0 00:03:06,687 --> 00:03:08,678 Oh, I'm sorry. 1 00:03:08,847 --> 00:03:14,479 It's so hot in here, and I can't figure this stupid thing out. 2 00:03:15,327 --> 00:03:16,840 I signed the papers. 3 00:03:18,767 --> 00:03:20,280 Wow! 4 00:03:22,767 --> 00:03:24,917 How are you feeling? 5 00:03:25,087 --> 00:03:27,396 Terrible. 6 00:03:27,607 --> 00:03:31,395 Francis was there. Obviously, he was there. 7 00:03:31,567 --> 00:03:36,561 It was really hard to see him. And he signed so fast. 8 00:03:36,967 --> 00:03:40,357 I at least pretended to look things over, one last time. 9 00:03:40,527 --> 00:03:45,999 Well, he sounds terrified to me. It's going to take a while. 10 00:03:46,167 --> 00:03:50,604 I mean, 9 years, Rafi. You can't just walk away from that kind of time. 11 00:03:53,287 --> 00:03:59,601 The crazy thing is... I'm out of this marriage, what, 5 minutes? 12 00:03:59,807 --> 00:04:04,039 All of the sudden, I just... 13 00:04:05,447 --> 00:04:09,042 I find myself thinking about... 14 00:04:09,367 --> 00:04:10,846 a baby. 15 00:04:11,087 --> 00:04:14,477 Why now? Why didn't I think about this when I was married? 16 00:04:14,647 --> 00:04:20,165 Well, on a certain level, you knew this was not the right man. 17 00:04:20,327 --> 00:04:24,559 So, you were protecting yourself, in that way. That was a good thing. 18 00:04:24,887 --> 00:04:27,959 You're coming alive again. 19 00:04:28,127 --> 00:04:32,598 You just want all the things that you had to forget, that you could have. 20 00:04:33,287 --> 00:04:36,359 That's a very good place to move into. 21 00:04:36,687 --> 00:04:41,636 And the baby thing will happen, when it's the right time. 22 00:04:41,807 --> 00:04:46,323 But just focus on the now, for now. 23 00:04:54,767 --> 00:04:59,045 Hey, Dave, it's Morris. Listen, I got a favor to ask you. 24 00:04:59,207 --> 00:05:01,801 I went out with this girl, and... 25 00:05:01,967 --> 00:05:06,757 she told me never to call again, so I need you to come with me, this time. 26 00:05:06,927 --> 00:05:11,921 Don't freak out, all right? I'm just not sure how to get to Bay Ridge. 27 00:05:12,087 --> 00:05:13,076 Bye. 28 00:05:15,687 --> 00:05:19,475 Why do I have to be involved? You have an incurable sickness. 29 00:05:19,647 --> 00:05:22,957 That's okay, but why do I have to be involved? 30 00:05:23,127 --> 00:05:27,803 How are you involved? - I'm in the car. It makes me an accessory. 31 00:05:27,967 --> 00:05:29,764 What, like a handbag? - Morris. 32 00:05:30,767 --> 00:05:34,123 So, who is it this time? Don't. I don't want to know. 33 00:05:34,327 --> 00:05:37,239 Her dad's probably in waste management. 34 00:05:37,407 --> 00:05:39,602 Why will no girl date you twice? 35 00:05:40,167 --> 00:05:44,285 One date, it's over. What do you do? - It's a mystery to me, too. 36 00:05:49,007 --> 00:05:52,204 Are you a hermaphrodite? Do you have Hantavirus? 37 00:05:52,367 --> 00:05:55,006 This is it. Come on. 38 00:05:55,167 --> 00:05:57,556 Hurry up. I'm meeting Michelle later. 39 00:05:57,807 --> 00:06:00,082 Michelle? - Just make it quick. 40 00:06:20,127 --> 00:06:22,197 Hi. - Why are you here? 41 00:06:22,367 --> 00:06:26,519 I said I never wanted to see you again. - Come out, let's talk. 42 00:06:26,687 --> 00:06:30,077 I can't believe this. You have no respect for women. 43 00:06:30,247 --> 00:06:33,398 I'm sorry. - You hurt my feelings. You bastard! 44 00:06:33,607 --> 00:06:35,438 I can't believe you're... 45 00:06:37,087 --> 00:06:40,284 Mikey! Joey! Come out here! - I'm going to go. 46 00:06:40,527 --> 00:06:43,405 Mikey! Joey! Get out here! - Mikey? Joey? Go! 47 00:06:43,567 --> 00:06:47,321 Get in the car! Go! 48 00:06:53,767 --> 00:06:54,756 Shit! 49 00:06:59,087 --> 00:07:02,477 That was not funny. 50 00:07:12,247 --> 00:07:14,283 Meeting Michelle. - Yup. 51 00:07:14,447 --> 00:07:16,802 What are you going to see, 'Beaches'? 52 00:07:16,967 --> 00:07:20,562 You're the wind beneath my wings. - You know you're my hero? 53 00:07:20,727 --> 00:07:21,796 Have fun. - Okay. 54 00:07:31,007 --> 00:07:34,443 Randall! I remember your name. What's going on? 55 00:07:34,607 --> 00:07:37,838 Nothing much. 56 00:07:38,007 --> 00:07:42,080 This is my friend Katherine, and this is my friend Rafi. 57 00:07:43,247 --> 00:07:45,124 Hi. - Hi. 58 00:07:45,287 --> 00:07:47,005 So, what are you doing here? 59 00:07:47,247 --> 00:07:49,602 I thought I'd see a movie. - Right. 60 00:07:49,767 --> 00:07:52,201 You embarrassed to be seen with me? - What? 61 00:07:52,367 --> 00:07:55,803 It's okay,just tell me. - He's funny. Where'd you get him? 62 00:07:55,967 --> 00:08:00,961 He works at TravelArt, and... - We met. 63 00:08:01,447 --> 00:08:02,675 Hey. 64 00:08:04,647 --> 00:08:06,877 I'm sorry... - Hi. Michelle. 65 00:08:07,047 --> 00:08:08,639 Got tickets? - Not yet. 66 00:08:08,807 --> 00:08:10,399 Are you seeing this? - Yeah. 67 00:08:10,567 --> 00:08:14,242 That's great! We'll be in... 68 00:08:16,327 --> 00:08:20,115 Get in the bun. Get in the bun. 69 00:08:35,847 --> 00:08:37,326 It's locked. 70 00:08:39,287 --> 00:08:40,276 What? 71 00:08:40,967 --> 00:08:43,242 The door, it won't open. 72 00:08:46,327 --> 00:08:49,000 So, does this happen to you a lot? 73 00:08:49,687 --> 00:08:51,962 Actually, not often enough. 74 00:08:54,007 --> 00:08:55,076 What do we do? 75 00:08:56,767 --> 00:08:59,361 Wait till somebody comes out? 76 00:09:01,127 --> 00:09:03,004 Right. 77 00:09:24,207 --> 00:09:25,640 Thank you. 78 00:09:27,967 --> 00:09:29,639 How long you been dating? 79 00:09:29,887 --> 00:09:32,321 A couple of weeks. - We're not dating. 80 00:09:32,727 --> 00:09:33,842 Next question. 81 00:09:34,047 --> 00:09:36,197 I mean, we only went out twice. 82 00:09:36,367 --> 00:09:38,483 You consider that dating? - I did. 83 00:09:39,007 --> 00:09:41,237 I'm sorry. 84 00:09:42,087 --> 00:09:46,160 Dating sounds so serious. Like you've gone out for a few months. 85 00:09:46,327 --> 00:09:49,478 You don't live together, but you stay over a lot. 86 00:09:49,647 --> 00:09:53,799 Don't worry about who paid for the meal. You've seen each other pee. 87 00:09:54,007 --> 00:09:58,558 More serious stuff. - Then, what do you call this? 88 00:09:58,727 --> 00:10:02,436 Well, there are officially no cute boys left, here. 89 00:10:02,607 --> 00:10:03,676 So nice... 90 00:10:03,847 --> 00:10:08,682 It was nice to meet you. - Nice to meet you, too. 91 00:10:08,847 --> 00:10:14,399 Dave. Very nice to see you... - Good night. Bye... 92 00:10:27,127 --> 00:10:29,641 1, 2, 3, 4. 93 00:10:37,767 --> 00:10:40,361 Just fucking call her. 94 00:10:50,927 --> 00:10:52,155 Hello? 95 00:10:53,967 --> 00:10:55,195 Hello? 96 00:11:14,447 --> 00:11:17,962 Hello? - Hi, it's Dave... Bloomberg. 97 00:11:18,967 --> 00:11:20,320 Did you just call me? 98 00:11:21,647 --> 00:11:25,686 Yes. - We get disconnected? 99 00:11:25,887 --> 00:11:27,081 No. 100 00:11:28,127 --> 00:11:29,276 Did you hang up? 101 00:11:31,887 --> 00:11:37,405 They say it's better to lie sometimes, but I can't, when I'm this nervous. 102 00:11:37,567 --> 00:11:40,240 It's better this way. I've heard enough lies. 103 00:11:40,407 --> 00:11:43,160 Had a lot of liars in your life? - What? 104 00:11:43,927 --> 00:11:45,246 Shit! 105 00:11:47,327 --> 00:11:49,841 Would you like to go out to dinner? 106 00:11:50,207 --> 00:11:51,242 Tomorrow? 107 00:11:51,407 --> 00:11:54,365 I'm making a sandwich. You want one? 108 00:11:54,527 --> 00:11:56,324 No, I'm fine. 109 00:11:56,487 --> 00:12:00,639 Who's that? - My roommates. You want to have dinner? 110 00:12:03,167 --> 00:12:04,759 Yes. - Yeah? 111 00:12:05,487 --> 00:12:07,205 I'll call you tomorrow. 112 00:12:08,207 --> 00:12:10,596 Okay. 113 00:12:10,847 --> 00:12:13,600 Okay. 114 00:12:13,767 --> 00:12:15,519 Bye. - Bye. 115 00:12:21,687 --> 00:12:24,042 Okay, Grandma. 116 00:12:24,727 --> 00:12:29,198 What kind of sandwich we talking about? 117 00:12:40,167 --> 00:12:43,955 I'm here to see Rafi Gardet. My name's Dave. 118 00:12:50,447 --> 00:12:53,007 Raphael, it's Damien. 119 00:12:53,167 --> 00:12:56,000 There's a... - It's Dave. 120 00:12:56,167 --> 00:12:58,840 Dave here to see you. 121 00:13:01,527 --> 00:13:04,564 Okay. She'll be right down. 122 00:13:16,807 --> 00:13:21,597 Bubbles. I like that. It's a good touch. 123 00:13:24,967 --> 00:13:29,643 Is that wool? Looks itchy. Is it itchy? 124 00:13:54,447 --> 00:13:57,007 It's the biggest contradiction, ever. 125 00:13:57,287 --> 00:14:00,324 Jews eat carp, okay? Who eats carp? 126 00:14:00,487 --> 00:14:06,164 They don't serve it in restaurants. Have you ever seen carp on a menu? 127 00:14:06,327 --> 00:14:08,443 No. - You know why? 128 00:14:08,687 --> 00:14:10,120 It's disgusting. 129 00:14:10,687 --> 00:14:14,077 You've never seen a people more obsessed with bad food. 130 00:14:14,247 --> 00:14:19,196 I bet every immigrant group, displaced by World War II, puts emphasis on food. 131 00:14:19,407 --> 00:14:23,878 It's scarce. Carp's cheap. It's probably a staple of their diet. 132 00:14:24,047 --> 00:14:27,437 Is this the 'History Channel'? Don't kill this for me. 133 00:14:27,607 --> 00:14:29,837 Sorry, go ahead. 134 00:14:46,647 --> 00:14:49,957 You're going to love it. It's beautiful. Always empty. 135 00:14:50,127 --> 00:14:52,880 Can I see some I.D.? - Sure. 136 00:14:53,527 --> 00:14:58,555 Love when that happens. - Yeah, I wish I still got carded. 137 00:15:00,887 --> 00:15:04,516 Excuse me, Dave. Quick question. How old are you? 138 00:15:05,127 --> 00:15:07,516 No, I don't speak Vietnamese, why? 139 00:15:07,687 --> 00:15:10,679 Are you being evasive? - I'm trying. 140 00:15:10,847 --> 00:15:14,760 I don't tell my age. People get caught up in the number. 141 00:15:15,367 --> 00:15:18,643 I'm 37. You know that? - I hadn't thought about it. 142 00:15:18,807 --> 00:15:19,683 Sure. 143 00:15:19,927 --> 00:15:24,842 I know you're younger than me. I'd just like to know how much. 144 00:15:25,007 --> 00:15:28,556 Okay. Let me guess. 29. 145 00:15:29,487 --> 00:15:32,604 No. - Really? Older? 146 00:15:32,767 --> 00:15:36,043 You don't look 30 to me. - Thanks. 147 00:15:37,487 --> 00:15:40,001 I'm 23. - No, you're not. 148 00:15:40,887 --> 00:15:45,278 I don't believe you. Let me see the license. 149 00:15:48,887 --> 00:15:51,606 Oh, my God! You're a child. 150 00:15:52,007 --> 00:15:55,443 Taxi! I have T-Shirts older than you. - They let me drive. 151 00:15:55,607 --> 00:15:58,917 With a parent present. How come you seemed older? 152 00:16:00,727 --> 00:16:03,560 I don't know if I can do this. 153 00:16:04,727 --> 00:16:06,285 Come on. 154 00:16:10,327 --> 00:16:13,046 Can you hold this? - Sure. 155 00:16:18,007 --> 00:16:21,443 Are we going to get into trouble? - I hope so. 156 00:16:38,567 --> 00:16:41,400 This place is amazing! 157 00:16:41,567 --> 00:16:47,199 I can't believe I've walked by this for 1 5 years, and I didn't know it was here. 158 00:17:03,927 --> 00:17:06,919 Let's have it. - What? 159 00:17:08,767 --> 00:17:11,839 How'd you know? 160 00:17:12,087 --> 00:17:17,878 Okay. His name is David and he's really nice. Sweet. 161 00:17:18,807 --> 00:17:23,835 And I met him a few days ago and he asked me out. We went out to dinner and... 162 00:17:25,727 --> 00:17:26,796 we kissed. 163 00:17:27,007 --> 00:17:30,920 I like beer. - Good. 164 00:17:31,327 --> 00:17:36,117 No, I never used to. I had to learn, because no one in my family drinks. 165 00:17:36,287 --> 00:17:40,917 You're lucky. Everyone in my family drinks. - My family don't drink anything. 166 00:17:41,087 --> 00:17:46,639 It's like Salt Lake City. They'll have a sip of wine, on the Sabbath. 167 00:17:47,007 --> 00:17:50,317 That's it, and it's Manischewitz. - I've never had that. 168 00:17:50,487 --> 00:17:51,920 You like Hi-C? 169 00:17:52,087 --> 00:17:56,160 My mom keeps wine in the fridge and it lasts for like, 3 months. 170 00:17:56,327 --> 00:17:59,524 A good Chardonnay can last... - It's red. 171 00:17:59,687 --> 00:18:02,997 That's not good. By the way, things to avoid. 172 00:18:03,167 --> 00:18:06,125 Okay. - Beginning sentences with, ''My mom...'' 173 00:18:07,607 --> 00:18:12,078 Right. I'm all over it. 174 00:18:17,047 --> 00:18:18,605 How ever old you are... 175 00:18:18,887 --> 00:18:25,201 I have to say, I haven't had this much fun, in a really long time. 176 00:18:26,247 --> 00:18:27,919 I'm glad I met you. 177 00:18:29,127 --> 00:18:34,076 You are making me nervous, in a way I'm not really familiar with. 178 00:18:53,447 --> 00:18:57,520 My God, Lisa, what am I doing? I only got divorced last week. 179 00:18:57,727 --> 00:19:03,723 Easy, easy. It's okay. You didn't tattoo his name on your tuchis, did you? 180 00:19:05,287 --> 00:19:08,438 You want to save some of that for later? 181 00:19:11,207 --> 00:19:13,767 What? What is it? 182 00:19:15,047 --> 00:19:16,321 He's... 183 00:19:18,887 --> 00:19:22,163 He's only 27. - And? 184 00:19:22,327 --> 00:19:27,082 What ? That's 1 0 years different. He could be my brother. 185 00:19:27,247 --> 00:19:29,886 If he were 1 year younger, that could be true. 186 00:19:30,047 --> 00:19:36,156 Aren't you embarrassed for me? It smells of pool boy, at Sandals Resort. 187 00:19:39,047 --> 00:19:43,120 It's fine. Might even do you some good, if you know what I mean. 188 00:19:43,287 --> 00:19:45,562 Lisa! - What? 189 00:19:46,407 --> 00:19:50,844 It's nothing to be ashamed of. You're both at your sexual peak. 190 00:19:52,687 --> 00:19:57,477 So, you approve? - Yes! Unequivocally. Yes, this is good. 191 00:19:57,647 --> 00:20:02,960 But it can't really go anywhere. He's so young! 192 00:20:03,127 --> 00:20:09,282 It's a little early to worry about that. And, you're not looking to marry next week, right? 193 00:20:10,647 --> 00:20:14,606 Enjoy your life, a little bit. You deserve this. 194 00:20:16,407 --> 00:20:20,161 27, hell, I deserve this! 195 00:20:22,567 --> 00:20:26,719 No, she's not Jewish. 196 00:20:26,887 --> 00:20:29,765 Mom, I'm not trying to kill you. 197 00:20:29,927 --> 00:20:32,760 Yes, I want you to be alive to see your grandkids. 198 00:20:33,047 --> 00:20:34,719 ... Jewish grandkids, Mom. 199 00:20:36,047 --> 00:20:39,403 No, I didn't know you wanted to be buried in Israel. 200 00:20:39,567 --> 00:20:42,445 I don't want to talk about this over the phone. 201 00:20:42,607 --> 00:20:48,045 See you tomorrow. I love you, too. Bye. 202 00:21:08,287 --> 00:21:11,199 Hey, Dave. - Hey, where's Mom? 203 00:21:11,367 --> 00:21:15,519 I told you to hang it up, Dinah. 204 00:21:17,047 --> 00:21:18,082 Hey, guys. 205 00:21:18,247 --> 00:21:22,923 You left the bathroom light on. - Jeff Rosenberg's son got engaged. 206 00:21:23,087 --> 00:21:25,806 To a speech therapist. 207 00:21:31,047 --> 00:21:33,277 Hey, boychik. - Hey, Dad. 208 00:21:38,367 --> 00:21:43,077 We have to talk about our last phone call. - Mom, good to see you, too. 209 00:21:43,327 --> 00:21:45,602 I'm not kidding around. - Okay. 210 00:21:45,767 --> 00:21:49,760 I can see it's going to be a disciplinary action, not a talk. 211 00:21:49,927 --> 00:21:54,000 We'll be sure to make it a talk, then. Help set the table. 212 00:21:54,167 --> 00:21:59,241 Sure. - Take the wine out of the fridge. 213 00:21:59,567 --> 00:22:01,364 Has he called? - The next night. 214 00:22:01,527 --> 00:22:04,803 Nice! - I know, I'm not used to this. 215 00:22:04,967 --> 00:22:08,039 When's the next date? - He asked for dinner tomorrow, 216 00:22:08,207 --> 00:22:11,517 but Sunday morning, I fly to Paris. Then he says, 217 00:22:11,687 --> 00:22:14,838 ''That's drastic for a bad date, leaving the country!'' 218 00:22:15,007 --> 00:22:17,362 The kid's funny. - Don't use that word. 219 00:22:17,527 --> 00:22:20,997 Right, sorry. He's humorous. 220 00:22:27,207 --> 00:22:31,439 ...What are you doing?! - Mom, I'm 23. It's fine. 221 00:22:31,647 --> 00:22:34,480 What? - Tomorrow, I'm going to go to shul. 222 00:22:34,687 --> 00:22:39,317 And pray that everybody... - Since you told me about computers... 223 00:22:39,527 --> 00:22:42,883 Mom, let him finish. - He's finished... 224 00:22:44,247 --> 00:22:49,799 Why do you have to do this? There are so many other women... 225 00:22:49,967 --> 00:22:53,926 I've encouraged you to branch out in any other way, but this. 226 00:22:54,087 --> 00:22:56,647 Why do you have to do this? - Do this? 227 00:22:56,807 --> 00:22:59,367 Do what? Incur the wrath of God? 228 00:22:59,527 --> 00:23:03,202 Why are you getting into trouble? - I'm not getting married. 229 00:23:03,367 --> 00:23:08,077 I'm just seeing what 's out there. We're not living in the Warsaw Ghetto. 230 00:23:08,247 --> 00:23:10,966 It's Upper West Side, we're strong in numbers. 231 00:23:11,127 --> 00:23:15,882 You still plan to marry someone Jewish? - Yes. Sure, okay? 232 00:23:17,407 --> 00:23:24,995 But why go down this road? You might get hurt, or worse, hurt her. 233 00:23:25,167 --> 00:23:29,240 Do you value your culture and history? - It's not one or the other. 234 00:23:29,407 --> 00:23:35,198 If you're smart enough to know that it makes sense to marry into the same background, 235 00:23:35,367 --> 00:23:37,119 as far as divorce rates go, 236 00:23:37,287 --> 00:23:42,919 you should be smart enough not to start something, where nothing can come of it. 237 00:23:43,087 --> 00:23:46,875 I can't believe what you're saying to me. - What? 238 00:23:47,047 --> 00:23:51,199 You would never tell that to a patient. - Not true, not true. 239 00:23:51,367 --> 00:23:57,602 I encourage my patients to have relationships within their respective faiths. It's easier. 240 00:23:57,767 --> 00:24:01,919 I encourage them to go to mosque, or church, or whatever. 241 00:24:03,327 --> 00:24:06,285 I think religion is... 242 00:24:09,127 --> 00:24:13,837 paramount in a person's life. - Okay, yes. 243 00:24:14,007 --> 00:24:18,285 But encouraging them is different than discouraging them. 244 00:24:18,447 --> 00:24:20,722 That's where you draw the line. 245 00:24:21,007 --> 00:24:26,400 Would you tell a patient not to date... - Quit asking what I'd tell my patients. 246 00:24:26,567 --> 00:24:30,037 They're not my children. 247 00:24:30,207 --> 00:24:31,526 How old is she? 248 00:24:33,087 --> 00:24:35,647 She's 27. - What?! 249 00:24:35,807 --> 00:24:41,484 She's 4 years older than you? Oh, David. Drop it now. It'll only end badly. 250 00:24:41,967 --> 00:24:45,323 Maybe if you met her... - I'm not going to meet her! 251 00:24:45,487 --> 00:24:48,081 Are you out of your mind? 252 00:24:48,247 --> 00:24:52,081 You sound like an 'After School Special'. - Don't do this. 253 00:24:52,247 --> 00:24:53,760 I'm doing it. 254 00:24:54,807 --> 00:24:58,038 On your own, then. 255 00:25:10,647 --> 00:25:14,481 Hey, what's up, man? Cool. 256 00:25:16,247 --> 00:25:17,999 Do you need anything? 257 00:25:18,167 --> 00:25:19,441 No? 258 00:25:19,607 --> 00:25:22,758 Go on up, she's expecting you. - Thanks. Come here. 259 00:25:22,927 --> 00:25:28,160 Five? Thumbs up? Smile? No? We'll get there. 260 00:25:35,487 --> 00:25:37,557 Hi. - Hi. 261 00:25:39,887 --> 00:25:42,606 Come on in. 262 00:25:46,607 --> 00:25:48,245 Thanks for the soup. 263 00:25:48,407 --> 00:25:50,557 It's chicken noodle. 264 00:25:52,487 --> 00:25:59,120 Wow! This place is huge. I'm not even going to ask what you pay. 265 00:25:59,287 --> 00:26:03,644 That's Rothko. I've never seen this before. What year is this? 266 00:26:03,807 --> 00:26:06,116 1 954. 267 00:26:06,287 --> 00:26:09,324 It's probably my favorite piece of art. 268 00:26:09,487 --> 00:26:13,162 I love how he never titled any of his work. 269 00:26:13,327 --> 00:26:17,400 It's beautiful. Luminous. 270 00:26:23,327 --> 00:26:28,196 What is this? - ''Sentimental mood.'' 271 00:26:30,207 --> 00:26:34,519 You never heard Coltrane before? - No. Am I in trouble, now? 272 00:26:34,927 --> 00:26:40,081 No. It's just... He's a pretty famous Jazz musician. 273 00:26:41,767 --> 00:26:45,442 Is this that Negro music, everybody's talking about? 274 00:26:45,767 --> 00:26:47,519 Because I had no idea. 275 00:27:02,567 --> 00:27:04,876 I have to wake up in 5 hours. 276 00:27:05,607 --> 00:27:09,202 Do you want me to go? 277 00:27:09,367 --> 00:27:12,837 Take off your sweater. 278 00:27:13,007 --> 00:27:20,197 Does this involve dancing because my corns... - Take it off. It's coming with me. 279 00:27:20,367 --> 00:27:21,243 Okay. 280 00:27:32,287 --> 00:27:38,078 I really like her. She's been gone 2 days. I miss her already. I've never felt this way. 281 00:27:38,247 --> 00:27:45,198 Just because you haven't had sex, yet. - That's not it. I really like her. I mean... 282 00:27:45,367 --> 00:27:49,804 I think I could love her. - What?! Whoa... 283 00:27:52,367 --> 00:27:56,155 What was I saying? - There's just something about this girl. 284 00:27:56,327 --> 00:28:01,879 You know, when you're in a room with someone, and even if you don't know them well, 285 00:28:02,047 --> 00:28:05,596 you just know that you're in the presence of greatness? 286 00:28:06,167 --> 00:28:10,001 Yeah, when you come to my flat. She old! She a time-fighter. 287 00:28:10,167 --> 00:28:14,797 She's so fine, bro. - I just feel like it's going to end badly. 288 00:28:14,967 --> 00:28:16,639 You sound like my mom. 289 00:28:16,807 --> 00:28:20,117 Hey, Morris! All right. 290 00:28:21,527 --> 00:28:23,358 Why am I listening to you? 291 00:28:23,527 --> 00:28:28,237 You put pies in girl's faces, who don't let you get in their pants. 292 00:28:28,607 --> 00:28:30,837 When was the cream pie made? - Today. 293 00:28:31,007 --> 00:28:35,046 Nice, I'll take that one. - Awesome. 294 00:28:35,207 --> 00:28:39,246 So, what's with Dave? Is he really serious about this girl? 295 00:28:39,407 --> 00:28:42,205 I don't know. - Is she Catholic? Episcopalian? 296 00:28:42,367 --> 00:28:43,595 I didn't ask. 297 00:28:43,767 --> 00:28:48,204 Do you have a preferred denomination, as far as the love of Christ goes? 298 00:28:50,087 --> 00:28:52,043 Your father's going to flip. 299 00:28:52,207 --> 00:28:58,043 Too bad your mom isn't around for this. It would have gone over big with her, too. 300 00:28:59,807 --> 00:29:05,837 So, what are we going to do? - I don't know. 301 00:29:06,247 --> 00:29:08,920 Give me this. 302 00:29:23,207 --> 00:29:27,803 Have you ever had Ikura with quail egg? - No. What is that? 303 00:29:28,007 --> 00:29:31,522 I swear, it's like having sex. - That's a bold claim. 304 00:29:31,807 --> 00:29:35,083 Want to try it? - How am I going to say no, now? 305 00:29:41,727 --> 00:29:45,163 That's amazing. - I know. 306 00:29:57,367 --> 00:29:59,801 So, how was your trip? - Who cares? 307 00:30:00,287 --> 00:30:02,243 Okay. 308 00:30:35,647 --> 00:30:41,005 Well, this sounds really good. That's what I'm hearing. 309 00:30:41,167 --> 00:30:46,605 It was amazing. He's really very sweet. 310 00:30:48,287 --> 00:30:52,121 I didn't have an orgasm, though. - Completely normal. 311 00:30:52,807 --> 00:30:56,925 There are so many trust issues there. Just give it time. 312 00:30:57,087 --> 00:31:02,605 I'm willing to do the work. Goddamn it! 313 00:31:02,847 --> 00:31:08,240 Do you still worry about his age? - Definitely. There are some countries... 314 00:31:08,407 --> 00:31:11,205 where I could get arrested for this...23! 315 00:31:11,967 --> 00:31:14,959 I thought you said he was 27. 316 00:31:15,527 --> 00:31:16,562 Did I? 317 00:31:18,167 --> 00:31:22,718 I did. I'm sorry. 318 00:31:23,447 --> 00:31:26,837 I lied to you about that. - Why did you lie? 319 00:31:27,007 --> 00:31:32,445 I was, I am embarrassed by his age. He's just so young. 320 00:31:34,287 --> 00:31:37,006 What does he do? - He's an artist. 321 00:31:37,247 --> 00:31:40,205 I'm not an artist... - You said you're a painter. 322 00:31:40,367 --> 00:31:45,487 I said, I like to paint, but it's a hobby. You have to work, too. 323 00:31:45,647 --> 00:31:49,322 He didn't call himself that, but that's what he is. 324 00:31:49,527 --> 00:31:55,159 He has some issue with it. His family doesn't support him in his work, at all. 325 00:31:59,447 --> 00:32:02,280 Where does he live? - Grand Street. 326 00:32:02,727 --> 00:32:04,877 Lower East Side. I haven't seen it. 327 00:32:05,087 --> 00:32:09,603 He has roommates, so I'm not exactly running over. 328 00:32:12,287 --> 00:32:13,276 Okay. 329 00:32:14,407 --> 00:32:19,959 Our time is up. I will see you on... 330 00:32:20,247 --> 00:32:24,240 on Monday. - Of course. 331 00:32:24,407 --> 00:32:27,080 Are you okay? - Yes. 332 00:32:27,247 --> 00:32:33,163 No. Yes, I mean, I have to be somewhere. - Okay. 333 00:32:33,327 --> 00:32:34,646 Bye. - Bye. 334 00:32:44,047 --> 00:32:45,162 Shit! 335 00:32:45,327 --> 00:32:46,203 Shit! 336 00:32:46,367 --> 00:32:47,595 Shit! 337 00:32:47,767 --> 00:32:49,883 Shit! 338 00:33:14,727 --> 00:33:15,876 Oh, shit. 339 00:33:16,207 --> 00:33:21,964 What am I supposed to do now? End treatment? Keep going? 340 00:33:22,127 --> 00:33:24,960 Bring them in for a couple's session? 341 00:33:25,127 --> 00:33:29,757 Well, If this doesn't go anywhere. - I really don't think it will. 342 00:33:29,927 --> 00:33:32,566 Then you'll be relieved you stayed with her. 343 00:33:32,727 --> 00:33:37,357 If you end her treatment, and they break up after 2 weeks, 344 00:33:37,527 --> 00:33:40,678 you will not have served her best interests. 345 00:33:41,047 --> 00:33:43,686 Are you saying I should keep treating her? 346 00:33:43,847 --> 00:33:48,921 If you think it's just a fling, yes. - But, is that even ethical? 347 00:33:49,407 --> 00:33:53,446 Your job is to help her. That's your ethical boundary. 348 00:33:57,447 --> 00:33:58,436 Okay. 349 00:33:58,607 --> 00:34:04,762 Forgetting all the professional implications of the moment. How are you feeling? 350 00:34:08,087 --> 00:34:11,045 I'm a wreck. 351 00:34:11,207 --> 00:34:13,243 I'm a wreck! 352 00:34:14,887 --> 00:34:19,597 Rita, she's not even Jewish. 353 00:34:19,807 --> 00:34:26,360 If she were Jewish, would you feel better about him dating a 37-year-old divorc�e? 354 00:34:34,647 --> 00:34:38,481 Where are we going? - I've just got to stop by work, quickly. 355 00:34:39,967 --> 00:34:42,322 What's up, Gil? - What's up, Dave? 356 00:34:42,487 --> 00:34:44,079 You set it up? - Oh, yeah. 357 00:34:44,247 --> 00:34:47,637 This is Rafi. - Pleasure. 358 00:35:00,607 --> 00:35:04,566 Oh, my God! This is amazing! 359 00:35:04,727 --> 00:35:11,166 Come here. There's something else I want to show you. 360 00:35:14,367 --> 00:35:18,804 You've got to be kidding me. 361 00:36:09,647 --> 00:36:11,763 Go! Go! Go! 362 00:36:11,927 --> 00:36:14,805 Quit ignoring me! Dave, I'm open! 363 00:36:15,847 --> 00:36:17,565 Go! Go! Go! Come on. 364 00:36:21,167 --> 00:36:24,523 Yo, give it to the short guy. I got him. 365 00:36:30,927 --> 00:36:36,126 Foul, man. Stay off me. I told you twice. You've been warned. Can't control! 366 00:36:36,327 --> 00:36:38,238 Yo, open! 367 00:36:40,407 --> 00:36:41,920 Yeah. Yeah! 368 00:37:04,687 --> 00:37:06,962 It's incredible, amazing. 369 00:37:07,687 --> 00:37:11,965 I'm sorry, your bra is showing. Is it missing a button? 370 00:37:12,127 --> 00:37:15,119 No, that's the way it is. 371 00:37:15,287 --> 00:37:19,360 You were so right about Jewish men. He's so attentive. 372 00:37:19,807 --> 00:37:24,676 You know, you're married to one. - Yes, but he has ADD. 373 00:37:24,847 --> 00:37:30,285 I just can't get over it, I mean, I feel a little awkward telling you this... 374 00:37:31,287 --> 00:37:34,120 but I can't tell anyone else. 375 00:37:34,607 --> 00:37:40,398 We have had sex on every surface of my apartment. 376 00:37:40,607 --> 00:37:47,126 He's just so eager to please me, and I feel the same way about him. 377 00:37:48,247 --> 00:37:51,125 He makes me want to do things... - I understand. 378 00:37:51,287 --> 00:37:56,441 that I have never wanted to do before. - I got it. 379 00:37:56,607 --> 00:38:01,761 You're going to laugh, but he didn't actually know where the clitoris was. 380 00:38:01,927 --> 00:38:03,485 Really? 381 00:38:05,767 --> 00:38:07,359 Did you show him? - Yes! 382 00:38:07,527 --> 00:38:11,884 I mean, he's so uninhibited. Just happy to learn. 383 00:38:12,047 --> 00:38:14,481 He's only been with 2 other women. 384 00:38:14,687 --> 00:38:19,124 He's had sex with 2 other women? - Yes! Can you believe, that's it? 385 00:38:19,287 --> 00:38:22,723 Now I know why men go after younger women. 386 00:38:22,887 --> 00:38:27,358 There's something to it. His youth, his body... 387 00:38:27,527 --> 00:38:32,043 his naivet�, his goddamn eagerness. 388 00:38:34,247 --> 00:38:38,525 Isn't this great?! - It's amazing! 389 00:38:38,687 --> 00:38:44,557 Listen. I just have to say this because I'm too embarrassed to tell anyone else. 390 00:38:46,047 --> 00:38:47,446 His penis... 391 00:38:47,607 --> 00:38:53,318 Oh, my God. - is so beautiful, I want to knit it a hat. 392 00:38:56,447 --> 00:39:01,475 Did you ever think, that I would be this satisfied? 393 00:39:02,127 --> 00:39:08,316 I mean, sexually? - Not like this. 394 00:39:08,487 --> 00:39:13,163 Are you using protection? - Of course. He's very responsible. 395 00:39:13,327 --> 00:39:16,285 Oh, that's very good. Is he neat? 396 00:39:16,447 --> 00:39:19,166 What? - Does he pick up after himself? 397 00:39:19,327 --> 00:39:22,444 Does he make the bed...? Ask to use the phone? 398 00:39:22,927 --> 00:39:24,883 Yes. Why? 399 00:39:25,727 --> 00:39:30,084 You can tell a lot about a man, from those things. 400 00:39:30,247 --> 00:39:34,081 He's very neat. He does have some unusual habits, though. 401 00:39:34,247 --> 00:39:39,526 I'm not trying to freak you out, but these Q-Tips are amazing. 402 00:39:39,687 --> 00:39:43,077 You are freaking me out. What are you talking about? 403 00:39:43,487 --> 00:39:49,403 We never had these, growing up. My mom had them, but we never used them. 404 00:39:51,447 --> 00:39:57,397 How'd you clean your ears? - We didn't. Just towel-dried them, I guess. 405 00:39:57,567 --> 00:40:02,846 Let me see the Q-Tip. - No. You have to get out of here. 406 00:40:04,607 --> 00:40:07,838 What mom doesn't teach her kids to clean their ears? 407 00:40:08,287 --> 00:40:13,566 Doctors say that children shouldn't use them, because they can damage the ear drum. 408 00:40:13,727 --> 00:40:20,326 And... a small amount of wax, in the inner canal, helps protect against larger debris. 409 00:40:23,007 --> 00:40:27,398 I didn't know that. - Well, sorry. 410 00:40:31,527 --> 00:40:32,846 I'm sorry. 411 00:40:34,727 --> 00:40:38,686 Tell me what is it, that you're trying to say. 412 00:40:40,767 --> 00:40:43,361 I'm worried about where it's going. 413 00:40:44,407 --> 00:40:50,846 I want to give all of myself,just let it go. It's so tempting. It's all he wants from me. 414 00:40:51,247 --> 00:40:55,365 Who wouldn't want all of you? You are an amazing woman. 415 00:40:55,527 --> 00:41:01,238 But then I think, he's just too young to handle the responsibility. 416 00:41:01,967 --> 00:41:08,884 I'm scared to put myself out like that. - That's a very mature line of thought. 417 00:41:09,727 --> 00:41:14,721 I'm sure his intentions are pure, but he doesn't... 418 00:41:14,887 --> 00:41:19,324 sound like he knows exactly what it is, he's getting himself into. 419 00:41:21,807 --> 00:41:24,401 Do you think I should just end it? 420 00:41:27,927 --> 00:41:32,478 I'm not going to answer that. 421 00:41:36,247 --> 00:41:40,479 Look, I don't want you to get the wrong idea about my family. 422 00:41:40,647 --> 00:41:43,400 Sensitive subject? 423 00:41:44,927 --> 00:41:46,406 Maybe. 424 00:41:47,087 --> 00:41:52,525 All right, look, I'm having trouble with my mom, concerning you. 425 00:41:52,687 --> 00:41:54,882 Concerning me? - Yeah. 426 00:41:55,047 --> 00:41:56,400 It's just... 427 00:41:56,567 --> 00:42:00,640 I wanted her to meet you and she said no. - Well... 428 00:42:00,807 --> 00:42:06,962 That's sweet, but don't you think it's a little early to introduce me to your mother? 429 00:42:11,447 --> 00:42:13,961 She said no? Why? 430 00:42:15,327 --> 00:42:19,525 Look, she has a problem with you not being Jewish. 431 00:42:19,687 --> 00:42:21,166 She won't meet me? - No. 432 00:42:21,327 --> 00:42:23,841 We're not even speaking, right now. 433 00:42:24,367 --> 00:42:26,801 I thought she was a therapist. 434 00:42:26,967 --> 00:42:29,276 I know. How do you think I feel? 435 00:42:29,887 --> 00:42:34,802 Did she meet your black girlfriend? - No way! She doesn't even know about that. 436 00:42:34,967 --> 00:42:38,596 That's my bubi, my dad's mom. 437 00:42:41,127 --> 00:42:43,118 Davideleh! - Hey, Bubi. 438 00:42:43,767 --> 00:42:48,283 I wanted you to meet my girlfriend, Radjina. Radjina, this is my bubi. 439 00:42:58,607 --> 00:43:00,006 Is she black? 440 00:43:04,247 --> 00:43:06,602 It's really not that funny. 441 00:43:06,927 --> 00:43:10,806 My bubi died 3 weeks later. She didn't tell anybody, but... 442 00:43:10,967 --> 00:43:15,040 after her reaction, and subsequent death, I kept it quiet. 443 00:43:15,207 --> 00:43:19,086 I think she went inside, and hit herself over the head with a pan. 444 00:43:19,247 --> 00:43:25,356 That's the image I get whenever I'm doing something wrong. Her just whacking away. 445 00:43:26,807 --> 00:43:30,641 I can say this much. Age aside, 446 00:43:31,327 --> 00:43:36,879 he gives me more, of what I need, than anyone else ever has. 447 00:43:38,567 --> 00:43:43,243 Real things. Things I never got. 448 00:43:43,527 --> 00:43:48,396 It makes it hard to harp on age, or religion, or anything, because... 449 00:43:51,327 --> 00:43:52,999 I'm just happy. 450 00:43:57,327 --> 00:43:59,682 Yeah. 451 00:44:11,607 --> 00:44:13,484 What's wrong, David? 452 00:44:13,647 --> 00:44:16,161 I lost my job. - I'm sorry. 453 00:44:16,327 --> 00:44:18,887 Josh Friedman got engaged, to a chef. 454 00:44:19,047 --> 00:44:24,804 Yes, I heard. Truffle matzo balls. Amazing. - Tell him about the Kushners. 455 00:44:24,967 --> 00:44:27,606 We're trading apartments on August 1 st. 456 00:44:28,167 --> 00:44:32,558 In Miami? - You've got to find another place to live. 457 00:44:32,727 --> 00:44:37,721 This is the worst possible time. Who goes to Miami in August? 458 00:44:37,887 --> 00:44:42,244 That's what I said. - It's beautiful in summer. 459 00:44:42,407 --> 00:44:47,276 It's a sauna, and it rains every day. The Kushners are taking you for a ride! 460 00:44:47,447 --> 00:44:51,156 I told you, Sam. - It's a condominium. We're going. 461 00:44:51,567 --> 00:44:56,436 What? Condominium means 'no rain'? 462 00:45:07,207 --> 00:45:09,084 Eyes to me... 463 00:45:09,487 --> 00:45:12,479 ...A bunch of us are going to the Hamptons... 464 00:45:12,647 --> 00:45:16,799 Do you know where Raphael Gardet is? 465 00:45:16,967 --> 00:45:22,837 We've got this place in Wainscott. There's a limo, so you won't have to ride the Jitney. 466 00:45:23,007 --> 00:45:26,158 Excuse me, do you know where Raphael Gardet is? 467 00:45:26,327 --> 00:45:28,887 Who are you? - I'm Dave. 468 00:45:29,047 --> 00:45:32,437 Hey, Dave. Are you one of the models? 469 00:45:34,167 --> 00:45:36,522 No, you the hairdresser? - Excuse me? 470 00:45:36,727 --> 00:45:37,921 You heard me. 471 00:45:38,287 --> 00:45:42,678 Diana, eyes to me. That's great. 472 00:45:42,847 --> 00:45:45,805 One... - Are you the hairdresser? 473 00:45:47,607 --> 00:45:51,725 That was good. I really enjoyed that. 474 00:45:53,967 --> 00:45:58,040 I just asked him where you were, and he gives me all this attitude. 475 00:45:58,207 --> 00:46:02,917 Whatever. Dave, it's so uncool. - The guy's a schmuck. 476 00:46:03,087 --> 00:46:06,557 It's who I work for. Who are you? 477 00:46:06,767 --> 00:46:10,555 What are you thinking? - I got cut to 1 day a week, at work. 478 00:46:10,727 --> 00:46:15,881 And I've got to be out of my place on Monday. I'm going to be broke in a month. 479 00:46:16,167 --> 00:46:20,319 But, I'm sorry. Okay? I'm sorry. 480 00:46:25,967 --> 00:46:28,720 Lets do something, it's Friday night. 481 00:46:28,887 --> 00:46:33,642 You want to start observing the Sabbath? - No. 482 00:46:33,807 --> 00:46:38,119 What was a normal Friday night like for you, before you met me? 483 00:46:38,287 --> 00:46:41,916 Did you sit around fireplaces in the Village, drinking Merlot? 484 00:46:42,087 --> 00:46:47,844 Actually, we stood around trashcan fires in the Bowery, drinking forties. 485 00:46:49,807 --> 00:46:52,116 Come on. - What? 486 00:46:52,287 --> 00:46:55,404 I want to know what you did. Show me. 487 00:46:55,567 --> 00:46:57,558 Are you sure? - Yeah. 488 00:47:30,047 --> 00:47:34,996 Let's go to your place. - I've got roommates, Rafi. 489 00:47:36,167 --> 00:47:39,239 I want to see your paintings. 490 00:47:39,407 --> 00:47:44,561 You're not missing much. - Convenient and weak. 491 00:47:44,727 --> 00:47:50,916 I want to go, right now. I want to see where you sleep, when you're not in my bed. 492 00:48:13,407 --> 00:48:15,875 This is nice. 493 00:48:23,127 --> 00:48:25,800 Kitchen. - Very grown-up. 494 00:48:36,047 --> 00:48:39,164 David? Who are your roommates? 495 00:48:39,327 --> 00:48:43,320 Is that you, David? - Yes. 496 00:48:43,687 --> 00:48:46,485 Go to sleep, Grandma. 497 00:48:49,447 --> 00:48:52,962 Give me a break. It's embarrassing enough. 498 00:48:53,287 --> 00:48:56,757 Okay. Where's the bathroom? 499 00:48:56,927 --> 00:49:01,284 Did you eat? - Yes, I ate. Good night. 500 00:49:17,607 --> 00:49:21,646 What are you doing? Stashing all your pornos? 501 00:49:21,807 --> 00:49:24,799 And all my posters had to come down, too. 502 00:49:33,087 --> 00:49:35,885 Why are they all facing away? - Don't know. 503 00:49:36,807 --> 00:49:39,924 Who wants to look at my paintings all day? 504 00:49:41,127 --> 00:49:47,441 We have to talk about this thing, you have with your art. 505 00:49:48,367 --> 00:49:51,006 It's almost like you think it's a sin. 506 00:49:53,007 --> 00:49:57,398 Bubi? I've decided I'm going to be an artist. 507 00:50:20,767 --> 00:50:24,521 Dave, you're really good. 508 00:50:24,687 --> 00:50:30,557 This is what you should do. You've got to keep painting. 509 00:50:31,967 --> 00:50:37,200 It's not a life. - Says who? You're crazy. 510 00:50:59,087 --> 00:51:03,046 You're lucky. I'm just paving the way for you. 511 00:51:03,607 --> 00:51:08,556 It's the curse of the eldest child. You'll probably be able to bring home Jay-Z. 512 00:51:08,727 --> 00:51:13,755 Are you and Mom talking? - Not really. She's like a different person. 513 00:51:15,687 --> 00:51:18,121 What's up? - Just dropping off clothes. 514 00:51:18,287 --> 00:51:20,562 You're not going to stay here? 515 00:51:20,727 --> 00:51:24,561 I'm going to Morris's. I didn't think you'd want me here. 516 00:51:24,727 --> 00:51:28,720 Don't be melodramatic. This is your home. We're your family. 517 00:51:28,887 --> 00:51:31,959 Even if you did bring home Jay-D. - It's Jay-Z. 518 00:51:33,527 --> 00:51:40,558 Whatever... Jay-B, Jay-D. I have a patient now. Be careful when you go. 519 00:52:01,967 --> 00:52:05,926 Oh, I'm so sorry to keep you waiting. 520 00:52:06,087 --> 00:52:07,759 Did I knock? - Am I late? 521 00:52:11,087 --> 00:52:13,806 I feel like I'm late, but, no. 522 00:52:13,967 --> 00:52:16,640 No. - Sit, sit, sit. 523 00:52:18,167 --> 00:52:23,400 What is that? A gun? - No, it's a yoga mat. 524 00:52:28,007 --> 00:52:31,079 He's moving in with me. - What? 525 00:52:33,087 --> 00:52:38,115 Weren't you saying, that he couldn't provide you with the things you need? 526 00:52:38,287 --> 00:52:39,436 I'm still unsure. 527 00:52:39,887 --> 00:52:43,436 But I think I should give it a shot. You always say, 528 00:52:43,607 --> 00:52:47,441 ''Just get messy in life. At least you know you're living.'' 529 00:52:47,607 --> 00:52:52,806 If he can't give me what I need, I'll find out sooner, if he's living with me. 530 00:52:53,327 --> 00:52:56,444 And he has nowhere to go. - He said that? 531 00:52:56,607 --> 00:53:01,317 His best friend has a studio. He's not getting along with his mom... 532 00:53:01,927 --> 00:53:06,318 She hates me, did I tell you that? - No, you hadn't mentioned it. 533 00:53:06,487 --> 00:53:10,082 It's this other big thing, I'm trying not to think about. 534 00:53:10,887 --> 00:53:14,323 Kids of psychoanalysts are the most screwed up of all. 535 00:53:14,487 --> 00:53:16,717 Yes, I had heard that. 536 00:53:16,887 --> 00:53:20,675 So, he's moving in? - I think it'll be fun. 537 00:53:20,847 --> 00:53:23,520 That's what you said to do, right? Just... 538 00:53:23,687 --> 00:53:26,042 have fun. - That's right... 539 00:53:26,967 --> 00:53:30,880 What are you looking at? - I forgot. I have a book. 540 00:53:31,047 --> 00:53:36,280 A book I wanted to show you. I thought it might be... 541 00:53:36,447 --> 00:53:39,644 ''Lesbians and the Kabbalah, A Match Made in Heaven.'' 542 00:53:40,207 --> 00:53:46,316 Wrong book... Oh, boy. Oh, well, never mind. 543 00:53:49,007 --> 00:53:51,282 Forget it. I'm sorry. 544 00:53:58,927 --> 00:54:01,600 I am so late. 545 00:54:01,967 --> 00:54:05,926 I can't help it, if you fulfill all my working-girl fantasies. 546 00:54:06,767 --> 00:54:11,158 You should wear a garbage bag till you get to the elevator. 547 00:54:12,487 --> 00:54:16,002 We still going to the Hamptons, Friday? - Yeah. See you. 548 00:54:58,247 --> 00:55:00,636 All right. Village People weekend. 549 00:55:00,967 --> 00:55:05,518 I've been grooming you for this. - A Betty Davis marathon on the... 550 00:55:05,687 --> 00:55:10,681 'Turner Classic Network', hardly qualifies. - Guys, they're here. Come on. 551 00:55:13,367 --> 00:55:17,076 Hi, how are you? - Hey, Jason. 552 00:55:18,087 --> 00:55:19,725 You look great. - You, too. 553 00:55:19,887 --> 00:55:22,560 This is Jason. - We've heard about you. 554 00:55:22,967 --> 00:55:27,404 Hi, Palmer. - Hello... 555 00:55:27,567 --> 00:55:31,162 Hi. Good to see you, again. How are you? 556 00:55:31,647 --> 00:55:34,639 How was the drive? - Good, really good. 557 00:55:34,807 --> 00:55:37,640 Hi. How are you? - Good, you? 558 00:55:38,047 --> 00:55:40,607 Great. - Is he okay? 559 00:55:40,767 --> 00:55:45,318 Ignore him. He's just jealous he didn't get into your pants, first. 560 00:55:45,807 --> 00:55:47,638 Hey, what's up? 561 00:55:48,687 --> 00:55:53,317 My God, I'm sorry. Alsayste, you junkie! It's so he won't bark. 562 00:55:53,487 --> 00:55:54,556 You okay? - Yeah. 563 00:55:54,727 --> 00:55:59,118 I think I'm blind. - Oh, no. Got to call the pediatrician. 564 00:55:59,927 --> 00:56:04,523 Oh, my God... that's terrible. 565 00:56:05,487 --> 00:56:09,605 This place is amazing! I mean, everything... 566 00:56:09,847 --> 00:56:11,565 Every room is perfect. 567 00:56:12,887 --> 00:56:16,596 Look at this. Even the beds are awesome. 568 00:56:18,527 --> 00:56:22,759 We're going to have vacation sex, tonight. - What's vacation sex? 569 00:56:22,927 --> 00:56:27,398 I don't know, but you're going to get it, girl. 570 00:56:27,607 --> 00:56:33,204 Even the breeze is perfect. Is it like this for all rich people? 571 00:56:33,367 --> 00:56:39,363 No,just gay rich people. - You gonna get it. I'm gonna give it to you. 572 00:56:43,247 --> 00:56:46,603 Vacation sex, Dave? 573 00:56:49,807 --> 00:56:55,916 You're the only gay Republican in New York. - Just taxes. I'm left on every other issue. 574 00:56:56,087 --> 00:57:01,161 The Democrats need to have their own show. - No one would watch. There's no blood. 575 00:57:01,327 --> 00:57:02,396 I'd watch it. 576 00:57:02,647 --> 00:57:07,801 People would rather see liberals humiliated on ''The O'Reilly Factor.'' 577 00:57:07,967 --> 00:57:12,085 You should go on, Jason, and thoroughly humiliate the man. 578 00:57:12,287 --> 00:57:15,165 Alsayste? Where is he? - I'll get him. 579 00:57:20,207 --> 00:57:24,246 Fiddler on a hot tin roof! - And so young. Have you carded him? 580 00:57:24,447 --> 00:57:29,601 Yes, unfortunately, I have. - He's great,just needs a little seasoning. 581 00:57:29,767 --> 00:57:30,597 Yes. 582 00:57:30,767 --> 00:57:35,443 You're infatuated with him. - Maybe, but I'm worried about you. 583 00:57:35,607 --> 00:57:39,646 He is so young, and you're falling for him. - So what? 584 00:57:39,847 --> 00:57:43,078 Fall. I've never seen you this happy. 585 00:57:43,247 --> 00:57:48,002 You want a baby, and he's in no position to give you one. You're on the clock. 586 00:57:48,167 --> 00:57:49,361 Thanks, that's sweet. 587 00:57:49,527 --> 00:57:54,885 And, he's got this weird thing with his mom, who wants him to marry a girl named Rivkah... 588 00:57:55,047 --> 00:58:00,758 Who asked you? Why do you call their relationship weird, when it's just... close? 589 00:58:00,927 --> 00:58:05,637 We should all be so lucky. Besides, your mom still thinks you're straight. 590 00:58:08,807 --> 00:58:12,686 So, Dave, do care if your kids are Jewish? 591 00:58:14,887 --> 00:58:16,559 I care if they're happy. 592 00:58:17,007 --> 00:58:19,441 Good answer. 593 00:58:20,447 --> 00:58:23,837 What's up with your friends? I felt like I was auditioning. 594 00:58:24,007 --> 00:58:26,396 They're just worried. - About what? 595 00:58:26,567 --> 00:58:30,719 How old you are. My wanting to have a child someday. 596 00:58:30,887 --> 00:58:35,039 You're moving in. I'm just a little nervous, that's all. 597 00:58:35,207 --> 00:58:41,316 In New York, your apartment's all you have. Afew 1 00 square feet you can call your own. 598 00:58:51,567 --> 00:58:55,845 The work's strong. Realistic portraits. He's only 23. I was amazed. 599 00:58:56,007 --> 00:58:59,682 Sounds great. I'd like to take a look at his work. 600 00:58:59,847 --> 00:59:01,838 Is he here? - Yes. 601 00:59:02,007 --> 00:59:04,123 Great. - I'll go find him. 602 00:59:08,047 --> 00:59:09,958 Wait till you see this. 603 00:59:10,447 --> 00:59:11,436 Raphael. 604 00:59:12,327 --> 00:59:14,795 How are you? Good to see you. - You, too. 605 00:59:14,967 --> 00:59:17,276 Have you met my friend, Ann? - Hi. 606 00:59:17,447 --> 00:59:21,042 Nice to meet you. I've got my hands full. - You sure do. 607 00:59:21,207 --> 00:59:24,722 She's beautiful. What's her name? - Ella. 608 00:59:25,967 --> 00:59:28,117 You're so sweet. 609 00:59:28,287 --> 00:59:29,959 How old is she? - She's 1 . 610 00:59:30,127 --> 00:59:33,961 Oh, my goodness. - She's a big girl. Do you have children? 611 00:59:34,127 --> 00:59:37,324 No, I don't. - Well, you look great. 612 00:59:37,487 --> 00:59:43,722 She's just starting to walk, and she's holding on to the railing... 613 00:59:56,087 --> 00:59:57,076 Hey. 614 00:59:58,127 --> 01:00:02,439 Hey. - You know you've got over 500 channels? 615 01:00:03,167 --> 01:00:08,446 I watched the Malaysian Grand Prix. - Really? That's amazing. 616 01:00:09,847 --> 01:00:13,044 Have you left the apartment today? 617 01:00:14,567 --> 01:00:16,523 No. Why? 618 01:00:17,847 --> 01:00:21,806 He sits around all day in my apartment. I have zero privacy. 619 01:00:21,967 --> 01:00:24,117 He needs to get his own place. 620 01:00:24,287 --> 01:00:26,323 But he needs a job first. 621 01:00:26,527 --> 01:00:30,725 It's about time. - I need to buy his birthday gift, this week. 622 01:00:30,887 --> 01:00:35,483 There's this Nintendo thing he wants... - Let me ask you something. 623 01:00:36,847 --> 01:00:39,839 Do you like having sex? 624 01:00:42,887 --> 01:00:44,479 Don't get Nintendo. 625 01:00:49,847 --> 01:00:54,443 Are you coming to bed? - Yeah, but after this game. 626 01:01:02,807 --> 01:01:04,365 Just for a sec. 627 01:01:04,527 --> 01:01:09,920 Okay, I've got to get back. - We'll just look, all right? 628 01:01:10,687 --> 01:01:13,918 That looks nice. - It's beautiful! 629 01:01:14,087 --> 01:01:18,126 How much is this? - Too much. Don't even look. 630 01:01:41,127 --> 01:01:45,439 May I help you? - What? No. 631 01:02:12,807 --> 01:02:13,796 What? - Let's go. 632 01:02:13,967 --> 01:02:15,844 Why? - I have an appointment. 633 01:02:16,007 --> 01:02:19,044 I thought you said... - I just have to go. 634 01:02:19,207 --> 01:02:21,437 Shit! Get down. 635 01:02:26,167 --> 01:02:27,202 This a patient? 636 01:02:27,447 --> 01:02:30,280 No, my lover. Yes, it's a patient! Quiet! 637 01:02:41,047 --> 01:02:45,325 You'll have to explain this. - You know I can't. 638 01:02:46,207 --> 01:02:48,562 Okay. You're scaring the customers. 639 01:02:57,367 --> 01:02:59,927 Just dropped a contact. 640 01:03:05,527 --> 01:03:11,238 I was married to a man who couldn't love me. Now I'm with someone who can, but... 641 01:03:11,407 --> 01:03:14,240 he's not really a man, not all the time. 642 01:03:15,167 --> 01:03:20,685 I can see that. - Maybe if I give myself to him, completely, 643 01:03:21,327 --> 01:03:23,761 he'll step up in the ways I need him to. 644 01:03:23,927 --> 01:03:28,125 He says I'm not giving all of myself, and it's unfair to us. 645 01:03:30,207 --> 01:03:35,440 I don't think I can do this, anymore. I'm sorry. 646 01:03:36,567 --> 01:03:39,479 I just can't. - Do what? 647 01:03:46,207 --> 01:03:48,801 We need to talk, Rafi. 648 01:03:50,887 --> 01:03:52,002 Okay. 649 01:03:52,167 --> 01:03:54,123 He's my son. 650 01:03:54,687 --> 01:03:55,802 Who? 651 01:04:22,407 --> 01:04:28,755 Why does it say 'Lisa Metzger' on your door. - Metzger is my maiden name. 652 01:04:30,927 --> 01:04:32,519 You betrayed me. 653 01:04:34,727 --> 01:04:39,005 Yes. I did betray your trust, but I... 654 01:04:39,167 --> 01:04:43,922 did it to preserve our relationship. That seemed more important to me. 655 01:04:44,887 --> 01:04:47,003 Is this preserving our relationship? 656 01:04:48,207 --> 01:04:51,756 It seemed, at the time, like the right thing to do. 657 01:04:52,407 --> 01:04:54,967 At the time? How long have you known? 658 01:04:56,927 --> 01:04:58,360 5 weeks, 4 days. 659 01:04:59,167 --> 01:05:02,637 I wanted to make sure it wasn't a fling. If it was, 660 01:05:02,807 --> 01:05:05,924 then we would've been able to continue, but... 661 01:05:06,087 --> 01:05:10,842 now we're having a conversation, that will very likely end our work together. 662 01:05:11,407 --> 01:05:16,003 Can you see that I wanted to avoid having this conversation, 663 01:05:17,447 --> 01:05:19,199 for you benefit? 664 01:05:19,367 --> 01:05:20,356 No. 665 01:05:20,527 --> 01:05:24,520 I think you did it to control your son. - No, that is not true. 666 01:05:24,847 --> 01:05:27,998 I stayed in it just for you. No other reason. 667 01:05:28,167 --> 01:05:33,525 I don't believe you. You give me advice to do as I please, and... 668 01:05:33,687 --> 01:05:39,205 and then not do the same for your son, is wrong. I think you need to look at that. 669 01:05:39,367 --> 01:05:43,838 Thank you. I am working on that with my therapist, right now. 670 01:05:45,247 --> 01:05:48,876 You let me talk to you about his penis. 671 01:05:50,127 --> 01:05:54,166 Trust me, that was harder for me, than it was for you. 672 01:05:55,647 --> 01:06:01,836 Up until a few weeks ago, I didn't think my son had a penis. 673 01:06:02,087 --> 01:06:06,717 Do you realize, your mother now knows intimate details about your penis? 674 01:06:07,727 --> 01:06:11,879 You told her about my penis? Jesus, Rafi! 675 01:06:12,087 --> 01:06:16,046 Well, I thought it was safe to assume, it wouldn't get back to her. 676 01:06:16,207 --> 01:06:19,563 She better not use that to get me home for Thanks Giving. 677 01:06:19,767 --> 01:06:22,281 How can you joke? - What else can I do? 678 01:06:22,447 --> 01:06:26,963 Get angry! Be outraged! - I am angry. 679 01:06:27,167 --> 01:06:29,635 I can't believe she took it this far... 680 01:06:29,807 --> 01:06:35,803 I know that she cares about her patients... - What is wrong with you? You're delusional. 681 01:06:35,967 --> 01:06:41,564 She's just trying to control you. - I know she tries to control me. I hate it. 682 01:06:41,727 --> 01:06:44,560 I do, but... 683 01:06:44,727 --> 01:06:50,165 she would never use you to do that. - You are so naive. 684 01:06:50,327 --> 01:06:53,285 How could you deceive her? It's totally unethical. 685 01:06:53,447 --> 01:06:57,281 How dare you. I care more for her well being, than you do. 686 01:06:57,447 --> 01:07:00,837 That's evident by your choice to continue to see her. 687 01:07:01,007 --> 01:07:03,805 Mom. - What are you going to do, now? 688 01:07:04,607 --> 01:07:05,676 Live a life. 689 01:07:05,847 --> 01:07:09,476 Be careful. You've got someone else counting on you, now. 690 01:07:09,647 --> 01:07:11,717 I can handle it. I love her. 691 01:07:11,927 --> 01:07:15,636 Well, don't expect me to clean up the mess. - I won't. 692 01:07:15,887 --> 01:07:18,685 I mean, there won't be a mess to clean up. 693 01:07:18,967 --> 01:07:25,964 And I didn't buy you Q-tips, because I was trying to protect your ears. 694 01:07:33,927 --> 01:07:38,045 She just lets you live there, rent free? - I'm paying in other ways. 695 01:07:38,207 --> 01:07:41,404 God, you're my hero. - No, it's not like that. 696 01:07:41,567 --> 01:07:46,038 The thing with my mom,just killed her. She's like, impossible to live with. 697 01:07:46,207 --> 01:07:50,644 This is it. You want to wait? - I thought I'd hold the paper towels. 698 01:07:50,927 --> 01:07:55,205 We'll meet at Rafi's. She won't be back for a while. 699 01:07:55,367 --> 01:07:59,519 I can't believe you haven't made page 6, yet. 700 01:08:00,487 --> 01:08:02,717 This place is sick. - I know. 701 01:08:02,887 --> 01:08:06,243 Now I see why you're taking all her shit. -That's not why. 702 01:08:06,447 --> 01:08:09,519 I like living here, but that's not why I'm with her. 703 01:08:11,047 --> 01:08:16,519 Great apartment, friends in the Hamptons, art connections. Those are good reasons. 704 01:08:16,687 --> 01:08:17,722 Shut up. - What? 705 01:08:17,887 --> 01:08:20,526 She's tied you up like it's Pelican Bay. 706 01:08:21,847 --> 01:08:26,716 I barely even see you, anymore. I'm only here because she's not home. 707 01:08:32,847 --> 01:08:33,916 Shit. 708 01:08:34,087 --> 01:08:37,966 That's her. Hide! - Are you serious? I really can't be... 709 01:08:38,167 --> 01:08:41,000 Get in the closet... - In the closet?! What? 710 01:08:41,167 --> 01:08:45,957 She doesn't like people in her space. -What space? Is the kitchen included? 711 01:08:46,127 --> 01:08:47,560 Jesus Christ. 712 01:08:53,567 --> 01:08:54,841 What's up? 713 01:08:55,207 --> 01:08:59,644 Hey. What are you doing home, already? 714 01:08:59,807 --> 01:09:04,039 I'm sorry, would you like me to leave? Weren't you going to meet Morris? 715 01:09:05,047 --> 01:09:07,686 Oh, yeah. Drink that. That's good stuff. 716 01:09:07,847 --> 01:09:12,602 I was. I am... hanging out, before. - What's wrong? You're acting weird. 717 01:09:12,807 --> 01:09:15,401 Me? No, I'm fine. You okay? 718 01:09:18,087 --> 01:09:21,397 Is there someone here? - What? No. 719 01:09:22,327 --> 01:09:25,558 Is there someone here with you? 720 01:09:30,927 --> 01:09:32,440 I'm allergic. 721 01:09:32,607 --> 01:09:37,158 What's going on, here? - Ok. All right, look. 722 01:09:37,327 --> 01:09:41,957 I heard you coming, and I panicked. I told him to hide. 723 01:09:42,127 --> 01:09:44,163 In the closet? - I didn't want to. 724 01:09:44,327 --> 01:09:45,999 We were only here... 725 01:09:46,167 --> 01:09:50,319 Long enough to have a beer with your pie-throwing, sociopath friend? 726 01:09:50,487 --> 01:09:53,001 Hey, no. Wait. I told him... 727 01:09:53,287 --> 01:09:57,485 I told you not to come... - No, you did not... wait. 728 01:09:57,647 --> 01:10:01,162 Is that better than a psychopath? - What's up with you? 729 01:10:01,407 --> 01:10:05,878 I can't believe this. People hiding in the closet, you're lying. 730 01:10:06,047 --> 01:10:09,881 Goddamn preschooler! - You've had me locked down since I moved in. 731 01:10:10,047 --> 01:10:13,642 What?! - Yeah, you treat me like an inmate. 732 01:10:13,807 --> 01:10:16,924 An inmate? You barely carry your weight. 733 01:10:17,087 --> 01:10:19,965 I do everything, and you can't even clean up. 734 01:10:20,127 --> 01:10:23,597 All I ask, is that you tell me when you bring people here. 735 01:10:23,767 --> 01:10:29,603 Rafi, this is not such a big deal. Get over it. I'm not Francis. 736 01:10:29,927 --> 01:10:33,715 I'm not lying to you, cheating on you. Not avoiding you. 737 01:10:33,887 --> 01:10:37,880 Thanks, that reassuring, and in really good taste. 738 01:10:40,127 --> 01:10:43,756 You know what? I can't do this anymore. 739 01:10:44,047 --> 01:10:48,962 Get a dog, if you want to give orders because I don't give a shit, anymore. 740 01:11:07,447 --> 01:11:10,007 I miss you like crazy. 741 01:11:14,967 --> 01:11:19,324 I think we need to take a break, and start seeing other people. 742 01:11:20,407 --> 01:11:21,556 What? 743 01:11:24,607 --> 01:11:30,876 I can't do this. It just isn't right for me. And I can't trust you, anymore. 744 01:11:31,647 --> 01:11:36,357 I was only showing him your place... - It's not just that. 745 01:11:39,167 --> 01:11:42,682 You are in no place to give me what I need. 746 01:11:43,727 --> 01:11:45,046 I get that. 747 01:11:45,207 --> 01:11:49,598 And then this thing with your mother... - It's crazy. 748 01:11:50,167 --> 01:11:55,525 But the reason she stopped seeing you, is because she believes we're in love. 749 01:12:01,647 --> 01:12:02,716 It's just... 750 01:12:04,447 --> 01:12:07,837 It's just not going to work out, at least not now. 751 01:12:09,127 --> 01:12:10,845 So, that's it? 752 01:12:16,287 --> 01:12:17,436 Rafi. 753 01:12:30,607 --> 01:12:37,558 You don't look as relieved as you predicted. - Are you kidding? I'm devastated. 754 01:12:38,167 --> 01:12:42,638 I hurt my patient, so that she could have a relationship with my son. 755 01:12:42,807 --> 01:12:45,924 And so, what happens? My son hurts my patient. 756 01:12:47,247 --> 01:12:52,321 And now, my patient hurts my son. 757 01:12:55,007 --> 01:13:00,684 I'm totally confused about my part in this. - I think you did the right thing. 758 01:13:00,847 --> 01:13:04,635 Even love won't guarantee that they won't hurt each other. 759 01:13:04,807 --> 01:13:08,482 If anything, it just makes it a likelihood. 760 01:13:21,087 --> 01:13:24,523 Thanks for coming down. Sorry for the mess. 761 01:13:24,967 --> 01:13:28,516 Rafi thought I'd like your work, and I trust her judgment. 762 01:13:28,687 --> 01:13:31,326 Well, we broke up. 763 01:13:31,487 --> 01:13:33,717 I'm sorry, I didn't know. 764 01:13:33,967 --> 01:13:37,721 She didn't say anything about it? - No. 765 01:13:47,287 --> 01:13:50,836 These are great. Do you have a gallery? - No. 766 01:13:51,647 --> 01:13:55,526 How much for the larger pieces? - I don't know, never sold one. 767 01:13:55,967 --> 01:14:00,040 I'll give you 1,000 each, for these 2, and we'll see about a show. 768 01:14:03,287 --> 01:14:04,561 Done. 769 01:14:06,287 --> 01:14:12,726 I don't believe it. You're going to be a huge painter and I get to go along for the ride. 770 01:14:12,887 --> 01:14:16,960 Maybe I can write this whole pie thing off as performance art. 771 01:14:17,127 --> 01:14:18,799 Who you calling..? - Rafi. 772 01:14:18,967 --> 01:14:22,755 I want to tell her. And kick her a few bucks for rent. 773 01:14:22,927 --> 01:14:26,237 What am I, chopped liver? - You're the whole reason... 774 01:14:26,407 --> 01:14:28,363 Alright... - Hi. I'm not in... 775 01:14:28,527 --> 01:14:32,202 Does this mean you're getting your own place? - Shut up. 776 01:14:32,367 --> 01:14:34,881 Hey, Raf. It's me again. Listen... 777 01:14:35,047 --> 01:14:39,802 I've got amazing news. Please pick up. Rafi... Rafi. 778 01:14:40,487 --> 01:14:43,206 Hello? 779 01:15:17,367 --> 01:15:20,882 Why don't you call him, then? 780 01:15:36,407 --> 01:15:40,559 I like it, man. It's very ''the early years,'' you know? 781 01:15:40,727 --> 01:15:43,639 A little roach problem, but you can fix that. 782 01:15:43,807 --> 01:15:48,642 It's perfect for the 'A&E' documentary. ''He lived on arugula and macaroons...'' 783 01:15:48,807 --> 01:15:53,005 Shut up. -Okay, Howard Hughes... lets get you dressed. 784 01:15:53,167 --> 01:15:57,922 I want to go out. I want you to look nice. You've been shut in too long. 785 01:16:07,567 --> 01:16:08,966 We're with her. - Nope. 786 01:16:09,167 --> 01:16:13,479 Come on, man. That's my girlfriend. - Back off the rope. 787 01:16:15,767 --> 01:16:16,802 Hey. 788 01:16:17,607 --> 01:16:18,676 Hey. 789 01:16:20,527 --> 01:16:23,166 You know that chick? - Yeah, don't point. 790 01:16:23,327 --> 01:16:24,396 What's wrong? 791 01:16:25,687 --> 01:16:29,521 Can't get in. - It's okay. Let them in. 792 01:16:32,807 --> 01:16:33,796 Hey. 793 01:16:34,367 --> 01:16:36,085 I love you, I really do. 794 01:16:36,247 --> 01:16:41,446 If you don't take advantage of this situation, I'm gonna question your manhood. 795 01:16:41,607 --> 01:16:44,838 I miss her. - Get over it. 796 01:16:45,007 --> 01:16:48,443 It's been 2 weeks. She out there doing the same thing. 797 01:16:49,967 --> 01:16:52,162 I'm thinking the pan-seared trout. 798 01:16:53,367 --> 01:16:57,963 The salmon looks good, too. Think it's wild or farm-raised? 799 01:16:59,807 --> 01:17:01,445 Do you like carp? 800 01:17:01,687 --> 01:17:02,676 No. 801 01:17:04,327 --> 01:17:08,206 Carp... no. 802 01:17:08,407 --> 01:17:09,840 I want to dance. 803 01:17:10,007 --> 01:17:13,556 Get to work, sister. Slake it like a salt shaker. 804 01:17:22,287 --> 01:17:24,084 What is that? 805 01:17:24,247 --> 01:17:28,365 That's some Irene Cara shit. She should be wearing leg warmers. 806 01:17:28,647 --> 01:17:34,404 You got to be damage control. - Yeah, this is not helping anybody. 807 01:17:37,767 --> 01:17:40,565 Have a drink, baby. 808 01:17:45,807 --> 01:17:49,925 Feel better? - Much. 809 01:17:51,447 --> 01:17:52,482 Yes! 810 01:18:03,007 --> 01:18:07,364 Hey, I'm going to use your toothbrush. That's okay, right? 811 01:18:07,527 --> 01:18:11,759 Oh, my God. - What? 812 01:18:21,407 --> 01:18:26,003 Dave? Do you believe in Jesus Christ? 813 01:19:42,847 --> 01:19:44,041 Your painting. 814 01:19:44,727 --> 01:19:46,604 I'm working. 815 01:19:52,327 --> 01:19:56,400 I'm not doing this to piss you off. This is not an act of rebellion. 816 01:19:56,567 --> 01:19:59,035 I love her. I could use your help. 817 01:19:59,207 --> 01:20:04,076 My help?! Have you heard a word I've said? I am out of this. 818 01:20:04,527 --> 01:20:08,361 Let me bring her over, Friday. Please? I'm begging you. 819 01:20:08,527 --> 01:20:11,963 She hasn't stopped talking about how much she misses you. 820 01:20:12,127 --> 01:20:14,357 Are you insane? 821 01:20:14,527 --> 01:20:18,281 There is no way. 822 01:20:46,847 --> 01:20:48,280 You okay? 823 01:20:56,247 --> 01:20:58,317 Mom? We're here. 824 01:21:01,487 --> 01:21:03,205 Rafi. 825 01:21:09,407 --> 01:21:11,875 What is it sweetie? 826 01:21:12,487 --> 01:21:16,366 I missed you. I only just realized, how much. 827 01:21:20,087 --> 01:21:23,284 I missed you, too. - Did you? 828 01:21:23,447 --> 01:21:28,123 Yes. Hello, sweetheart. - Thank you. 829 01:21:28,567 --> 01:21:32,242 You look very nice. Coats. 830 01:21:34,047 --> 01:21:36,277 What? Oh, Jack. 831 01:21:36,967 --> 01:21:40,676 Mom, can Audrey come over? - No. Get off the phone. 832 01:21:40,847 --> 01:21:42,121 Come in. 833 01:21:42,287 --> 01:21:45,359 Stop with the fingers. - I'm only having one. 834 01:21:46,367 --> 01:21:48,244 Dad, this is Rafi. 835 01:21:48,407 --> 01:21:50,762 Hi. Nice to meet you. - And you. 836 01:21:50,927 --> 01:21:52,804 My sister. - Hi. Dinah. 837 01:21:52,967 --> 01:21:55,527 Hi. - I like your dress. 838 01:21:55,687 --> 01:21:58,804 I've heard so much about you. - I'm Blanche. 839 01:21:58,967 --> 01:22:01,606 My mother. - And you are... Rafi. 840 01:22:01,767 --> 01:22:04,645 Nice name. - Thanks. It's Raphael, actually. 841 01:22:05,367 --> 01:22:08,086 Just like the painter. - The painter? 842 01:22:08,247 --> 01:22:09,919 My husband, Sam. - Hi. 843 01:22:10,087 --> 01:22:14,797 Hi, Sam. Nice to meet you. - Watch out for him. 844 01:22:15,247 --> 01:22:18,603 That's the truth. - Hope your hungry. 845 01:22:19,207 --> 01:22:24,327 Oh, you shouldn't have. Thank you very much. 846 01:22:24,527 --> 01:22:27,200 What a cute bag. - It's a nice bottle too. 847 01:22:27,367 --> 01:22:30,996 If it gets cold enough, we'll have it with dinner. 848 01:22:31,287 --> 01:22:35,917 Absolutely. - Put it in the freezer. It'll be fine. 849 01:22:39,767 --> 01:22:40,756 Thanks. 850 01:22:40,927 --> 01:22:43,725 Who knows where I'd be, without my daughter? 851 01:22:43,887 --> 01:22:45,923 You'd be in Brooklyn. 852 01:22:47,487 --> 01:22:51,036 This is you, next to me. - This is beautiful. 853 01:22:51,207 --> 01:22:54,961 You okay, Grandma? - You're okay, until you collapse. 854 01:22:56,127 --> 01:23:01,121 I have to tell you a wonderful story. First time I met my Blanche. 855 01:23:01,287 --> 01:23:05,326 On the subway. There used to be a line that ran across DeKalb Avenue. 856 01:23:05,487 --> 01:23:08,559 I was on one side of the car, she was on the other. 857 01:23:08,807 --> 01:23:12,800 She is wearing the dopiest hat you ever saw. She looked great. 858 01:23:12,967 --> 01:23:17,995 I think I've heard this story, once before. - Only once? Your lucky. 859 01:23:20,287 --> 01:23:22,482 It's an adorable story. 860 01:23:23,887 --> 01:23:29,359 Isn't it great, that David sold his work? - Yes, we're so happy for you. 861 01:23:29,527 --> 01:23:33,520 Yeah, right. - Didn't think you had a chance in hell. 862 01:23:35,527 --> 01:23:40,396 You should know, that this is what I'm going to do, for the rest of my life. 863 01:23:41,007 --> 01:23:44,795 Really? - No C.P.A. No law degree. 864 01:23:44,967 --> 01:23:50,917 No, ''Paging Dr. Bloomberg.'' This is it. - As long as you can making a living with it. 865 01:23:51,767 --> 01:23:56,318 So, I understand you're interested to converting to Judaism? 866 01:23:56,567 --> 01:23:59,320 Oh, my God. 867 01:24:01,207 --> 01:24:06,042 Oh, good. Thank you. - Sure. This... 868 01:24:06,207 --> 01:24:10,519 This go in here? - Yes. Yes. 869 01:24:10,687 --> 01:24:14,600 Okay. Good, that's good. 870 01:24:22,287 --> 01:24:26,075 This is very strange. - Yes... 871 01:24:26,247 --> 01:24:30,684 I've never experienced anything remotely like it. 872 01:24:32,367 --> 01:24:37,839 Now you see that even your therapist has a crazy family. 873 01:24:38,007 --> 01:24:40,680 You kidding? This is what I never had. 874 01:24:40,847 --> 01:24:44,726 No Grandparents. No laughter around the dinner table. 875 01:24:44,887 --> 01:24:48,357 No dinner, actually. 876 01:24:53,887 --> 01:24:57,357 Thank you for having me over. 877 01:24:57,527 --> 01:25:03,124 I know this was very difficult for you. - No, it wasn't difficult, at all. 878 01:25:11,647 --> 01:25:16,243 I think you're great, Rafi. I think you're great. 879 01:25:16,567 --> 01:25:19,957 It's hard to understand, but this isn't personal. 880 01:25:20,447 --> 01:25:26,317 I just don't want David to give up his faith. - He wouldn't have to. 881 01:25:26,727 --> 01:25:31,676 I want my kids to have religion. I didn't, and you say I've suffered from it. 882 01:25:31,887 --> 01:25:37,405 Well. Slow down.... kids?! With my son?! 883 01:25:38,967 --> 01:25:42,039 Think about what you're saying. - I'm sorry. 884 01:25:43,727 --> 01:25:49,882 Sometimes I forget that you're his mother. I still think of you as my therapist. 885 01:25:59,887 --> 01:26:03,118 What a mess, huh? 886 01:26:03,887 --> 01:26:09,484 Oh, and he's got 20 boxes of Q-tips in his bathroom but the rest of the place is a dump. 887 01:26:10,607 --> 01:26:14,395 This is Dave your talking about? Rafi's Dave? 888 01:26:14,567 --> 01:26:20,836 So what? They're broken up. - Sue, they're back together now. 889 01:26:21,007 --> 01:26:25,558 So, what's the big deal? - The big deal is, it would kill her. 890 01:26:25,727 --> 01:26:31,916 Okay, Jesus. I won't say anything. - Won't say anything about what? 891 01:26:40,407 --> 01:26:41,840 Hey. 892 01:26:48,487 --> 01:26:52,719 Did you sleep with Sue? - What? 893 01:27:28,327 --> 01:27:32,036 Know what? Just call her, and go back to your own place. 894 01:27:32,207 --> 01:27:34,277 I need quiet time. Thank you. 895 01:27:34,687 --> 01:27:36,882 I'm not calling. This is crazy. 896 01:27:37,167 --> 01:27:42,605 She tells me to see other people, and then punishes me for it. Screw that! 897 01:27:43,887 --> 01:27:49,644 Even I can see, it's not that you went out. It's who you went out with. 898 01:27:51,727 --> 01:27:55,845 It's like ''Learn Your Fucking Lesson Day'', around here. 899 01:27:56,007 --> 01:27:57,804 Jesus Christ. 900 01:28:07,967 --> 01:28:09,878 Lock the door, please. 901 01:28:10,207 --> 01:28:11,242 Thank you. 902 01:28:13,727 --> 01:28:17,640 Magnolia. Traitors. 903 01:28:19,287 --> 01:28:23,803 You have my total support, in whatever you want to do. 904 01:28:23,967 --> 01:28:27,357 Why do I feel like you're still against this? 905 01:28:27,527 --> 01:28:32,601 I'm not. I am worried. I'm your mother, it's my job. 906 01:28:32,887 --> 01:28:39,406 What if I decide to go through with this? - You two clearly have something special. 907 01:28:39,687 --> 01:28:43,965 I look at this relationship, and think what it's done for you. 908 01:28:44,127 --> 01:28:47,119 It's really... it's great. 909 01:28:47,287 --> 01:28:51,405 You've come into your own. You're a painter, I get that. 910 01:28:51,567 --> 01:28:56,402 Rafi made me see that. That is going to be your life. 911 01:28:56,567 --> 01:28:59,445 That's right. - That's right. That's great. 912 01:29:00,287 --> 01:29:07,238 David, you have to try to hear this. Love is not always enough. 913 01:29:07,607 --> 01:29:11,646 Not when it's marriage, and children, and joint checking accounts. 914 01:29:11,807 --> 01:29:16,039 You're not supposed to learn this lesson at 23, but... 915 01:29:16,207 --> 01:29:21,327 you did get yourself into a complicated situation. 916 01:29:22,687 --> 01:29:28,842 Relationships are work. Children are work. 917 01:29:29,007 --> 01:29:32,556 I'm not saying love isn't important, it is, but... 918 01:29:34,007 --> 01:29:37,044 What are you saying? - I'm saying that... 919 01:29:42,447 --> 01:29:48,283 Sometimes you love, and you learn, and you... 920 01:29:49,447 --> 01:29:52,723 move on. 921 01:29:52,887 --> 01:29:57,085 And that's okay. 922 01:30:20,727 --> 01:30:22,126 Here we go. 923 01:30:49,927 --> 01:30:50,916 Whoops. 924 01:30:55,607 --> 01:30:58,360 I'm sorry. 925 01:31:01,407 --> 01:31:05,002 And? - It was a really... 926 01:31:05,167 --> 01:31:10,639 really bad call. I wasn't thinking. I'm so sorry, Rafi. I'm just... 927 01:31:10,807 --> 01:31:14,800 learning this as I go along. But, you gotta work with me, here. 928 01:31:17,247 --> 01:31:21,035 Can we get a minute? - No way. I work here. 929 01:31:21,207 --> 01:31:22,845 Fine, I'm going, anyway. 930 01:31:23,527 --> 01:31:28,999 We have some things working against us, and I do screw up from time to time, but... 931 01:31:29,247 --> 01:31:30,600 everybody does. 932 01:31:31,087 --> 01:31:35,524 The difference with me is, I'm trying so hard to get it right. 933 01:31:35,687 --> 01:31:39,043 I want to be the man you see in me, every so often. 934 01:31:39,207 --> 01:31:43,041 On leap years, fine, but I want to be that guy for you. 935 01:31:43,207 --> 01:31:47,519 Bottom line is, I love you so much. 936 01:31:51,127 --> 01:31:53,721 I'll figure it out, okay? 937 01:31:54,247 --> 01:31:58,525 I'll get it, you just gotta give me a chance. 938 01:32:17,207 --> 01:32:19,596 Are you sure about this? - I'm sure. 939 01:32:19,767 --> 01:32:22,122 Why now? 940 01:32:22,287 --> 01:32:27,964 Because you want this more than anything in the world. I want to give it to you. 941 01:32:28,127 --> 01:32:31,642 I want to make a baby with you. 942 01:32:31,807 --> 01:32:34,162 I can't. 943 01:32:35,527 --> 01:32:41,124 Why? - I love you, and I can't do this to you. 944 01:32:41,287 --> 01:32:47,601 I don't understand. What are you doing to me? It actually feels really good. 945 01:32:49,647 --> 01:32:51,524 I just can't. 946 01:32:53,207 --> 01:32:56,244 I want to give this to you. 947 01:33:00,567 --> 01:33:06,597 I know you do, and it's the sweetest gift anyone's ever given me, 948 01:33:07,127 --> 01:33:10,881 but it's not right for you. You'll regret it. 949 01:33:12,687 --> 01:33:15,565 You know this. 950 01:33:15,727 --> 01:33:21,120 The fact that you're still willing, shows how deep your love goes. 951 01:33:23,367 --> 01:33:27,918 That's the gift I'm taking from you. 952 01:34:12,807 --> 01:34:15,879 One year later. 953 01:34:19,607 --> 01:34:22,758 I need to sell 1 more painting, and then I'm out of here. 954 01:34:22,927 --> 01:34:25,122 What? Where are you going? 955 01:34:25,287 --> 01:34:28,723 Maybe somewhere in Central America. Maybe El Salvador. 956 01:34:28,887 --> 01:34:32,118 What,just pick up, and go to El Salvador? - Yeah. 957 01:34:32,287 --> 01:34:36,121 So, you get off the plane, but how do you know where to go? 958 01:34:36,287 --> 01:34:41,156 I don't. I'll figure it out. It's time. I've never even left the country. 959 01:34:41,327 --> 01:34:46,526 What about class trip '98? - Niagara Falls? Come on, Morris. 960 01:34:47,607 --> 01:34:50,644 What am I going to do? - Come with me. 961 01:34:50,807 --> 01:34:53,844 El Salvador? That Noriega country. I'll pass. 962 01:34:54,007 --> 01:34:58,046 That's Panama. You might learn something. - I'm learning here. 963 01:34:58,207 --> 01:35:01,358 Went on a 2nd date the other night. - Your kidding? 964 01:35:01,527 --> 01:35:05,486 Yes I am, but I had you for a second. - Oh, shit! 965 01:35:05,967 --> 01:35:09,243 Forgot my hat. - You schmuck. Should I come with? 966 01:35:09,407 --> 01:35:11,204 I'll get it. - Love you, bro. 967 01:35:11,367 --> 01:35:15,360 I'll catch up with you. - All right, man. 968 01:35:24,047 --> 01:35:26,515 ...We'll get a bottle of each... 969 01:35:31,087 --> 01:35:33,965 You forgot your hat. - Yeah. 970 01:35:34,127 --> 01:35:35,560 Hold on. 971 01:35:37,607 --> 01:35:39,325 There you go. - Thanks. 972 01:36:46,087 --> 01:36:51,400 Subtitles by Media FactoryBerlin 973 01:36:51,567 --> 01:36:56,561 Supervision Guido Kellershof