1 00:01:10,868 --> 00:01:14,099 OK. 2 00:01:55,446 --> 00:01:56,811 - Hey. - Hey. 3 00:01:56,881 --> 00:01:59,076 - Is this yours? - Dad. 4 00:01:59,150 --> 00:02:00,845 Didn't think so. 5 00:02:13,030 --> 00:02:15,396 Hey. 6 00:02:15,466 --> 00:02:18,026 Hey, I was gonna do that for you later. 7 00:02:18,102 --> 00:02:20,969 Now you won't have to. 8 00:02:21,038 --> 00:02:24,735 - OK. OK, are you hungry? - Yeah. 9 00:02:24,809 --> 00:02:25,867 - Cereal? - OK. 10 00:02:25,943 --> 00:02:27,274 All right. 11 00:02:27,345 --> 00:02:30,371 - So the plan... - The plan. 12 00:02:30,448 --> 00:02:32,416 Cara, Dad's about to reveal "the plan." 13 00:02:32,483 --> 00:02:35,748 I'll pack up the car, pick you up right after school, 14 00:02:35,820 --> 00:02:40,348 and then we'll drive straight... through. 15 00:02:40,424 --> 00:02:43,291 - Sounds good. - Does not. 16 00:02:43,361 --> 00:02:45,625 - What now? - Well, isn't the whole point 17 00:02:45,696 --> 00:02:48,256 that we go to school? You're forcing us to miss school 18 00:02:48,332 --> 00:02:50,698 when we should be, like, in school. 19 00:02:50,768 --> 00:02:53,760 Right? I mean, what about my studies? 20 00:02:53,838 --> 00:02:55,305 OK, why are you smiling? 21 00:02:55,373 --> 00:02:58,399 I just never thought I'd hear you say, "What about my studies?" 22 00:02:58,476 --> 00:03:02,105 It makes me, like, smile. 23 00:03:02,179 --> 00:03:05,580 - I don't wanna go. - We do this every year. 24 00:03:05,650 --> 00:03:07,709 Only time we can get the family together. 25 00:03:07,785 --> 00:03:09,980 Gotta help Grandma and Grandpa. 26 00:03:10,054 --> 00:03:12,045 - Go. - You're destroying my education. 27 00:03:12,123 --> 00:03:14,421 Change. 28 00:03:16,294 --> 00:03:17,784 - Yes? - Very good column, sir. 29 00:03:17,862 --> 00:03:19,557 That bit about curfews? Very apt. 30 00:03:19,630 --> 00:03:21,757 And may I also say that yesterday's column 31 00:03:21,832 --> 00:03:23,823 on boundary setting was excellent. 32 00:03:23,901 --> 00:03:26,062 - Who are you? - I'm Marty Barasco. 33 00:03:26,137 --> 00:03:29,038 I would like to thank you for last Friday's column. 34 00:03:29,106 --> 00:03:30,937 It helped me understand my parents. 35 00:03:31,008 --> 00:03:32,999 OK. 36 00:03:33,077 --> 00:03:35,671 Well, Marty, what else can I do for you? 37 00:03:35,746 --> 00:03:38,306 I'd like to see your daughter, sir. If I could. 38 00:03:38,382 --> 00:03:41,146 Ah. Jane. Jane! 39 00:03:41,218 --> 00:03:43,311 Actually, I'm here for Cara. 40 00:03:45,623 --> 00:03:48,217 Nice to meet you, Marty. Come back in two years. 41 00:03:50,828 --> 00:03:52,819 I don't wanna brag, but Mr. Shaff says 42 00:03:52,897 --> 00:03:56,094 I'm one of the best drivers in his class. He says I'm highway ready. 43 00:03:56,167 --> 00:03:57,600 Mr. Shaff and I may not agree. 44 00:03:57,668 --> 00:03:59,761 - Cara! Let's go. - So will you let me? 45 00:03:59,837 --> 00:04:03,295 We'll see. 3pm sharp. Do not be... 46 00:04:03,374 --> 00:04:05,171 - Late. We got it. ...late. 47 00:04:05,242 --> 00:04:07,107 Yes, we do. 48 00:04:07,178 --> 00:04:10,306 FYI, that boy you were really rude to before is my friend, Marty, 49 00:04:10,381 --> 00:04:13,976 my lab partner from class. We're doing an extra-credit project together. 50 00:04:14,051 --> 00:04:15,951 Bus. 51 00:04:16,020 --> 00:04:18,318 Whoa, whoa, whoa! Wait! Wait, wait, wait! 52 00:04:18,389 --> 00:04:20,550 - Come on! - Hurry up! 53 00:05:04,368 --> 00:05:06,199 Yeah? 54 00:05:06,270 --> 00:05:09,364 Yeah, Jordy, I e-mailed it half an hour ago. 55 00:05:09,440 --> 00:05:10,771 What? 56 00:05:12,109 --> 00:05:14,771 No way. You're kidding. 57 00:05:23,254 --> 00:05:24,448 That's funny. 58 00:05:24,522 --> 00:05:27,514 - Where's your sister? - You're late. 59 00:05:27,591 --> 00:05:30,617 She went to Yumms. Can I drive? 60 00:05:30,694 --> 00:05:32,992 - Dad's going to be syndicated. - Not so fast. 61 00:05:33,063 --> 00:05:35,224 There're others being considered... 62 00:05:35,299 --> 00:05:38,700 Aw, that's great. Can I drive? 63 00:05:45,309 --> 00:05:49,211 Look. You're a fine driver. It's the just the other hundred million dr... 64 00:05:49,280 --> 00:05:51,111 If you don't let me, I'll never learn. 65 00:05:51,182 --> 00:05:54,447 But if I let you, you may not live. 66 00:06:30,254 --> 00:06:31,983 What was that? What are you doing? 67 00:06:32,056 --> 00:06:35,787 - Could you be more embarrassing? - Sorry to interrupt your studies. 68 00:06:35,860 --> 00:06:39,796 Well, we can't all be monks like you. No. 69 00:06:39,864 --> 00:06:42,697 - By the way, you're grounded. - Oh, I'm grounded? 70 00:06:42,766 --> 00:06:44,028 Mm-hmm. For how long? 71 00:06:44,101 --> 00:06:46,626 - For life. - Dad, come on. 72 00:06:46,704 --> 00:06:48,604 - It's humiliating. - Tell me about it. 73 00:06:48,672 --> 00:06:50,139 Grounded for a month. 74 00:06:50,207 --> 00:06:53,267 A month! But that's worse than forever. 75 00:06:53,344 --> 00:06:56,370 - OK, Dad, why? - You lied to me. 76 00:06:56,447 --> 00:06:58,779 Yeah, well, you can't handle the truth. 77 00:06:58,849 --> 00:07:00,373 Try me next time. 78 00:07:00,451 --> 00:07:02,885 - But... but... - No, no. No. No. 79 00:07:02,953 --> 00:07:06,354 - OK, Dad. I... I love Marty. - Oh, please. 80 00:07:07,791 --> 00:07:10,817 - OK. - Come on. 81 00:07:10,895 --> 00:07:13,455 Dad, Dad. Dad, Dad, stop. OK, just listen. Listen. 82 00:07:13,531 --> 00:07:15,624 I didn't know right away. It took me a while. 83 00:07:15,699 --> 00:07:18,259 - What's a while? - I've known him for three weeks, 84 00:07:18,335 --> 00:07:19,927 but I knew in three days. 85 00:07:20,004 --> 00:07:22,871 You can't know in three days. 86 00:07:22,940 --> 00:07:24,669 - Well, maybe she can. - No, no. No. 87 00:07:24,742 --> 00:07:27,040 What you're feeling is not love. 88 00:07:27,111 --> 00:07:30,478 - It is young and reckless. - Yes, it is. I love him. 89 00:07:30,548 --> 00:07:33,779 - You may think it's love, it is not! - No, I love him. I love him. 90 00:07:33,851 --> 00:07:35,910 - No, it's not. No, it's not. - I love him. 91 00:07:35,986 --> 00:07:38,477 I love him. I love him. 92 00:08:07,651 --> 00:08:09,585 Dad? You OK? 93 00:08:09,653 --> 00:08:12,451 There goes Jane's college education. 94 00:08:12,523 --> 00:08:15,083 There goes Cara's. 95 00:08:15,159 --> 00:08:18,219 - Oh, no. What about mine? - No, you're good. 96 00:08:18,295 --> 00:08:20,627 Ah, no, wait. There it goes. 97 00:08:24,435 --> 00:08:26,630 You can't keep me from Marty. 98 00:08:28,672 --> 00:08:32,802 Dad, let me remind you that guys are half the world, 99 00:08:32,876 --> 00:08:35,709 and I'll find others. 100 00:08:35,779 --> 00:08:38,907 But know that only Marty gets my heart. 101 00:08:38,983 --> 00:08:40,610 In the car. 102 00:08:42,519 --> 00:08:45,977 - I know a really good driver. - No. 103 00:08:46,056 --> 00:08:47,546 No. 104 00:08:55,332 --> 00:08:56,697 Here you go. 105 00:08:58,736 --> 00:09:01,136 I think your sisters aren't very happy with me. 106 00:09:01,205 --> 00:09:04,641 - Duh. - Why do you think? 107 00:09:04,708 --> 00:09:09,168 You're a good father, but sometimes a bad dad. 108 00:09:10,881 --> 00:09:14,248 - Who told you to say that? - No one. 109 00:09:14,318 --> 00:09:16,582 Was it Jane or Cara? You can tell me. 110 00:09:16,654 --> 00:09:18,645 - I made it up myself. - No. You didn't. 111 00:09:18,722 --> 00:09:21,885 Which one of your sisters told you to say that? 112 00:09:21,959 --> 00:09:24,189 I made it up myself. I'm in the fourth grade. 113 00:09:24,261 --> 00:09:26,957 - I can make things up for myself. - Jane or Cara? 114 00:09:27,031 --> 00:09:30,194 - I made it up myself. - Jane or Cara? 115 00:09:30,267 --> 00:09:33,236 - I'm in the fourth grade. - She's in the fourth grade! 116 00:10:18,949 --> 00:10:21,349 Oh, they're here. 117 00:10:21,418 --> 00:10:25,184 They're here. Come, girls. 118 00:10:25,255 --> 00:10:27,621 - Hey, Poppy. - Good to see you. 119 00:10:27,691 --> 00:10:29,124 Hi, Lil. 120 00:10:30,294 --> 00:10:31,591 Hey, Dad. 121 00:10:35,065 --> 00:10:36,794 - Well, now we're all here. - Mm-hm. 122 00:10:36,867 --> 00:10:39,392 - How you doing? - Uh, fine. Or maybe not. 123 00:10:39,470 --> 00:10:42,667 - My kids can't stand me. - Means you're doing something right. 124 00:10:46,043 --> 00:10:49,535 Oh, you're so... Hiya, honey. 125 00:10:49,613 --> 00:10:52,104 Look at your girls. They're all grown up. 126 00:10:52,182 --> 00:10:53,979 No, no, no. They're still very young. 127 00:10:54,051 --> 00:10:56,076 - Come on, Lilly. Lilly. - Hey, how are you? 128 00:10:56,153 --> 00:10:58,621 - She's getting big. - Getting bigger every day. 129 00:10:58,689 --> 00:11:00,350 - Hey, man. - Dan the man. 130 00:11:01,825 --> 00:11:03,884 Good to see you. 131 00:11:03,961 --> 00:11:05,292 - Hello. - Hello. 132 00:11:05,362 --> 00:11:08,923 - Hi, Uncle Dan. - Hey, Eileen, how are you? 133 00:11:08,999 --> 00:11:11,797 - Did you hit traffic? - Yeah, it wasn't... eh, not too bad. 134 00:11:11,869 --> 00:11:14,030 - Hi, sis. Good to see you. - Glad you're here. 135 00:11:14,104 --> 00:11:16,664 Who are they? I've never seen these guys in my life. 136 00:11:16,740 --> 00:11:18,833 - Hi, Uncle Dan. - Say something. 137 00:11:18,909 --> 00:11:22,208 - Something. - It happened. I knew it. Way to go. 138 00:11:22,279 --> 00:11:25,442 - Sounds good. - Help your uncle with his bags, OK? 139 00:11:27,818 --> 00:11:30,343 Honey, you're down here. 140 00:11:30,420 --> 00:11:33,184 Your brother, Mitch, has a friend coming to visit, so... 141 00:11:33,257 --> 00:11:34,815 - I'm in the special room. - Yeah. 142 00:11:34,892 --> 00:11:37,588 - Sorry, bro. - That's OK. 143 00:11:43,834 --> 00:11:45,995 - You sleep tight. - You too. 144 00:12:14,565 --> 00:12:16,692 - You tired? - Get down, get down! 145 00:12:16,767 --> 00:12:18,632 - Morning. - Good morning. 146 00:12:18,702 --> 00:12:20,465 - Sleep OK? - Yeah. 147 00:12:20,537 --> 00:12:23,529 - Get down! - Can I get you guys something? 148 00:12:23,607 --> 00:12:25,472 Get a life. 149 00:12:31,748 --> 00:12:34,444 - She just needs some space. - That's not what she needs. 150 00:12:34,518 --> 00:12:36,611 Yeah. She does. 151 00:12:36,687 --> 00:12:39,178 From the sound of things, you all do. 152 00:12:39,256 --> 00:12:41,622 Yeah, why don't you go get the papers? 153 00:12:41,692 --> 00:12:44,490 - Oh, Mom. - Yeah, go on. 154 00:12:44,561 --> 00:12:48,224 It would do you good. Get lost for a little while. 155 00:12:48,298 --> 00:12:51,495 - Maybe I should stick around. - No. Get lost, Danny. 156 00:12:51,568 --> 00:12:53,593 It's not a request. 157 00:13:55,632 --> 00:13:57,623 - Good morning. - Good morning. 158 00:14:15,419 --> 00:14:17,614 - Good morning. - I'll be with you in a minute. 159 00:14:17,688 --> 00:14:19,417 Oh. 160 00:14:19,489 --> 00:14:22,515 Well, then he went downtown. 161 00:14:22,592 --> 00:14:25,083 Yeah. For coffee. Right. 162 00:14:25,162 --> 00:14:27,130 Talks to him on weekends. 163 00:14:30,133 --> 00:14:32,328 Hi. Excuse me. Could you help? 164 00:14:32,402 --> 00:14:35,735 Um... Yes. 165 00:14:35,806 --> 00:14:39,606 I'm looking for a book, obviously. 166 00:14:39,676 --> 00:14:42,907 - Anything in particular? - Yeah, something that can help me 167 00:14:42,980 --> 00:14:45,949 deal with, um... 168 00:14:47,617 --> 00:14:50,051 ...what might be an awkward situation. 169 00:14:50,120 --> 00:14:54,921 Oh. OK. Um, what... what's kind of, um... 170 00:14:54,992 --> 00:14:57,290 Well, something funny might be nice. 171 00:14:57,361 --> 00:15:01,855 But not necessarily big, "ha ha ha," laugh-out-loud funny, 172 00:15:01,932 --> 00:15:05,060 you know, and certainly not make-fun-of-other-people funny, 173 00:15:05,135 --> 00:15:09,697 but rather something, uh, human funny. 174 00:15:09,773 --> 00:15:12,105 OK. 175 00:15:12,175 --> 00:15:15,338 And, uh, if it could, um, 176 00:15:15,412 --> 00:15:17,312 sneak up on you, surprise you, 177 00:15:17,381 --> 00:15:21,408 and at the same time make you think that what you thought 178 00:15:21,485 --> 00:15:24,750 was not only right in a wrong kind of way, 179 00:15:24,821 --> 00:15:28,018 but when you're wrong, there's a certain rightness 180 00:15:28,091 --> 00:15:31,117 - to your wrongness. - Um... 181 00:15:31,194 --> 00:15:35,062 Well, maybe what I mean is, um, 182 00:15:35,132 --> 00:15:40,968 more importantly, I'm looking to be swept up. 183 00:15:41,038 --> 00:15:43,370 And at the same time, not. 184 00:15:43,440 --> 00:15:46,568 Meaning I wanna feel, uh, 185 00:15:46,643 --> 00:15:51,273 a deep connection to, uh, something. 186 00:15:51,348 --> 00:15:53,612 Or maybe I don't know what I'm looking for. 187 00:15:53,683 --> 00:15:56,777 Well, in my experience, you rarely find it all in just one book. 188 00:15:56,853 --> 00:15:59,117 - Oh. - Maybe that's why there're so many. 189 00:15:59,189 --> 00:16:00,281 - Hmm. - Um... 190 00:16:00,357 --> 00:16:04,726 - So, what do we have? - We have a smattering, a sort of 191 00:16:04,795 --> 00:16:06,956 - potpourri of possibilities. - Potpourri? 192 00:16:07,030 --> 00:16:10,227 Yeah. Um, here we go. We have, uh, poetry. 193 00:16:10,300 --> 00:16:12,632 Dickinson, you know, basic stuff. 194 00:16:12,702 --> 00:16:15,796 - Little Neruda is always good. - I agree. 195 00:16:15,872 --> 00:16:18,966 Oh, now, this is actually a real page-turner. 196 00:16:19,042 --> 00:16:21,772 The Life of Gandhi? I... No, but he... 197 00:16:21,845 --> 00:16:26,214 Nobody has ever been quite so cool as him. 198 00:16:26,283 --> 00:16:29,446 Um, lighthouses. A Good Man Is Hard to Find. 199 00:16:29,519 --> 00:16:32,784 - Uh, the title alone. - Anna Karenina. I don't... 200 00:16:32,856 --> 00:16:35,586 Oh, now, that's funny. 201 00:16:35,659 --> 00:16:38,492 No, actually, no, funny is here. 202 00:16:40,964 --> 00:16:43,489 Maybe it's not that funny. 203 00:16:43,567 --> 00:16:45,967 No, actually that's funny. Very funny, and true. 204 00:16:46,036 --> 00:16:49,301 Good. OK, good. Um... 205 00:16:49,372 --> 00:16:53,399 But, uh, if you could pick only one. 206 00:16:53,477 --> 00:16:56,742 Ah. Well, I would say 207 00:16:56,813 --> 00:16:59,577 that nothing rivals 208 00:16:59,649 --> 00:17:03,881 the romance of Fishcliff. 209 00:17:03,954 --> 00:17:08,015 I'm being honest. I just walked around and I just grabbed stuff. 210 00:17:08,091 --> 00:17:09,956 I just grabbed whatever I could grab. 211 00:17:10,026 --> 00:17:11,926 - You were lookin' for? - Sold. 212 00:17:11,995 --> 00:17:13,826 - I'm sorry? - I want them all. 213 00:17:13,897 --> 00:17:15,592 These were just suggestions, I... 214 00:17:15,665 --> 00:17:17,690 Make sure he gets the commission for this. 215 00:17:17,767 --> 00:17:20,998 - He doesn't work here. - Well, he should. 216 00:17:24,274 --> 00:17:27,573 You are smooth. 217 00:17:27,644 --> 00:17:30,545 Uh, actually, no, I'm not smooth. 218 00:17:30,614 --> 00:17:36,553 I'm, uh, Dan. Sorry. 219 00:17:36,620 --> 00:17:39,145 Marie. 220 00:17:39,222 --> 00:17:43,158 Hey. Hi. 221 00:17:43,226 --> 00:17:47,287 Um, so, Marie, can I make it up to you? 222 00:17:48,365 --> 00:17:50,959 OK. Here is your tea. Hot. 223 00:17:51,034 --> 00:17:54,003 Watch it. And there is my orange juice. 224 00:17:54,070 --> 00:17:57,096 And I bought a muffin, but I think 225 00:17:57,174 --> 00:18:00,871 they gave me a small planet. 226 00:18:00,944 --> 00:18:03,310 I should put that down. 227 00:18:03,380 --> 00:18:06,611 - Thank you. - I have napkins and utensils. 228 00:18:06,683 --> 00:18:09,481 I'm a big believer in forks. 229 00:18:09,553 --> 00:18:11,987 And you are not, apparently. 230 00:18:12,055 --> 00:18:13,317 - So, Dan... - Yes. 231 00:18:13,390 --> 00:18:17,190 - You were born? - I was born. 232 00:18:17,260 --> 00:18:22,698 Like everybody else. And I grew up, like everybody else. Good? 233 00:18:22,766 --> 00:18:26,065 Mmm. Mm-hmm. 234 00:18:26,136 --> 00:18:28,070 Um, OK. What else? 235 00:18:28,138 --> 00:18:31,665 I went to school, and I had a Bonanza lunch pail. 236 00:18:31,741 --> 00:18:34,676 This show, '60s, a TV show. 237 00:18:34,744 --> 00:18:37,178 When I was ten, I wanted to be a magician. 238 00:18:37,247 --> 00:18:40,739 So I used to hold these magic shows for all the kids in the neighborhood. 239 00:18:40,817 --> 00:18:43,684 I tried to make a neighborhood girl levitate. 240 00:18:43,753 --> 00:18:48,918 And she didn't. And it involved a body cast, and several stitches... 241 00:18:48,992 --> 00:18:52,484 ...the end of my... 242 00:19:03,273 --> 00:19:07,232 Let me tell you something, something I've never... 243 00:19:07,310 --> 00:19:12,338 You're gonna laugh. Something I've never told anybody... 244 00:19:12,415 --> 00:19:13,848 ...in my life. 245 00:19:13,917 --> 00:19:17,375 Um, and this is really hard for me to say. 246 00:19:20,156 --> 00:19:24,752 And then she got, uh, sick. 247 00:19:24,828 --> 00:19:27,763 And, um, then she was gone. 248 00:19:29,165 --> 00:19:31,190 And, uh... 249 00:19:33,570 --> 00:19:35,538 It's taken a while. 250 00:19:37,941 --> 00:19:40,705 We should probably talk about something else. 251 00:19:40,777 --> 00:19:44,838 So you're telling me that you're one of those widowers with three daughters 252 00:19:44,914 --> 00:19:47,712 who preys on unsuspecting women in bookstores? 253 00:19:47,784 --> 00:19:50,776 - It seems that would be me. - Been there. 254 00:19:50,854 --> 00:19:53,584 Really? 255 00:19:56,026 --> 00:19:58,551 No, it seems that it's been... 256 00:20:00,697 --> 00:20:04,690 ...seriously hard. - No. Um... 257 00:20:04,768 --> 00:20:08,829 No, we're OK now. We're really OK. 258 00:20:08,905 --> 00:20:12,033 You don't have to smile. 259 00:20:13,843 --> 00:20:15,606 Better than the alternative. 260 00:20:15,679 --> 00:20:18,910 Ah. 261 00:20:18,982 --> 00:20:20,847 - Can you hold? - Mm-hmm. 262 00:20:23,019 --> 00:20:24,350 - Excuse me. - Mm-hm. 263 00:20:24,421 --> 00:20:29,415 Hi. No, no, I'm minutes away. Yes. 264 00:20:29,492 --> 00:20:33,394 - Um, I have to go. - Oh. OK. 265 00:20:35,732 --> 00:20:38,633 I just lost track of time. 266 00:20:38,702 --> 00:20:40,863 I wish we could keep talking. 267 00:20:40,937 --> 00:20:45,271 Well, it was nice, and a bit unusual, meeting you. 268 00:20:45,342 --> 00:20:48,903 - Maybe I can call you sometime? - Uh, that might be awkward. 269 00:20:48,978 --> 00:20:52,243 - 'Cause you're in a relationship? - Yes. A new one. 270 00:20:52,315 --> 00:20:54,579 I would've found out if I hadn't been talking. 271 00:20:54,651 --> 00:20:57,643 - That's true. - But it's not exactly fair, is it? 272 00:20:57,721 --> 00:21:00,485 - I mean, you know all about me... - Thank you. 273 00:21:00,557 --> 00:21:04,391 And I know nothing about you. I don't wanna go through the rest of my life 274 00:21:04,461 --> 00:21:07,794 wondering about the woman in the bookstore who let me do the talking. 275 00:21:07,864 --> 00:21:12,392 All we'd be is two people finishing a conversation. 276 00:21:12,469 --> 00:21:17,406 Uh... OK. No harm in that. 277 00:21:22,245 --> 00:21:24,406 Oh, OK. 278 00:21:26,649 --> 00:21:29,914 Call. Or don't, but, uh, call. 279 00:21:36,059 --> 00:21:38,755 Oh! Um, hey, hey, hey! 280 00:21:38,828 --> 00:21:42,855 Just so you know, um, I would even call to say I'm not calling. 281 00:21:42,932 --> 00:21:45,264 Hmm. 282 00:21:48,304 --> 00:21:51,501 Um... 283 00:21:54,210 --> 00:21:55,802 OK. 284 00:22:00,450 --> 00:22:05,615 "I'd even call to say I'm not calling?" Wow. 285 00:22:07,257 --> 00:22:08,952 Sorry. Sorry! 286 00:22:22,005 --> 00:22:25,406 I, um... I never do this kind of thing, officer. 287 00:22:25,475 --> 00:22:29,002 I'm usually very careful. 288 00:22:29,078 --> 00:22:31,638 And nobody believes in... 289 00:22:31,714 --> 00:22:33,579 - Welcome to Rhode Island. - Yeah, OK. 290 00:22:33,650 --> 00:22:35,242 Yeah, it's nice to be here. 291 00:22:40,290 --> 00:22:42,588 - Hey. - Hey. 292 00:22:42,659 --> 00:22:46,220 - What's wrong? - Nobody. 293 00:22:46,296 --> 00:22:48,594 I mean, nothing. 294 00:22:48,665 --> 00:22:50,257 Danny's back. 295 00:22:56,506 --> 00:22:58,474 - Dude, are you all right? - What? Yeah. 296 00:22:58,541 --> 00:23:02,033 - No, no, no, I'm good. I'm good. Yeah. - Really? 297 00:23:02,111 --> 00:23:04,102 'Cause you don't... you don't seem good. 298 00:23:04,180 --> 00:23:09,117 Well, it was the strangest thing. I, um... 299 00:23:10,186 --> 00:23:13,155 - Wow. - Wow what? 300 00:23:14,858 --> 00:23:18,521 I met somebody, and she's really something. 301 00:23:18,595 --> 00:23:22,463 - Hot damn! - Bro, that is beyond huge! 302 00:23:22,532 --> 00:23:23,897 - You got her number? - Yeah. 303 00:23:23,967 --> 00:23:25,764 - You gonna call? - It's complicated. 304 00:23:25,835 --> 00:23:27,598 No, it's simple. You've gotta call. 305 00:23:27,670 --> 00:23:30,400 No, he just met her. He's probably worried it's too soon. 306 00:23:30,473 --> 00:23:33,874 No, it's never too soon. Especially for somebody his age. 307 00:23:33,943 --> 00:23:35,638 - Amy, Dan met someone. - Shh... 308 00:23:35,712 --> 00:23:37,577 - He met someone? - Dan met someone? 309 00:23:37,647 --> 00:23:39,740 - Come here. How soon till he can call? - Shh. 310 00:23:39,816 --> 00:23:42,046 I don't know. I haven't been single for years. 311 00:23:42,118 --> 00:23:44,882 - Me neither. My God, who is she? - Uncle Dan met someone? 312 00:23:44,954 --> 00:23:47,047 Dan met a hottie. 313 00:23:47,123 --> 00:23:49,421 All right, all right. That is enough. 314 00:23:49,492 --> 00:23:51,357 You know what? Let's ask Annie. 315 00:23:51,427 --> 00:23:52,724 - Just now? - Now. 316 00:23:52,795 --> 00:23:55,730 - What does she look like? - Um... 317 00:23:55,798 --> 00:23:58,665 - She... - What's the, um? 318 00:24:00,703 --> 00:24:04,139 - The question? - This is my brother, Dan. 319 00:24:04,207 --> 00:24:07,870 And, um, he needs your advice. He met some hottie downtown, 320 00:24:07,944 --> 00:24:10,412 and, um... She's a little shell-shocked. 321 00:24:10,480 --> 00:24:12,607 Wouldn't you be? Mitch neglects to mention 322 00:24:12,682 --> 00:24:15,810 that in their weekend away, she's gonna meet our entire family. 323 00:24:15,885 --> 00:24:20,288 - I didn't want to scare her off. - Let's go, everybody! Let's go. 324 00:24:20,356 --> 00:24:22,221 Congratulations. 325 00:24:23,860 --> 00:24:26,021 So, um, Annie? 326 00:24:26,095 --> 00:24:28,256 It's Anne-Marie. Um, Mitch calls me Annie, 327 00:24:28,331 --> 00:24:30,526 but, uh, I'm Marie everywhere else. 328 00:24:30,600 --> 00:24:32,932 I've two Marys and a Martha in my exercise class, 329 00:24:33,002 --> 00:24:37,098 - so I didn't wanna confuse people. - No. That would be not good. 330 00:24:37,173 --> 00:24:40,165 - I... I prefer Marie. - Come on, sweetie. 331 00:24:40,243 --> 00:24:42,268 - Women are on the porch. - Girls out there, 332 00:24:42,345 --> 00:24:45,371 guys in here. Come on, Dan. Let's do it. 333 00:24:48,585 --> 00:24:52,749 Perfect! OK. The briefest time units. Four letters. 334 00:24:52,822 --> 00:24:54,585 - Mili. - Oh, wait. 335 00:24:54,657 --> 00:24:59,321 - Nano! ...A- N-O. Great! 336 00:24:59,395 --> 00:25:01,124 Hey, no spying. 337 00:25:04,100 --> 00:25:06,933 - You guys are way behind! - That's not helping. 338 00:25:07,003 --> 00:25:09,631 Uh, I don't think "secretive" fits. 339 00:25:09,706 --> 00:25:12,072 No, it doesn't fit. "Secretive" doesn't fit. 340 00:25:12,141 --> 00:25:14,405 - Let's move on to 12 across. - We're movin' on. 341 00:25:14,477 --> 00:25:17,969 For you to be interested in someone, she must be really special, right? 342 00:25:18,047 --> 00:25:20,277 - Skip 12. - This is what I'm trying to tell you. 343 00:25:20,350 --> 00:25:23,945 It is not going to happen. She is already dating somebody. 344 00:25:24,020 --> 00:25:27,581 - That's not your problem, bro. - Actually, it kind of is. 345 00:25:27,657 --> 00:25:30,558 Listen up, 15 across, five letters, pan-fry. 346 00:25:30,627 --> 00:25:32,993 - Pan-fry. - Pan-fry. Uh, "grill." Uh... 347 00:25:33,062 --> 00:25:34,859 Dude, is there a rock on her left hand? 348 00:25:34,931 --> 00:25:37,092 - Uh, no, not yet. - Then all's fair. 349 00:25:37,166 --> 00:25:40,465 All right, now focus, people! Pan-fry! 350 00:25:40,536 --> 00:25:43,801 - Saute. - Oh, my gosh. Of course it's saute! 351 00:25:46,442 --> 00:25:50,469 And, uh, the word before, did we try "zeitgeist"? 352 00:25:50,546 --> 00:25:54,073 - It would be E-l-T. - I think it would make "ozone" work. 353 00:25:54,150 --> 00:25:59,144 Lord, we hit the mother lode! 354 00:26:01,557 --> 00:26:06,017 Ten letters. "Anything that can go wrong, will." So... 355 00:26:06,095 --> 00:26:07,892 Earth to Dan. We're still at across. 356 00:26:07,964 --> 00:26:11,127 - We're not even at down, Dan. - We're dying here, buddy. 357 00:26:15,571 --> 00:26:17,505 - We're done. - Hooray for the dishes. 358 00:26:17,573 --> 00:26:20,940 Congratulations, yeah. 359 00:26:22,345 --> 00:26:24,813 - Let's check it! - What now, boys? 360 00:26:24,881 --> 00:26:26,678 Dishes, duh! 361 00:26:26,749 --> 00:26:29,183 What happened? You were useless out there. 362 00:26:29,252 --> 00:26:30,310 Sorry, guys. 363 00:26:30,386 --> 00:26:32,183 Lay off him. He's got a lot on his mind. 364 00:26:32,255 --> 00:26:34,621 - Saute. - Dad, Mom. 365 00:26:34,691 --> 00:26:36,181 What do you think of? 366 00:26:36,259 --> 00:26:38,819 Well, Mitch, it's too soon to tell. 367 00:26:38,895 --> 00:26:43,127 That being said, she's bright, lovely, adorable, 368 00:26:43,199 --> 00:26:48,535 and if you botch this up, we'll keep her and get rid of you. 369 00:26:48,604 --> 00:26:50,902 Dan, honey, you missed a spot. 370 00:26:52,308 --> 00:26:57,075 Seriously, dude. That girl is smokin'. Amazing. Really. 371 00:26:57,146 --> 00:27:01,242 - What do you think of her? - Um, she's great. 372 00:27:02,919 --> 00:27:04,648 Let me have a bite. 373 00:27:22,605 --> 00:27:24,766 Hey, hey, hey, hey! 374 00:27:28,144 --> 00:27:30,578 - No, no! Let's go, Gus. - All right. 375 00:27:30,646 --> 00:27:32,705 Can I show you where we are on this map... 376 00:27:32,782 --> 00:27:35,080 - Oh, yes. Yes. ...here? 377 00:27:35,151 --> 00:27:39,247 Um, if I had known, I would have never... 378 00:27:39,322 --> 00:27:42,780 - Not my brother's girlfriend. - Uh, no, of course not. 379 00:27:42,859 --> 00:27:45,919 And, for the record, I never called you a hottie. 380 00:27:45,995 --> 00:27:49,021 - Hey, we are... This is the bay. - Oh! 381 00:27:49,098 --> 00:27:51,191 - And we're right there. - I see. 382 00:27:51,267 --> 00:27:54,031 - So, what should we do? - Um, it's kind of funny. 383 00:27:54,103 --> 00:27:55,866 Maybe we should just tell everyone. 384 00:27:55,938 --> 00:27:58,202 No. No, no, no, no, no, no, no. 385 00:27:58,274 --> 00:28:00,435 We didn't do anything wrong. It was sweet... 386 00:28:00,510 --> 00:28:02,944 Good! You guys are getting to know each other. 387 00:28:03,012 --> 00:28:05,242 Yeah. Just showing her where we are on the map. 388 00:28:05,314 --> 00:28:07,544 Hey, Uncle Mitch, you're not counting. 389 00:28:07,617 --> 00:28:12,611 OK, OK. Hey. I know what's goin' on here with you two. 390 00:28:15,224 --> 00:28:18,022 You're not hiding. 391 00:28:18,094 --> 00:28:20,722 Go ahead. One! 392 00:28:20,797 --> 00:28:23,561 - Two! Go! - OK. 393 00:28:23,633 --> 00:28:26,101 - All right. I'm... - Three! 394 00:28:26,169 --> 00:28:28,399 Clay, I know you're in that back closet. 395 00:28:28,471 --> 00:28:30,166 - Come on! - Four! 396 00:28:30,239 --> 00:28:32,639 Do over! Do over! 397 00:28:32,708 --> 00:28:36,405 Five! Six! I'm counting to 200. 398 00:28:36,479 --> 00:28:38,504 - I see you. - Yes, we do. 399 00:28:38,581 --> 00:28:41,379 I'm gonna lay down for this whole thing. Eight! 400 00:28:43,653 --> 00:28:45,314 - Mitch is a great guy. - He is! 401 00:28:45,388 --> 00:28:47,549 He's fun and, uh, funny. 402 00:28:47,623 --> 00:28:51,423 Uncomplicated in a... in a good way. Just what I need. 403 00:28:51,494 --> 00:28:53,519 - He's a great guy. - Nine! 404 00:28:53,596 --> 00:28:56,929 See, I just ended this long, messy relationship, 405 00:28:56,999 --> 00:29:00,298 and I joined this gym and Mitch was there. 406 00:29:00,369 --> 00:29:02,303 He's a great guy. 407 00:29:02,371 --> 00:29:05,670 - You keep saying that. - Well, because he is. 408 00:29:05,741 --> 00:29:07,675 Ten! 409 00:29:07,743 --> 00:29:09,677 Eleven, 12, 13, 14, 15! 410 00:29:09,745 --> 00:29:14,307 - So good luck... to all of us. - OK. 411 00:29:18,688 --> 00:29:21,316 So a little bird told me you're gonna be syndicated. 412 00:29:21,390 --> 00:29:24,951 Lilly. They're looking at a bunch of columnists. It's a long shot at best. 413 00:29:25,027 --> 00:29:29,521 She's amazing. Name a place, she's either lived there or visited. 414 00:29:29,599 --> 00:29:33,262 Tibet, Chile, Berlin when there was the Wall. 415 00:29:33,336 --> 00:29:35,702 She's... 416 00:29:35,771 --> 00:29:39,366 Wait! Whoa, whoa, what'd I miss? 417 00:29:39,442 --> 00:29:42,843 - Well, Mitch certainly made out. - Yep. 418 00:29:42,912 --> 00:29:45,244 And what about you? Have you found anyone? 419 00:29:45,314 --> 00:29:47,839 - Dad, don't... - Look, I know you always say 420 00:29:47,917 --> 00:29:53,321 that with Suzanne you won the lottery and that to try again would feel greedy, 421 00:29:53,389 --> 00:29:57,223 but it's been four years. 422 00:29:57,293 --> 00:29:59,523 Can we just walk, please? 423 00:30:08,471 --> 00:30:11,599 I wanted to spare you. 424 00:30:11,674 --> 00:30:14,700 And I never smelt a thing! 425 00:30:14,777 --> 00:30:17,507 Somebody please pass the corn. 426 00:30:17,580 --> 00:30:19,844 - And that's how we met. - I got it. 427 00:30:19,916 --> 00:30:21,543 - My version... - No. 428 00:30:21,617 --> 00:30:24,017 - What's your sign? - Scorpio, Libra rising. 429 00:30:24,086 --> 00:30:25,610 - Oh, my God, so am I. - Really? 430 00:30:25,688 --> 00:30:27,019 Do you have any siblings? 431 00:30:27,089 --> 00:30:29,216 - No. - Who wants corn? Any... 432 00:30:29,292 --> 00:30:33,786 Tell us something about yourself few people know, not even Mitch. 433 00:30:35,364 --> 00:30:38,629 I am an, um... an accomplished 434 00:30:38,701 --> 00:30:41,932 - maker of pancakes. - Talent show. 435 00:30:42,004 --> 00:30:45,030 - Talent show. - What would your perfect day be? 436 00:30:45,107 --> 00:30:47,598 Mine would start with Annie, and end with Annie... 437 00:30:47,677 --> 00:30:49,907 We're not asking you. So you were saying? 438 00:30:49,979 --> 00:30:53,346 Uh, my perfect day would start with going to a country 439 00:30:53,416 --> 00:30:56,476 where they speak a language I don't know, new customs, 440 00:30:56,552 --> 00:30:59,419 someplace where I'm completely out of my element. 441 00:30:59,488 --> 00:31:01,547 Welcome. I think you've arrived. 442 00:31:02,959 --> 00:31:04,483 I want to say, the first time... 443 00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:07,120 The first time that I saw her... 444 00:31:07,196 --> 00:31:10,097 Sweetheart, sweetheart, you don't have to shout. 445 00:31:10,166 --> 00:31:13,624 Well, I thought that I just died 446 00:31:13,703 --> 00:31:19,039 - because there's an angel in the room. - Mmm. Thank you. 447 00:31:26,182 --> 00:31:28,047 Are you and Mitch in love? 448 00:31:28,117 --> 00:31:30,642 This corn is like an angel. 449 00:31:39,695 --> 00:31:43,529 - Let's design a tent tonight. - Yeah! Big giant one! 450 00:31:43,599 --> 00:31:46,329 We can make it have ceilings! 451 00:32:03,919 --> 00:32:06,820 Dessert! Dessert. 452 00:32:06,889 --> 00:32:08,914 Oh, Danny, some of us are still eating. 453 00:32:08,991 --> 00:32:10,686 - It's getting late. - No, it's not. 454 00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:13,729 I'm an only child too. This is really overwhelming, isn't it? 455 00:32:13,796 --> 00:32:15,923 Have you ever lived your perfect day? 456 00:32:15,998 --> 00:32:18,091 When does a boyfriend become a lover? 457 00:32:18,167 --> 00:32:20,260 OK. OK, all right, all right. 458 00:32:20,336 --> 00:32:23,965 I think we can stop asking her questions. Been grilling her all night. 459 00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:25,871 Does it feel like we're grilling you? 460 00:32:25,941 --> 00:32:28,671 - No. No, not at all. - She's just being nice. 461 00:32:28,744 --> 00:32:33,010 - No. I love the questions. - Oh, please. 462 00:32:33,082 --> 00:32:38,577 Mm. On behalf of my family, I would like to apologize. 463 00:32:38,654 --> 00:32:41,316 None of Mitch's girlfriends have ever been subjected 464 00:32:41,390 --> 00:32:44,086 - to such in-depth questioning. - Dan does have a point. 465 00:32:44,160 --> 00:32:46,993 - Right? Not the body double. - No. 466 00:32:47,063 --> 00:32:50,157 - What was her name? Oh, God! - Not the Knicks City Dancer. 467 00:32:50,232 --> 00:32:53,724 Or the "massage therapist." 468 00:32:53,803 --> 00:32:57,432 None of the flight attendants from every major and regional airline 469 00:32:57,506 --> 00:32:59,838 who've wheeled their carts through this house. 470 00:32:59,909 --> 00:33:03,743 - OK, that's enough. - What? Am I wrong? Come on. 471 00:33:07,116 --> 00:33:11,280 Wow, Dan. Thank you for pointing that out. 472 00:33:11,353 --> 00:33:13,378 You're the smartest guy I know. 473 00:33:15,357 --> 00:33:19,020 He's right. It's Annie's turn to ask me whatever... 474 00:33:20,262 --> 00:33:21,627 She prefers Marie. 475 00:33:23,232 --> 00:33:25,723 Ask me whatever you want, Marie. 476 00:33:25,801 --> 00:33:29,134 - I don't have any questions. - Oh, come on. 477 00:33:29,205 --> 00:33:35,075 Mitch said early on that if I'd forgive him his past, he'd forgive me mine. 478 00:33:37,346 --> 00:33:39,007 Well, that's a stupid thing to do. 479 00:33:39,081 --> 00:33:41,413 - OK, into the family room. - Hey, guys. You done? 480 00:33:41,484 --> 00:33:45,682 Kids, come on. Into the family room. 481 00:33:50,459 --> 00:33:53,360 John, bring the pies, please. 482 00:33:59,335 --> 00:34:03,101 Not you. You'll be doing the dishes alone. 483 00:34:08,310 --> 00:34:10,437 Six. Six letters. 484 00:34:10,513 --> 00:34:12,777 Yes, yes, yes! 485 00:34:16,652 --> 00:34:19,450 Good job. Good job. 486 00:34:19,522 --> 00:34:21,683 - Second word. - Second word. 487 00:34:22,892 --> 00:34:24,655 - You, you! - Hey. 488 00:34:26,095 --> 00:34:28,120 I'm sorry. I was way, way out of line. 489 00:34:28,197 --> 00:34:30,529 No, you're never out of line. You're my brother. 490 00:34:30,599 --> 00:34:32,226 You'll understand when I tell... 491 00:34:32,301 --> 00:34:34,098 Nothing you can say would upset me. 492 00:34:34,170 --> 00:34:37,264 - Can I just say one thing? ...the bookstore... 493 00:34:37,339 --> 00:34:40,604 When you were talking about my other girls, 494 00:34:40,676 --> 00:34:42,303 I realized something. 495 00:34:44,547 --> 00:34:48,608 What I feel for Marie is different. 496 00:34:50,319 --> 00:34:54,346 You know that feeling in, um... in your... 497 00:34:54,423 --> 00:34:55,754 - Heart. - Yeah. 498 00:34:55,824 --> 00:34:57,883 - When your heart is just... - Pounding. 499 00:34:57,960 --> 00:35:02,124 - Pounding. And... - Like it's actually outside your ribs. 500 00:35:02,198 --> 00:35:04,598 - Yes. - Exposed, vulnerable... 501 00:35:04,667 --> 00:35:06,464 - Yeah. It's... - Wonderful and awful 502 00:35:06,535 --> 00:35:09,527 and heartsick and alive, all at the same time. 503 00:35:09,605 --> 00:35:13,132 Yes. Yes. Yeah, what do you... what do we call that? 504 00:35:13,209 --> 00:35:16,201 Uh, love. 505 00:35:20,616 --> 00:35:22,675 You always did have the words. 506 00:35:29,325 --> 00:35:32,294 - Stanford or Berkeley. - Oh, those are great schools. 507 00:35:32,361 --> 00:35:35,387 - Maybe University of Washington. - Huh. 508 00:35:35,464 --> 00:35:38,126 Or somewhere closer to home. 509 00:35:41,704 --> 00:35:44,571 Lil, you have trouble sleeping, you know where to find me. 510 00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:46,631 Dad. 511 00:35:48,344 --> 00:35:51,245 Uncle Mitch, are you going in for your good-night kiss? 512 00:35:51,313 --> 00:35:52,837 - You bet. - Mom and Dad's old 513 00:35:52,915 --> 00:35:55,941 - "separate bedrooms till married" rule. - Kinda high school. 514 00:35:56,018 --> 00:35:57,781 - I agree with that rule. - Thank you. 515 00:35:57,853 --> 00:36:00,253 - You're welcome. - Mitch, what're you doing? 516 00:36:00,322 --> 00:36:02,256 Marie brought some books, but I thought 517 00:36:02,324 --> 00:36:04,417 she should read a real book by a real writer. 518 00:36:04,493 --> 00:36:06,927 - Oh, no, no, no. Not a good idea. - Au contraire. 519 00:36:06,996 --> 00:36:08,793 - Please don't. - Best book I've read. 520 00:36:08,864 --> 00:36:11,196 - May be the only book you've ever read. - Funny. 521 00:36:11,267 --> 00:36:13,667 - Be nice. - If you can sign it, that'd be great. 522 00:36:13,736 --> 00:36:16,364 - That's first edition. - It's the only edition, Mom. 523 00:36:16,438 --> 00:36:19,202 - Oh, now. Good night. - Good night. 524 00:36:19,275 --> 00:36:21,971 Sleep tight. 525 00:36:22,044 --> 00:36:25,275 Um, I really wish you wouldn't. 526 00:36:26,615 --> 00:36:28,879 "Good luck"? That's it? 527 00:36:28,951 --> 00:36:30,543 OK, we can work with that. 528 00:36:31,987 --> 00:36:34,046 Hi. 529 00:36:41,497 --> 00:36:43,055 Good night. 530 00:36:56,645 --> 00:36:59,546 - Good morning. - Hey. 531 00:36:59,615 --> 00:37:02,049 - Say, "Good morning." - Morning. 532 00:37:02,117 --> 00:37:04,950 Yeah. Good. 533 00:37:05,020 --> 00:37:07,545 Have fun. 534 00:37:07,623 --> 00:37:09,921 Here you go, sweetheart. There you go. 535 00:37:09,992 --> 00:37:14,258 Marie. Will you join us, please, beautiful girl? 536 00:37:14,330 --> 00:37:15,627 - Hey, Mom. - Yeah, honey? 537 00:37:15,698 --> 00:37:17,666 - Mom, will you hit that music? - Sure. 538 00:37:17,733 --> 00:37:19,792 You need this more than I do. Here he comes. 539 00:37:22,171 --> 00:37:26,403 All right, Dan. Get on over here. Here we go, boxer shuffle. 540 00:37:26,475 --> 00:37:30,138 And I wanna see those fists up. Three, two, one. 541 00:37:30,212 --> 00:37:31,941 To the right! 542 00:37:32,014 --> 00:37:35,506 Get a good bounce. Five, six, seven. Switch! 543 00:37:35,584 --> 00:37:39,145 Five, six, seven. Whoo! 544 00:37:39,221 --> 00:37:42,019 Four, five, six, seven. Counting! 545 00:37:42,091 --> 00:37:46,027 One, two, three, four, five, six, seven. 546 00:37:46,095 --> 00:37:48,495 - You wanna take it, babe? - You wha? 547 00:37:48,564 --> 00:37:50,498 - Yeah. Yeah, yeah. - OK. 548 00:37:50,566 --> 00:37:53,797 Salsa? 549 00:37:55,037 --> 00:37:56,971 The floor is yours, baby. 550 00:37:57,806 --> 00:37:59,797 And left, and one... 551 00:37:59,875 --> 00:38:03,072 OK, hold on, hold on, all right. Dan. Dan gets to go up front. 552 00:38:03,145 --> 00:38:07,775 Beginners in the middle. Keep your eyes on Marie. Doing good. Doing good. 553 00:38:07,850 --> 00:38:12,549 - One, two, three, four. - Yeah! 554 00:38:16,158 --> 00:38:19,594 - Let's do the arm a little bit. - All right. 555 00:38:20,496 --> 00:38:24,227 One, two, three, four. 556 00:38:24,299 --> 00:38:26,426 One, two. 557 00:38:37,179 --> 00:38:40,444 OK, everybody. Look, Marie, what to do. Dan, what not to do. 558 00:38:40,516 --> 00:38:42,450 The other way. 559 00:38:42,518 --> 00:38:43,678 You were excellent. 560 00:38:43,752 --> 00:38:44,776 Thank you so much. 561 00:38:44,853 --> 00:38:46,753 - Oh, you're welcome. - That's great. 562 00:38:48,624 --> 00:38:50,785 You always hate to start it, 563 00:38:50,859 --> 00:38:53,885 but then you feel so great after... 564 00:38:59,368 --> 00:39:02,701 Wow. That's a good stretch. 565 00:39:05,574 --> 00:39:06,802 - Oh, yeah. - Ready? 566 00:39:06,875 --> 00:39:10,470 Hey, maybe you'll try that on me a little bit later. 567 00:39:13,282 --> 00:39:14,749 It's good. 568 00:39:28,030 --> 00:39:30,828 - Dad? - Lilly, get your sisters 569 00:39:30,899 --> 00:39:33,561 and meet me in front. Now. 570 00:39:38,907 --> 00:39:41,068 Where are you going? Can we come with you? 571 00:39:41,143 --> 00:39:42,508 Can we, can we, can we? 572 00:39:42,578 --> 00:39:47,777 My girls are looking for a little quality alone time with their dad. 573 00:39:47,850 --> 00:39:50,375 But I promise we'll do it another day. All right? 574 00:39:50,452 --> 00:39:52,545 Lil, come on. Let's go. In the car. 575 00:39:53,322 --> 00:39:54,653 Girls, let's go. 576 00:39:54,723 --> 00:39:58,784 Dad, what is it? Nana's gonna teach me how to knit. 577 00:39:58,861 --> 00:40:01,489 - Cara, let's go. - No. 578 00:40:05,067 --> 00:40:07,501 OK. What are you waiting for? 579 00:40:07,569 --> 00:40:10,094 Come here. 580 00:40:10,172 --> 00:40:12,140 Right here. Right here! 581 00:40:12,207 --> 00:40:16,541 Oh. Oh, you're so heavy. I don't know what I'm gonna do. 582 00:40:16,612 --> 00:40:19,376 All right. Ah! Oh! I'm gonna fall down. 583 00:40:19,448 --> 00:40:21,643 I don't think I can do this. 584 00:40:28,857 --> 00:40:30,324 Wow. 585 00:40:33,962 --> 00:40:36,192 No, no, no. 586 00:40:36,265 --> 00:40:39,792 This used to be the place with all the shells 587 00:40:39,868 --> 00:40:42,701 and the papier-mache shark. 588 00:40:42,771 --> 00:40:44,762 Remember you loved the saltwater taffy? 589 00:40:44,840 --> 00:40:49,402 - When I was four. - Yeah, but... OK. 590 00:40:49,478 --> 00:40:52,845 Stick with me, guys. Oh, I have an idea! Bowling! 591 00:40:52,915 --> 00:40:54,746 - Yay! - Bowling, bowling, bowling! 592 00:40:54,816 --> 00:40:55,805 Sounds good. 593 00:40:55,884 --> 00:40:59,183 Life is full of disappointment. 594 00:40:59,254 --> 00:41:01,188 Big and sometimes even bigger. 595 00:41:01,256 --> 00:41:03,656 So, what's it gonna be? 596 00:41:03,725 --> 00:41:07,217 The lighthouse or the whaling museum? Your pick. 597 00:41:09,998 --> 00:41:13,161 - Do you know why we have lighthouses? - Because they're neat? 598 00:41:13,235 --> 00:41:16,432 That's right. Yes. 599 00:41:16,505 --> 00:41:20,134 And also because they help when it's dark out. 600 00:41:20,208 --> 00:41:22,870 They, uh, help keep boats safe 601 00:41:22,945 --> 00:41:25,607 and keep us from crashing into the rocks. 602 00:41:25,681 --> 00:41:28,411 Because when you're out there 603 00:41:28,483 --> 00:41:32,749 and you're being tossed back and forth by those big dark waves 604 00:41:32,821 --> 00:41:37,224 and you think that you'll never feel land again 605 00:41:37,292 --> 00:41:40,455 and that you could just split into a million pieces 606 00:41:40,529 --> 00:41:45,728 and sink down all the way down... deep, 607 00:41:45,801 --> 00:41:49,897 it's the light that keeps us on course. 608 00:41:49,972 --> 00:41:53,567 - It's the light... - Dad, are you OK? 609 00:41:53,642 --> 00:41:57,976 'Course I'm OK... honey. 610 00:42:05,187 --> 00:42:07,018 - Did you guys have fun? - No. 611 00:42:07,089 --> 00:42:08,613 No. 612 00:42:10,425 --> 00:42:13,519 - Jump inside. Let's go, honey. - Kids? Where've you been? 613 00:42:13,595 --> 00:42:16,689 - I know. I know. I'm... - Oh, we looked all over. 614 00:42:16,765 --> 00:42:19,791 - For an expert on parenting... - I'm sorry. I wasn't thinking. 615 00:42:19,868 --> 00:42:22,666 Hi, buddy. Hi. 616 00:42:22,738 --> 00:42:26,572 - I'm sorry. - Come on, buddy. 617 00:42:28,143 --> 00:42:30,304 I got it. 618 00:42:32,714 --> 00:42:35,012 Dan. She was amazing. You should've seen her. 619 00:42:35,083 --> 00:42:36,983 She killed the last quarter mile. 620 00:42:37,052 --> 00:42:40,954 - I was fast. Wasn't I? - Yeah, it was like I couldn't catch up. 621 00:42:41,023 --> 00:42:42,820 Even your sweat is beautiful. 622 00:42:46,194 --> 00:42:47,593 Where'd Dan go? 623 00:42:47,663 --> 00:42:51,224 Mom, she moves like a goddess out there. 624 00:42:51,299 --> 00:42:53,563 - Yeah? - She's like a panther. 625 00:42:53,635 --> 00:42:55,728 You know, just her body... 626 00:42:55,804 --> 00:42:59,137 She's competitive, but I just wanted to pounce. You know what I mean? 627 00:42:59,207 --> 00:43:01,437 I wanted to ride her up the beach. She was... 628 00:43:01,510 --> 00:43:04,445 - Don't do that. - She was like my stallion. 629 00:43:08,750 --> 00:43:11,241 I wanted her to be in front of me. You know what I mean? 630 00:43:11,319 --> 00:43:16,780 Marie. There's fresh towels up there in the cabinet to the right. 631 00:43:16,858 --> 00:43:20,419 I miss your skin. 632 00:43:20,495 --> 00:43:22,895 I miss your smell. 633 00:43:22,964 --> 00:43:25,956 Mm. I miss... 634 00:43:26,034 --> 00:43:29,060 I miss your eyes. 635 00:43:29,137 --> 00:43:32,402 - Dad! - I... 636 00:43:32,474 --> 00:43:34,066 - You're such a freak! - I... 637 00:43:34,142 --> 00:43:36,838 No, sorry. That was just my loser of a father! 638 00:43:36,912 --> 00:43:39,506 Yeah, he was totally spying. 639 00:43:46,054 --> 00:43:49,023 - Hello? Hello? - We gotta talk. 640 00:43:50,659 --> 00:43:53,389 - Can it wait? - Is this working for you? 641 00:43:53,462 --> 00:43:55,953 I mean, really working. Be honest. 642 00:43:56,031 --> 00:43:58,431 - I'm having a nice time. - A nice time? 643 00:43:58,500 --> 00:44:00,968 - Yes, I am. - Really? So you're enjoying yourself? 644 00:44:01,036 --> 00:44:03,095 - Except for the soap in my eyes. - OK. 645 00:44:03,171 --> 00:44:05,969 'Cause you know what? I'm not. I'm not enjoying myself, 646 00:44:06,041 --> 00:44:08,839 and I think that, as two people of principle, 647 00:44:08,910 --> 00:44:10,844 we should have ground rules. Don't you? 648 00:44:10,912 --> 00:44:15,611 Oh, yeah, sure. OK, sure. 649 00:44:15,684 --> 00:44:17,276 Oh. OK! All right, that's... 650 00:44:17,352 --> 00:44:19,377 That's what I'm talking about. No, no, no. 651 00:44:19,454 --> 00:44:21,718 We need to keep our distance. Stop. Stay away. 652 00:44:21,790 --> 00:44:24,384 - Towel. - Stop. OK. I'm sorry. 653 00:44:24,459 --> 00:44:25,983 Thank you. 654 00:44:26,061 --> 00:44:29,121 And, you know, stop reading my book. OK, just stop. 655 00:44:29,197 --> 00:44:33,031 - Why? - And that salsa thing you do... 656 00:44:33,101 --> 00:44:35,399 - What are you talking about? - The salsa dance. 657 00:44:35,470 --> 00:44:38,598 This... This thing. If you could just not do that. 658 00:44:38,673 --> 00:44:41,665 - I'm sorry. - If you stop doing that as a rule, 659 00:44:41,743 --> 00:44:43,370 it would be very helpful to me. 660 00:44:43,445 --> 00:44:45,936 There are other things you can do, such as not exist. 661 00:44:46,014 --> 00:44:47,948 - Oh. Thank you. - That... not... Yeah! 662 00:44:48,016 --> 00:44:51,315 I said it. I said it. I didn't mean it, but I said it. 663 00:44:51,386 --> 00:44:53,513 - And you know what else I'm gonna do? - What? 664 00:44:53,588 --> 00:44:57,319 I am going to make myself less attractive, 665 00:44:57,392 --> 00:44:59,883 so as to not encourage any inappropriate feelings. 666 00:45:01,696 --> 00:45:04,893 OK, that's hilarious. But you know what? I... No. 667 00:45:04,966 --> 00:45:07,560 - I'm gonna stop thinking about you. - Good. 668 00:45:07,636 --> 00:45:09,365 I will. 669 00:45:09,437 --> 00:45:12,838 And if I start thinking about you, 670 00:45:12,908 --> 00:45:15,206 - which may happen in a moment of... - Weakness. 671 00:45:15,277 --> 00:45:19,543 ...weakness, I'm going to focus all of my thoughts on your flaws. 672 00:45:19,614 --> 00:45:21,241 - My flaws. - Your flaws. 673 00:45:21,316 --> 00:45:23,284 - And they are? - I have no idea, 674 00:45:23,351 --> 00:45:26,320 but you can rest assured that I am going to find... 675 00:45:26,388 --> 00:45:27,548 Just ask Nana. Oh! 676 00:45:27,622 --> 00:45:29,419 I'm so sorry. Are you taking a shower? 677 00:45:29,491 --> 00:45:30,890 Yes. I'm taking a shower. 678 00:45:30,959 --> 00:45:33,928 Oh, well, a little advice. Old houses, old pipes. 679 00:45:33,995 --> 00:45:36,327 - Thank you. Thanks. - Takes forever to heat up. 680 00:45:36,398 --> 00:45:39,697 Um, can I talk to you about something? 681 00:45:39,768 --> 00:45:44,205 - Sure. Absolutely. - And can we just keep it between us? 682 00:45:44,272 --> 00:45:47,833 It's just... It was... Um... 683 00:45:47,909 --> 00:45:49,740 See, last night what I was... 684 00:45:49,811 --> 00:45:52,974 You were talking about your life last night. 685 00:45:53,048 --> 00:45:57,246 The importance of travel and of, um, trying new things, you know, 686 00:45:57,319 --> 00:46:01,517 and I just started thinking about... Amazing! Um... 687 00:46:01,590 --> 00:46:04,218 All of that, you know, how much... 688 00:46:04,292 --> 00:46:08,820 - That looks like it's ready. - Right. 689 00:46:08,897 --> 00:46:12,458 Um... But just... 690 00:46:12,534 --> 00:46:14,502 Oh, you're... You're still dressed. 691 00:46:14,569 --> 00:46:17,367 Oh, I forgot. 692 00:46:17,439 --> 00:46:19,566 I'll look away. I'll look over here. 693 00:46:19,641 --> 00:46:24,340 Anyway, so, I just realized, you know, really, um... 694 00:46:26,147 --> 00:46:30,049 You know, I've been thinking a lot about what I wanna do, um, 695 00:46:30,118 --> 00:46:32,916 you know, in the future, like not just for school, but... 696 00:46:32,988 --> 00:46:36,287 It's just hard to figure out exactly what I wanna do with my life. 697 00:46:36,358 --> 00:46:39,691 I mean, I know I wanna go somewhere new and, you know, 698 00:46:39,761 --> 00:46:41,786 try new things, um... 699 00:46:41,863 --> 00:46:44,661 I mean it's just hard to figure out, you know, 700 00:46:44,733 --> 00:46:47,224 - your place, like where you should be. - Right. 701 00:46:47,302 --> 00:46:50,465 And just to have that experience, you know, and to... 702 00:46:50,538 --> 00:46:55,134 Which is, you know, what it's all about. You know? 703 00:46:55,210 --> 00:46:58,179 - Right. - But it's also, I mean, 704 00:46:58,246 --> 00:47:00,942 it's also... I mean, it's also terrifying realizing 705 00:47:01,016 --> 00:47:05,419 what you want is what you want. You know what I mean? 706 00:47:05,487 --> 00:47:09,924 You know, I think it's so interesting not... 707 00:47:09,991 --> 00:47:13,984 Interesting the way that, um, you end up somewhere 708 00:47:14,062 --> 00:47:17,930 other than where you, um... 709 00:47:29,544 --> 00:47:30,875 Oh! 710 00:47:36,351 --> 00:47:37,716 Lunch! 711 00:47:41,623 --> 00:47:44,114 Mac and cheese. Nothing better. 712 00:47:44,192 --> 00:47:46,422 Adults are in the dining room. 713 00:47:46,494 --> 00:47:51,557 You know, I think I'm going to mix it up and sit with my peeps. 714 00:47:51,633 --> 00:47:55,535 - Dan. Honey... - Mom, please. Just let me be. 715 00:48:04,479 --> 00:48:06,071 - Hey, guys. - Hi, Uncle Dan. 716 00:48:06,147 --> 00:48:08,308 - Hey. - Hi, Uncle Dan. 717 00:48:33,041 --> 00:48:34,065 Hello? 718 00:48:46,721 --> 00:48:48,848 - Hi. - Hi. 719 00:48:48,923 --> 00:48:51,721 - What's going on? - Marie's helping me with something. 720 00:48:51,793 --> 00:48:56,253 - We're having no fun at all. - Yeah, I can see that. 721 00:48:56,331 --> 00:48:59,198 - How's she doing? - She's amazing. 722 00:48:59,267 --> 00:49:02,293 - Bye, Dad. - Bye. 723 00:49:02,370 --> 00:49:04,736 - Bye. - Bye. 724 00:49:06,508 --> 00:49:08,942 - So you were saying... - Oh, yeah. 725 00:49:09,010 --> 00:49:11,877 And I was trying to, um, make, like, you know... 726 00:49:11,946 --> 00:49:13,914 I was trying to make like a really heart. 727 00:49:13,982 --> 00:49:17,543 But, you know, I didn't even know how to even draw a heart. So I cut it. 728 00:49:17,619 --> 00:49:19,314 - Uh-huh. - And it came out, like, 729 00:49:19,387 --> 00:49:24,723 it was so... it came out like a... like a star. 730 00:49:24,793 --> 00:49:24,893 Yeah. 731 00:49:24,893 --> 00:49:26,724 Yeah. 732 00:49:26,795 --> 00:49:29,025 - Dan? Hi. - Hmm. Hey. 733 00:49:29,097 --> 00:49:32,498 Uh. Honey, you know we're worried about you. You know that. 734 00:49:32,567 --> 00:49:36,196 And with your behavior last night and this morning, 735 00:49:36,271 --> 00:49:38,865 we are now officially worried. 736 00:49:38,940 --> 00:49:44,105 Well, thanks, I'm touched. But I'm fine. You don't... 737 00:49:44,179 --> 00:49:47,444 - We're having a private conversation. - Come on in. 738 00:49:47,515 --> 00:49:49,278 No, come on in. This is good. 739 00:49:49,350 --> 00:49:52,444 Mom, go ahead, I'm all ears. 740 00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:57,184 Look, you know, you do so much for your girls. 741 00:49:57,258 --> 00:50:01,024 And you do so much for all of us. What are you doing for yourself? 742 00:50:01,096 --> 00:50:02,723 Not now. 743 00:50:02,797 --> 00:50:04,856 - Come on in. - Think about... 744 00:50:04,933 --> 00:50:06,924 - We're trying to have a talk. - It's fine. 745 00:50:07,001 --> 00:50:09,162 - We'd like to speak to you privately. - Stay. 746 00:50:09,237 --> 00:50:10,864 - Go ahead, Mom. - Yes, honey. 747 00:50:10,939 --> 00:50:13,464 - Is it 'cause Uncle Dan's acting weird? - Yes, it is. 748 00:50:13,541 --> 00:50:15,736 There's an explanation for it. 749 00:50:15,810 --> 00:50:18,472 - Please tell us. - I just wanted to talk to you. 750 00:50:18,546 --> 00:50:20,810 Dude, you got to be way backed up. 751 00:50:20,882 --> 00:50:24,784 So I just hope from time to time you are treating yourself to a little self-love. 752 00:50:24,853 --> 00:50:27,344 - Oh, come on. - I talked to my urologist about this. 753 00:50:27,422 --> 00:50:29,083 - That's enough. Come on. - Sorry. 754 00:50:29,157 --> 00:50:31,284 What are you talking about, man? 755 00:50:31,359 --> 00:50:33,725 The real question, the one no one will ask, 756 00:50:33,795 --> 00:50:37,424 - is will Dan ever find love again? - No, he won't. 757 00:50:37,499 --> 00:50:40,468 - Howard. - I'm sorry, he won't. 758 00:50:40,535 --> 00:50:42,127 I'm saying, one of the things, 759 00:50:42,203 --> 00:50:44,194 if you're open to it, love will find you. 760 00:50:44,272 --> 00:50:45,933 - Oh. - I suppose. 761 00:50:46,007 --> 00:50:48,373 - Hey, people. - And... perfect. 762 00:50:48,443 --> 00:50:51,537 I don't think I was being clear before 763 00:50:51,613 --> 00:50:54,047 - but you got to unclog that drain. - Uh-huh. 764 00:50:54,115 --> 00:50:57,346 You gotta unplug that bottle. If I mixed a metaphor there. 765 00:50:57,418 --> 00:50:59,409 - Yes, you did. - So far what you've missed 766 00:50:59,487 --> 00:51:04,857 is, uh, "worried," "love will find," "unclog the drain." 767 00:51:04,926 --> 00:51:07,793 Well, thanks. That is it. 768 00:51:07,862 --> 00:51:09,523 - No. That's not it. - We are done. 769 00:51:09,597 --> 00:51:12,191 You can all... Oh, come on, Ma. 770 00:51:12,267 --> 00:51:16,328 We met Margot Draper's daughter at the farmers' market. 771 00:51:16,404 --> 00:51:18,497 - Who? - And she asked all about you. 772 00:51:18,573 --> 00:51:21,542 You see, Danny, you gotta, you know, have a little fun. 773 00:51:21,609 --> 00:51:25,875 Which means that Ruthie Draper is gonna pick you up at 6:00, 774 00:51:25,947 --> 00:51:29,075 - and you're gonna have drinks! - I don't even remember Ruthie... 775 00:51:29,150 --> 00:51:30,845 - You're gonna go on a date! - No, no. 776 00:51:30,919 --> 00:51:32,978 No, I'm not going on a date, Mom. 777 00:51:33,054 --> 00:51:35,318 Yes, honey, it's time. 778 00:51:35,390 --> 00:51:39,326 Ruthie "Pigface" Draper. Mom, Dad, what, are you kidding? 779 00:51:39,394 --> 00:51:42,989 Not "Pigface" Draper. I'm sorry, that is downright cruel. 780 00:51:43,064 --> 00:51:44,656 There's nothing cruel about it. 781 00:51:44,732 --> 00:51:48,031 Mom, I don't even remember Ruthie "Pigfaced" Draper. 782 00:51:48,102 --> 00:51:52,801 I don't wanna go! I don't want to go with the pig face. 783 00:51:52,874 --> 00:51:55,172 - He's going. It's been decided! - No, I'm not. 784 00:51:55,243 --> 00:51:59,179 - I don't remember "Pigface" Draper. - This is a blind date. 785 00:51:59,247 --> 00:52:03,081 We'll double. OK? It'll be fun, it'll be fun. Right, Marie? 786 00:52:03,151 --> 00:52:05,642 Yes, it'll be fun. Yes. 787 00:52:08,723 --> 00:52:10,486 That's my girl. 788 00:52:12,193 --> 00:52:13,956 Come on, it'll be swine... fine. 789 00:52:14,028 --> 00:52:16,622 I'm sorry. I'm sorry. 790 00:52:16,698 --> 00:52:18,928 Go hog-wild. 791 00:52:41,789 --> 00:52:43,620 All right. All right. 792 00:53:30,238 --> 00:53:32,297 All right. All right. 793 00:53:32,373 --> 00:53:34,500 Here we go. 794 00:53:58,833 --> 00:54:00,858 That's very good. 795 00:54:04,372 --> 00:54:06,966 It's really... it's beauti... Hello! Hi. 796 00:54:07,041 --> 00:54:09,908 Hi. Everybody, this is Ruthie Draper. 797 00:54:09,977 --> 00:54:13,743 - You know everybody. They're bigger. - Yes. Hi, everyone. 798 00:54:13,815 --> 00:54:16,215 - Nice to see you again, Ruthie. - Hello, Dan. 799 00:54:16,284 --> 00:54:19,151 - Hi. - I'd know you anywhere. 800 00:54:19,220 --> 00:54:21,711 I mean, you look just the same. 801 00:54:21,789 --> 00:54:27,318 Ruthie, um, you look great. 802 00:54:27,395 --> 00:54:29,989 Funny. 803 00:54:30,064 --> 00:54:33,295 - No, no, no, don't... - So, Harvard Medical, 804 00:54:33,368 --> 00:54:36,269 Johns Hopkins... You're doing well for yourself, Ruthie. 805 00:54:36,337 --> 00:54:38,464 - Yeah. - Yeah, that's impressive. 806 00:54:38,539 --> 00:54:41,474 It must not, uh, leave enough time though for... for dating? 807 00:54:41,542 --> 00:54:44,204 Uh, there was someone. 808 00:54:44,278 --> 00:54:48,146 He was very special in my life, but, uh... 809 00:54:50,184 --> 00:54:53,813 He was lost in a freak accident. 810 00:54:53,888 --> 00:54:55,981 I'm so sorry. 811 00:54:57,492 --> 00:54:59,426 Thank you. 812 00:54:59,494 --> 00:55:03,658 What's weird is that we'd only known each other three days, 813 00:55:03,731 --> 00:55:08,031 but it's... you know how sometimes you just know. 814 00:55:08,102 --> 00:55:11,299 - Yes. - Yeah. Yes, absolutely, yes. 815 00:55:11,372 --> 00:55:14,000 - Um, yeah. - So you're a doctor? 816 00:55:14,075 --> 00:55:18,136 - Yes, yes. - What's your, uh, specialty? 817 00:55:18,212 --> 00:55:21,511 - Um, I'm a plastic surgeon. - Oh, of course you are. 818 00:55:21,582 --> 00:55:24,915 No, I know, I know, I know what you're thinking. 819 00:55:24,986 --> 00:55:27,978 But I work exclusively with burn victims, with children 820 00:55:28,055 --> 00:55:30,182 - born with facial deformities. - Oh. 821 00:55:30,258 --> 00:55:33,921 - She is basically a saint. - No. No, I'm just... 822 00:55:33,995 --> 00:55:39,729 I'm just doing my little bit to help, I think. Just like your brother. 823 00:55:39,801 --> 00:55:43,532 - Oh, stop. I'm... - When I can't sleep at night, 824 00:55:43,604 --> 00:55:48,667 I go online and I read your past columns. Have you read Dan? 825 00:55:48,743 --> 00:55:50,904 Only his fiction. 826 00:55:50,978 --> 00:55:53,469 You're in for such a treat, really. 827 00:55:53,548 --> 00:55:58,485 I mean, what... what you said, the mother of Couch Potato? 828 00:55:58,553 --> 00:56:00,214 - Mm-hmm. - "Hide the remote. 829 00:56:00,288 --> 00:56:03,883 So, what if he has to get up and change the channel? At least it's exercise." 830 00:56:03,958 --> 00:56:07,553 It's brilliant. And then... and the parents of the five picky eaters? 831 00:56:07,628 --> 00:56:11,496 They had to make individual meals for each kid and... 832 00:56:11,566 --> 00:56:13,466 "What are you, a restaurant?" 833 00:56:13,534 --> 00:56:14,899 - Right. - Brilliant. 834 00:56:14,969 --> 00:56:17,836 - She used your every word. - All I'm saying, all I'm saying 835 00:56:17,905 --> 00:56:21,966 is that I don't have kids. And I don't, I don't have problems, 836 00:56:22,043 --> 00:56:26,412 but it's clear that if I do one day, 837 00:56:26,481 --> 00:56:28,745 your words will bring me comfort. 838 00:56:39,393 --> 00:56:43,989 I'm sorry. I'm just gonna have to excuse myself. I can't help it. 839 00:56:56,777 --> 00:56:58,870 I'm sorry. But a girl that moves like that, 840 00:56:58,946 --> 00:57:02,177 I mean... ...a guy has got to wonder. 841 00:57:02,250 --> 00:57:03,615 Hey, man. 842 00:57:03,684 --> 00:57:08,451 - She's cool. Marie, you're cool, right? - Yeah. Of course. I'm cool. 843 00:57:08,523 --> 00:57:10,548 But I don't think Dan is interested in her. 844 00:57:10,625 --> 00:57:14,356 - He's not? - I'm not? 845 00:57:14,428 --> 00:57:17,397 I don't think you are. Are you? 846 00:57:27,174 --> 00:57:31,975 Oh, nice. All right. Yeah! 847 00:57:34,148 --> 00:57:37,379 I don't know what it was, but something was holding him back. 848 00:57:37,451 --> 00:57:39,476 Not anymore. 849 00:57:39,554 --> 00:57:42,250 Well, that's a beautiful thing. 850 00:58:05,713 --> 00:58:07,271 We're coming. 851 00:58:55,162 --> 00:58:58,996 All right. OK. Home again, home again. 852 00:58:59,066 --> 00:59:01,660 - I really love your car. - Oh, thank you. 853 00:59:01,736 --> 00:59:02,930 - Bye. - Bye. 854 00:59:03,004 --> 00:59:05,472 Nice meeting you, um, Ruth. 855 00:59:05,539 --> 00:59:07,404 - Yeah, you too. - Come on, guys. 856 00:59:07,475 --> 00:59:11,343 Actually, um, Dan and I are gonna go for a little drive. 857 00:59:11,412 --> 00:59:12,538 Don't wait up. 858 00:59:14,782 --> 00:59:16,181 Oh. 859 00:59:28,326 --> 00:59:30,627 Mmm, this is fantastic. 860 00:59:30,628 --> 00:59:34,928 I know what the secret ingredient is... love. Mmm. 861 00:59:34,999 --> 00:59:36,694 Better and better with every bite. 862 00:59:36,768 --> 00:59:39,669 - Words cannot describe. - Mmm, thank you. 863 00:59:39,737 --> 00:59:42,137 - Well, how are they? - Dad, they're scrumptious. 864 00:59:42,206 --> 00:59:45,141 Mm-hmm. Truly mouthwatering. 865 00:59:45,209 --> 00:59:47,234 - Almost on my third stack. - More, please. 866 00:59:47,312 --> 00:59:49,906 - And nothing's stopping you, right? - Nope. 867 00:59:49,981 --> 00:59:53,382 It's a secret recipe, but she let me crack the eggs. 868 00:59:53,451 --> 00:59:55,009 Yeah? 869 00:59:55,086 --> 00:59:57,418 So, uh, how's Captain Lucky doing this morning? 870 00:59:57,488 --> 00:59:59,513 - Oh. Uh, it was fun. - Yeah? 871 00:59:59,591 --> 01:00:02,151 Heard you worked up quite the appetite last night. 872 01:00:02,226 --> 01:00:03,887 Yeah. 873 01:00:03,962 --> 01:00:06,396 - Could I have one more there? - There you go. 874 01:00:06,464 --> 01:00:09,262 You know what? Actually, I am a little hungry. 875 01:00:09,334 --> 01:00:12,098 - Secret recipe. Right here. - Boy, these are good. 876 01:00:12,170 --> 01:00:14,832 - I love them. - Thank you. 877 01:00:14,906 --> 01:00:18,706 - How many have you had, Dad? - So did you uncork? 878 01:00:20,345 --> 01:00:23,075 Whatever did or did not happen, no one deserves someone 879 01:00:23,147 --> 01:00:24,409 more than you. 880 01:00:24,482 --> 01:00:27,110 There you go. 881 01:00:27,185 --> 01:00:31,485 - Coin toss. Outside. - Hoo! Hoo! Hoo! Hoo! Hoo! 882 01:00:34,459 --> 01:00:36,086 Yummy. 883 01:01:00,752 --> 01:01:02,515 All right. Nice! 884 01:01:02,587 --> 01:01:05,886 Yeah? You're gonna do that? That what you're gonna do? 885 01:01:05,957 --> 01:01:08,687 Is that how we're gonna play it? Yeah! OK. 886 01:01:08,760 --> 01:01:11,627 All right. Yeah, so you wanna take out my knees, huh? 887 01:01:11,696 --> 01:01:14,164 Come again. 888 01:01:14,232 --> 01:01:16,291 Line up, I need coverage over here. 889 01:01:29,714 --> 01:01:32,649 - Line up! Line up! Here we go! - All right, bring it back. 890 01:01:36,921 --> 01:01:39,412 - Hike! - Hey, pork chop! 891 01:01:41,759 --> 01:01:43,920 - Marie! Marie! - Go, Marie! 892 01:01:59,477 --> 01:02:02,571 Danny! 893 01:02:04,882 --> 01:02:08,147 Why you persist in acting like a 15- year-old is beyond me. 894 01:02:08,219 --> 01:02:09,846 I'm filled with reckless desire. 895 01:02:09,921 --> 01:02:12,185 You ought to be filled with greater restraint. 896 01:02:12,256 --> 01:02:14,952 - What does that mean? - I think you know what that means. 897 01:02:20,098 --> 01:02:22,123 - Dad, could you? - Oh, yeah. 898 01:02:22,200 --> 01:02:23,462 Thanks. 899 01:02:24,402 --> 01:02:27,838 Hello? No, I'm his dad. 900 01:02:27,905 --> 01:02:31,033 Someone named Jordy for you. 901 01:02:34,645 --> 01:02:39,673 Everybody! Everybody! Dan just got a phone call. 902 01:02:39,751 --> 01:02:42,948 And you know, syndication is everything for a columnist. 903 01:02:43,020 --> 01:02:44,510 OK, all right. Let me explain. 904 01:02:44,589 --> 01:02:48,218 Um, I've been asked to meet 905 01:02:48,292 --> 01:02:50,760 with the head mucky-mucks 906 01:02:50,828 --> 01:02:53,524 of the Lamson Newspaper Group. 907 01:02:53,598 --> 01:02:55,862 They're driving down tomorrow 908 01:02:55,933 --> 01:02:59,061 and they are going to sit down with me. 909 01:02:59,137 --> 01:03:02,595 That's great! 910 01:03:02,673 --> 01:03:06,200 - Maybe you should get the job first. - Yes, that's true. 911 01:03:08,212 --> 01:03:09,804 - Dan the man. - Thanks, man. 912 01:03:13,651 --> 01:03:14,811 Well? 913 01:03:16,821 --> 01:03:19,119 Wow. 914 01:03:19,190 --> 01:03:20,452 Wow! 915 01:03:22,560 --> 01:03:24,425 Dad? 916 01:03:24,495 --> 01:03:28,591 Dad? Lilly just asked me why you were flirting with Marie. 917 01:03:31,002 --> 01:03:34,438 - I wasn't flirting. - Don't worry, I covered for you. 918 01:03:34,505 --> 01:03:37,872 - I told her it was nothing. - Because it was. 919 01:03:37,942 --> 01:03:43,073 Dad, I'm 17. OK? You were so flirting. 920 01:03:43,147 --> 01:03:45,707 You know, it doesn't matter anyway. 921 01:03:45,783 --> 01:03:49,048 It's not like she's the least bit interested in you. 922 01:03:49,120 --> 01:03:52,317 But cool it, OK? 923 01:03:57,762 --> 01:04:00,663 - And, um, congratulations. - Thanks. 924 01:04:43,741 --> 01:04:48,940 Look, he took a bus here. He has relatives in Boston. Dad... 925 01:04:49,013 --> 01:04:50,981 Dad, he loves me! 926 01:04:51,048 --> 01:04:53,676 OK. 927 01:04:53,751 --> 01:04:56,242 You don't have to worry. 928 01:04:56,320 --> 01:05:00,518 When it comes to sex, Marty is the one who wants to wait. 929 01:05:00,591 --> 01:05:04,755 What about that sentence is supposed to give me comfort? 930 01:05:04,829 --> 01:05:06,626 - Dad, I love him. - Honey... 931 01:05:06,697 --> 01:05:08,130 I love him. 932 01:05:08,199 --> 01:05:11,862 - I love him. I love him. - No, you don't. 933 01:05:11,936 --> 01:05:14,666 What we have is true love. 934 01:05:14,739 --> 01:05:16,730 And just because you don't have it, 935 01:05:16,807 --> 01:05:19,605 doesn't mean you have to punish us. 936 01:05:19,677 --> 01:05:24,171 Infatuation is not love. Sexual attraction is not love. 937 01:05:24,248 --> 01:05:26,910 - You don't understand. - Uh, I don't understand. 938 01:05:26,984 --> 01:05:29,851 No, you don't even understand that you don't understand. 939 01:05:29,921 --> 01:05:33,288 What don't I understand, Cara? Please, help me out. 940 01:05:33,357 --> 01:05:36,520 What is it? It's frustrating that you can't be with this person? 941 01:05:36,594 --> 01:05:39,085 That... that there's something keeping you apart, 942 01:05:39,163 --> 01:05:41,529 something about this person you connect with? 943 01:05:41,599 --> 01:05:43,863 And whenever you're near this person, 944 01:05:43,935 --> 01:05:46,335 you don't know what to say, and you say everything 945 01:05:46,404 --> 01:05:48,235 that's in your mind and in your heart. 946 01:05:48,306 --> 01:05:50,866 And you know that if you could just be together, 947 01:05:50,942 --> 01:05:54,708 that this person will help you become the best possible version of yourself. 948 01:05:54,779 --> 01:05:57,111 So Marty can stay? 949 01:06:02,987 --> 01:06:04,784 I'm sorry. 950 01:06:07,892 --> 01:06:10,486 I'm sorry. 951 01:06:16,467 --> 01:06:18,958 "Marty can stay?" 952 01:06:19,737 --> 01:06:21,671 Howard is going to drive you to the bus. 953 01:06:21,739 --> 01:06:23,969 We called your aunt, she's waiting in Boston. 954 01:06:24,041 --> 01:06:26,100 - Yes, sir. - Look, I'm not your parent, 955 01:06:26,177 --> 01:06:28,907 but I think you should know, love is a dangerous feeling. 956 01:06:28,980 --> 01:06:31,073 - No, sir. - Are you arguing with me? 957 01:06:31,148 --> 01:06:34,515 No, I'm... It's just... 958 01:06:38,923 --> 01:06:41,414 Love is not a feeling, it's an ability. 959 01:06:41,492 --> 01:06:45,519 - Who told you that? - Made it up, Mr. Burns. 960 01:06:50,668 --> 01:06:52,295 Come say goodbye. 961 01:06:55,940 --> 01:06:58,841 Window. OK, that's it. 962 01:06:58,909 --> 01:07:01,707 - Dad. - She'll see him again soon enough. 963 01:07:04,615 --> 01:07:07,743 No! No! 964 01:07:07,818 --> 01:07:11,845 No! Marty! Marty! Marty! 965 01:07:14,392 --> 01:07:16,690 - That's sweet. - What's sweet? 966 01:07:16,761 --> 01:07:18,626 How... How is that sweet? 967 01:07:18,696 --> 01:07:21,722 It's OK. It's OK. Come on, it's OK. 968 01:07:21,799 --> 01:07:25,098 To be that certain. To feel so much love. 969 01:07:26,704 --> 01:07:30,071 - Love isn't a feeling. - No? 970 01:07:31,876 --> 01:07:33,935 It's an ability. 971 01:07:37,481 --> 01:07:41,417 Well, if that's true, you have one gifted daughter. 972 01:07:43,621 --> 01:07:48,581 You are a murderer of love! 973 01:07:54,832 --> 01:07:55,999 OK, Cara. Next? 974 01:07:57,234 --> 01:07:59,668 Uh, Olivia has something with the girls. 975 01:07:59,737 --> 01:08:03,537 Gus will be doing his usual. Bella is on the fence. 976 01:08:03,607 --> 01:08:07,407 - Howard and I will sing. - Oh, that's nice. Aunt Eileen? 977 01:08:07,478 --> 01:08:09,742 - Put me down. - Oh, really? What's your talent? 978 01:08:09,814 --> 01:08:13,011 Murderer of love. 979 01:08:13,084 --> 01:08:14,142 You were saying? 980 01:08:14,218 --> 01:08:16,846 We have something planned for the whole family. 981 01:08:16,921 --> 01:08:18,320 Put us all down. 982 01:08:31,902 --> 01:08:35,861 - What's your Dad's talent? - Doesn't have one. 983 01:08:35,940 --> 01:08:39,034 He's the only one excused from participating. 984 01:08:40,177 --> 01:08:41,701 I give you Bella Wilson. 985 01:08:41,779 --> 01:08:44,213 All right, Bella! 986 01:08:44,281 --> 01:08:46,511 Chihuahua. 987 01:08:49,553 --> 01:08:51,180 - Go, Bella. - You OK? 988 01:08:51,255 --> 01:08:53,883 - I don't have a good feeling. - Do what you always do. 989 01:08:53,958 --> 01:08:57,359 Marie is not a lip-sync kinda girl. 990 01:08:57,428 --> 01:09:01,421 - I gotta do something special. - Just... be yourself. 991 01:09:01,499 --> 01:09:05,265 Bulldog. 992 01:09:05,336 --> 01:09:09,898 Ruff! Ruff! 993 01:09:11,742 --> 01:09:14,905 That's... 994 01:09:21,318 --> 01:09:24,185 - This is for Marty. - Want me to take the cherries? 995 01:09:24,255 --> 01:09:27,224 - Mm. Uh-uh. - OK. 996 01:09:45,876 --> 01:09:48,640 Wow! 997 01:09:48,712 --> 01:09:49,804 She tied it! 998 01:10:14,538 --> 01:10:17,974 - I got an idea. - I'm sure it'll be great. 999 01:10:18,042 --> 01:10:20,169 It could be. 1000 01:10:25,082 --> 01:10:28,483 OK, last but not least, Uncle Mitch. 1001 01:10:28,552 --> 01:10:32,488 Uh, someone very wise, uh, my brother, 1002 01:10:32,556 --> 01:10:35,150 once told me that if you 1003 01:10:35,226 --> 01:10:38,821 want to be completely honest, sing. 1004 01:10:40,297 --> 01:10:42,993 Um, by the way, I'd like to introduce my band. 1005 01:10:44,435 --> 01:10:48,098 I don't believe it. He hasn't played since she... 1006 01:10:48,172 --> 01:10:50,333 One, two, three, four. 1007 01:12:02,446 --> 01:12:03,970 Ah! 1008 01:12:29,273 --> 01:12:31,400 Yeah, Uncle Mitch! 1009 01:13:10,848 --> 01:13:14,215 What he said. 1010 01:13:23,994 --> 01:13:26,155 Great job, guys. 1011 01:13:35,272 --> 01:13:37,365 What was that? 1012 01:13:37,441 --> 01:13:40,706 I couldn't... I couldn't stop myself. 1013 01:13:40,778 --> 01:13:43,679 What am I supposed to do now? 1014 01:13:43,747 --> 01:13:46,545 You can't do anything. He's my brother. 1015 01:13:46,617 --> 01:13:49,745 Why did you sing for me... then? 1016 01:13:49,820 --> 01:13:54,189 Because I... I'm... 1017 01:13:58,729 --> 01:14:00,629 Page 92. "Did I just die? 1018 01:14:00,697 --> 01:14:02,858 Because an angel walked into the room." 1019 01:14:02,933 --> 01:14:08,166 Page 148. Uh, "I'll forgive you your past if you'll forgive me mine." 1020 01:14:08,238 --> 01:14:10,638 It seems all his best lines were yours. 1021 01:14:14,611 --> 01:14:18,809 It's unbearable. I... 1022 01:14:18,882 --> 01:14:20,850 I can't keep pretending. 1023 01:14:24,988 --> 01:14:26,683 St... 1024 01:14:36,567 --> 01:14:40,128 - Dad? - Yeah, peanut. 1025 01:14:40,204 --> 01:14:43,662 Will you come up to my room? I wanna show you something I made. 1026 01:14:43,740 --> 01:14:47,141 Um, we'll do it tomorrow. OK, sweetie? I promise. 1027 01:14:49,746 --> 01:14:51,338 OK, Dad. 1028 01:14:56,820 --> 01:14:59,118 Oh, God! 1029 01:15:05,362 --> 01:15:08,092 - Hey, what's going on? - Shh. 1030 01:15:10,934 --> 01:15:14,131 What is complicated being here? My singing. 1031 01:15:14,204 --> 01:15:16,195 - I shouldn't have sang. - I know this. 1032 01:15:16,273 --> 01:15:17,797 No. It's not... 1033 01:15:17,875 --> 01:15:22,778 - It was a bad song. I... - Is she crying or laughing? 1034 01:15:26,617 --> 01:15:30,849 - Oh, no, no, no. Please. - Please don't do it. 1035 01:15:30,921 --> 01:15:34,118 Marie... 1036 01:15:44,067 --> 01:15:45,898 Here he comes. 1037 01:15:45,969 --> 01:15:47,994 Mom! 1038 01:15:48,071 --> 01:15:52,098 Uh, no, no, no, no. I don't know what to say to him. I never lost a girl. 1039 01:15:52,175 --> 01:15:55,235 - Oh, good. This is a first. - Wow. 1040 01:15:55,312 --> 01:15:58,577 OK. Oh, uh, oh, yeah, I'll follow through with these. 1041 01:16:02,753 --> 01:16:04,914 Please stop trying to act normal. 1042 01:16:13,597 --> 01:16:16,157 Said I was a great guy. 1043 01:16:16,233 --> 01:16:19,430 She said she loved me a lot. 1044 01:16:19,503 --> 01:16:22,961 And then she said... 1045 01:16:23,040 --> 01:16:25,838 ...we should both go find our own true soul mates. 1046 01:16:25,909 --> 01:16:28,400 I'm so confused. I don't really know what happened 1047 01:16:28,478 --> 01:16:31,936 from yesterday to today that made this happen. 1048 01:16:32,015 --> 01:16:35,610 There has to be something. You know, some reason she... 1049 01:16:35,686 --> 01:16:38,678 - Why are you looking at me? - Not looking at you. 1050 01:16:38,755 --> 01:16:42,919 He's looking into the vast void that is his future. You just happen to be there. 1051 01:16:42,993 --> 01:16:45,791 Danny, do you have anything to add? 1052 01:16:45,862 --> 01:16:48,228 Yeah, what does the expert have to say? Come on. 1053 01:16:48,298 --> 01:16:52,234 - Uh... - Honey, the hard truth is 1054 01:16:52,302 --> 01:16:54,270 we all liked her a lot. 1055 01:16:54,338 --> 01:16:59,173 Yeah, we really did. 1056 01:16:59,242 --> 01:17:02,075 This isn't helping. No. 1057 01:17:02,145 --> 01:17:05,774 Could somebody think of something fun to do? 1058 01:17:05,849 --> 01:17:08,249 OK, OK, um... OK, OK. 1059 01:17:08,318 --> 01:17:10,548 Part of the Rat Pack! Singer. Um, um... 1060 01:17:10,621 --> 01:17:14,387 Dean Martin! Sammy Davis, Jr! 1061 01:17:15,692 --> 01:17:17,990 Yes! 1062 01:17:18,061 --> 01:17:20,222 Your turn, buddy. Come on. Let's do it. 1063 01:17:22,833 --> 01:17:24,767 OK. 1064 01:17:24,835 --> 01:17:26,234 Go! 1065 01:17:26,303 --> 01:17:29,363 - This is a, uh, gift... - Hi, Jordy. 1066 01:17:29,439 --> 01:17:31,430 - You can't talk. - No, but go on. 1067 01:17:31,508 --> 01:17:34,204 - I had to leave. - I know. 1068 01:17:34,277 --> 01:17:37,872 - Ben Franklin! - But the truth is, um... 1069 01:17:37,948 --> 01:17:40,143 - Yes? - ... I didn't get very far. 1070 01:17:40,217 --> 01:17:43,186 Beautiful smile, lovely eyes, one-of-a-kind woman. 1071 01:17:43,253 --> 01:17:45,847 - Marie! - Yes. 1072 01:17:45,922 --> 01:17:49,187 Oh, honey, don't, don't, don't... 1073 01:17:55,165 --> 01:17:58,191 - Dad? - Hey, you. 1074 01:17:58,268 --> 01:18:03,001 - Can I show you what I made? - First thing when I get back, OK? 1075 01:18:03,073 --> 01:18:05,132 OK. 1076 01:18:18,121 --> 01:18:20,612 - You again. - Nice to see you, officer. 1077 01:18:20,691 --> 01:18:23,182 - How are you today? - You know why I pulled you over? 1078 01:18:23,260 --> 01:18:28,027 I sure do. I know what I was doing and I know it's all wrong. 1079 01:18:28,098 --> 01:18:31,397 - This is gonna cost you. - Put it on my tab. 1080 01:18:31,468 --> 01:18:35,336 - What was that? - Put it on my tab. 1081 01:19:03,633 --> 01:19:07,797 What are we doing? 1082 01:19:09,005 --> 01:19:11,166 - It may be wrong. - Yes. 1083 01:19:11,241 --> 01:19:14,733 But there's a certain rightness to our wrongness, I think. 1084 01:19:14,811 --> 01:19:17,279 I think, um, we've got to think. 1085 01:19:17,347 --> 01:19:19,941 I mean, your girls, and how do we? 1086 01:19:20,016 --> 01:19:21,813 They're extraordinary and... 1087 01:19:25,288 --> 01:19:30,749 - What? - I think this is all premature. 1088 01:19:34,798 --> 01:19:37,699 You do? 1089 01:19:40,237 --> 01:19:42,671 We don't even know if you can bowl. 1090 01:20:00,524 --> 01:20:02,856 All right. No, don't! Wait. 1091 01:20:02,926 --> 01:20:04,484 Wait. No, no. You have to line up. 1092 01:20:04,561 --> 01:20:05,892 - Leave me alone! - Line up. 1093 01:20:05,962 --> 01:20:08,430 - Come on. - You come on. All right. 1094 01:20:08,498 --> 01:20:10,728 I'm just watching you. I'm not... 1095 01:20:10,801 --> 01:20:13,770 - Ready? - Woo! 1096 01:20:13,837 --> 01:20:17,773 Oh! Thank you. 1097 01:20:18,909 --> 01:20:20,740 That's... 1098 01:20:20,811 --> 01:20:24,303 I liked that. That was a terrible shot, but I loved this at the end. 1099 01:20:24,381 --> 01:20:27,179 Oh, I wouldn't go yet. 1100 01:20:29,553 --> 01:20:33,683 Not bad. That's good. 1101 01:20:40,330 --> 01:20:42,525 You're gonna break your arm like that. 1102 01:20:42,599 --> 01:20:46,091 Oh! 1103 01:20:46,169 --> 01:20:48,535 No, no. Don't do it. 1104 01:20:54,477 --> 01:20:57,037 Oh, come on, come on, come on! 1105 01:20:57,113 --> 01:20:59,604 - Yay! - Let's go at the same time. 1106 01:20:59,683 --> 01:21:01,674 One, two, three. 1107 01:21:27,744 --> 01:21:29,837 Dad? 1108 01:21:29,913 --> 01:21:32,006 Oh, my God. Dad, what are you doing? 1109 01:21:32,082 --> 01:21:34,380 - Oh... - What the hell? Marie? 1110 01:21:34,451 --> 01:21:36,316 - Hey. - What the hell's going on? 1111 01:21:36,386 --> 01:21:38,513 - We'll go. - They were just kissing. 1112 01:21:38,588 --> 01:21:41,250 I can explain. 1113 01:21:42,759 --> 01:21:44,750 - You two broke up, right? - Two hours ago. 1114 01:21:44,828 --> 01:21:47,956 - We broke up two hours ago. - I know, I know, I know. 1115 01:21:48,031 --> 01:21:49,521 I thought that you left. 1116 01:21:49,599 --> 01:21:53,194 She did. She left, but she just didn't get very far. 1117 01:21:53,270 --> 01:21:55,738 - What? - I can explain this. 1118 01:21:55,805 --> 01:21:58,069 - Yeah, let him explain. - OK. 1119 01:21:58,141 --> 01:22:03,169 Remember the woman at the bookstore? Here she is. 1120 01:22:05,115 --> 01:22:07,208 You told me to go after her, and I didn't. 1121 01:22:07,284 --> 01:22:09,047 It wasn't planned, Mitch. 1122 01:22:09,119 --> 01:22:13,215 I know how this looks. But, Mitch, I also know how it feels. 1123 01:22:13,290 --> 01:22:15,258 How does this feel, you son of a bitch? 1124 01:22:15,325 --> 01:22:17,293 Oh, my God! 1125 01:22:17,360 --> 01:22:19,692 - What happened? - I'm so sorry. 1126 01:22:19,763 --> 01:22:22,197 Everybody, take it easy. You're not helping. 1127 01:22:22,265 --> 01:22:24,893 - Oh, no. - I'm sorry. 1128 01:22:24,968 --> 01:22:28,495 Oh, darling. Get some ice. Oh! 1129 01:22:28,571 --> 01:22:31,597 - Dan, you all right? You OK? - Marie! 1130 01:22:31,675 --> 01:22:34,473 No, don't go! 1131 01:22:34,544 --> 01:22:37,172 I don't know what we were thinking. 1132 01:22:39,149 --> 01:22:40,514 I'm sorry. 1133 01:22:40,583 --> 01:22:43,882 Don't go. 1134 01:22:48,525 --> 01:22:50,390 Dad? Get... 1135 01:22:50,460 --> 01:22:52,758 Dad, wait! 1136 01:22:52,829 --> 01:22:57,232 What are you doing? Dad! 1137 01:23:07,911 --> 01:23:11,142 All right, this is your summons for your court appearance. 1138 01:23:11,214 --> 01:23:14,479 One last thing. You need to surrender your license. 1139 01:23:29,032 --> 01:23:30,897 You have guests. 1140 01:23:34,237 --> 01:23:36,933 - Oh! Speak of the devil. Hi. - Hi. 1141 01:23:37,007 --> 01:23:40,135 Cindy Lamson. Editor of special features, Lamson Newspaper Group. 1142 01:23:40,210 --> 01:23:41,973 - Hi. - Jim Lamson, publisher. 1143 01:23:42,045 --> 01:23:43,842 - Nice to meet you. - Yes. 1144 01:23:43,913 --> 01:23:47,041 We've been sitting here chatting with your family. 1145 01:23:47,117 --> 01:23:50,883 We've especially enjoyed the pleasure of meeting your lovely daughters. 1146 01:23:50,954 --> 01:23:52,785 - Oh. - Hot cider? 1147 01:23:52,856 --> 01:23:55,882 Thank you. That looks... Thank you very much. 1148 01:23:55,959 --> 01:23:58,359 Looks great. Thanks. 1149 01:23:59,796 --> 01:24:02,424 Father? Hot cider? 1150 01:24:02,499 --> 01:24:04,490 Not only are you a murderer of love, 1151 01:24:04,567 --> 01:24:06,558 but you're the worst parent ever. 1152 01:24:08,071 --> 01:24:10,471 Sweet. 1153 01:24:10,540 --> 01:24:13,509 Well, um, as you probably know, 1154 01:24:13,576 --> 01:24:15,874 we have met with two other candidates, 1155 01:24:15,945 --> 01:24:18,004 but my father and I are confident 1156 01:24:18,081 --> 01:24:20,606 that we have saved the best for last. 1157 01:24:22,786 --> 01:24:24,583 Uh, girls. You can leave if you like. 1158 01:24:24,654 --> 01:24:27,748 Oh. If it's all right, perhaps they should stay. 1159 01:24:27,824 --> 01:24:29,849 We like to keep the family involved. 1160 01:24:29,926 --> 01:24:34,022 Well, Dan, here, he knows all about keeping things in the family. 1161 01:24:34,097 --> 01:24:36,691 - Don't you, Dan? - That's why we're so drawn to you. 1162 01:24:36,766 --> 01:24:39,633 What you represent in your column, your moral values. 1163 01:24:39,702 --> 01:24:43,263 The personal characteristics that are reflected in your writing, 1164 01:24:43,339 --> 01:24:46,365 - Very impressive. - Honesty, trustworthiness... 1165 01:24:46,443 --> 01:24:48,570 And we have great plans for you, Dan. 1166 01:24:48,645 --> 01:24:53,082 What we try to do is what you keep telling your readers to do. 1167 01:24:53,149 --> 01:24:56,209 - What's that? - Put family first. 1168 01:24:56,286 --> 01:24:59,517 OK. OK. Here's the thing. 1169 01:25:01,191 --> 01:25:04,592 Somebody hasn't been reading his own column. 1170 01:25:04,661 --> 01:25:08,654 I'm not sure what that means. 1171 01:25:20,543 --> 01:25:25,742 Go away. You're a liar and a hypocrite. Cheating with your brother's girlfriend? 1172 01:25:25,815 --> 01:25:27,180 How long did you know her? 1173 01:25:27,250 --> 01:25:31,778 Two moving violations and a collision? Was that part of the plan? 1174 01:25:31,855 --> 01:25:34,483 Worst of all, you blew off Lilly. 1175 01:25:34,557 --> 01:25:37,390 She's been wanting to show you something she made for you. 1176 01:25:37,460 --> 01:25:39,690 But you never showed up. 1177 01:27:08,751 --> 01:27:10,685 Hm. 1178 01:27:12,989 --> 01:27:15,253 - I really messed up. - No, you didn't. 1179 01:27:15,325 --> 01:27:18,590 Yeah, I did, Mom. What I did to Lilly. 1180 01:27:18,661 --> 01:27:21,425 - Don't forget Mitch. - Oh, John. 1181 01:27:21,497 --> 01:27:23,829 And those newspaper people. 1182 01:27:23,900 --> 01:27:26,869 Admittedly, not a good day for you, honey. 1183 01:27:26,936 --> 01:27:30,929 If I just stay focused on being their dad... 1184 01:27:31,007 --> 01:27:34,238 Oh, please. You know, love is messy. 1185 01:27:34,310 --> 01:27:38,269 I should know better. I hurt my kids. 1186 01:27:38,348 --> 01:27:40,373 Go un-hurt them. 1187 01:27:40,450 --> 01:27:44,784 - Honey, you've made some mistakes. - Many, so many. 1188 01:27:44,854 --> 01:27:47,721 Falling for Marie wasn't one of them. 1189 01:27:51,527 --> 01:27:54,189 Can somebody get me another box, please? 1190 01:27:54,264 --> 01:27:56,698 Yep, yep. Coming. 1191 01:27:58,701 --> 01:28:00,134 Mitch. 1192 01:28:01,971 --> 01:28:03,404 Mitch, I... 1193 01:28:08,011 --> 01:28:10,172 If it was anybody else... 1194 01:28:10,847 --> 01:28:13,543 I am so... 1195 01:28:15,685 --> 01:28:18,245 Hold that thought. 1196 01:28:23,893 --> 01:28:26,418 Hey, beautiful. 1197 01:28:44,180 --> 01:28:50,119 Girls, I'd like to talk to Lilly alone, if I could. 1198 01:29:01,497 --> 01:29:03,294 OK, then. All of you. 1199 01:29:13,943 --> 01:29:16,207 I know I messed up. Big time. 1200 01:29:16,279 --> 01:29:18,144 - Yep. - Yes, you did. 1201 01:29:18,214 --> 01:29:21,980 Now, your mom... 1202 01:29:24,153 --> 01:29:25,780 I miss your mom. 1203 01:29:25,855 --> 01:29:28,756 All the time and I always will. 1204 01:29:28,825 --> 01:29:33,125 - Mom's gone. - Aw, honey. I see her every day. 1205 01:29:33,196 --> 01:29:35,824 I see her in your goodness, Jane. 1206 01:29:35,898 --> 01:29:39,595 And, Cara, your passion. 1207 01:29:39,669 --> 01:29:43,571 And, Lilly, you have her eyes. 1208 01:29:43,639 --> 01:29:45,334 And her smile. 1209 01:29:47,543 --> 01:29:49,568 So here's what I'm going to do: 1210 01:29:49,645 --> 01:29:53,081 I am grounding myself for life. 1211 01:29:53,149 --> 01:29:56,812 I'm sticking with you. I am going to be with you... 1212 01:29:56,886 --> 01:30:01,482 - You're with us every day. - I'm not going anywhere. 1213 01:30:01,557 --> 01:30:05,220 See, I got a little confused with Marie, 1214 01:30:05,294 --> 01:30:09,492 but that is over. OK? 1215 01:30:09,565 --> 01:30:13,501 I kinda lost my head. 1216 01:30:13,569 --> 01:30:17,903 Got a little stupid because I love her. 1217 01:30:17,974 --> 01:30:22,638 That's... That's not... 1218 01:30:22,712 --> 01:30:25,112 I don't love her. And that's not what I meant. 1219 01:30:25,181 --> 01:30:27,945 I mean, how could I love her? I've only known her... 1220 01:30:28,017 --> 01:30:31,509 - Three days. - Yeah. 1221 01:30:31,587 --> 01:30:35,250 And how can you know in three days? 1222 01:30:39,295 --> 01:30:40,694 I don't know. 1223 01:30:40,763 --> 01:30:44,494 Yes, I do. I love her. 1224 01:30:44,567 --> 01:30:46,660 I love her. I love her. 1225 01:30:46,736 --> 01:30:50,672 I love her. I love... 1226 01:30:50,740 --> 01:30:52,264 I love her. 1227 01:30:55,578 --> 01:30:57,239 Then go get her. 1228 01:30:59,182 --> 01:31:01,412 We so prefer her to you. 1229 01:31:11,394 --> 01:31:12,520 Go. 1230 01:31:16,532 --> 01:31:18,591 - Now. - Oh. 1231 01:31:27,043 --> 01:31:29,534 Honey. Honey. For the road. 1232 01:31:39,121 --> 01:31:41,112 - What is it? - I can't do it. 1233 01:31:41,190 --> 01:31:43,351 - You must. - I don't have a license. 1234 01:32:00,877 --> 01:32:04,040 I'm pretty good with maps. 1235 01:32:04,113 --> 01:32:08,982 This is so queer. But I wouldn't miss it for anything. 1236 01:32:20,530 --> 01:32:22,794 Dear readers, for most of you, 1237 01:32:22,865 --> 01:32:26,266 this is my first column in your paper. 1238 01:32:26,335 --> 01:32:28,963 In the future, I will be answering your questions, 1239 01:32:29,038 --> 01:32:32,633 but today, I wanna break from my usual format and talk to you 1240 01:32:32,708 --> 01:32:35,734 about the subject of plans. 1241 01:32:35,811 --> 01:32:39,770 Not so much my plan for this column, more like life plans. 1242 01:32:39,849 --> 01:32:41,476 How we all make them. 1243 01:32:41,551 --> 01:32:46,682 And how we hope that our kids make good, smart, safe plans of their own. 1244 01:32:46,756 --> 01:32:50,089 But if we're really honest with ourselves, 1245 01:32:50,159 --> 01:32:54,528 most of the time our plans don't work out as we'd hoped. 1246 01:32:59,201 --> 01:33:01,396 So instead of asking our young people, 1247 01:33:01,470 --> 01:33:05,429 "What are your plans? What do you plan to do with your life?" 1248 01:33:05,508 --> 01:33:10,844 Maybe we should tell them this: Plan to be surprised. 1249 01:34:32,261 --> 01:34:34,320 It's falling out. 1250 01:37:47,523 --> 01:37:49,047 And that's it. 1251 01:37:59,048 --> 01:38:01,148 Hearing Impaired removed by LeapinLar