is today. 1504 01:17:17,432 --> 01:17:21,938 He educated himself purely by instinct. 1505 01:17:22,371 --> 01:17:25,250 Not because he wants to put away his mother's killer. 1506 01:17:26,308 --> 01:17:29,777 He was as isolated as someone in Nome, Alaska. 1507 01:17:29,778 --> 01:17:31,052 He was alone. 1508 01:17:31,446 --> 01:17:33,483 He was completely alone. 1509 01:17:35,050 --> 01:17:36,984 And you know, maybe if his parents had been rich... 1510 01:17:36,985 --> 01:17:38,965 he would have been exposed to more. 1511 01:17:39,788 --> 01:17:42,894 We have to make room for these kids. 1512 01:17:49,765 --> 01:17:53,736 We have to make room for kids like these. 1513 01:17:56,638 --> 01:17:59,106 Clarence, you told us at the beginning of the year... 1514 01:17:59,107 --> 01:18:01,986 to find that undiscovered gem. 1515 01:18:03,512 --> 01:18:05,958 I found him. 1516 01:18:12,254 --> 01:18:14,588 Well, let's vote. 1517 01:18:14,589 --> 01:18:17,229 All in favor of admission? 1518 01:18:34,609 --> 01:18:38,946 He also received an honorable mention at the state finals for ventriloquism. 1519 01:18:38,947 --> 01:18:40,585 We're in the middle of a vole. 1520 01:18:44,486 --> 01:18:46,193 Brandt? 1521 01:18:48,256 --> 01:18:49,924 I'm sorry, Portia. 1522 01:18:49,925 --> 01:18:53,427 I just think he's got a little too much to overcome. 1523 01:18:53,428 --> 01:18:56,597 I mean, the kid was in Special Ed. 1524 01:18:56,598 --> 01:19:00,000 I know sometimes we subconsciously identity with applicants... 1525 01:19:00,001 --> 01:19:03,073 ...who remind us of ourselves, but honey, no. 1526 01:19:05,474 --> 01:19:07,112 OK then. 1527 01:19:07,275 --> 01:19:08,676 Pen)'- 1528 01:19:08,677 --> 01:19:11,979 Wait! Polokov called him inspirational! 1529 01:19:11,980 --> 01:19:14,688 Portia, please. Sit down. 1530 01:19:21,490 --> 01:19:23,993 It's too risky. 1531 01:19:24,960 --> 01:19:28,931 He's just not Princeton material. 1532 01:19:29,698 --> 01:19:34,010 I'm actually surprised that you thought he was. 1533 01:19:34,369 --> 01:19:35,541 DENY 1534 01:19:44,679 --> 01:19:47,057 Tenisha Jones. 1535 01:19:47,315 --> 01:19:49,625 Brearley School, Manhattan. 1536 01:19:50,352 --> 01:19:53,154 GPA: Four point three. 1537 01:19:53,155 --> 01:19:55,990 Speaks semi-fluent Mandarin. 1538 01:19:55,991 --> 01:19:57,527 Two, three, four! 1539 01:20:04,032 --> 01:20:05,432 Listen to my tale 1540 01:20:05,433 --> 01:20:10,433 Man, it's really sad t got those tiger-town blues and I got them bad 1541 01:20:10,672 --> 01:20:14,408 I've been hanging around at the Nass a“ day 1542 01:20:14,409 --> 01:20:17,778 Hoping to drown my blues away 1543 01:20:17,779 --> 01:20:23,752 Oh Lord, I got those tigenown blues 1544 01:20:24,119 --> 01:20:28,122 Now these Princeton boys, they're a bad bunch of boys 1545 01:20:28,123 --> 01:20:31,592 And they realty know how to spread their joys 1546 01:20:31,593 --> 01:20:35,229 They've been running around when they ought to be in 1547 01:20:35,230 --> 01:20:38,432 Hitting those books instead of a bottle of gin 1548 01:20:38,433 --> 01:20:43,883 Oh Lord, I've got those tiger-town blues 1549 01:20:44,973 --> 01:20:49,973 Those tigerlown blues (we never work at all) 1550 01:20:50,979 --> 01:20:55,979 Those tigertown blues (that's why we're singing now) 1551 01:21:04,459 --> 01:21:05,726 Portia Nathan. 1552 01:21:05,727 --> 01:21:08,708 Hey, this is Bob Barrow from Hotchkiss. 1553 01:21:09,130 --> 01:21:12,199 I wanted to talk to you about one of our applicants. 1554 01:21:12,200 --> 01:21:14,401 All decisions have been made. 1555 01:21:14,402 --> 01:21:18,272 Yes, but I wanted you to know that Jesse Bolton is going to Yale. 1556 01:21:18,273 --> 01:21:20,140 Definitely. He was just in here. 1557 01:21:20,141 --> 01:21:23,520 Even though he's a legacy, he's definitely going to Yale. 1558 01:21:24,346 --> 01:21:27,014 So look, if you accepted him... 1559 01:21:27,015 --> 01:21:29,016 maybe that place can go to another of our students? 1560 01:21:29,017 --> 01:21:32,055 Instead of Jesse just rejecting Princeton. 1561 01:21:32,287 --> 01:21:35,956 Thank you for your call, but all decisions are absolutely final. 1562 01:21:35,957 --> 01:21:37,937 No changes can be made. 1563 01:21:38,293 --> 01:21:39,670 Yes, but- 1564 01:22:07,255 --> 01:22:09,166 Password 1565 01:22:14,195 --> 01:22:14,900 Love, Aleksai 1566 01:22:14,996 --> 01:22:16,031 Aleksai. 1567 01:22:25,874 --> 01:22:29,447 Final Accept-Deny 1568 01:22:34,349 --> 01:22:37,057 Bolton, Jesse 1569 01:22:43,024 --> 01:22:44,469 Balakian, Jeremiah 1570 01:23:22,831 --> 01:23:24,565 I'm sorry you feel that way. 1571 01:23:24,566 --> 01:23:26,934 No, there isn't an appeals process. 1572 01:23:26,935 --> 01:23:29,603 How wonderful that Elissa got so many acceptances. 1573 01:23:29,604 --> 01:23:31,982 Harvard and Yale too? 1574 01:23:32,207 --> 01:23:36,343 Listen, I'd love to talk to you about the financial aid package we could offer. 1575 01:23:36,344 --> 01:23:39,213 No seriously, I'm so happy too. 1576 01:23:39,214 --> 01:23:41,125 No, you rock. 1577 01:23:42,484 --> 01:23:44,485 Yes, I know he is a legacy... 1578 01:23:44,486 --> 01:23:46,754 ...and I certainly understand why you would never want to give... 1579 01:23:46,755 --> 01:23:48,928 another penny to this university ever again. 1580 01:23:50,425 --> 01:23:53,133 Wow. That is a new one. 1581 01:23:53,461 --> 01:23:56,374 You're our angel on earth 1582 01:23:59,401 --> 01:24:03,850 I hope you get rectal cancer 1583 01:24:10,912 --> 01:24:12,179 Portia Nathan. 1584 01:24:12,180 --> 01:24:14,660 Hey, I have somebody here who wants to talk to you. 1585 01:24:15,617 --> 01:24:18,118 - I got in. - Yes, I know. 1586 01:24:18,119 --> 01:24:20,921 This is the best day of my life! 1587 01:24:20,922 --> 01:24:23,368 The best day of your life? Well that's... 1588 01:24:23,925 --> 01:24:26,667 ...good, good, that's...I'm very happy. 1589 01:24:28,663 --> 01:24:31,398 Look, we're having a school dance here tonight... 1590 01:24:31,399 --> 01:24:33,845 and I think you should come and celebrate. 1591 01:24:35,570 --> 01:24:39,573 There you are. Clarence wants to see you. 1592 01:24:39,574 --> 01:24:42,443 Yes, thank you. I've been expecting that. 1593 01:24:42,444 --> 01:24:44,720 I have to go. I'll call you later. 1594 01:24:45,547 --> 01:24:47,652 Have a seal, please. 1595 01:24:58,359 --> 01:25:04,071 - So, I had a call. - Oh yes? 1596 01:25:04,332 --> 01:25:06,642 From Richard Bolton. 1597 01:25:06,801 --> 01:25:09,042 Class of '81. 1598 01:25:09,137 --> 01:25:11,538 Father of Jesse Bolton. 1599 01:25:11,539 --> 01:25:13,574 Do you recall Jesse Bolton? 1600 01:25:13,575 --> 01:25:14,842 Budding journalist... 1601 01:25:14,843 --> 01:25:18,312 writes for the Boston Globe - is this coming back? 1602 01:25:18,313 --> 01:25:21,281 I remember Jess Bolton. We loved Jesse Bolton. 1603 01:25:21,282 --> 01:25:22,683 We accepted Jesse Bolton. 1604 01:25:22,684 --> 01:25:24,027 And yet... 1605 01:25:27,889 --> 01:25:30,357 So I asked for the admit list. 1606 01:25:30,358 --> 01:25:32,759 Looked for Bolton, Jesse. 1607 01:25:32,760 --> 01:25:34,328 No Bolton, Jesse. 1608 01:25:34,329 --> 01:25:38,106 But I did find Balakian, Jeremiah. 1609 01:25:39,601 --> 01:25:44,271 We sent Mr. Balakian an offer of admission, which he accepted. 1610 01:25:44,272 --> 01:25:45,672 The only thing is... 1611 01:25:45,673 --> 01:25:48,342 I don't remember making him an offer of admission. 1612 01:25:48,343 --> 01:25:51,916 But I do remember your plea that we do so. 1613 01:25:52,480 --> 01:25:54,948 You have exposed this office... 1614 01:25:54,949 --> 01:25:58,852 ...and the University to a completely undeserved scandal. 1615 01:25:58,853 --> 01:26:04,667 If word of this were ever to get out, the damage would be irreparable. 1616 01:26:04,826 --> 01:26:07,329 Well, I won't tell anyone. 1617 01:26:07,862 --> 01:26:11,198 That's right. You won't. 1618 01:26:11,199 --> 01:26:14,401 What you will do is submit your resignation... 1619 01:26:14,402 --> 01:26:17,971 ...and take this week to clear up your affairs. 1620 01:26:17,972 --> 01:26:19,315 And then... 1621 01:26:19,807 --> 01:26:23,186 ...I don't ever want to see you in this building again. 1622 01:26:31,352 --> 01:26:32,854 He's going to Yale. 1623 01:26:33,388 --> 01:26:35,026 Jesse Bolton. 1624 01:26:35,590 --> 01:26:38,525 The guidance counselor called me. We never had a shot at him. 1625 01:26:38,526 --> 01:26:39,596 Yale! 1626 01:26:40,328 --> 01:26:42,129 Well, that's not the point. 1627 01:26:42,130 --> 01:26:44,398 I assume you will be standing by the offer? 1628 01:26:44,399 --> 01:26:46,133 Well I don't see how we can rescind it... 1629 01:26:46,134 --> 01:26:49,102 without the whole thing blowing up in our faces. 1630 01:26:49,103 --> 01:26:51,310 The whole system would be questioned. 1631 01:26:52,340 --> 01:26:54,513 We wouldn't want that to happen. 1632 01:27:12,794 --> 01:27:13,772 Yeah? 1633 01:27:16,297 --> 01:27:19,141 Oh hi, glad you're here. 1634 01:27:19,968 --> 01:27:22,414 I was just coming down to the dance. 1635 01:27:29,110 --> 01:27:30,510 - You OK? - Yeah, why? 1636 01:27:30,511 --> 01:27:33,046 - You just seem kind of intense. - I'm OK, are you OK? 1637 01:27:33,047 --> 01:27:34,958 Yeah, I'm great. 1638 01:27:36,184 --> 01:27:38,919 I'm supposed to be chaperoning this dance. 1639 01:27:38,920 --> 01:27:40,695 You're doing a great job. 1640 01:27:58,439 --> 01:28:00,009 You can do this. 1641 01:28:11,953 --> 01:28:13,057 You having fun? 1642 01:28:14,088 --> 01:28:16,223 This is the best day of my life. 1643 01:28:16,224 --> 01:28:19,000 You have no idea how happy that makes me feel. 1644 01:28:19,527 --> 01:28:22,838 I want so much for you to be happy and... 1645 01:28:23,298 --> 01:28:26,142 ...for you to have all the things that you want in life. 1646 01:28:26,501 --> 01:28:27,844 Thanks. 1647 01:28:28,369 --> 01:28:31,972 You know how when you're swinging on a rope swing across a stream... 1648 01:28:31,973 --> 01:28:33,840 ...and you're afraid to jump in and then you just do? 1649 01:28:33,841 --> 01:28:37,110 No, I'm kind of afraid of heights, so... 1650 01:28:37,111 --> 01:28:38,351 Me too. That's... 1651 01:28:38,780 --> 01:28:40,418 You and I have so much in common. 1652 01:28:42,383 --> 01:28:44,363 That's not as odd as it seems. 1653 01:28:47,388 --> 01:28:49,656 Jeremiah, there's something I want to tell you... 1654 01:28:49,657 --> 01:28:54,163 ...and it's going to come as quite a shock. 1655 01:28:56,397 --> 01:28:58,377 I'm your mother. 1656 01:28:58,800 --> 01:29:01,440 - What? - Your birth mother. 1657 01:29:03,938 --> 01:29:06,106 I've been trying to figure out the best time to tell you... 1658 01:29:06,107 --> 01:29:08,075 and I know, I was speechless loo. 1659 01:29:08,076 --> 01:29:09,316 No, it's not that. 1660 01:29:10,211 --> 01:29:14,047 - It's just...you're not my birth mother. - Yes, I am. 1661 01:29:14,048 --> 01:29:15,982 And I know this is very sudden and I don't expect- 1662 01:29:15,983 --> 01:29:19,619 No, my birth mother is named Janie Schroder and.-. 1663 01:29:19,620 --> 01:29:21,861 She's a hairdresser from Keene. 1664 01:29:22,523 --> 01:29:27,523 And I met her and my half sisters a couple months ago. 1665 01:29:27,729 --> 01:29:29,996 I put my name in at the adoption agency and they contacted me- 1666 01:29:29,997 --> 01:29:32,034 No, Jeremiah... 1667 01:29:32,333 --> 01:29:37,333 ...you were born on Valentine's Day at 1pm at Blaine General. 1668 01:29:37,538 --> 01:29:38,905 To me. 1669 01:29:38,906 --> 01:29:41,408 No, I was born at 11pm. 1670 01:29:41,409 --> 01:29:43,944 They said my mom tried like hell to hold off till the last hour... 1671 01:29:43,945 --> 01:29:46,892 .-.so I wouldn't have some lame Valentine's Day birthday-. 1672 01:29:47,615 --> 01:29:49,788 It's a copy - see? 1673 01:29:50,585 --> 01:29:53,623 That's an eleven with one of the ones missing. 1674 01:29:54,355 --> 01:29:56,801 It's faded, you see? 1675 01:30:02,263 --> 01:30:04,731 I never told anybody because I didn't want my parents to find out. 1676 01:30:04,732 --> 01:30:06,734 I was worried that it would hurt their feelings. 1677 01:30:07,034 --> 01:30:10,072 And I don't want to hurt them, because they're my parents. 1678 01:30:10,505 --> 01:30:11,813 Of course. 1679 01:30:13,975 --> 01:30:16,576 This whole time you thought you were my mother? 1680 01:30:16,577 --> 01:30:17,677 Why didn't you tell me? 1681 01:30:17,678 --> 01:30:21,681 I didn't want anything getting in the way of you getting into Princeton. 1682 01:30:21,682 --> 01:30:23,049 I'd have to recuse myself. 1683 01:30:23,050 --> 01:30:25,719 So everything you did was because you thought I was your son? 1684 01:30:25,720 --> 01:30:28,428 No. I completely believe in you. 1685 01:30:29,924 --> 01:30:31,904 I actually do. 1686 01:30:32,627 --> 01:30:35,198 You were lying to me the whole time. 1687 01:30:36,831 --> 01:30:38,606 I don't understand. 1688 01:30:40,067 --> 01:30:42,308 I can't tell what's real. 1689 01:30:47,375 --> 01:30:48,683 I don't get it. 1690 01:30:58,920 --> 01:31:01,788 - How did it go? - 11pm, not 1pm! 1691 01:31:01,789 --> 01:31:03,657 - What? - Just stay out of my life! 1692 01:31:03,658 --> 01:31:05,763 Or what's left of it. 1693 01:31:10,131 --> 01:31:11,235 Hey! 1694 01:31:11,732 --> 01:31:13,109 Hold on. 1695 01:31:15,136 --> 01:31:19,406 Janie Schroder. A hairdresser. His mother is a hairdresser. 1696 01:31:19,407 --> 01:31:22,786 What? No, I read the birth certificate. 1697 01:31:23,211 --> 01:31:26,055 A copy. A faded copy. 1698 01:31:30,084 --> 01:31:31,791 - Look! - What? 1699 01:31:32,153 --> 01:31:35,555 Eleven. That is supposed to be an eleven. 1700 01:31:35,556 --> 01:31:38,592 None of this was true. This is all a stupid dream. 1701 01:31:38,593 --> 01:31:42,095 This is all in your head and I just jumped in like a complete idiot. 1702 01:31:42,096 --> 01:31:45,398 I can fix this. I'll contact adoption services- 1703 01:31:45,399 --> 01:31:46,266 No! 1704 01:31:46,267 --> 01:31:50,170 Do not fix anything! I don't want to ever see you again! 1705 01:31:50,171 --> 01:31:52,506 Go be a citizen of the planet! 1706 01:31:52,507 --> 01:31:55,375 I am so glad that you are going to Ecuador except for one thing. 1707 01:31:55,376 --> 01:31:56,109 What? 1708 01:31:56,110 --> 01:31:59,284 I feel sorry for the Ecuadorians! 1709 01:32:32,246 --> 01:32:35,955 Hi. Come on in. You can help me grind sausage. 1710 01:32:36,951 --> 01:32:39,152 I've got something to say, Susannah. 1711 01:32:39,153 --> 01:32:43,023 Having sex on a train with a stranger to gel pregnant - really not so great! 1712 01:32:43,024 --> 01:32:44,758 You didn't even ask his name. 1713 01:32:44,759 --> 01:32:47,027 And so I will never know who my father is. 1714 01:32:47,028 --> 01:32:48,094 Maybe he's in Paris. 1715 01:32:48,095 --> 01:32:49,496 Maybe he's in Hoboken. 1716 01:32:49,497 --> 01:32:50,297 Maybe he's president. 1717 01:32:50,298 --> 01:32:53,066 Obviously not that. But I'll never know. 1718 01:32:53,067 --> 01:32:56,536 Because you forgot one important thing on your way to self-empowerment. 1719 01:32:56,537 --> 01:32:57,515 Me! 1720 01:32:58,139 --> 01:33:00,240 Why didn't you ask his name? 1721 01:33:00,241 --> 01:33:03,279 - Why don't you just shut up. - No, you shut up! 1722 01:33:03,711 --> 01:33:06,313 I got pregnant, and I had a kid. 1723 01:33:06,314 --> 01:33:09,449 Back in college. And I gave him up for adoption. 1724 01:33:09,450 --> 01:33:12,586 I wasn't in the Netherlands. I was living above an auto repair shop. 1725 01:33:12,587 --> 01:33:14,726 Hiding. From you. 1726 01:33:15,056 --> 01:33:17,190 Because I can't stand you. 1727 01:33:17,191 --> 01:33:19,262 And that's it. That's all I have to say. 1728 01:33:19,527 --> 01:33:22,633 Except, gel some goddamn dog food. 1729 01:33:27,835 --> 01:33:30,170 Wait, Portia! Portia! 1730 01:33:30,171 --> 01:33:32,772 Portia, don't leave! Don't leave! 1731 01:33:32,773 --> 01:33:35,219 Portia! Wait, wait! 1732 01:33:39,880 --> 01:33:43,657 I didn't ask the name of the man on the train because... 1733 01:33:44,685 --> 01:33:48,599 ...actually, I didn't have a grand plan. 1734 01:33:48,723 --> 01:33:50,703 I made all that up. 1735 01:33:51,425 --> 01:33:53,928 It was all an accident. 1736 01:33:55,129 --> 01:33:59,466 A happy accident, because it led to you. 1737 01:33:59,467 --> 01:34:01,101 Baby, it led to you. 1738 01:34:01,102 --> 01:34:04,404 And I wished so many times that I could have told you his name. 1739 01:34:04,405 --> 01:34:09,514 It's one of the disappointments of my life and I am so sorry. 1740 01:34:12,813 --> 01:34:14,588 Please, come back in. 1741 01:34:15,950 --> 01:34:17,588 Mom, I have to go. 1742 01:34:29,397 --> 01:34:30,967 Dad? 1743 01:35:35,696 --> 01:35:36,868 MY car! 1744 01:35:37,231 --> 01:35:39,142 Really? 1745 01:35:49,143 --> 01:35:51,144 What happened? Are you OK? 1746 01:35:51,145 --> 01:35:52,846 It's a slight fracture. 1747 01:35:52,847 --> 01:35:55,623 Fender bender. It's dumb. 1748 01:35:58,719 --> 01:36:01,962 I'm sorry, I mean, about everything. 1749 01:36:02,389 --> 01:36:04,190 I was stupid and selfish. 1750 01:36:04,191 --> 01:36:07,229 A selfish asshole. And I just wanted to come here and... 1751 01:36:08,662 --> 01:36:10,642 ...tell you that I'm sorry. 1752 01:36:14,835 --> 01:36:17,145 Wait. How's Nelson? 1753 01:36:18,706 --> 01:36:20,440 Good. He's good. 1754 01:36:20,441 --> 01:36:21,818 How's his Spanish? 1755 01:36:22,243 --> 01:36:23,551 Terrible. 1756 01:36:24,512 --> 01:36:26,423 Is he ready for Ecuador? 1757 01:36:27,448 --> 01:36:29,449 We're not going to Ecuador. 1758 01:36:29,450 --> 01:36:32,519 - You're not? - No. I passed on that job. 1759 01:36:32,520 --> 01:36:34,659 Nelson wanted to stay put and... 1760 01:36:35,322 --> 01:36:38,030 ...you know, I finally realized that... 1761 01:36:38,559 --> 01:36:40,760 ...I want him to be happy. 1762 01:36:40,761 --> 01:36:43,503 So this decision, right now... 1763 01:36:44,031 --> 01:36:46,011 ...I'm going to let him make it. 1764 01:36:47,601 --> 01:36:49,842 Nelson really likes you. 1765 01:36:50,805 --> 01:36:53,039 Nelson likes me because I'm so boring. 1766 01:36:53,040 --> 01:36:55,141 - You're not boring. - I'm pretty boring. 1767 01:36:55,142 --> 01:36:56,810 You're not boring. 1768 01:36:56,811 --> 01:36:58,620 I think you're exquisite. 1769 01:37:04,351 --> 01:37:06,729 - You want to go out sometime? - Yes. 1770 01:37:07,421 --> 01:37:10,290 - I mean with me. - Oh- Yes-. 1771 01:37:10,291 --> 01:37:11,424 Good. 1772 01:37:11,425 --> 01:37:13,960 I thought it was important to acknowledge that it's maybe- 1773 01:37:13,961 --> 01:37:14,828 It's good to clarify. 1774 01:37:14,829 --> 01:37:16,069 I think so. 1775 01:37:18,399 --> 01:37:19,377 NO ADMITTANCE 1776 01:37:21,669 --> 01:37:23,239 Portia Nathan? 1777 01:37:25,472 --> 01:37:28,180 So, tell me about yourself-. 1778 01:37:28,676 --> 01:37:32,783 I worked in college admissions for sixteen years. 1779 01:37:33,047 --> 01:37:36,316 I used to spend my days passing judgment... 1780 01:37:36,317 --> 01:37:41,824 ...on young people who were way more together than I was at their age. 1781 01:37:42,590 --> 01:37:45,191 I'm figuring out what I want to do next. 1782 01:37:45,192 --> 01:37:47,894 I've been living at my mom's place for the last two months. 1783 01:37:47,895 --> 01:37:50,000 I thought that would drive me insane but... 1784 01:37:50,064 --> 01:37:54,467 ...actually, we're going to be throwing a graduation party for a kid who I thought was my son. 1785 01:37:54,468 --> 01:37:56,106 He's a great kid. 1786 01:37:57,304 --> 01:38:00,751 I killed my bonsai tree by over trimming it. 1787 01:38:03,644 --> 01:38:08,644 I got pregnant in college and my boyfriend had already dumped me for someone else. 1788 01:38:08,916 --> 01:38:11,951 I didn't realize until I was very far along... 1789 01:38:11,952 --> 01:38:15,488 ...and I didn't think I could be a mother. 1790 01:38:15,489 --> 01:38:16,356 Ever. 1791 01:38:16,357 --> 01:38:17,223 Portia? 1792 01:38:17,224 --> 01:38:19,932 Did you mean it when you said I could do this? 1793 01:38:20,728 --> 01:38:23,106 Yes. I meant it. 1794 01:38:23,898 --> 01:38:27,471 - Thanks. - You're going to do great there. 1795 01:38:27,768 --> 01:38:32,305 My boy, if you are truly outstanding you'll probably be kicked out of there after one term. 1796 01:38:32,306 --> 01:38:34,173 - Cut it out, Vlad. - Excuse me. 1797 01:38:34,174 --> 01:38:36,609 Don't listen to him. Did you decide what your major is? 1798 01:38:36,610 --> 01:38:38,283 Philosophy, love. 1799 01:38:39,647 --> 01:38:41,547 Not philosophy, women's studies. 1800 01:38:41,548 --> 01:38:43,323 You know, that's enough philosophy. 1801 01:38:44,118 --> 01:38:46,719 And if your biological son chooses to contact you'? 1802 01:38:46,720 --> 01:38:47,453 How would you feel? 1803 01:38:47,454 --> 01:38:48,899 I would feel... 1804 01:38:49,757 --> 01:38:53,026 ...nervous, but... 1805 01:38:53,027 --> 01:38:56,496 ...lucky. I would feel lucky. 1806 01:38:56,497 --> 01:39:00,172 I would just be grateful to get to know him. 1807 01:39:00,534 --> 01:39:04,203 I overwalered it too. The bonsai. 1808 01:39:04,204 --> 01:39:06,439 I just drowned it. 1809 01:39:06,440 --> 01:39:07,640 - It's OK. - OK. 1810 01:39:07,641 --> 01:39:09,621 I can't promise anything... 1811 01:39:09,843 --> 01:39:13,757 .-.but we'll contact you if there's any news. 1812 01:39:14,415 --> 01:39:15,548 OK. 1813 01:39:15,549 --> 01:39:16,449 Hey! 1814 01:39:16,450 --> 01:39:19,727 Hey. It's a thin envelope. 1815 01:39:21,555 --> 01:39:23,330 That doesn't mean anything. 1816 01:39:24,758 --> 01:39:26,328 Open it. 1817 01:39:39,807 --> 01:39:42,788 It says he's not ready to meet me at this time. 1818 01:39:45,779 --> 01:39:49,818 OK. Well then... 1819 01:39:50,150 --> 01:39:52,391 You're on the waitlist. 1820 01:39:53,287 --> 01:39:55,421 That's not so bad. 1821 01:39:55,422 --> 01:39:58,460 No, it's not. Right. 1822 01:40:07,668 --> 01:40:10,512 Hey Portia. Everything OK? 1823 01:40:11,071 --> 01:40:12,243 Yes. 1824 01:40:21,648 --> 01:40:23,821 What's the secret to getting in'? 1825 01:40:24,418 --> 01:40:25,863 I can't tell you. 1826 01:40:26,520 --> 01:40:29,160 You have to find out for yourself.